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Julia Flaherty Obituary
Born on the family farm in Stutsman County, North Dakota, just outside Jamestown, to Mary Frances and Benjamin Stout.
Julia has lived the past 53 years in Lodi where she was active in many community and charitable endeavors along with her husband James. Together they were members of the Eagles Lodge in Lodi, and Julia served as past president of the Lodi Eagles Auxiliary.
She worked at the Wig Palace as a wig stylist for a time, and enjoyed puzzles, and especially bingo, playing many times a week.
She is survived by her beloved husband of 60 years, James Flaherty; sons: Daniel Lee Flaherty, Jonathan Wayne Flaherty, and Jeffrey Lynn Flaherty, all of Lodi; daughter, Sandra Kay Meyers (Gary) of Lodi; 8 grandchildren, 4 great-grandchildren, 3 step-grandchildren and 8 step-great- grandchildren.
Julia is also survived by her siblings: Joe Stout of Southern CA, Irene Rosan of Alabama, Ben Stout (Ramona) of WA, Robert Stout (Carol) of Pennsylvania, George Stout (Carol) of Fresno, Marshall Lee Stout of Palm Desert and Frances Swenson (Wally) of Las Vegas; and by her husband James, brothers and sisters and their spouses.
Julia is preceded in death by her granddaughter.
Funeral services will be held at 1:00 p.m. on Tuesday, May 5, at the Evergreen Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, Hwy 99 at E. Harney Lane in Lodi.
Visitation will take place from 4-8 p.m. on Monday, May 4, at Cherokee Memorial Funeral Home 831 Industrial Way (near Beckman Rd.) Lodi.
Please visit the online guest book at www.cherokeememorial.com where memories can be shared.
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Memories and Condolences
for Julia Flaherty
May 9, 2009
Dan,Jon,Jeff and Sandy. So sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. It is so difficult to lose a parent, we always think they will be with us forever. Know how much she loved you and all the love she had for you and your families. You are in our thoughts & prayers. Love to you all. Carol Stampka (McLaughlin)
Sharon Smith (Miller
May 9, 2009
Dear Uncle Jim, Dan, Jon, Jeff and Sandy: Know that you are in my thought and prays. As hard as it is to lose someone as a spouse or parent, know that that they are resting in peace with know pain. I remember Aunt Julie very much and know how important all of you were to her. Love you all Sharon Smith (Miller)
May 9, 2009
Dear Jeff,
It's awful to loose a parent. She will always be with you in the memories kept in your heart.
Praying for you,
Shirley
The Ost Family
May 7, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Cherokee Memorial Park & Funeral Home
May 4, 2009
Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
Pamela D. Polk Hallowes
May 4, 2009
Dear Jeff and Family,
Sorry to hear about your mother. Time is going by so fast. I would like to send all my love.
Love,
Pamela,
God Bless!!
Cheryl Hanson - Adams
May 4, 2009
Mr. Flaherty, Dan, Jon, Jeff & Sandy. I am really sorry to hear about the loss of your wife and mother. She was always there for us kids. My prayers are with you. May the Good Lord be with you and your family and friends that all knew her. Love, Cheryl
May 3, 2009
Sandy and family, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love, Linda Silva
Linda Ryall-Groves
May 3, 2009
Jim, Dan, Jon, Jeff and Sandy, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. I remember when I was young having dinner at your house and your mom putting ringlets in my hair. Your mother was a really sweet lady. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
May 2, 2009
Mothers are so special. When we lose them, we lose a part of our selves that can never be replaced. My thoughts and prayers are with you as you grieve this enormous loss. May God be with you, and grant you and your family comfort. Much love, Pam.
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