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Tracey Eastwood
June 9, 2010
Terry (and family), I'm almost certain that I've met Stephanie on at least one occasion at UPS, but I'm truly sorry to hear about your loss. I know "sorry" doesn't make it hurt any less, from experience, but... Please take care of yourself and those beautiful children and know that I'm thinking about you and praying for you--and yours. Again, my thoughts are with you, Terry. Always a friend, Tracey Eastwood (formally w/ UPS)
Tracey Eastwood
June 9, 2010
Terry (and family), I'm almost certain that I've met Stephanie on at least one occasion at UPS, but I'm truly sorry to hear about your loss. I know "sorry" doesn't make it hurt any less, from experience, but... Please take care of yourself and those beautiful children and know that I'm thinking about and praying for you and yours. Again, my thoughts are with you, Terry. Always a friend, Tracey Eastwood (formally w/ UPS)
Deborah Rogers
June 1, 2010
To Stephanie's family: This was never meant to be! I am truly sorry for the loss of your loved one! I was just a traveler on 64E when I saw her vehicle and heard about the accident. May the love of GOD be with her childern and each and very family member! AMEN
Tim and Tawanda Connor
May 25, 2010
Terry and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. You all are like family to us and this is so hard to believe and accept. Our hearts and prayers are with you. We love you all.
Gil Cureau
May 25, 2010
I didn't know the family, but am truly sorry for your tragic loss.
Willders & Hankins
May 25, 2010
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Garry & Sue Willders
May 24, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
May 24, 2010
My sincere sympathy to each family member for your loss of your most precious Stephaine. This promise will soon be a reality Revelaiton 21:3, 4
Wayne, Mary & Travis Keefer
May 24, 2010
Terry and family, we are so sorry for your loss. May God give you the strength you need. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Eliza Reeves
May 24, 2010
Terry, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Stay strong in the Lord
Kim Petruzzellis
May 21, 2010
My prayers and heartfelt sympathy go out to Terry and the girls as well as the rest of the family. I worked with Stephanie at Capital One some years ago, but her gentle, sweet spirit made her a pleasure to know and I am thankful that I had to pleasure of knowing her. I will always remember her sweet laugh.
I will keep you all in my prayers.
Linda Burton
May 21, 2010
To each of you who has left a message for the Beck and Bender families, we thank you from the bottom of our hearts for the kind words, the uplifting thoughts and for all the prayers each of you sent. We will cherish knowing that our Stephanie touched so many people during her short time here on earth. She will be greatly missed by her mother, sisters and brothers and other family members but no one miss her more than her husband and two beautiful daugthers. Please continue to keep them in your prayers as they continue to get through this time. Again thank you all very much. The Beck and Bender family.
Vicky Jackson
May 20, 2010
To the Beck and Bender family.Stephanie was a little girl when we left Chester this was such shocking news we still can't believe it.Our prayers go out to you and the rest of the family.We don't ask God why he take our preicous love ones there is a time and reason for everything that he does.Just know that God is still watching our you all and he will take care of what belongs to him.He will comfort your broken hearts and whip all tears way.We will be praying for you.
The Jackson family( Alma,Vicky Vanessa Belinda,Rose)
Denise Hires
May 20, 2010
To The Bender and Beck Family,
I worked with Stephanie at Capital One and we live not too far from each other. Stephanie was a wonderful person inside and out. We often would talk of our girls and how they were progressing through life, those conversations I will cherish and always remember about her. May God continue to bless your family and I will keep you all in continuous prayer. She will never be forgotten.
Heather Ramsey
May 20, 2010
I had the pleasure of working with Stephanie and also being a friend. She was an amazing person with a beautiful laugh, smile and wit. May the words of so many who loved her comfort you and you find peace in your memories.
David Staples
May 20, 2010
Tiffany,
I cannot begin to imagine the pain you are experiencing. It is difficult to understand why bad things happen to good people. You and your family have always been very dear to me. Know you are in my thoughts and prayers and if there is anything I or your Tussing family can do for you, do not hesitate to ask. I pray that God provides you and your family comfort in your time of need.
Sharon Stone
May 20, 2010
To The Family,
This tradedy has saden my heart and I will like to extend my condolescence.Sometimes we ask God why however we may never know the answer but know there is a God that sits high and looks low and he will never leave or forsake you.What ever God bring you to he will also see you through.Trust God through these trying times. I pray that God will mend your fragile and broken hearts.When it seems hard to look back and seem like you cant move forward just look beside and God will be there. May God bless and watch over you all.
May 19, 2010
Stephanie was a great person and friend. She had a smile that was priceless. Always happy and warm spirited. She will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with the family. You had a great mom and wife. God Bless You All!
