William M. Perham Jr.

1981 - 2011

William M. Perham Jr. obituary, 1981-2011

William M. Perham Jr.

1981 - 2011

BORN

1981

DIED

2011

William Perham Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 6, 2011.
William M. Perham Jr., 29, of South Lyme, formerly of Old Saybrook, passed away on January 2, 2011. Born in Norwich on May 23, 1981, William is the son of William M. Perham Sr. of Lititz, PA, and Lynn Murray of Danbury, CT. He leaves behind his loving children, 5 year old Michael Aiden and 9 month old Luke Paul. Besides his children and parents, William also leaves behind his step mother, Elizabeth Perham, maternal grandparents Ray and Alice Murray of Georgia, half-sister Jolynn Willoughby, and his three step sisters Dana, Darcy and Danielle. He was predeceased by his paternal grandparents Stanton and Kathleen Perham.
William was a graduate of HK High School Class of 2000, and has worked for Volkswagen of Old Saybrook as an Auto Technician for the past 11 years. He was an avid sports fisherman and loved the outdoors.
Family and friends may visit the Swan Funeral Home, 1224 Boston Post Rd., Old Saybrook, from 4-7pm Friday January 7, 2011. For online condolences, please visit www.swanfuneralhomeoldsaybrook.com .

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January 3, 2018

Darcy posted to the memorial.

December 30, 2015

Darcy posted to the memorial.

July 12, 2011

Darcy posted to the memorial.

Darcy

January 3, 2018

7 long years has gone by already and the pain is still very real. I thought about you yesterday as it was the day, 7 long years ago, that you were supposed to visit me in PA.

Darcy

December 30, 2015

It's nearing 5 long, painful years and not a day passes that you don't cross my mind. I know you are at peace and that gives me comfort during the darkest days. Much love brother.
Your loving sis, Darcy

Darcy

July 12, 2011

It's been 6 long months without you brother and it doesn't seem to get any easier or less painful. I miss you more than words can say. I love you forever Billy.

Pam Sendzik

January 22, 2011

This all doesn't seem real and, "Little" Billy will remain with a special place in our hearts. May God Bless all of our family during this most difficult time in our lives. "An Irish Blessing"... May the road rise to meet you, May the wind be always at your back, May the sun shine warm upon your face, the rains fall soft upon your fields and, until we meet again, may God hold you in the palm of his hand. With our deepest sympathy and all our love, Pam & Greg

CHARLES BRANDT

January 11, 2011

BILL WAS A GREAT FRIEND,ALTHOUGH WE LOST TOUCH OVER THE PAST FEW YEARS,THE LAUGHS STILL REMAINED,YOU WERE TAKEN WAY TOO SOON,BILLY ALWAYS FOUND A WAY TO MAKE YOU LAUGH EVEN AT YOUR OWN EXPENSE IT WAS A SAD DAY WHEN I HEARD OF YOUR PASSING...ILL SEE YOU ON THE OTHER SIDE...CHUCK

ROBIN NELSON

January 11, 2011

So sorry to hear of Bills passing I am glad that I got the chance to know and work with him,My prayers go out to his family..rip my friend

Brian O'Toole

January 10, 2011

So Sorry to hear of your loss.
Our Thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Brian, Darlene and Tyler O'Toole

Darcy Fisk

January 9, 2011

You were taken from us and it broke our hearts. I know a piece of me went with you when you passed from this world. I love you Billy you were an awesome brother and you will always be in my heart.

Darcy Fisk

January 9, 2011

I LOVE U BILLY AND ALWAYS HAVE. I HAVE A LIFETIME WORTH OF MEMORIES OF YOU THAT WILL GET ME THROUGH UNTIL WE ARE TOGETHER AGAIN.

Darcy Fisk

January 9, 2011

BILLY I HAVE ALWAYS LOVED YOU AND WILL LOVE YOU UNTIL THE DAY WE ARE TOGETHER AGAIN. PLEASE WATCH OVER EACH OF US EACH DAY AND MAKE SURE WE ARE SAFE. I LOVE U SO MUCH.

