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1945
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2014
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Lindy Hover Obituary
Lansing
Lindy Rondy Hover, age 69 passed away after a 22 month battle with cancer on Monday, May 5, 2014. She is survived by her husband of 30 years, Don Hover; Children, Kristie Carter (Jay), Amy Trahey (Brian), Donna Hover, and Alan Hover (Katie) as well as 9 grandchildren; brother, Gary (Maureen) Rondy and sister, Gay (Mark) Kastner. She was preceded in death by her parents, Edward and Sally (O'Hanlon) Rondy , brother Ronald Rondy and niece, Tracey Rondy.
Lindy was born and raised in Detroit until moving to Mt. Pleasant in 8th grade where she graduated from Sacred Heart Academy. Lindy spent 30 years in the Michigan State Legislature, retiring at the position of Chief of Staff to the Speaker of the House. She started her own Lobbying firm after retirement, and transitioned into selling designer clothing out of New York.
She and her husband were avid boaters , enjoyed downhill skiing and created many fond memories entertaining family and friends at their cottage on Drummond Island.
The Funeral Mass will be celebrated Friday, 10:30 a.m. at St. Gerard Catholic Church with Rev. Fr. John Klein as Celebrant. Interment will follow at Hillside Cemetery. The family will receive friends Thursday from 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. at the Palmer, Bush and Jensen Family Funeral Homes, Delta Chapel and Friday beginning at 9:30 p.m. at the church. For those wishing, memorial contributions may be made to the Tracey Rondy Memorial Fund in memory of Lindy. Friends may send a condolence to the family at www.palmerbush.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Lindy Hover
Sandra Hudson
April 30, 2021
Years pass so quickly. I recently moved to the west side of Lansing and often pass the street where Lindy lived. I think of her every single time I drive by. She had such a loving soul.
Erick Pardo
April 30, 2020
My mom still talks about her all the time. She visits Lindy's burial site several times a year. Lindy was always very kind.
Sandra Hudson
April 29, 2020
Ironically, I thought about Lindy today. She was a very special lady.
Donna Hover-Ojeda
April 29, 2019
It has been 5 years, there are so many times I think of the things I learned from Lindy. She has a warm caring heart and accomplished so much in her lifetime. Raising two families has many lessons that I reflect on how she did it so well. She made a difference in my life.
Lindy and her family at the Moose Lodge on Drummond Island Aug 2013
Jeri Baron Feltner
July 26, 2014
It is with deep sadness that I write in this memorial guest book for our dear Lindy. I just learned of her death last night from a friend, and my heart is aching for the loss of this truly amazing woman who touched my heart so deeply during the past dozen years. The moment I met her when she stepped into my foyer of my home on Drummond Island with friends of ours, it was instant love. Love for her sparkling eyes that showed the integrity of her heart, love for her style and grace, and the love that developed for her knowledge and abilities - especially how to clean my windows, let alone her outstanding chocolate chip cookies and spaghetti sauce, and the love of her deep love for her family and friends. She was so beautiful inside and out, and I truly will miss the embrace of her arms and her care. I took this photo of her and the family at the Moose Lodge on Drummond Island in August 2013. She shared the story of her illness with me then and the determination to give her all for the precious moment of sharing. She inspired me in so many wonderful ways that will last my lifetime. Thank you Lindy Hover for so much you gave from your heart. My thoughts and prayers are for your dear husband and the family as they deal with your loss and keep your shining spirit alive in their hearts as they carry your heart wherever they go. With love, admiration and respect always, your friend Jeri.
May 18, 2014
So sorry that I didn't find out until today. We had missed an opportunity to get together last Sept. and will forever be sorry. She was a terrific and gracious lady and always my friend. My heart goes out to all the family.
Patricia and Frank Reynolds
May 9, 2014
It's hard to comprehend that someone with such spirit, grace and joy of life is no longer among us. We count ourselves lucky to have known her and our deepest condolences go out to Don and her family.
I got to spend a few precious hours reflecting…she would have got a kick out of my newfound hobby...
Sandra Smith-Hudson
May 8, 2014
May 8, 2014
Her smile and warmth will be her legacy, she always gave each person the feeling of friendship and appreciation. Please accept our deepest sympathy and condolences,
John and Pat Greenslit
May 8, 2014
Sorry to hear about your loss Kristie and Jay I will not be able to attend any visitations. The years go by way to fast.
Kirsten Hafke
May 8, 2014
Surreal to me that she is gone when she was always so alive and so loved and so blessed! So sorry for your loss, may God give you strength, peace and hope through this difficult time. Much love to you all.
Kory Hahn
May 8, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
Thinking of you and your family
Kory & Sandra Hahn
May 8, 2014
It was an instant friendship right from the start over 20 years ago when I met and married my late husband. The four of us had many many fun times.
Skiing in Sundance,boat trip to the North Channel,Mackinac Island,Alaska cruise and many dinner parties @ the Hovers with family and friends.She was a beautiful person inside and out. Loving Mother, grandmother and the best wife and friend.
Even when my life changed 10 years ago, Lindy always kept in touch!
Everything Lindy did she did with style and elegance. What a positive attitude,strength and endurance she had through the last 22months.She lived her life til the last of her strength. She wouldn't have done it without the love and support of her loving husband and wonderful daughters and their families. My thoughts and prayers go out to Don,Amy,Christie and the family .God Bless.
Lindy's friendship and memories will always remain in my heart!!!Here's to you my lovely and beautiful friend!!Cheers!!!
Beverly Wall
May 8, 2014
She was a tremendous lady, and she made it worth traveling from Grand Rapids to see her. The clothes were always secondary. I am sad to hear that she has passed.
May 7, 2014
SO SORRY KRISTIE AND AMY TO HEAR OF YOUR MOTHER PASSING AWAY.SHE WILL BE LOOKING DOWN FROM HEAVEN KEEPING AN EYE ON HER FAMILY.... CHRISTINE DEROSE
Wayne Edgerton
May 7, 2014
Lindy was a remarkable woman. She was a vibrant person and always valued family foremost.
My thoughts are with you.
John Johnson
May 7, 2014
Vickie brisboy
May 7, 2014
my prayers are with the Hover family. Just know that God is with each of you at this trying times. God will give you no more than you can handle at this time.
May 7, 2014
Kristie/Amy,
My deepest sympathies to you and your families. Although I didn't have the pleasure to know your mom, she must have been a truly amazing woman to have such strong, remarkable daughters in the two of you. Cherish every memory, and take comfort in knowing she'll always be watching over you and your families. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
~Nikki Moore
Craig DeHaven
May 7, 2014
I am deeply sadden about Lindy's passing. I was not aware of her illness and I send my most sincere thoughts and prayers to her entire family. She was a fun, intelligent and beautiful person and will be greatly missed.
Sandra Smith-Hudson
May 7, 2014
I am so saddened at the premature passing of Lindy. She was a unique, strong, classy, real woman. I formed an immediate bond with her when we met and will always remember her as a role model and a very special lady. My heart goes out to her husband, children, and grandchildren. She was so proud of her family and loved them so much. It was always at the forefront in our conversations. May you all find peace in your loving memories of her.
Patty and Chuck Somers
May 7, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers go out to Don, Amy, Kristie and their families. Lindy was a dear, dear friend and words cannot express how much she will be missed. She loved life so much and fought a courageous battle with dignity, strength and a positive attitude. She loved her husband, her family and friends and the hole that is left in our hearts can be filled with our fondest memories. We can celebrate a life well lived as she is laid to rest...Lindy we will forever miss your smiling face.
Cindy and David Sepulveda
May 6, 2014
Don, Kristi and Amy,
Aunt Lindy was an amazing woman! Always laughing and always an adventure with her! She worked hard to make sure her family was taken care of, spoiled and loved. She will not be forgotten and you will all continue life with her in your heart. I miss you all so very much and love you dearly. You are all in my prayers as is my Aunt Lindy, and heavenly peace for her.
Blanca Pardo
May 6, 2014
Lindy was such an inspiration to me and I'm sure to so many other people that had the privilege of knowing her. In all the years we knew each other, she became a very dear friend in my life. She had so much respect and love for others, that it was easy to love her in return.
My children also came to know her through me. We are all sad for your loss, and our prayers are with you.
Judy Augenstein
May 6, 2014
Lindy was on my mind all last week so I sent her a "thinking of you" card, so glad I did.
Sam and Suzanne Medawar
May 6, 2014
Lindy , you will be greatly missed. A great neighbor with a wonderful smile and attitude, precious in all what you did . Our neighborhood is empty without you . May the dear Lord bless your soul and grant your husband Don and your precious family a peace above any understanding. We are so saddened.
Kelly Ferencz
May 6, 2014
Amy - you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Hugs to you all - John, Kelly, Hannah and Hailey Ferencz
Patti Kesler-Austin
May 6, 2014
I am so very sorry to hear about Lindy. My heart goes out to the whole family and I wish I could be there especially for Amy and Kristie. Lindy gave me my first job and remained on my resume forever. I will be forever grateful and believe many jobs I had was because of her important title on my resume. Thank you Lindy:) and thank you for Kristie and all the joy she has brought me over the years.
Linda & Fred Ortiz
May 6, 2014
Kristie,
Please know you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. We are so sorry for your loss. Fred remembered you yesterday, as always.
Bryan Crenshaw
May 6, 2014
I first met Lindy when I worked as an employee in the House of Representatives. I had a opportunity to be reacquainted with her as friends of Kristie and Jay. She lived her life to the fullest and had a great love for her family and friends.
Her zest for life will be missed by all she touched. May the good times you shared with her comfort you during your time of grief.
May 6, 2014
A lady in every sense of the word. A wife that none can compare. A mother that loved with every inch of her being. Lindy, I will truly miss you! My prayers to Don, Kristie, Amy and their families. Your beautiful wife and mother was such a true blessing.
Love to you all
Cheryl Hedberg
Meredith Cooper
May 6, 2014
I worked with Lindy at the Capitol in Lansing. She took care of business with class and grace. She made the Speaker of the House look good. May God hold her family real tight in his hands during this most difficult loss.
Debra Gagliardi
May 6, 2014
My heart goes out to Don and the girls. Lindy will be missed by us all. I will remember all the fun times on Drummond and in Lansing. We will keep her memory alive.
Donna Hover
May 5, 2014
Lindy's warm heart and love for others shines and sparkles through her beautiful blue yes. Lindy and my father have had a wonderful love affair their whole marriage. Lindy welcomed my father into every aspect of her life and her family, my father found the loving family he always wanted and desired. She gave him the gift of true love that he will have and hold forever. Thank you Lindy and I love you for loving my Dad.
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