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Robert Arsenault Obituary
of Tyngsboro; 25
TYNGSBORO Robert Thomas Arsenault, 25, of Tyngsboro, passed unexpectedly on Wednesday,
September 16th in Brockton, MA. He was the beloved son of Kathleen (Murphy) Arsenault of Tyngsboro and Robert Arsenault of Lowell.
Born in Lowell, November 6, 1983, he attended Tyngsboro schools and was a graduate of Tyngsboro High School Class of 2001.
He then went on to attend University of Massachusetts in Amherst.
Robert had worked as a Customer Service Representative for Getronics and BAO. He loved music, and as a
vocalist he recorded several CD's and won many awards. Rob was a member of local bands such as Fencing David and Distant Relatives.
Besides his parents, Robert is survived by his brother, Brian R. Arsenault of Tyngsboro; his maternal grandmother, Frances Murphy of Lowell; and an aunt and
uncle, Donna and Robert Wood of Lowell.
He was also the grandson of the late Doris (Jutras) Arsenault, and the late Thomas Murphy, and nephew of the late Thomas "Ted" Murphy, and the late Ronald Arsenault.
ARSENAULT In Brockton, Sept. 16, 2009, Robert Thomas Arsenault, 25, of Tyngsboro, son of Kathleen (Murphy) Arsenault of Tyngsboro and
Robert Arsenault of Lowell. Friends may call at the O'DONNELL FUNERAL HOME, 276 PAWTUCKET ST. at Fletcher from 4 to 8 P.M. Sunday. His funeral will take place from the funeral home on Monday
morning at 8 o'clock followed by a Funeral Mass at ST. JOHN the EVANGELIST CHURCH in North
Chelmsford at 9 o'clock. Burial in Westlawn II
Cemetery. E-condolence/directions at www.odonnellfuneralhome.com. Arrangements by James F. O'Donnell, Jr. and John W. Crane (978 or 866) 458-8768.
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Memories and Condolences
for Robert Arsenault
October 18, 2009
The Bowns Family
October 18, 2009
Dear Kathleen,
Words do not do justice to your loss. Rob was a good boy who I was able to watch grow into a delightful young man. He was always a gentleman with a smile that just mandated a smile in return. As I think of Rob, I can not help but believe that he touhed more people, made them smile, made them feel better than many people ever do. Rob made a difference in peoples lives, including Doc, Dorian and myself.
October 18, 2009
We were so saddened to learn of the death of Rob who was a most talented young man. He brought humor and talent to the Showstoppers Orchestra.
With love and prayers,
The LaTulippe Family and staff at the Rosita Lee Music & Dance Center
Molly & Tim Dolan
October 18, 2009
So Sorry. Rob was always so friendly and always smiling. Loved listening to him sing.
Kallie Ouellette (LaVoie)
October 18, 2009
To the Arsenault Family: I am so sorry for you loss. Rob and I haven't seen each other in years, but I have many good memories of our time together in high school and with Rosita Lee. You are in my thoughts
Matt Wilder
September 26, 2009
Mrs Arsenault,
I doubt any words I say can dull the pain you feel. My hope is that you find comfort in the many memories you have of your son. He was a giant amoung men in so many ways. I once read that people you meet in your youth have the greatest impact on who you become. I am so grateful Rob was part of my youth. When I think of him, which I will often, I will think of his passion! I will think of his humor, wow was he funny. I will think of is goodness for people. In high school when it was easy to distance yourself from those with different interest,Rob took the high road. He was friends with everyone! I will think of his talent. Raw, pure musical talent. He was gifted! Above all I will think of how genuine he was. Unlike anyone else I have ever known. My heart truly breaks for you and your family. Remember he is with you always. I feel in so many ways I was fortunate to meet my friend in this life. He will be missed often and thought of fondly always.
Wishing you comfort
September 25, 2009
My Bobby,
You were such a special child. So talented, so intelligent, so personable and most of all so kind. You had a gift that allowed you to never hate and only love. I was always so proud of you. My memories of you will live on forever in my heart and soul. Your soft touch from your tiny hands that grew big, your smile and charm that turned me into a puddle, your beautiful voice that made my heart beat like a drum and your wit and humor that made me laugh until my belly hurt. In your memory, I will do my best to continue the fight for answers. I wish that I could have eased your pain. I know Uncle Ted is taking care of you for me now. "I Hope You Dance".
