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Michael Kevin Lay

Michael Kevin Lay obituary, Portland, MI

Michael Lay Obituary

Michael Kevin Lay Portland Age 49, passed away suddenly on Saturday, January 21, 2012. He was born on February 28, 1962 in Lansing the son of Ivan and Romayne (Fedewa) Lay. Mike was a member of St. Patrick Catholic Church and the K of C Council #2168 in Portland. He enjoyed watching sports, tending to his yard, fishing, golfing and being with his family and friends. Mike was the Agriculture Service Manager at Bader and Sons in Portland where he has worked for 34 years. He was preceded in death by his mother-in-law, Caroline Kimmel; grandparents Al and Catherine Fedewa, Norman and Mary Lay and Grandma Fanny; beloved dog, Frito. Surviving are his wife of 27 years, Marcy; children Nicholas, Stephanie and Nathan; parents Ivan and Romayne Lay; siblings Denny (Terri) Lay, Pat (Sharon) Lay and Kevin (Kim) Lay; father-in-law Joe (Deb) Rich; brother-in-law Loren (Denise) Rich; many aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. The Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11:00 a.m., Wednesday, January 25, 2012 at St. Patrick Catholic Church, with Rev. Larry King, presiding. Rite of Committal will follow at Portland Cemetery. The family will receive friends 2-4 and 7-9 p.m., Monday and Tuesday at the Lehman Funeral Home, 210 E. Bridge St., Portland. The rosaries will be prayed at 3 p.m., both days. For those wishing, memorial contributions may be made to the Portland Fire Dept., Hospice House of Mid-Michigan or Fr. Flohe Foundation in memory of Mike. Online condolences may be made at www.lehmanfuneralhomes.com.

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Published by Lansing State Journal from Jan. 22 to Jan. 29, 2012.

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Tammy and Greg Drake

January 30, 2012

Dear Denny, Terri and All of the family:
Tammy and I lived next door to Denny and Terri for years and seemed the family was very close. We will be praying for peace and comfort for all of you during these times of sorrow. May God bless you and Keep you in his arms during these times of sorrow.

Melissa M.

January 29, 2012

May you find comfort in knowing that God is healing the brokenhearted ones and is binding up their painful spots.-Ps. 147:3

Tammy Rooker

January 27, 2012

I was very saddened to hear of Mike's death. May you find comfort in the words below. Tammy Normington Rooker, former class mate, Portland High 1980

In My Pocket

I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.

My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.

They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.

Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.

But of all the treasures I have, it's the memories of you that are the most precious.

By Lamaretta Simmons

Kristie (Marrison) Hamilton

January 24, 2012

Dear Ivan, Romayne, Marci, and all of the Lay Family,
We are very sorry for your sudden loss. We will miss seeing Mike at all the family functions at Denny and Terri's house. You are all in our prayers and may God ease your pain over time but never let you forget all of the wonderful memories! God Bless ! All of our Love....
Tom & Kristie Hamilton

Thomas Schaefer

January 24, 2012

To the entire Lay family,may the comfort of our good lord, help you through this difficult time in your lives. May he comfort you and ease your pain as he watches over all of you. All of you will be in our thoughts and prayers. Our deepest condolences in the time of the loss of your loved one.

Belinda (Franks) Pasikowski

January 24, 2012

Dear Marcy and family,
I can't begin to tell you how deeply sorry I am. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I pray that God gives you peace and understanding.

Chad & Kristie Pastor

January 23, 2012

You and your family are in our thoughts & prayers during this tough time!

January 23, 2012

Marcy and family very sorry for your loss.you are all in my prayers. god bless all of you. Betsy Gross

January 23, 2012

When you feel lonely for the one that you love
look to the Heavens in the night sky above.
The star that appears to be bright,
will be your loved one
looking upon you during the night.
The lights of heaven are what shows through
As your loved one watches all that you do.

We Love You....Uncle Dean, Aunt Sherri, Miranda and Ashley

Al & Shirley Evans

January 23, 2012

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

January 23, 2012

Marcy and family, May God be with you all during this time. Our thoughts and prayers will remain with you and all who loved Mike. We are so sorry for your loss. God Bless you and help you thru this. Mitch and Sue (Gross) Heminger

January 22, 2012

Ivan ,Pat Denny and Kevin.I had just met Michael last summer,Yet I've know you guys for years.My deepest condolences.Richard Garza

Jeanne Filchock

January 22, 2012

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

January 22, 2012

Ivan, Romayne and Family , So very sorry to hear of your loss. We will keep you all in our prayers. Tim & Tina Schaefer

January 22, 2012

Marcie and family: we are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to your family. You are in our hearts. Billie Ann Atkinson Crabtree

January 22, 2012

Dear Marcy and family
I am so sorry that you have suffered such a terrible loss, My heartfelt sympathy and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time. Jane Emelander

January 22, 2012

Dear Marcie and family...so sorry to hear of Mikes sudden death! I never met him but heard only good things about him from Snookie, the world needs more men like this and he left us way too soon!
You are in our prayers today and always.

Aunt Grace and Jack

Tom Atkinson

January 22, 2012

I had the honor of meeting Mike first at Marcy's graduatrion party in 1981. The young couple only had eyes for each other on that day and for each other and their three wonderful children later. In some cases the quantity of the length of a person's life promotes their legasy. In Mike's case, it shall be the quality of his life that endures with all of us that love him so much. Mike was certainly one of the greatest people I have ever met, and he will be missed by us all. May God hold Mike gently within the palm of his hand untill he can walk the streets of heaven with all of those he loves for eternity. All my love...Uncle Tom

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