Tracy Griffin
(Capital One)
Nikiesha Roney
May 19, 2010
I had the pleasure of working with Stephanie at Capital One. Know that God makes no mistakes. I pray for your understanding in your times of need. May you find comfort in her memories and when you feel like you just can't go on look to the hills from whence comes your help.
Shawn, Jackie and Tinsley Curtis
May 19, 2010
We share with you in this time of sorrow but rejoice in know that she is resting with Jesus and we will see her again! May God richly bless you!
Chris & Kim Beasley
May 19, 2010
Terry-- So sorry to hear about this terribly tragedy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Althea Appleton
May 19, 2010
To Terry and family.
Our heart goes out to you all at this time with the lost of your love one. We know that there is no amount of comfort that can take the pain away, but our prayers is that God will embraced you all in his arms as he gives strength to go through.
James & Tabby Carpenter
May 19, 2010
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
phyllis Aldrich
May 19, 2010
Terry, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. I'm so very sorry. from BOA
Cindy Irby
May 19, 2010
I'm sadden to hear about your lost. My condolences goes to you and your family. I pray that God hold you in his arms and bring you peace within your heart.
Wayne Hague (BoA)
May 19, 2010
Terry,
I am so sorry to hear of you and your family's loss. May the Lord give you and your family strenght during this time of sorrow.
Ajaya Mitchell
May 19, 2010
Terry and family, I am sorry to hear of your loss. Please know we are in constant prayer for you and your family and if we can help in any way please let us know. Ajaya Mitchell and Pastor Marcus Leggett (Bank of America) Richmond, VA
Arthur, Eleanor, Pam Davis
May 19, 2010
To my sister-law Marie, and all my niece's and nephews:
Everything that happens in this world happens at the time GOD chooses. He sets the time for birth and the time for death. GOD choose the mother and father, Marie Allen Beck and Homer Beck to guide Stephanie from infancy to womanhood.
As she enters her final resting place there will be sorry and there will be mourning but still her body return to the dust of the earth and the breath of life will go back to GOD, who gave it to her.
May GOD'S, GRACE and LOVE,
be there to comfort and guide you.
Ivor Kenney
May 19, 2010
You will never walk alone,For God will always be by your side. This is my pray for the Beck-Bender family.
Bridgette Dwight
May 19, 2010
To the Bender family, you have our deepest sympathy in the time of sorrow. We pray that God continue to hold you in his arms to allow your heart to over time mend. Ricky McNair and Bridgette Dwight
Sharon Washington
May 19, 2010
Our condolences to you and your family for your loss.
Jessica Kwiatkoski and Sharon Washington (Bank of America)
Jaye Winters
May 19, 2010
Terry & family, I am very saddened by your loss. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you always. May God continue to bless you.
Jaye Winters, Sandston, Va
Patricia Blackwell
May 19, 2010
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Roxanne May
May 19, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Cynthia Champion
May 19, 2010
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Angela Curtis
May 19, 2010
Terry and Family,
I am very sorry for your loss. My prayer is that your memories of your wife and loved one will comfort you in the moments, days and years to come. May God keep your family united and strengthened.
Angela M. Curtis (BOA)
Elizabeth Page
May 19, 2010
I did not have the privilege to know Stephanie but she, and your family, have been on my heart and in my prayers since the day of the accident. May God wrap his arms around you and help you through this very sad and difficult time.
Glendora Saunders
May 19, 2010
Terry and family my thoughts and prayers are with all of you. God will keep you through these times .Be Bless.......................
Glendora Saunders and Family of Glen Allen, VA
May 19, 2010
To the Bender Family,
My heart goes out to Terry and the Bender family. May GOD comfort you and your family in this time and need.
Tasha Johnson
May 19, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
May 19, 2010
Terry, sorry to hear about your lost, I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Gwen Mayo
Don Huband
May 19, 2010
Terry and family my thoughts are with you. I'm very sorry for you loss. God will guide you and he has a plan.
JaVonya Mendiola
May 19, 2010
To the Beck/ Bender family,
Stephanie was (and will continue to be) truly loved and missed here at Capital One. We are a family of people who have worked together for years. Stephanie was a sweet and loving person - beautiful inside and out. Rest in knowing she made a tender imprint on the hearts of all who knew her. My family and I are praying your strength in the Lord. There is no situation in which God cannot provide consolation. He cares about every smile, tear, moment and aspect of your lives. Hold on to God's Word.
Psalm 46:1 - God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in times of trouble.
Gary Woodard
May 19, 2010
Gary Woodard
Jody McGrady
May 18, 2010
stephanie...
i feel truly cheated that we didn't become friends sooner. i luv u girl and miss u! my heartfelt condolences to your awesome and loving beck and bender family. my thoughts and prayers are with all of you. ok, remember those pictures? well, here they are!;O) i just know u r laughing ur butt off.
xxoo!!
