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Sandra P. 'Sandi' Holmes
Lowell, MA, native; 64

MANCHESTER, CT -- Sandra P. "Sandi" (Chappas) Holmes, 64, of Manchester, CT, loving wife of 40 years to Howard M. "Mick" Holmes, passed away peacefully at home on Tuesday, August 21, 2012, with her family at her side, following a seven year journey with cancer.

Sandra was born on July 16, 1948 in Lowell, Mass., daughter of the late Bella (Moge') Chappas and Nicholas G. Tsapatsaris. She lived in Dracut, Mass. for a short time before moving to Manchester with her family. She was raised here, attended local schools and graduated from Manchester High School Class of 1966. Upon graduating, Sandi accepted a secretarial position at Holmes Funeral Home where she worked for seven years and was then a stay at home Mom to raise her family. Her working career was started again in the late 1980s, employed for several years as secretary for the Church of the Assumption School, Manchester; working at CVS, North Main St. Store, Manchester, in the greeting card section; and most recently working several years at Hallmark Creations, Glastonbury.

Sandi was an excellent cook and baker and enjoyed feeding her family home cooked meals and entertaining with food. Sandi was a lover of the outdoors and enjoyed working in her numerous gardens at her home. Roses by far were her favorite and she doted over them each year. She was a member of the Manchester Garden Club and enjoyed visiting the garden tours in town. She loved crafting and had many hobbies, including most recently quilting. Many family and friends were given a gift of a handmade quilt by Sandi, with a signature on the backside as a remembrance. Sandi was formerly a member of the Glastonbury Piecemakers. She was affectionately known and called "Grandmother" by her four grandchildren whom she looked forward to seeing as much as possible.

She was a communicant of St. Bridget Church.

Sandra is survived by her loving husband, Howard, her caring children, Karen M. Reinhold and her husband, Mark and their children, Lukas and Mikah of Manchester, NH, Matthew H. Holmes of Vernon, and Philip N. Holmes and his wife, Shannon and their children, Bailey and Grady of Ellington. Also surviving are three sisters, Louise Finni of Manchester, Lynda Cianciolo and her husband, Andrew, of New Hartford, and Zena Keller and her husband, James of Manchester; several nieces and nephews and their families; step-mother, Zena Tsapatsaris and her son, Timothy of Manchester; several aunts, numerous cousins and their families. Her extended family of survivors include her loving sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law, Donna and Donald Maloney, Sharon Holmes, Richard and Susan Holmes, Gregory and Eva Holmes, and Mark and Lori Holmes and their families; many close friends and neighbors.

Her family thanks Upendra Hegde, MD, all office personnel and treatment room nurses at the Neag Comprehensive Cancer Center, UConn Health Center for their compassion and dedication to Sandra. Also, her family thanks Dr. Leopold and the nurses at the John A. DeQuattro Cancer Center for their compassion and caring; and the nurses of the Visiting Nurse and Health Services, North Central Hospice, especially Carolina, Janet and Judy.

HOLMES -- Calling hours will be Monday, August 27, 2012 from 4-8 p.m. at Holmes Funeral Home, 400 Main Street, Manchester. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Tuesday, August 28, 2012 at 11:00 am at St. Bridget Church, 80 Main St., Manchester. Please go directly to church. Burial will follow in Buckland Cemetery, Manchester. Memorial contributions may be made to The Carole and Ray Neag Comprehensive Cancer UConn Health Center, 263 Farmington Avenue, Farmington, CT 06030; John A. DeQuattro Cancer Center, 100 Haynes Street, Manchester, CT 06040; Visiting Nurse and Health Service North Central Hospice, 8 Keynote Drive, Vernon, CT 06066; St. Bridget Church, 80 Main Street, Manchester, CT 06040.

To sign the online guestbook please visit, www.holmes-watkinsfuneralhomes.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Lowell Sun on Aug. 23, 2012.

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Jeanne Boutilier

August 26, 2012

Karen and family...so deeply sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time.

Lynn Tillotson-Zanetti

August 24, 2012

Sending my warmest thoughts and true regrets to the entire Holmes Family. May you find peace and comfort within eachother and fond memories of Sandra..."Mom".

August 24, 2012

God bless you - R.I.P.

August 24, 2012

Mick and family: My sympathy in your loss! It is a hard time but with family and friends you endure.
Pat Nelson

Marilyn Manchester

August 23, 2012

Holmes Family: So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

August 23, 2012

Mick...

Upon opening the Hartford Courant it is with great sadness that Jim and I read Sandi's obituary. She was gracious and kind and an excellent example of what a wife, mother and grandmother should be. Jim and I would like to offer our heartfelt expression of sympathy to you, your children and grandchildren at this time. We can not know the sorrow you must feel, nor can our words express what we would like to say. We regret that we will be out of town next week on vacation, but please know that you and your family will be in our thoughts. We are sure that God's grace is shining on Sandi. With sympathy to you and your family.
Sincerely, Casey and Jim

Ronald & Bernie Joiner

August 23, 2012

Mickey and family, our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Dave and Barb Rohrbach

August 23, 2012

Mickey and Family,

Our thoughts, prayers and condolences are wtih you and the Holmes Family at this difficult time.

Leslie Cordera-Whitney

August 23, 2012

Sandi, Always Loved - Never Forgotten

Love, Cousin Leslie

Leslie Cordera-Whitney

August 23, 2012

Sandi, Always Loved - Never Forgotten.
Love, Cousin Leslie

August 23, 2012

Mickey and family, Our thoughts and love are with you all. Donna & Al Jezouit

August 23, 2012

The Holmes Family,

We are saddened to hear of Sandra's passing. We have know her for many years through St. Bridget's. We are keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless.

Sincerely,
The Granato Family

Holmes Funeral Home - Manchester

August 23, 2012

With deepest sympathy during your time of mourning.

Maureen Palmer-Lavoie

August 23, 2012

Matt,
I am so very sorry for your loss, My prayers are with you and your family.

Beverly Leible

August 23, 2012

I had the joy of working with Sandi for nearly 5 years at Hallmark. She was a dear friend and a joy to know. She will be missed terribly. My sincere condolences.

Beverly Leible

August 23, 2012

I had the honor to work and laugh and talk with Sandi for the 5 years I worked at Hallmark. She was an awesome lady and a dear friend. I will miss her terribly. My condolences to all.

Jack & Kathy Hughes

August 23, 2012

Dear Mick and family,
Jack and I are so very sorry to learn of Sandi's passing. Please know that you and the entire Holmes family are in our thoughts and prayers.

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