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John Del Vecchio Obituary
Loving husband, father, grandfather, brother
WESTFORD -- John M. Del Vecchio, 55, of Westford, passed away February 6, 2013, at Massachusetts General Hospital in Boston, after battling pancreatic cancer.
He was born on May 1, 1957, son of the late Patrick and Mary (Merlina) Del Vecchio. Raised and educated in Lexington, John later moved to Westford where he has resided since 1986.
John most recently was a Vice President with Barkan Management Company and held many certifications in property management.
In his free time, John enjoyed being outdoors, whether he was playing golf, boating, bike riding, or doing yard work. He also loved to travel, especially anywhere that had a beach.
Most of all, he cherished the time he spent with his family and friends.
John is survived by his wife, Janice (Lord) (Benedict) Del Vecchio of Westford; a son, Michael Del Vecchio of Westford; a daughter, Marie Paradis and her husband, Mark of Westford; a brother, Robert Del Vecchio and his wife, Linda Hurley of Chatham; two sisters, Nanette Johnson and her husband, William of Lexington, and Denise Curley of Lexington; a grandson, Andrew Paradis; and several nieces, nephews and cousins.
He is also survived by his in-laws, Cynthia Andrea of Holbrook, Robert and Irene Andrea of Altamont, NY, Daniel and Anne Andrea of Holbrook, Robert and Elaine Lord of Haverhill, Ronald and Cynthia Reardon of Norton, Brian and Carol O'Donnell of North Andover, and Mark and Lisa Paradis of Revere.
Besides his parents, he is predeceased by his wife of 25 years, Patricia (Andrea) Del Vecchio, and his fathers-in-law Robert Andrea, Sr. and Robert Lord.
DEL VECCHIO -- Visiting hours are on Monday, February 11th from 4-8 P.M. at the J.A. Healy Sons Funeral Home, 57 North Main Street in Westford. A funeral Mass will take place on Tuesday, February 12th at 10:00 A.M. at St. Catherine of Alexandria Church in Westford, with burial to follow at St. Catherine's Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Jimmy Fund. www.healyfuneralhome.com
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Memories and Condolences
for John Del Vecchio
Mark Lionetto
June 2, 2013
Dear Bobby,
I feel so bad about John's passing. John was a great guy and I have lots of fond memories of you guys on Hamilton beach. I have two older brothers and I can't imagine what you are going thru. My thoughts are with you. Hang in there, my old friend.
February 13, 2013
Parkway Plaza West is a better place for having John give us direction. He will be sorely missed by all!
Louise Podanoffsky
February 12, 2013
So shocked and saddened to see this on line. I worked with John at the Dartmouth Group. He was one of the nicest guys. My condolences to his wife and family.
Marylou Matherwiez
February 12, 2013
My prayers and thoughts are with you, Janice and your family.
Mary Lou, from Barkan Companies
Wendy, Chris, Elizabeth, Edward, and Melanie Schramm/Sciaky
February 12, 2013
Marie and Michael,
We were so sorry to learn of your father's passing. I always thought of him as the strong and silent type, a perfect complement to your sweet and gracious mother. I remember so many of the improvements he made on your log cabin house and when he finished the basement, that seemed to be the place you all hung out from then on. I met your Mom shortly after we moved to Westford from Illinois. It might have been at Roudenbush or perhaps the Westford Library. Wherever, your mom and I seemed to gravitate toward each other and there were many play dates and birthday parties shared between our families when you were all just little kids. Marie and our Elizabeth were the same age and Michael and our Edward were the same age, so, there were many similarities and good times had over those early years. We eventually moved to Groton and finally California, and, of course lost touch. I want you to know though, that I always considered both your parents to be wonderful, wonderful people. I know they will be missed by so many, but, I also know the way they raised you and what incredible people you must be now that you are adults. Our thoughts are with you, we find some peace in knowing that your parents are reunited in heaven. The Schramm/Sciaky family
Eric Fishman
February 11, 2013
As a Trustee of Hawthorne Place, I knew John professionally, but was always touched by his warmth and intelligence. He will be sorely missed. My deepest condolences to his family.
Andrew Di Schino
February 11, 2013
My thoughts are with John and his family, including those folks he worked with at Barkan. A truly talented professional that will be missed by many. Godspeed John.
Al Jacobson
February 11, 2013
As a board member of one of the properties that John oversaw, I cannot say enough about his skills in listening, his voice of reason and calm, and his absolutely respectful tone to everyone. There is a word in Yiddish that describes who John was, a real "mensch." I will miss him.