Sheila Moss
May 18, 2010
Dear Family Friends,
May God give you the strength to make it through this time of grief and he will. Let Stephanie's memories bring a smile to your face and her precious spirit she got from you, Mrs. Marie warm your heart. I won't be able to make it to the service but know that my love will be with you guys always like you all have been for our family.
Sheila Moss
May 18, 2010
John Smith
May 18, 2010
God has reasons for everything, God has a plan for you. I hope God will show your husband and the little ones that you leave behind that reason. May God shelter all your family and put peace in their heart, for God has all the answers. I love and will miss you cousin. John Smith, Jr.(Dublin, GA)
Calvin Woodard
May 18, 2010
Cous, you're missed greatly. Our condolences extends to your imediate family and all the rest. May GOD bless all in this time of loss and sorrow. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time of grief. I love and miss you all. GOD knows best!
Dante Harris
May 18, 2010
shout out to steph, my God bless the beck and bender fam. much love
May 18, 2010
We have suffered an eternal loss in our family. Our love goes out to the Becks/Bender families along with continual prayer. We ask our Lord and Savior for strengh and peace in this season. My love to you all. Heleen (Means) Christian & Family [email protected]
Andrea Harris
May 18, 2010
Stephanie,
Wow, this was so unexpected and it doesn't seem fair (to me). Even though you were taken from us, I feel relieved knowing that you are going to a better place filled with more love. You were beautiful and have always carried yourself with grace and style. As your cousin, I'm sorry I didn't get to know you and your husband and children better.
Terry Lee,
I'm not going to say that I know how you're feeling - cause I don't. All I can say is that it appeared to me (from Ohio family reunion) that you two made each other very happy and anyone can see the love between you two. I'm sorry for your loss.
Andrea and Nicholas Harris
T Downey
May 18, 2010
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
K. Gilbert (Bank of America)
May 18, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Kimberly Cochran
May 18, 2010
To my cousins, the Bender and Beck family, my condolences go out to you. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. I love you all.
Tessila Harris
May 18, 2010
Stephanie you will be missed! Family - I'm praying for your strength Love You Tess, amanda, deonte. Contact me [email protected]
Johnny Martin
May 18, 2010
To The Beck and Bender Families:
Please accept my most heartfelt sympathy for your loss…my thoughts are with you and your families during this difficult time.
Candi Smith
May 18, 2010
My condolences to the Bender and Beck family. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Ashley Eaton
May 18, 2010
I would like to say that my heart goes out to the bender family. You all are in my heart. Steph, will always be remembered. I enjoyed working with her. She was a wonderful and kind person. I will miss you dearly. Always with Love. God bless your family and may you rest in peace.
LaVonne Jones
May 18, 2010
May God comfort and console you during these trying times. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Phyllis Small
May 18, 2010
To the Beck Family,
My prayers & deepest sympathy goes out to you. I meet Stephanie several years ago at Thankful Baptist Church. She truly was a great person to have know.She will truly be missed.
Ty Pryor
May 18, 2010
To the Family;
I am sorry to hear about Stephanie’s untimely passing and I am sure no words can ease the pain that you are feeling. However, I pray that your family finds peace in God's loving embrace during this time.
While she talked about her extended family often, Terry, Tiffany and Taryn you were her first priority and you definitely meant the world to her. Thank you to the entire Beck and Bender families for allowing me to share her with you. She was a devoted friend to me and I will always treasure our conversations and friendship. From her playful banter, to the infectious laugh...I can truly say she was a rare jewel. I will definitely miss her and I will carry her in my spirit always. I extend my deepest sympathies to you and your family.
You will always be in my prayers.
Natasha Cosby
May 18, 2010
To The Bender Family, you are in our hearts and prayers. The Lords knows your stength and will be with you thru it all. God bless and keep you . The Cosby Family
Jennifer Jackson
May 18, 2010
My prayers are with the family during this difficult time. Stephanie was a wonderful person. May God guide you through your grief.
Nicole Means
May 18, 2010
My son and I would like to render our deepest sympathy to Terry and the girls, The Beck family you are all in my prayers and heart. The Means Family Nicole, and Duane2 [email protected]
Gretchen Roberts
May 18, 2010
Terry,
Saying "I'm sorry" just doesn't seem to be enough, but I don't know how to express how deeply sorry I am. We will be praying for you and your family.
Lynne Norton
May 18, 2010
Our hearts are saddened over the loss of Stephanie. She was a gracious and lovely person, and will be missed by everyone who knew her. Our thoughts and prayers continue to be with you.
Jim, Lynne and Emily
May 18, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I pray that the comfort of God help during this difficult time and may the ove ones around you help you the days ahead
S Bennett
May 18, 2010
To the Bender family,
Although I did not know her personally, she has been on my mind since I passed her van on the road that day. What a tragic accident and I pray she felt no pain. My thoughts and prayers go out to her husband and two children and that they will find comfort. I drive from Prince George to Glen Allen everyday and pray that God will get me to and from safely. God Bless her family and friends as I know she will be missed. Hold on to the memories you have of her in your heart.
