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Scott Frey Obituary

Scott Young Frey

It is with profound sadness that we share the news of the passing of Scott Young Frey on January 26 at age 36. After fighting a courageous battle with a virulent and little-known strain of cancer, Scott passed away in his home of San Francisco, California surrounded by his family.

Scotty grew up in Pleasantville, New York, where he was well-known and much loved. He was a talented athlete, playing basketball, baseball and football since third grade with the Dad's Club and culminating his career as a member of the Pleasantville Varsity basketball team. He had an unparalleled sense of humor, generous spirit and boundless sense of compassion. After graduating from Pleasantville High School, Scott earned a Bachelor of Arts degree with honors from Charleston Southern in 2007. Scotty moved to San Francisco in 2010 to join his brother Evan. Together they spent the past decade charming scores of Californians at the Wreck Room, which they transformed into San Francisco's unofficial New York Mets, New York Jets and Oregon University Duck bar. In the past year, Evan acted as Scott's caretaker, steadfastly supporting him throughout his illness, for which his family is deeply grateful.

Scotty is survived by his brother Evan, father Edward, mother Megan, grandmother Edith, stepfather Kit, stepmother Joann and sisters Christine and Nicole, as well as his aunt Linda, cousins Jennifer and Katie, niece Hallie and nephews Ethan and Rico.

In lieu of flowers, those wishing to express sympathy may consider making a donation in Scotty's name to the Bartender Emergency Relief Program, through the USBG National Charity Foundation: https://usbgfoundation.networkforgood.com/

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Journal News from Feb. 17 to Feb. 20, 2021.

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Audra Daniele

February 13, 2022

I can not believe you have been gone a year already. The only thing that keeps me going is knowing that there is a perfect Angel Scotty is watching us from heaven. R.I.P Scott miss you always .

Billy

June 29, 2021

Scotty was one of the finest people I have ever met. Being unhappy wasn´t possible when he was around. He wore his heart like a cape....his laugh and stories made me better. I´m thankful for all those times. I miss you homey......

Renee Conahan

April 12, 2021

In loving memory of a wonderful person. Scott I love you and will miss you always. I will hold you close to my heart and the memories we have shared together. Til we meet again. ❤

David DiAntonio

March 25, 2021

Scotty was my coworker, a personal friend and a constant inspiration. He was kind, generous and caring. He was always curious about who you were and showed genuine interest in well-being of those who surrounded him. His positive energy was infectious. He was the type of person you hoped would become. I’m a better person for having known him and the strength of his character continues to give me strength in my own life. I will miss you, and I Love you.

Long Live Scotty!

Audra Daniele

February 24, 2021

R.I.P Scott , I will always remember your amazing smile that was so contagious it would make everyone smile. Your the best Scott . I thank god I had the honor to have shared memories together and I will smile every time I think of you. Love you Scotty.

Audra Daniele

February 19, 2021

I met Scott in 2007 when my sister Renee and Scott started dating and he introduced me to my now husband sal. I remember his smile with his amazing laugh that was contagious like his smile. He was like the brother I never had . I love you and will always remember how special he was I am so thankful I got the honor of calling Scott my friend. Miss you Scott. R.I.P Scotty

Charles Reed

February 18, 2021

Scotty was larger than life. I remember him as always smiling, always warm, always welcoming. His bond with Evan is a true display of the definition of brothers. I can hear Scotty laughing in my memory and I will miss him very much.

My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

Love,
Charles

Pat and Orlo Clark

February 18, 2021

As good friends to Ed and Joann Frey, we were fortunate to get to know Scott and his brother Evan. Scott was a charming and delightfully witty young man. We can only imagine how beloved he was at the Wreck Room. He was so full of life which makes the loss even more devastating for the family and friends who loved him so dearly.

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