Love always and forever,
Ma Duke
The Brady-Lane Family
September 23, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
Crystal Cormier
September 23, 2009
I don't know what to say except that I'm going to miss you so much. We had lost touch after I left Tyngsboro but found each other again just over a year ago. I was so happy that it was you, and I could talk to you again. You would always answer my messages and make me smile just like you had in high school in word processing class or in social issues. I will always miss you and always love you for your kind and loving heart.
My deepest sympathies to the Arsenault family for your loss
September 23, 2009
Kathy,
I am so sorry to hear about your son. I just found out today. My thoughts, sympathies and prayers are with you.
Bob DeYoung
Michael Wironen
September 22, 2009
Rob, I'll never forget you singing 'Heal the World' to the entire class (grade!) when we were in Elementary School. My thoughts go out to you and to your family.
Mike Hoffmann
September 22, 2009
Rob was by far the most talented kid I have ever had involved in theatre. I met him when he was 10 and I watched him grow in my theatre company. I will never forget his role as Agwe in Once On This Island.
Rob was funny, talented, gifted and a great honest person.
We will all miss him. May Bob, Kathy and Brian be forever in our prayers.
Will all our love: Mike, Christian and Michaela Hoffmann
September 22, 2009
Sending our heartfelt sympathy to the Arsenault family. We are so sorry for your loss.
The Crowe Family
Theresa Bischoff
September 22, 2009
My memory of Rob was when he was when we hung out on Redgate Rd, I think we were 11 or 12 years old. My thoughts and prayers are with Rob's family and friends.
Lynn Rossetti
September 22, 2009
Kathy,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
Jill Keller
September 22, 2009
i think you were like 14 when i met you.. and i was older, so you were just a little kid to me. but you were so funny and so outgoing and i got sucked in! i looked up to you!! as odd as that sounds. you had such an awesome voice and song writing skills. you sang in a band (fencing david) and i don't think i ever thought of you as 14. i just thought of you as my buddy. i remember spending evenings talking about all the great things you got to experience, like showcasing your band on "unsung heroes" or whatever it was called, on the radio. i stayed up all night that night, just to hear them interview you. in fact, i still have the tape banging around somewhere!!!
and then we lost touch for quite a while. that's the great thing about myspace/facebook, we were allowed to reconnect after some time. and it was like no time had passed and we were still friends like we were back in the day....
i hope you know that you have friends who adore you inside and out, no matter what crap life throws at you, no matter what distance there is between us. i hope you know that you have people out here that miss you in ways that will hurt forever. you are sorely missed. i wish i had more time with you to laugh and be silly (-;
love you, rob...
Denise Proulx
September 22, 2009
My sincerest sympathies go out to the Arsenault family and Rob's friends. His talent, charisma, sense of humor and smile were but a few of his gifts. I am sure he is charming our late loved ones at this very moment! Rest in Peace, young man!
Amanda Gomes
September 21, 2009
It has taken me a few days to get the courage to write to you. I tried to call your phone the other day to just have you answer and to make this all go away. But all I got was the voicemail. Its so hard to imagine youre gone but you are really here with me now as I type this. My angel. A true angel. I have so so so many memories with you Rob. You and I had a relationship that no one but you and I could ever understand. No matter what happened since we were 13 years old we kept in touch. I would find you and you would find me. Some way or another. I dont think Ill ever find another man who could make me laugh so hard in my entire life. You made me laugh so hard I could barely breathe and my abs hurt so bad. Your voice, oh my God your voice. I will never forget you had written me a song, and I came over to visit and we went into your basement and you sang it for me and played it on the guitar. This is something I will never ever forget ever. You were so talented. I would watch you on stage and wish I could have the presence you had. You just wowed the crowd. Every single time. Your personality was addicting. How could anyone not love you. Your jokes, your kindness your smile, ur cute laugh, and your kiss I will never forget. I love you so much Rob. I love you more than anything in this world. And I know you loved me too, because you told me every time we talked. I will miss you so much. My children and grandchildren will know all about you. I will see you one day Rob in Heaven. Cuz that is where you are. I will talk to you every single day. I love you.
I love you always.
Heidi Howard
September 21, 2009
Hi Robert Thomas Arsenault this is Heidi a friend of Heather's I heard what happen to you. I wish you was still here. this sympathy goes out to the Arsenault family. and I am very sorry about your son passing on. I am a friend of Heathers [email protected]
Lauren McPhillips
September 21, 2009
From the minute Rob and I met at UMass our freshman year I knew we would be forever friends. His humor was so refreshing and he was so incredibly charming. During finals we needed a break from studying and decided to head to the grocery store for snacks- Rob insisted he wear my zebra bathrobe into the store, with the sash tied around his head. He had the ability to make anyone around him smile.
One night Rob challenged me to a game of cards. If he won we would relax and watch one of his favorite movies, and if I won we were swimming in his mothers’ pool. Within the hour we were in the newly opened, freezing water with noodles practicing handstands. It was one of the funniest sights you could imagine to see Rob in his Celtics sweatband balancing on pool noodles in the dark. We have never laughed so hard.
Rob was such an amazing person. He loved whole heartedly and he will forever hold a special place in my heart. I’m going to miss his handsome smile and the excited look he got on his face when he heard a song that he loved. I’ll miss his double turbo shots coffees and his silly antics. It’s hard for me to understand why someone so precious could be taken away from us so early, but I know he is looking down on us all, keeping us safe and reminding us to laugh each day.
My thoughts and prayers go out to Rob’s family who he loved so very much.
DM
September 21, 2009
My prayers are with Robs family, I am happy to have had the pleasure of meeting Rob a little while back. Rob will be truely missed.
September 21, 2009
Bobby and Brian came into my life many years ago as small children, staying at our house during summer and school vacations. We will always remember the backyard baseball games, swimming in the pool, and your singing. You have a great talent, and will be using your voice to sing with the angels. We are so sorry for your loss. Brian, stay strong and you never will have to walk alone.
bill ducharme
September 21, 2009
Bob,so sorry on the loss of Rob my heart and prayers are with you.
Kristine Brown
September 21, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
September 21, 2009
I loved your singing man! You were a good dude who always had something good to say or some insight to offer. My thoughts and prayers are with your family and friends. RIP, man.
Lisa Sims (DuPont)
September 21, 2009
I am so saddened to hear this news. Rob and I sang together for years back in High School, he was such a sweet kid and had tremendous talent. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends.
Deb DiNicola
September 21, 2009
My thoughts are with you all. Bob I can't imagine how you are feeling. My prayers go out to you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Rich Ferrell
September 20, 2009
Rob was the first "best friend" I ever had. From the fifth to the seventh grades I spent a whole lot of time with Rob and was always in awe of his wit, his talent, and his charm. I will always treasure my memories of him, whether making up our first fake "band" when we were about ten, or playing baseball on the Cardinals.
Though we lost touch through our teen years, I always saw Rob as a man with a big heart, deep compassion, and a truly beautiful voice. I am so saddened by his passing. I will miss him greatly, as will everyone else he ever knew.
My heartfelt sympathies to Mr. and Mrs. Arsenault and Brian.
Heidi Howard
September 20, 2009
Hi Robert Thomas Arsenault
I don't really know you at all but I am a friend of Heathers but I heard what happen to you and I am very sorry of what happen to you.my deepest sympathy goes out to the Arsenault. I am so sorry to hear about your son. Heidi. [email protected]
Mary Beth McHugh
September 20, 2009
Rob was a kind, sweet, funny, loving person. My thoughts and prayers go out to his mother and father and their family. May we all remember the smiles that he brought to our faces with his quick wit. I am very grateful for the time that I had with him. He will always be in my heart. RIP Rob.
Christy Charters Kervin
September 20, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with all who mourn a life lost too soon. Rob, you will be missed, but do leave found memories with all those who you touched throughout your life. I will always have the memories of you performing with the Showstoppers and the fun had in high school. You were a great guy and could always be counted on to make someone smile.
Tricia Garison
September 20, 2009
Rob lived with us for a while and he stole my heart with his charm, intelligence, wit, warm heart, and his even his good looks. I am thankful that we shared our lives for a while. My heart goes out to his family and friends who have lost this wonderful person. Go with God, Rob, and be at peace. We will miss you and love you always. Tricia Garison
Kim Walsh
September 20, 2009
My deepest sympathy goes out to the Arsenault family and friends. Rest in peace Rob, you will never be forgotten
Allison Augustus
September 20, 2009
My deepest sympathy goes out to the Arsenault family. I grew up with Rob and graduated from high school with him. I will always remember what a kind person he was. I have so many great memories of him. He will be greatly missed and always remembered.