Philip Sprouse
May 18, 2010
I had the pleasure of working with Stephanie for several years at Capital One. I echo the sympathies of sadness and sorrow felt by all who knew her as to what a tragic loss this is. I want to thank the Bender and Beck families for the way Stephanie brightened all of our lives. May God keep you all healthy, safe, and strong.
"Perhaps they are not the stars, but rather openings in Heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy."
Sylvia Baxter
May 18, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Stephanie was a sweet person and always seemed to have a smile on her face whenever you saw her. Just keep your faith in God and he will see you through this difficult time.
May 18, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Stephanie was a sweet person and always seemed to have a smile on her face whenever you saw her. Just keep your faith in God and he will see you through this difficult time.
Sylvia Baxter, (Richmond Virginia)
Courtney Allen
May 18, 2010
I worked with Stephanie for a little while at J Crew. She was such a delight and fun person to be around. Your family is in my prayers.
Doreen Cliffe
May 18, 2010
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Kelly Johnson-Crowder
May 18, 2010
To the family,
Stephanie was a dear friend to me as she was to many! I worked with Stephanie for 10 years and she was the nicest person I ever met! Stephanie was not just a co-worker, she was a friend. We often times associated outside of work and we always laughed and talked about our children. I never will forget Stephanie's sweet laugh when we talked about the babies! I miss her very much and she kept me laughing! I will forever love and remember her. Please know that I am here for you, the family! Her family meant the world to her. You are all in my prayers!!!!!
Dina King
May 18, 2010
To The Bender & Beck Family,
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Stephanie was truly a special person to all who knew her very well.
Chandra Boone
May 18, 2010
Stephanie was a beautiful person inside and out. We were all very lucky to have been a part of her life at one time or another. She will truly be missed. My prayers are with you Terry, Tiffany, Taryn and all of the family. May your memories continue to remind you of her and bring you all joy.
Chandra Boone
(Capital One)
La'Shunta Terry
May 18, 2010
My prayers and sympathies to the family of Stephanie. I had the pleasure of working with her 2 years ago, and she had such a warm wonderful spirit. May you all find peace in this difficult time.
La'Shunta Terry (Chesterfield, VA)
Jo Ingram
May 18, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with all of Stephanie's family. She truly was a wonderful person. I worked with Stephanie at Capital One and lived near her in Colonial Heights and we would often see other in the stores and around town. She will truly be missed by all and she will always be in our hearts.
Katherine Barnes
May 18, 2010
To the Bender Family,
Words cannot convey the sorrow and sadness that is felt from the loss of such a Beautiful Soul being snatched away from all of us so soon. Stephanie was not only beautiful on the outside but also on the inside. We shared good times as co-workers, as well as friends. She will truly be missed. My prayers go out to you and the girls.
Lynnette Harris
May 18, 2010
You will never be forgotten Stephanie. We love you. You are such wonderful cousin.
Deneen Unrein
May 18, 2010
I am with you still, I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow, I am the diamond glints on the snow, I am the sunlight on ripened grain, I am the gentle mountain rain. When you awaken in the morning's hush, I am the swift, uplifting rush of birds in circled flight, I am the soft stars that shine at night. Do not think of me as gone...I am with you still...in each new dawn.
Karen Santiago
May 18, 2010
RIP Cousin. You will be missed. Family - Please accept our deepest sympathies. The Santiago Family - Karen, Tony, Jennifer, Tony II, Chanel, Jordan, & Chloe. Please contact us at [email protected].
Paula White
May 18, 2010
My condolences to the family. Stephanie was a very nice lady and I enjoyed working with her at Capital One. She was a great person and her memory will live on. Be strong and may God bless you all.
Tishon
May 18, 2010
My thoughts are with you and your family. I pray that the comfort of God help you during this difficult time and may the love of those around you help you through the days ahead.
Stephanie, Ty & Wendy 2007 @ Airport to Vegas
Wendy Rock
May 18, 2010
Stephanie was a wonderful wife, mother & friend. I enjoyed our chats about her family. We did manage to spend some time together away from work & after she left. We always had a great time & had a lot of laughter. She will be missed & will forever be my friend. My prayers go out to Stephanie's family & friends. She lived a great life & always had a smile.
Jessica Means
May 18, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you,and we will truley miss you.
Love always ... Jessica, Curtis, Ryan and Trey
Lana Lance
May 18, 2010
Stephanie was a great friend and will be missed by so many. I feel blessed to have known her and my heart is breaking over this tragic accident.
I have so many fond memories of her, and I will always treasure them.
I will be keeping the family in my prayers.
Jessica Means
May 18, 2010
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010
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