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Robert Allan "Bob" Deitel

1954 - 2017

Robert Allan "Bob" Deitel obituary, 1954-2017, Louisville, KY

BORN

1954

DIED

2017

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1338 Ellison Avenue

Louisville, Kentucky

Robert Deitel Obituary

Deitel, Robert "Bob" Allan,

after 44 months of living on borrowed time thanks to an organ donor, Bob Deitel and his transplanted lungs died in his home on Thursday, April 6, 2017, surrounded by his wonderful family. He was 62.

Bob was born in South Bend, Indiana, to Max and Clara Deitel. Clara was a first generation child of Russian and Ukrainian immigrants who had fled 1890s anti-Jewish pogroms. Max, born in Hungary, escaped to the USA in 1949 after enduring forced slavery and atrocities by the Nazis, Hungarians, Rumanians and Russians. The rest of Max's immediate family was systematically exterminated in the Holocaust.

Indiana proved to be much better. Max found work as a grill cook and then as a regional salesman for a restaurant supply company. Clara left her secretarial job at the electric company after the birth of Bob's only sibling, Jeanne. Bob was born 2 ½ years later on Oct. 17, 1954.

After schooling at South Bend's Lincoln Elementary/Junior High and Riley High School, Bob began his trek south by attending Indiana University Bloomington, where he double-majored in Journalism and Political Science. He majored in Journalism because he took several interesting courses and soon found himself closest to a Journalism degree.

When graduation came in 1977 and he needed a job, Bob looked throughout the region and found nothing; but he did get interviews around Louisville. After one interview at the New Albany Tribune, while Bob was waiting for a friend to pick him up, he sat near the sidewalk and saw a man attempt to buy a newspaper from a nearby rack. When the man dropped a nickel, Bob picked it up, handed it to the man and began chatting. The man was interested in Bob's ties to South Bend because he was a big Notre Dame fan. He asked why Bob was in New Albany. When Bob said he was looking for a newspaper job, the man said he worked at the Indiana Bureau of The Louisville Times and his boss was seeking part-time help. Bingo! (Bob didn't disclose that Louisville's two big newspapers previously wouldn't even grant him an interview.)

Bob moved to Louisville the next week and worked for 22 years, 3 months and 7 days reporting for the great old Louisville Times and later the once-great Courier-Journal. After the Gannett Corporation bought the newspapers and eventually dismantled Bob's promised retirement plan, Bob started looking onward.

No matter what happened in his journalism life, Bob found joy in his personal life. In December 1987, at a party in Indianapolis, he met his forever sweetie, Diane Rose, originally from Connecticut. Bob was supposed to be fixed up with another woman but met Diane at the door and they spent the night talking. Eleven days later, on New Year's Eve, they became engaged.

Then things happened quickly. Within 4 months they had bought a house and gotten married. A year later, Joshua D. Deitel was born. His sister, Alexandra N. Deitel, arrived 2 years and 4 days later. Josh works in advertising in New York City, and Allie teaches elementary school in Seattle.

Bob's wonderful sister, Jeanne Livne, has lived in Israel since 1975 and has 3 children, Gilad, Maya and Shira, and 8 grandchildren, all living in Israel. Bob has two sisters-in-law, Amy Immerman (Alan) of Cincinnati and Robin Rose (Carl Sturgeon) now living in Brussels, Belgium. Robin's two daughters, Rebecca and Rachel, both live in New York City. Carl's son Ryan lives in Columbus, Ohio. Bob was a proud uncle to all the young folks.

Bob's beloved wife, Diane, is a long-time professional specializing in Early Childhood Education. Diane's educational contacts brought Bob a second career -- as a school Technology Director, first at St. Francis School in Goshen for 10 years and then at Summit Academy in Middletown for 6 years.

It was the surprise discovery of an incurable lung disease in 2013 that changed Bob's life once again. Never had he smoked and for many years he had jogged, hiked and exercised daily. Darn. A generous organ donor provided him with an extended life for which his whole family is grateful. Bob would like to encourage you to enjoy every breath and sign your organ donor card.

Bob and his family would like to thank his wonderful neighbors and friends, and also his medical support team, especially: Dawn Marie Wilson, J. Wesley McConnell, Sonia Compton and Ashish Maskey.

Funeral services will be 11:30 a.m. Friday, April 7, 2017 at Herman Meyer & Son, Inc., 1338 Ellison Avenue, with burial to follow in The Temple Cemetery. Visitation will begin after 10:30 a.m. Memorial donations can be made to the Kentucky Organ Donor Affiliates (KODA), The Temple, or the Frazier Rehab Institute Pulmonary Gym Renovation Fund.

Bob's friends and family love and will miss him.

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Published by Courier-Journal on Apr. 7, 2017.

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Brenda Scott

April 1, 2022

HIs smile said it all! Loving,kind and funny ,He is missed! Brenda

Allie Deitel

June 29, 2017

My dad taught me so much and shaped who I am today. We have so many special memories. I love you and miss you, dad.

Joe Abbott

April 24, 2017

Dear Diane, Josh , and Allie,

I just found out about Bob's passing. At Indiana University, we were "phone box" neighbors our freshman year
and roommates the following three years. We shared many coming of age experiences (often comical) during our college years together. Bob's intelligent humor always made me laugh. From the few family visits we had,
it was obvious Bob's greatest happiness came from being a loving husband and father. With our deepest
sympathy.

Joe and Elaine Abbott and Family

Donna Gehrke

April 20, 2017

Bob was a mentor to a generation of journalists who went on to win Pulitzers and other national awards. He had a sly sense of humor but he was deadly serious about ethics and getting the facts right. Many of those he helped came out of school and into the frying pan of deadlines. He helped us through historic times of busing, racial justice, integration and the economic turbulence of factory shutdowns. He was there with his calmness and quick quip. Bob, I'd say rest in peace but knowing you there are a lot of heavenly projects with your name on it.

