William Ross Sutphen, III

William Ross Sutphen, III obituary, Hillsboro, NJ

William Ross Sutphen, III

William Sutphen, III Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 27, 2022.
William Ross Sutphen III, 81, of Somerville, New Jersey, passed away at his home on Sunday, June 19th, aptly Father's Day, with his son and daughter by his side.

William (Bill) was born on November 15, 1940 to William and Eleanor Sutphen (Brokaw) and brother to Marcia Sutphen (Koester). Bill lived his entire life in Somerville and spent many joyful summers on Long Beach Island. He graduated from Somerville High School in 1958, continued on to graduate from Duke University in 1962, and then earned a law degree from Seton Hall.

For many decades, Bill served the community he loved as a respected attorney and partner in the firm Woolson, Guterl, Sutphen, Anderson and Neergard. Over the years, Bill served as borough attorney for Somerville and on the planning boards for Hillsborough, Bethlehem Township, and Somerville.

Despite his professional accomplishments, as young children, his son and daughter believed his primary vocation to be that of a firefighter, which may very well be the role he treasured the most. Bill joined the Central Hook and Ladder in 1963 and went on to serve as Captain, President, Attorney, Chairman, and the Insurance and By Laws Commissioner for the organization. In 2016 he received the award for 50 years of service. In all those years of service with the fire department, he was perhaps proudest of driving the tiller on the Hook and Ladder truck, guiding it into the incredibly narrow firehouse on Division Street.

Among family and friends, old and new, Bill was known for his warmth and kindness, laid-back attitude, sense of humor, ethical nature, and love of celebrating. He had a deep love of music and literature, amassing diverse collections that were routinely pilfered by his children, stepchildren, and even grandchildren. He shared a passion for travel with his beloved wife, Mary Lou, and together they explored all over the United States and Europe. Bill was an avid fisherman, enjoying everything from surf fishing to Sutphen tuna trips with his cousins. Bill had the lucky fortune to have fished not only the east coast waters off of New Jersey, North Carolina and Florida, but also in Mexico, Venezuela, Costa Rica, Alaska, Hawaii, and Ireland. His greatest conquest, a 700 lb., 13-foot blue marlin, currently hangs in the Long Beach Island Historical Museum in Beach Haven, NJ.

Bill is survived by his loving children and stepchildren and their spouses: Trisha Hall (Chris), William (Billy) Sutphen (Michele), Susan Latino, Janet Gagliardi, Ellen Flanagan (Chris); his adoring grandchildren Hannah Langlie, Devaney Latino, Logan Roach, Claire Latino, Kate Latino, Emma Hall, Will Sutphen, Eliza Hall and Luke Flanagan. His family would like to extend their heartfelt gratitude to Wentworth Homecare and Hospice and, especially, the community of staff, nurses and caregivers at Brookdale Spruce Woods in Durham, NH. They surrounded Bill and his children with amazing care and support in the last part of his life. A fireman's service and celebration of life will take place later this summer in Somerville, N.J.

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August 25, 2022

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Barry Evans

August 25, 2022

My heart sank very deeply when I researched Bill's address and saw he had passed. I am retiring for the 2nd time and wanted talk to old friends (and Bill was one from the 1960's). We became friends when he was at Duke and would visit Washington College to see a girl there. He would stay at our dorm and we would go out to college activities. When I graduated in 1963, Bill invited me on many occasions to spend the weekend at his parents home in Surf City that year and the next. He helped my wife and I, as an attorney, on several occasions with the sale of my mother in law's home and the purchase of her new one.
Whenever I visited, his Mom and Dad always treated me as if I was family.
Again, I am very sorry. Please, please pass along my message to everyone in the family. And give all my sincere condolences.

Maryann Nergaard

August 3, 2022

Bill was the best law partner and friend anyone could hope for. He was honest, ethical, caring and funny. At a time when women lawyers were scarce in municipal law, he was always supportive of me and helped me navigate endless client issues. He was a joy to know and I was honored to be his friend. I will miss him always.

Maryann Nergaard

August 2, 2022

Bill was a darling man-smart, funny and the best law partner anyone could hope for. He was always supportive, kind and inquisitive. He took me under his wing at a time women in municipal law were a rarity, and never once diminished my achievements. I will always love him and miss him terribly.

Claude Shappelle

June 29, 2022

Bill was a close friend during high school. We spent endless hours playing basketball at Louie Parker´s; sitting in front of his stereo listening to Ted Heath, Maynard Ferguson and other big bands; playing in Somerville´s Marching Band, Stage Band and a small orchestra that played out using the school´s stage band charts; traveling to Birdland in NYC to hear Count Basie, Duke Ellington, Joe Williams and Maynard (we weren´t old enough to drink so we had to sit in the back of the club and drink tea and soda); and enjoying his parents´ summer home in Surf City. In 1969, he served as my Best Man at my marriage to Nancy. Unfortunately, we lost touch when we went to college and I moved to Pennsylvania. He truly was a beautiful person and I treasure our time together.

Kevin Aeschliman

June 26, 2022

You are and will be missed my friend

Kay Baker

June 25, 2022

So sorry to learn about your loss! Love the story of his life! Thanks for sharing! Praying for each of you! What great memories!

Tom Lange

June 25, 2022

My most sincere to Bill´s family and friends. Bill and spent many a summer together with our young families on our beautiful Long Beach Island. Rest In Peace Bill, you will always be remembered and loved by our LBI community.

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