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James Duncklee Obituary
1957 - 2018
HALLOWELL - James Kenneth Roche Duncklee, 60, passed away on April 14, 2018, after a courageous battle with cancer. Jim was born in Augusta on Nov. 22,1957. He was the son of Barbara Duncklee Martin, James Barry Roche and Donald Duncklee.
Jim graduated from Hall-Dale High School in 1976. He received his undergraduate degree in education from the University of Maine at Farmington and his masters degree from the University of Maine at Orono.
On Jan. 2, 1982, Jim married the love of his life, Katherine, and together shared two wonderful sons, Nathaniel and Dylan, who both made Jim the proudest man in town.
Jim worked for several years in education and left a lasting impression on students, faculty and the community. After 15 years in education, Jim started an investment and retirement planning firm, which he enjoyed right up until his retirement in March of 2018. Jim was committed to serving others and felt that giving back to his family, friends, clients and community was his purpose in life.
Jim and Kathy raised Nate and Dylan on Park Street in Farmingdale before splitting their residence between Hallowell and Ocean Point, Maine. Jim loved the ocean and enjoyed the time he spent using his boat and walking along Shore Drive.
Each of Jim's boys gave him the biggest thrill of his life in the form of two special daughters-in-law, