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David Provenzano Obituary

David Shea Provenzano Jenison David Shea Provenzano, 38, passed peacefully at his home in Jenison, Michigan on February 1, 2016. He was the son of David J. (Joanne) Provenzano, deceased and Jenine Grainer Iverson; husband to his wife of 5 months, Kelly Card Provenzano; and beloved brother of Emery Max. Shea's was a life of engagement, goal setting, and accomplishment. As a child he was an avid hockey player. During his days at Okemos High School and Hope College he excelled in football and track. He was known as a tough and gracious team player. As a senior computer program developer, he was revered by his coworkers and those he mentored over the years. His life was defined by challenges met and plans fulfilled. Shea endured with grace, strength, and indomitable will a three-year siege against the ravages of cancer. He fought a warrior's battle and as he documented his fight, he created an international network of supporters who drew strength and inspiration from his posts, his candid sharing of his journey, his will to live, his life force, and his compassion. He said three years ago: "they say I'm going to die... I'm going to fight, and I'm going to try to show how to do it right." He did it right. His final rest, so well deserved, leaves not a void, but an opening. He created a field of love and a legacy of inspiration for all he touched during his journey, and left this earth a completed man with a fulfilled mission. In the course of his life, Shea grew into a man admired and emulated, someone of noble character, rectitude, dignity, and a sense of what is right. This was Shea - a man in full, and truly, a hero. He will always be carried in the hearts of so many forever. We are grateful to Shea, for all he brought to his entire family and the hundreds that have been honored to be followers of his journey. The inspiration he continues to give to so many others is a profound gift... Shea was a wonderful son, brother, cousin, grandson, and friend, deeply loved. He is also survived by aunts and uncles: Meriam (Deb) Grainer-Cox, Gar, deceased, (Kathy) Grainer. Frank (Janalee), Jac (Jim, deceased) Gibson, and Vernon (Peggy) Grainer, eight cousins, his beloved grandmother "Eddie" Grainer, siblings Heather and Jeff Provenzano, friends Zack Weiler and Jason Piper, godmother Alanah Keesee, and his childhood stepdad Laurence Max. The family requests that in lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Okemos Public Schools in Shea's name. Details will be provided at the memorial service which will be held in Friday February 26 at 12:30 in the chapel at Unitarian Universalist Church, 855 Grove Street, East Lansing 48823.

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Published by Lansing State Journal from Feb. 25 to Feb. 26, 2016.

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Shea and Emery 1996

Jenine Grainer Iverson

March 14, 2016

Maried Gutierrez

February 26, 2016

People come and go from everyone's life all the time. Some of them leave a mark and others just transform your life. Thank you for the time you gave me, and for showing me how to live, so grateful I got to know you when I did, forever gone but not from my heart, rest in peace Jeni (Shay Provenzano) your memories will never leave the the ones you touch. Much strength and love to all the family, I carry all of you close to my heart.

Mary Stevens

February 25, 2016

Jenine and Emery - You have my deepest condolences and respect for the way you both so gracefully supported and have grieved for Shea. Without a doubt, he knew your love as well as you have known his. Hugs to both of you.

February 25, 2016

Jenine,

Claud and I are so saddened to learn of Shea's passing. We fondly remember him and his great spirit in our classrooms at Montessori Children's House.

There are many memories, but one story that is forever remembered is a Halloween one. All the classrooms paraded down to the gym to show our costumes. Shea (five years old) thought it was a contest and as we all stood around looking at each other, Shea quietly and confidently said to me, "I think I'm going to win." He was so proud of his costume.

Please know that our deepest condolences are with you at this time of loss.

Patty Blackburn and Claud Agnello

Mike

February 25, 2016

Jenine:My condolences for the loss of your son.

Ann Gregg

February 25, 2016

I am so sorry for you and your family Frank. Big, big hugs.

Sheila Waibel

February 25, 2016

Shea impacted so many lives with his positive attitude, strength & courage. He in spired so many people to keep fighting & NEVER give up! Mature & wise beyond his years!
Even tho I have never met him or his family I feel this special bond with u! He was surrounded by a loving,caring family.
May the love u shared w/Shea continue to comfort & surround u in the days ahead. Shea will forever remain in your hearts God grant u peace & give Shea eternal rest & peace w/our Lord!
Please accept my deepest sympathy!
My love to all of u! Sheila Waibel Xo

Mary Korrey

February 25, 2016

I still remember when I met Shea he was 6months old on the back of your bike Jenine. I became his baby sitter from that day forward and family friends. What a true warrior he was. Following his journey was truly a life lesson for me. Such a strong and gracious man. RIP Shea

Karen Fall

February 25, 2016

"A legacy of inspiration"

Kathy Grainer

February 24, 2016

His smile lit up our lives.! He will be so missed.

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