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John Robert Palmer

April 14, 1928 - June 25, 2023

MIDDLETON - John Robert Palmer died peacefully on June 25, 2023, at Attic Angel Place in Middleton, WI, with his two children and their spouses at his side.

He was born April 14, 1928, in Aurora, IL, the second son of Robert and Marian (Davis) Palmer. He grew up on a farm near Oswego, IL, and attended a one-room school where at times he and his brother were the only students. These early experiences were influential throughout his life. A high school teacher encouraged him to read Tolstoy's War and Peace and the issues raised there remained the focus of his intellectual interests in his later academic study and teaching.

He attended Knox College in Galesburg, IL, and was elected to Phi Beta Kappa and was later awarded an honorary doctorate there. In 1955, he married Carol Smith in Evanston, IL. After three years of high school teaching, he attended graduate school at the University of Illinois Urbana-Champaign, completing a Doctorate in Education. He was on the faculty at Illinois from 1960 until he received an offer from the University of Wisconsin-Madison in 1966. He was a professor in the Department of Curriculum & Instruction, Educational Policy Studies, and History. He served as Dean of the School of Education for 17 years and retired from the University in 1995.

Often uncomfortable in social situations, he enjoyed the largely solitary activities of reading, flower gardening, as well as cooking and baking.

John is survived by his son, David (Alison); daughter, Leslie (Peter) Palmer-Ross; grandsons: Tyrel and Sam; as well as great-granddaughters: Abigail, Aspen and Loralai. His parents and brother, as well as loving wife, Carol, preceded him in death.

At his request, there will be no memorial service.

Memorials may be made to a charity of one's choice, or the John R. Palmer Graduate Fellowship by either of the methods below. Online memorials can be made securely with this link supportuw.org/giveto/PalmerMemorial. Alternatively, checks can be mailed to the secure bank lockbox address: UW Foundation, U.S. Bank Lockbox, Box 78807, Milwaukee, WI 53278-0807 - please designate to the John R. Palmer Graduate Fellowship Fund on the memo line.

"Now that time presses urgently, And the tasks are finished, To all of you the modest wish, That the autumn may be long and mild." -Primo Levi

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Published by Madison.com on Jul. 2, 2023.

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Calvin Gage

September 10, 2025

My brother & I knew Carol as kids summering at Lake Ponto. I met John once soon after he and Carol were married. If I remember correctly, John was cultivating some plant, possibly roses. I would love to hear from Leslie about Lake Ponto -- now about 85 years since I was last there.

James H. Latimer

July 2, 2023

True educator and colleague. Very dedicated. Insisted on quality before ego. Condolences to the family.

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July 1, 2023

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June 26, 2023

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