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Thomas Joseph Docter

1935 - 2023

Thomas Joseph Docter obituary, 1935-2023, Clearwater, FL

BORN

1935

DIED

2023

Thomas Docter Obituary

Thomas Joseph Docter

March 25, 1935 - Oct. 24, 2023

CLEARWATER, FL - It's been a perfect journey. I would pick my parents , JC and Edith , over any I have known. That goes for five older sibling heroes. I was the youngest (somebody had to be), thanks!! Thanks also, in equal order, to 1047 Kellog St. Neighbors, Elmore and Annunciation grade schools, GBW class of '53, UW Oshkosh, UW Madison, Madison Barber College, and ten (count them) years of hiding in the UW Law School. Just as memorable are all my clients/ patrons from six barbershops, (three legal!). State Street Popcorn, the Sputnut Shop, the Club Tavern(... "you are not totally educated until you have run a tavern for a year..."), the Doctor Inn and Law Offices,Squalor House and Docter Evergreens. I could not count the fond memories of friends made over the years from above and tennis, golf, hockey, speed skating, music, and neighbors...!

Naturally, I am most proud and thankful for my five kids. All are smarter and higher achievers than my wife, Betsy and I. It was a totally delightful experience. I fell in love with Betsy, St. Paul's organist, as an alter boy, my first day in Madison, before we spoke a word. It only grew for almost 65 years.

The cream cheese frosting on the carrot cake of life has been living at a Regency Oaks in Clearwater, FL, though my roots remain in Wisconsin. I happily shared these years with my seventh grade loyal admirer Ginger. It is my request to have a family get together at my farm in Martinsville, WI. Family and friends will be notified of date and time.

Thanks to all for making my life so wonderful.

Published by Madison.com on Nov. 26, 2023.

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Patricia Rengel

June 8, 2024

As Tomás´ Spanish teacher at Madison College, I marveled at his Spanish and "vitalidad." Little did I know that all his life experiences he described in class (barber, lawyer, tree farmer, SUP extraordinaire, etc.) were real until I read his obituary. What an extraordinary man! Sending love to his family (whom he also spoke about lovingly in class). Patricia Rengel

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Maureen Treichel

December 13, 2023

I want to extend my deepest sympathy to all of the family. Tom was a unique
man as you can tell from his writing, He was smart, gentle, kind and very opinionated. Tom liked to do things his way. My husband, who I hope is greeting Tom with a smile enjoyed just talking, biking,tennis and cards. I was so happy to have known him & Betsey.

Dorothy Hays

December 12, 2023

My good friend and music partner since 2004,
When I moved to Timber Pines and played my mandolin with our new little group, `The Back Porch
Pickers´, happy days.
I will miss your friendship so much.


Pines and my mandolin

JEFF STERN

December 2, 2023

On behalf of the Stern family, our thoughts are with the Doctor family and your loss. Part of the larger Spring Harbor Family.

Bashford reident

November 29, 2023

Thanks for cutting my hair in the basement of Tripp Hall (ca. 1956)

Lary Corcoran

November 26, 2023

My Condolences

Jill Steinfeldt

November 24, 2023

My Thom admired and loved his Uncle Tom. He got sage advice and a helping hand when we needed it most. Now they are together, waiting until we all come to join them in heaven. God Bless and keep you Uncle Tom

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