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Edsel Bender Obituary

Edsel Ford Bender Lansing Born April 17, 1926, made his final journey on November 19, 2009 at the age of 83. Ed was a kind, gentle man and a real "people person." He had a pleasant smile and a hardy hand shake for everyone. Ed proudly served in the Navy during W. W. II. He worked as meat manager for Wrigleys' and Eberhards' and owned Fast Eddie's Party Store. One day he decided he wanted more time to fish, hunt, garden, travel and ride his ole' John Deere in his yard. His "retirement" lasted only six months -- he missed working with people. He took a job at Sam's Club as a greeter -- the job was perfect -- he worked another 16 years. Ed was preceded in death by his parents, Clyde and Lura Bender and brother, Orlin. He leaves behind his wife and soul mate of 52 years, Sydney. Ed will be missed by many, especially his special friend, Elaine Black, and his little feline friends -- Fancy, Lulu, Lacey and Jezebel. At his request, there will be no services. Ed is the new greeter at Heaven's Gate -- his smile will be the same and his greeting unchanged, "good to see ya." To Dr. Robert McElmurry and his very special staff, the Sparrow Hospice team, and the Eaton Community Hospice House *"thanks for your kind and loving care."* In lieu of flowers, please contribute to the Ingham County Animal Shelter or Capitol Area Humane Society in his memory. *"Rest in peace, my love -- I'll meet you at the gate"*

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Published by Lansing State Journal on Nov. 22, 2009.

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Jenny Taylor

November 27, 2009

We loved Ed, just like his was part of our family. He will be missed by all the The Taylor Family, The Sledge Family and the Rue Family. We will see u in heaven. Our prayers are with u always and forever. The Taylor, Sledge and Rue Families

November 24, 2009

We remember Ed from Sam's, we enjoyed the conversations we had. We send our
prayers and thoughts to his family. He shared so much with so many over the years at Sam's.

Stephanie and Harle Robinson

Mindy Bender

November 22, 2009

My sincerest condolences to the family from Orlin Bender's granddaughter, Mindy

Dianne Brown Roberts

November 22, 2009

I'm so sorry to hear of Ed's passing, but rest assured he is in a much better place. My condolences and you will be in my prayers.

Paula, Barry & Max Shappell

November 22, 2009

Ed was our great neighbor for over 25 years he will be sorely missed. He was a genuine animal lover. He treated our pets as they were his own. Ed and Sid would come to the fence on a regular basis to feed and play with our pets. Max will miss him dearly.

November 22, 2009

We are so sorry to hear of Ed's passing. He was a true gentleman and we loved talking to him at Sam's. Our sincere condolences to his family. Mike & MaryJane Holmes

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