Jimmy Sullivan
September 20, 2009
I remember your loving son from prayer group and I know his faith in God was revived and strong. He called me "the guiding light " and joined me in prayer every night that we saw one another, which was five nights per week. Rob knew that just a glimmer of faith would bring his soul to Heaven but he had great faith that brought Heaven to his soul & now the two are joined as one. Our loss is Heaven's gain. I am so sorry for your, our, loss. my deepest condolences and my fervent prayers that God will comfort you at this time of great sorrow... God Bless you and keep you in His Light of Love
Michelle Pardo
September 20, 2009
I used to act with Bobby in community theatre. He was friendly, kind, full of heart, and a wonderful person. He loved to sing and had such a passion on the stage. He will be greatly missed and may he rest in peace. My prayers go out to his family and friends. May you always remember the good times and pray for him each day.
Amaryah (Kooistra) LaBeff
September 20, 2009
It was my 1st day at Tyngsboro Jr/Sr High that Rob (and friend, Bill) made fun of my slight southern accent and became my 1st Massachusetts Friends. Rob proceeded to be a dear friend throughout high school. From being my 1st boyfriend to walking *though* the screen door at my house, I have only fond memories of Rob-- he was so full of laughter and fun and beautiful songs. To the Arsenault family, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Derek Rollend
September 20, 2009
I, like many it seems, had the pleasure of performing music with Rob. When we were the youngest members in Showstoppers he always made us feel included and comfortable with his joking, laughter, and smile. My condolences to his family, and may God welcome Rob into His kingdom.
-Derek Rollend
Raeanne Dunning
September 20, 2009
I am so sorry for your loss. I have memories of Rob in some of my classes in highschool. I am in shock, I will miss him. -With deepest sympathy
Jessica Wright
September 20, 2009
I'll always remember Rob as an amazing singer and great friend. His presence in the Showstoppers made the band trips each summer more enjoyable and fun for all of us. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Darlene Benton
September 20, 2009
My memory of Rob was when he sang with the band Fencing David, My son James was also in that band with Avo and a few others and I thought that band would have gone somewhere.. My thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time of sorrow. One day, we will see Rob in Glory Land singing again. What a beautiful voice he had. I will always remember how we made us all laugh.
May you have comfort when you think of him and smile as you remember all the good times you had with Rob...I know I will. ~ Darlene Benton
a friend who lost touch but will never forget..
September 20, 2009
my thoughts and prayers are with robs family and friends at this time..rob was an incredible man with a big heart, great personality and incredible talent. everyone who knew him has great memories of a man with a personality that was magnetic and always made you smile..rob you were taken to soon but i feel blessed to have known you...
Karen P
September 20, 2009
My deepest sympathy to Rob's friends and family. Rob had a smile that could light up a room. He will be very much missed.
Carl Johnson
September 20, 2009
My deepest sympathies, Rob was a very talented young man, tragic loss
-Carl Johnson
September 20, 2009
I am sorry to hear of your loss. Rob will be greatly missed. May time heal your sadness and the support of your family and friends help you cope with your future. I wish there were words of wisdom or something I could say to make your loss bearable. May you find comfort in knowing what a wonderful child and family you have. My condolences to you Bob, Kathy and Donna. joyce peasley and family
Hackett
September 20, 2009
I never had a Close friend who could make anyone laugh as much as he could.. He was a Special person with a lot of talents, Singing, performing, Making people laugh, made people feel comfortable, never a dull moment when it came to Rob. He always found a way to make people laugh.. Even if it was walking up stairs.. I found it hilarious that he would race up stairs every time. It was always a race he won.. He will never be forgotten and I will miss him so much.
Love you man
Matt, Beth and Jameson
Leigh Garison
September 20, 2009
Rob tought me what it was to be loved unconditionaly and how to love someone back with all your heart. We were more than just a couple, we were bestfriends. We shared secrets and jokes that only the two of us would get ("Because I have a big head and little arms"). We shared laughter and tears but more than that we shared the same life for years. I will forever hold a special place in my heart for only him. I love you Rob and I will see you someday in Heaven. Only the good die young and God is in the presence of greatness with you by his side.
