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Ian Carey Obituary
Louisville - With deepest sorrow, we announce that Ian Matthew Carey, age 42 our most beloved son, brother, family member and friend passed suddenly on Tuesday, April 28, 2020. He was a military Veteran that proudly served his country for ten years.
Those who know Ian, even just a little, lost a shining light in their lives.
Ian will be missed everyday by his mother, Paula Carey (Michael Poole), his brother John Bradley Carey Jr. (Glenda Carey), steps sisters Meghan Poole, Lauren Harding, his Grandmother Patricia Carey, his niece Caroline Rae Carey, his loving Aunts, Uncles, Cousins and many, many great friends.
We know Ian is now with his dad Johnny Carey and is loved here on earth as well as in heaven.
A celebration of Ian's life will be held at a later date. Donations in Ian's memory are appreciated and can be made to the Disabled American Veterans (DAV) or The Healing Place.
"I carry your heart (I carry it in my heart) " Love you always and forever ~ Mom xo
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Memories and Condolences
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Matt Dorsey
April 25, 2025
Another year gone but not forgotten brother, I miss you.
Constantino Usaga
January 4, 2025
You were a very cool Marine rest easy brother.
Constantino Usaga
January 4, 2025
I went to Marine Corps cook school in Fort Lee , Virginia with Ian Carey and he was my roommate there. He was very funny and it was an honor to have served with him. We were suppose to get together and go down to Miami and meet some Latin women. You will be forever missed Ian you were always had a kind heart. I hope to visit your family one day share a picture we have together. You , me and Douglas. Semper Fi Marine.
Christie Marie Puentes
April 25, 2024
Not a day goes by that I don´t think about you Carey! I really miss you and wish we could have had that summer together! I love you Carey!
Matt Dorsey
April 25, 2024
I still think about Ian frequently and how much he and i went together. Truly my brother and one of my greatest friends. I love you buddy.
Christie-Marie Camacho(Puentes)
January 30, 2023
In 2000, Ian and I were stationed together in Okinawa, Japan. We lost touch after I received orders to Camp Pendleton but in 2010 we were able to find each other again. I wish he would have stayed in touch with me, we were supposed to see each the summer. He will always hold a special place in my heart and I will truly miss him especially his smile! I love you Ian, Rest at Ease til Valhalla we will meet again!
Matt Dorsey
May 1, 2021
Gosh, I served with Iam in Okinawa. He was honestly one of my most memorable friends and brother ever. I lost touch with him after we left Japan. I always tried to track him him down after, I know he went into the Army and after his accident had a rough time. If I can speak to anyone close to him I'd love too.
Olive Stemforn
May 14, 2020
He was a military Veteran who proudly served his country, not "that served his country."
Barb Furlong
May 6, 2020
Paula, I am so very sorry to hear about Ian. My deepest, heartfelt thoughts go out to you. I will always remember that handsome (and oh so charming! ) young man coming in the office door to see you.
Melody taylor
May 5, 2020
I am so sorry for your loss.
Andrew Baker
May 4, 2020
I know your up there with uncle Johnny looking out for me, and I will never forget the good times we had and how you would make me laugh until my stomach would hurt. I love u more than words can say big bro, rest easy.
Beverly Edwards
May 2, 2020
Our hearts break for you. Ian was a beautiful, charismatic young man. May you find some peace in knowing that he is at peace. Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends, who are grieving during this time.
Karen Hall
May 2, 2020
Ian was a shining light in this world. We will miss his smile, warmth and wonderful sense of humor. My deepest condolences to his family and many friends. Please rest in peace Ian.
Joe
May 2, 2020
I learned a lot from you in our time together in Veterans Treatment Court. RIP my friend.
Jimmy Crawhorn
May 2, 2020
Paula, my words can't express how sorry I am of Ian's passing and the grief you must be going through. He could light up a room with his presences and I will miss him. He was loved and will always be in our hearts memories. Thoughts and prayers to all of Ian's family and friends.
Joseph Smith
May 2, 2020
Over the last few years of knowing you, I learned a lot from you. From our time we spent in Veteran's Treatment Court and keeping in touch after that journey had ended. RIP friend.
Rhett
May 1, 2020
It was an honor to work and serve with Ian in Security Forces. It was nice when he visited the squadron after he left the organization. Blessings to his family.
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