Doreen DiZazzo

January 8, 2011

Fill not your hearts with pain and sorrow, but remember me in every tomorrow. Remember the joy,the laughter and smiles. I've only gone to rest for a little while. Although my leaving causes pain and grief, my going has eased my hurt and given me relief. So dry your eyes and remember me, not as I am now, but as I used to be. Because I will remember you all and look on with a smile. Understand, in your hearts, I've only gone to rest a little while. As long as I have the love of each of you, I will live forever in the hearts of you.

January 8, 2011

We will miss you Billiam! You were a great friend and will be in our hearts forever! Rest in peace! Love LAJK

Estella Shockney

January 8, 2011

So glad I got to meet you Billy...I'll Never forget the Pa and Ct visit with you and Heather. Prayers to your Childern, Family,and Friends. Love,Estella."Auntie Smokey "and Family

Michelle Sen

January 8, 2011

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

I know you are already on your path if not already there. You will forever be in my heart and mind and my "little" brother I never had.

Michelle Prokaly Sen

January 8, 2011

Michelle Prokaly Sen

January 8, 2011

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

Nikki Woodcock

January 8, 2011

An angel now,may you rest in peace and guide your boys from up above.

Friend of Dee & Paul Lonardo

Dee Lonardo

January 8, 2011

How do you say goodbye to a man who gave you the greatest gift I ever received, my grandson Luke. You will always hold a special place in my heart and you will never be forgotten. I know you are in a better place and I know you will be watching over your boys from up there I know they will go on to make you proud. You will be missed more than you know. God Bless and may you rest in peace.

Dee Lonardo

January 8, 2011

How do you say goodbye to a man who gave you one of the greatest gifts I ever received my grandson Luke. There will always be a special place for you in my heart and you will never be forgotten. I know you are in a better place and know you will watch over your sons from up there. God Bless you and my you rest in peace.

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Hahne's

January 7, 2011

A silent thought, a secret tear,
Keeps your memory ever dear,
God took you home, it was his will,
But in our hearts and in our minds forever still.

Susie Dinho

January 7, 2011

So sorry for the loss of William. He was a very handsome young man. He will be sadly missed by many. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of his family.
Love 2nd cousin, Susie Dinho

Steven Nuhn

January 7, 2011

Bill you were a good friend. I'm sorry I have not seen you in a few years. I do remember quite a few good time working on cars and just plain hanging out. I know you are up there with Brandon now

pop & Vy Bundy

January 7, 2011

he will be missed

January 7, 2011

Bill will be missed, he was becoming apart of our family, in our thoughts...Vy,Pop & family

Bob & Cathy Mathis

January 7, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Bill lived with us and was fun to know. We still have the grill he suggested we buy and use his recipes for tuna, steak and chicken.
Always remember the good moments.

January 7, 2011

Bill, We truly feel and share your pain at the loss of your son. We pray God will comfort and see this most difficult time. With our love, Uncle John and Aunt Barbara

Katherine Williamson

January 7, 2011

Billy, words cannot articulate what I feel today. A part of me has died with you. You are my sweet nephew/little brother and I will miss you forever. You will always be in my heart..

Love ,
Your"auntie" -Katherine

January 7, 2011

We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sadness. All our love. Lisa, Jim, Taylor, Corbin and Pyper

Jack & Judy Perham

January 7, 2011

Bill. So sorry to hear about Billy's
passing. Our sincere sympathy to you and your family. Jack & Judy Perham

Shirlene Rolle

January 7, 2011

My prayers are with you. I know this must be an extremely difficult time.
Friend of The Murray's of Toccoa, Katherine & Ruth.

dellann norman

January 7, 2011

bill-
when i found out you left this place behind i hoped you & brandon would someday run into each other.....then i realized he probably already found you & is acting as your tour guide......

Forever in our Hearts

Jolynn Willoughby

January 6, 2011

Jolynn Willoughby

January 6, 2011

Billy- My baby brother, I love you, and you will be in our hearts forever. Your legacy will live on in your children and I will always be there to remind them what an awesome, father, son and brother that you are to us. You made an impression on everyone that you knew. Love Your Big Sister forever, Jolynn

Katherine Williamson

January 6, 2011

Dawn Moreno

January 6, 2011

So sorry for your loss

Leah Soderholm

January 6, 2011

You're smiling face will forever be missed on this earth. Our family and hearts will always have a missing piece but we will know you are at peace with God. Love, Leah

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