DeAnna Sutton
September 20, 2009
My deepest sympathies are with Rob's family and all his friends. Though we lost touch over the years, I always enjoyed Rob's sense of humor and wonderful singing talent. He will no doubt be greatly missed. I hope that all those who knew him will remember the good times they had with him, and that they will know he is now in a more peaceful place than this world.
Andy robinson
September 20, 2009
To the Arsenault family, God be with you during these difficult times. The last time I talked with Rob was at the Lowell folk festival, He seemed happy and full of life, We talked and laughted about he and his friend looked like brother and sister.
I will always remember his wonderful smile.
My heartfelt sympathy to the family.
September 20, 2009
Kath, I wish I could take the pain away. Bobby is one of my favorite people in the entire world. His charm and humor always made me smile, and as you know, his tremendous talent brought tears to my eyes. I was in awe every time he sang. I will always be proud and honored to have known him. Please take pride in being his Mom and raising an amazing son. I love you and will always be here for you.
San
Buddy & Laurette Hackett
September 20, 2009
Our deepest sympathy goes out to the Arsenault family. Rob was like a son to us too as he spent many days at our house with Matthew and Andrew. I'll always remember how polite,kind and courteous Rob was. He was a huge hit with his magnificent voice when we toured Ireland.We will all miss him very much but God wanted him more.
Avo Jeknavorian
September 20, 2009
I had the pleasure of writing, recording, and performing music with Rob in two local bands. I will never forget the amazing times we had together; while on the road or at practice. He was the most talented song writer and singer I have ever had the privilege of working with. Such a great person to be around. You are the true "Mountain King". . . You will be missed.
My sympathies and prayers go out to the Arsenault family - my thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
holly wolti
September 20, 2009
Love you all very much, and I am here for you always <3
Teresa Ingeneri
September 19, 2009
I am so sorry to hear about your son. I pray for God's comfort through your grief.
Howard Burket
September 19, 2009
I remember coaching baseball with Rob's Dad, what a wonderful boy Rob was. Rob had a laugh and a smile you just could not forget you just had to love him. God bless Rob and his entire family and friends.
Chris Leto
September 19, 2009
My deepest heartfelt sympathies to the Arsenault family during this difficult time. It was a privilege to know Rob and make music with him. Rest peacefully , Rob.
September 19, 2009
I'll always remember Rob as a awesome singer, jokester, but most importantly, a friend. It breaks my heart knowing his life was cut so short, but I know he's happy and watching over all us. Rob, I will miss you tremendously.
Arsenault family, my sympathies and prayers go out to all of you. - Andrew Hackett
The Foster Family
September 19, 2009
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve. Take comfort in knowing that now you have a very special guardian Angel to watch over you!
[email protected]
heather sousa
September 19, 2009
am sorry for your lost he in My prayers to his family! we will all miss him and we all love him Kathleen and Brian and aunt Frances if need anything just let me know ...
heather sousa
September 19, 2009
sorry for your lost Kathleen and Brian and aunt Frances his father My prayers family! if u need anything let me know cause Kathleen and Brian and aunt Frances he will be miss we all love him ...
Lisa & Derek
September 19, 2009
Kathy,
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
James Duane
September 19, 2009
Please accept our deepest sympathy. We will keep you in our prayers
September 19, 2009
Our deepest sympathy to Rob's family and friends. May he Rest in Peace.
Kathy and Michael Eason
heather herr
September 19, 2009
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
Angela Pappas
September 19, 2009
Rob you will be greatly missed. I have nothing but good memories of you, from childhood up till Kenny's wedding. Good times! Rest in peace my friend.
September 19, 2009
As a person who had the pleasure of making music with Rob you would be hard pressed to find a more talented and kind person.Our thoughts and prayers are with his family--- Distant Relatives
Ernest Gagnon
September 19, 2009
Please accept my deepest sympathies. Robert will be greatly missed. He was a great co-worker and friend.
Michelle Overby
September 19, 2009
My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire family of Rob as well as his friends.He will be Missed by so many.
With deepest sympathy-Michelle Overby
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