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Marilyn Graffigna Obituary
Marilyn grew up in Lodi, graduated from Lodi High School then attended the College of the Pacific (now known as UOP) . She married Ralph Joseph Graffigna in 1950. They had two children, Evelyn Ann (Graffigna) Wetmore and Stephen Harold Graffigna.
Marilyn enjoyed cooking, gardening, decorating, reading and her family, but she loved to watch her sports on television.
Marilyn was preceded in death by her parents, her husband, Ralph, her brother, Clifford Wells and her daughter Evelyn. She is survived by her son, Stephen (Steve) Graffigna, her daughter-in-law, Sharon (Stasand) Graffigna, two grandsons, Michael Graffigna (wife, Shawn) and Giancarlo Graffigna. She is also survived by Michael's two childre, Tyler and Nico Dior Graffigna. Her grandsons and her two great-grandchildren were the center of her universe, especially in her later years.
There will be no visitation and graveside services will be private. Marilyn was a BIG sports fan, GO GIANTS, GO NINERS, GO KINGS!
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David King
February 8, 2015
Marilyn always had a bright light with her every time I saw her. That light will keep shining in everyone that knew her. Her love for family and sports was inspirational to me.
It's too bad she wasn't more of a Warrior fan but I know she was loyal to her teams and had a good sense of humor.
Shannon Scherer
February 8, 2015
Marilyn was the epitome of what one might aspire to become.
Her love for family and friends was never-ending.
Her elegance and generosity was unparalleled.
I am honored to know such a beautiful woman and I thank God for her presence in my children and grandchildren's lives.
Camillo Leventini
February 5, 2015
We are so sorry for the loss of your dear Mother. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. In Sympathy, Camillo and Joanne Leventini
February 4, 2015
A beautiful lady, with the soul of a saint. I will always remember Marilyn Graffigna, may you rest in peace.
Judi Schultz"
Linda Ogata
February 3, 2015
I always wanted to be as elegant and gracious as Marilyn Graffigna when I grew up...and I was 45 when I met her. Condolences to all of her family and friends...And Go Kings!
Sally O'Connor
February 1, 2015
Marilyn and my mother, Joyce Fuller O'Connor, were dear friends for over 80 years. I was honored to know and love Marilyn-she was a beautiful lady. Rest in peace.
February 1, 2015
Sending our condolences and warm thoughts to Steve, Sharon, Michael and Giancarlo. There are no words that can make this time easier. Know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Ed and Judy
February 1, 2015
I remember fondly Ralph and Marilyn when my husband
,Bob Fischer,
worked for them at the shed and brought R&J into the computer era! Both are remembered as wonderful people! My condolences to Stephen and family!
Sandy Fischer
Lisa Robinson
January 31, 2015
Loved you sweet Marilyn, blessings to you Steve, Sharon, Michael, and Giancarlo. May God give you peace...
Lisa, Kirk, Jarrett and Lauren Robinson
January 31, 2015
With loving memories, of the kindest of ladies,
Jan and Don
January 31, 2015
YOU WILL BE MISSED DEAR FRIEND
WITH LOVING MEMORIES. MARY CAIN HONINGS
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