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Kathleen Barry Obituary

Kathleen 'Kay' Barry of Wilmington, active at St. Thomas; 83 WILMINGTON Kathleen "Kay" (Davey) Barry, age 83, a long-time resident of Wilmington, died Tuesday, May 12, 2009, at the Sawtelle Family Hospice House in Reading, surrounded by her family. Born on September 11, 1925, in Charlestown, Kay was the daughter of the late Martin and Annie (McGowan) Davey of Ireland. Kay worked as a clerk in the accounting office of New England Telephone Company immediately following high school where she met many life-long friends. Later she was famous for working at the company store of Sweetheart Plastics in Wilmington for many years. Kay had a love of Irish music and Irish step-dancing that she shared with all who knew her. She was an very active member of St. Thomas Church in Wilmington where she served as a Eucharistic Minister. Kay also loved going to the beach and being with her family and friends. Kay is the beloved wife of 62 years to Leo G. Barry; devoted mother of Michael Barry and his wife, Joanne Jaxtimer of Milton, Anne McGann and her husband, Bob of Burlington, Mary Barry Emerick of Wilmington, Kathy Callan of Tewksbury, Peggy Russo and her husband, Mike of Chelmsford and the late Robert Barry, dear sister of James Davey of Wilmington, and the late John Davey of Hull. Kay was also the loving grand-mother of 9 grandchildren; and 3 great-grandchildren. BARRY Kathleen "Kay" (Davey), age 83, of Wilmington, May 12, 2009. Beloved wife of Leo G. Barry. Family and friends will gather in the Nichols Funeral Home, 187 Middlesex Ave., (Rte. 62), Wilmington on Friday, May 15th at 9:00 A.M. followed by a Funeral Mass in St. Thomas Church, 126 Middlesex Ave., Wilmington at 10:00 A.M. Interment Wildwood Cemetery, Wilmington. Visiting hours Thursday, May 14th from 4:00 - 8:00 P.M. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in memory of Kay Barry to Sawtelle Family Hospice House, 320 Haverhill St., Reading, MA 01867.

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Published by Lowell Sun on May 14, 2009.

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MaryJane Hadley

May 16, 2009

Please accept my condolences to your family. My name is MaryJane (Amnotte), Hadley. My father built the house on Chandler Road, in 1952, that you bought in 1956 when we moved to California. Kay and Leo were so kind to me, when I came home in 1992, and I wanted to see the home again. They kept us there for more than 3 hours talking and filling us in on what was going on in the neighborhood. They fed us and plied us with tea. I was so surprised when I saw the wallpaper in their bedroom closet. It was the original paper my mother had picked for the room. They were very gracious and kind to me and it meant a lot too me. I am sure Kay will be missed much; she was quite a lady! My prayers are with all of you.
Regards.
MaryJane (Amnotte), Hadley

Janet, Joe, Jen Barry

May 15, 2009

Dear Uncle Leo and family,
We are so sorry to hear about Aunt Kay's passing. We remember her as loving, funny, kind and compassionate. When we lived in MA, we always enjoyed the large Barry family gatherings for any and all occasions.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love, Joe, Janet and Jennifer

Barbara Brennan

May 14, 2009

Dear Leo,Mike,Anne,Mary,Kathy and Peggy,"the Barry family"such wonderful memories of all of the times I have spent with you sharing so many family occasions with such an incredible bond of family.Kay was so much fun welcoming me like I was family with dearest Leo by her side.In happy times and in the saddest of times with the loss of Bobby Leo and Kay were pillars of strength.Kay had so much "spunk".She fought the fight with so much courage that she undoubtly received all of her strength from all of you.May you all be comforted by the love that Kay had for all of you including her grand and great grand children.
Love,Barbara

Linda Carota

May 14, 2009

Leo & Family,

I am deeply sorry to hear of Kay's passing. I have always loved and admired her. She was a great friend who always had a smile & a hug. She will be truly missed by many.

My thoughts & prayers are with you all.

Sincerely,

Linda

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