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Mary DeFabio Obituary

Struthers-Mary P. DeFabio, 84, passed away peacefully on Sunday, April 14, 2024. She was born on March 17, 1940, in Youngstown, the daughter of Nicholas and Mary Delores Corcoran Colla. Mary was a 1958 graduate of Ursuline High School and earned a Bachelor of Science degree in education from Youngstown State University. Mary was a retired teacher from St. Charles School and the Youngstown City Schools. She was a member of St. Luke Church. She taught CCD at St. Luke, St. Patrick of Youngstown, St. Joseph Churches, and Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Basilica. She served on parish council at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Basilica, and along with others, organized the first Our Lady of Mt. Carmel festival. Mary was a member of the Youngstown Cursillo Movement and the first Christ Renews His Parish at St. Luke Church, under the direction of Father Ashton. In her spare time, Mary volunteered for 50 years with the American Heart Association, American Lung Association, American Cancer Society, American Diabetes Association, and Mother's March of Dimes. Her high school sweetheart, Ralph J. DeFabio, whom she married June 27, 1964, passed away November 26, 2023. Mary will always be remembered lovingly by three children, Kathy (Jeff) Yaist, Ron (Kim) DeFabio, and Michelle Napolitano; four grandchildren, Dr. Alexandria DeFabio, Ryan Yaist, A.J. (fiancé Emily) Yaist, and Samantha DeFabio; sister, Georgia Leone (Jim), many loving nieces and nephews whom she loved dearly; and many wonderful friends. Besides her husband and parents, Mary was preceded in death by a son-in-law, Frank Napolitano. The family will receive relatives and friends from 10 to 10:45 a.m. on Thursday, April 18, 2024 at St. Luke Church in Boardman, followed by an 11 a.m. memorial mass. In lieu of flowers, the family respectfully requests monetary donations be made to the Rescue Mission of Mahoning Valley, 1300 Martin Luther King Jr. Boulevard, Youngstown, Ohio 44510. Arrangements have been entrusted to the professional care of the Rossi Brothers and Lellio Funeral Home, 4442 South Avenue in Boardman. Family and friends are encouraged to offer prayers for the family and support via phone call, text, email or may visit the Book of Memories at www.rossifunerals.com.

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Published by Mahoning Matters on Apr. 16, 2024.

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Mary Navarro

April 16, 2024

We are so sorry to hear about the passing of this wonderful person. Mary was always a joy to be around. May she RIH. Prayers for the entire family.
Mary Ann and Nelson Navarro

American Heart Association

April 16, 2024

May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always.

Adeline DiPasqua

April 16, 2024

To ALL the family, we send our deepest sympathy and our love. Your mother, sister and aunt was a lovely, lovely person. She gave so much of herself to our Lord and her family. God bless!!!
Joe and Googie DiPasqua and family

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