Joanne Hamill
February 11, 2013
So very sorry to lose my dear cousin. With deepest and sincere sympathy for the entire family.
Gina McNulty
February 11, 2013
I only worked for John for a brief period but I must say I had an instant respect for the man and truly enjoyed working for him. He will be missed.
February 11, 2013
Dear John, Thanks for being the best brother you could have been! I still have fond childhood memories of us playing in the parlor with the Lionel train set and the electric cars. Also playing hockey in the hallway with rulers and a ball of tape. Remember building snow forts in the backyard and catching poison ivy on the way to the brook across the street? Remember letting me use your Duster 340 with my friends after I got my license? That was a great car! Although we were not physically close over our adult life, you were always my brother. May you rest in peace and I will always miss you until we join again. Love, Bob
cyn sapienza
February 10, 2013
Mark and Marie:
I am so sorry for your loss, there is another angel in heaven watching over you now. He was a kind man.
February 10, 2013
Dear Marie and Marky,
We are truly sorry for you loss, he was such a nice man, and he loved his family very much. He is another angel in heaven looking down on you, your guardian angel. God Bless you,
Love Auntie Raff and your cousins
Erika and Bob Bianchi
February 10, 2013
I am a resident of Fuller Pond Village, one of the properties John managed. I worked with the Board and John for two years. John was a lovely man, a true gentleman, and an exceptional property manager. I am very saddened by his loss.
February 10, 2013
Dear Marie and Michael,
I don't know where to begin. I have been next door neighbors with your Mom and Dad for 26 years at least. They were such wonderful people and your Mom and I hit it off right away. I remember the piano recitals with my son Anthony, and you Marie, and actually still have video of it. Your parents had Tony and I over for dinner right when they moved in. They were the kindest people. My sadness at you losing Mom a few years ago was overwhelming, and now hearing of the passing of your Dad, I am just so saddened. John was such a great guy and neighbor. So very kind. My heart hurts for both of you Marie and Michael. God has a plan and sometimes it is very hard to understand. I will always remember John and Michael playing catch in the yard when mike played baseball. He was such a great Dad. I am very very sorry for your loss and very saddened that I will not see your Dad next door anymore. Please accept my heartfelt sympathy and Marie, never hesitate to call me if there is anything I can do for you guys. God Bless you.
Sincerely,
Jeanne Alexopoulos/DeGennaro
Dean & Joan Bubello
February 10, 2013
Dear Janice,
So sorry for your loss. John was such a great guy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, Love you, Joanie, Dino and Megan
February 10, 2013
Dear Denise and family,
I only recently met John and in that short time I could tell that he was a wonderful man. I am so sorry for your loss and hope you find comfort knowing that he is now at peace with the Lord and your beloved mom and dad.
Love, Nancy
February 10, 2013
Dearest Marie and Michael, our hearts are heavy with sorrow. Your Dad was a wonderful man. Always going out of his way to help people. Your family has always been in our hearts and will continue to be there. Be in the knowledge that he is at peace and pain free and watching over you and yours. Our love to you, Ellen and Allan Parlee (formerly of Westford).
February 10, 2013
Mike, Marie and family,
There are no words that can express our deepest sympathy. Your dad was one of the most wonderful guys. He will be missed but will always be in our hearts. We hope with time you find peace. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jay and Terrie Enis
Jodi Gird-Rodriguez
February 10, 2013
I am terribly sorry for your loss. May the memories you have of John give you the strength to go on. He will sorely be missed. xoxo
February 10, 2013
Prayers to All of You. Love, Linda, Bob, Ed, Shannon, Sean and Siobhan
February 10, 2013
Dear Janice, Marie, Mark, Andrew and Michael, Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.May it comfort you to know that Heaven has another angel who will watch over you and that John is np longer in pain. We will see you soon. Love, Linda, Bob, Ed Shannon, Sean and Siobhan
Tony Gird
February 9, 2013
I've only known John a few years but I always enjoyed his company. He was a warm and caring man. My lasting memory of John was watching the Patriots while pigging out with him. I will miss you.
February 9, 2013
Janice, Michael, Marie we are so sorry for your loss. John truly was a great man, friend, co worker and truly loved by so many people. I am glad to have known him and feel blessed for the time he spent with me at Barkan. I will miss him and know that God called him home and now has another angel. Our thoughts are with you
Maria and Ralph Moore
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