Karen Strobel

April 11, 2017

Dear Diane, Josh and Allie,

My heartfelt condolences to you upon the passing of your husband and father. As so many have mentioned, I recall his kindness, wonderful sense of humor, soft-spoken manner yet utter frankness. He was always willing to help us out at St. Francis in those early computer days--"Bob, help. . .!!" And he would come willingly with that great smile. May your memories sustain you and help bring you comfort and peace.

God Bless,
Karen

brenda scott

April 10, 2017

Diane and
Family, I just learned of Bob's passing. PLease accept my heartfelt sympathies. I thought the world of him and loved his sense of humor. His upbeat style and smile will be remembered always. Please know you will be in my prayers. Brenda Scott

Robert Arthur

April 10, 2017

Diane,
Sincere condolences to you and your family. Bob was a good friend of mine in South Bend for many years, and he and I shared two of our three given names. Among other memories, I remember his family, his Bar Mitzvah, his creativity, and of course, an image of him with his beloved acoustic guitar. Bob's quiet charm, quick wit, and contagious sense of humor will indeed be sorely missed.

All my best to you, Allie, and Josh.

Jay Anthony

April 9, 2017

Hi Diane & family - I went to Lincoln School with Bob up until 1969 when my family moved to Connecticut. I lost track of Bob along with all my Lincoln Lion Classmates. My sincere condolences to you and your family.

Milford Reid

April 9, 2017

To Diane Deitel and family,
Bob was a great colleague and an even better person. Our time together at The Louisville Times and The Courier-Journal was memorable and a lot of fun thanks to him. Our prayers are with you.

Mark Boyer

April 9, 2017

Diane, I am deeply saddened to learn of Bob's passing. I'll never forget his friendship, kindness and humor, during the times we had together as kids in South Bend and as college students in Bloomington, and the (too few) visits as adults. My condolences to you, Josh and Allie.

Shawn LeValley

April 9, 2017

Lighting candles in Seattle as we fondly remember moving Allie and sharing stories at our house. Love to you all. The LeValleys

Peter Kambol

April 8, 2017

Dear Diane and Family,
People don't come any better than Bob. We were close friends in South Bend and at Indiana. He was funny, smart and kind.

I'm sure you have so many fond memories together. The good news is that those memories will outlast the sadness you're feeling right now.

We wish you comfort and peace.

Rick Hamilton

April 8, 2017

So sorry Diane. I remember you and Bob fondly! God be with you.

April 8, 2017

We enjoyed our friendship wIth Bob very much. He had a wonderful sense of dry humor. He was a great source of joy and help to Maxine, both of them having had lung transplants. They met at Frazier Pulmonary Rehab and were friends
from that time forward. He also visited in our home on a couple of occasions. He wil be greatly missed and long remembered. We extend our deepest sympathies to Diane and his family.
Tom & Maxine Swasko

April 7, 2017

Dear Diane,

I have wonderful memories of Bob's wit and gentle soul from our days at the Times. He brought sanity and levity to our most hectic days. I left the paper years ago, but got to reconnect with him when our son attended St. Francis.

I will miss Bob. He was a good man.

John Herzfeld

Bonnie Miller

April 7, 2017

Bob was a terrific colleague at St Francis School. Always a smile on his face and willing to help at a moment's notice. I'm truly sorry for his family's loss. Bonnie Miller

Bill Wolfe

April 7, 2017

So sad at this news, but Bob's too-short life is one worth celebrating. It was a privilege to know him and work with him.

Fran Ellers

April 7, 2017

I am so sorry, Diane. Bob was such a wonderful, generous colleague. Thinking of all of you.

Dave Immerman

April 7, 2017

Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Diane, and your family. May the sweet memories of Bob from better times bring you comfort with the passage of time.

April 7, 2017

Diane, Allie and Josh...so sorry to hear about your loss.

Tina Snyder

Theodore Loebennerg

April 7, 2017

Diane and Family, Our thoughts are with you all. I share with you a poem that was shared with me at a time of loss and i pay it forward.
DEATH IS NOTHING

Death is nothing at all. It does not count. I have only slipped away into the next room. Nothing has happened. Everything remains exactly as it was. I am I and you are you, and the old life that we lived so fondly together is untouched, unchanged.
Whatever we were to each other, that we are still. Call me by the old familiar name. Speak to me in the easy way, which you always used. Put no difference in your tone. Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow. Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together. Play, smile, think of me, and pray for me. Let my name be ever the household word that it always was. Let it be spoken without an effort without the ghost of a shadow upon it. Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same as it ever was. There is an absolute unbroken continuity. What is Death but a negligent accident? Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? I am but waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near, just around the corner. All is well

Anne Vouga

April 6, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. I will always remember Bob's kindness and soft-spoken yet truth-telling wit. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Jo Strong

April 6, 2017

He was "Mr. Wizard" to me. Never once was he chagrined with my tech incompetence. We shared a birth month and year, I have him by exactly two weeks. We joked about being unbalanced Librans. He joked about EVERYTHING. His wit and humor will be sorely missed. No words could possibly convey the correct condolences, but Diane and family, thank you for sharing him with us.

Betty Jane May

April 6, 2017

Dear Diane,
Please accept my condolences on the death of your husband. Your strength is so important to your family. Fondly, Betty Jane

Bob Brown

April 6, 2017

Great man, great friend. Came to my school, Assumption HS, and spoke of the gift of life he received. Influenced a buncha kids that day. He will be missed, not forgotten.

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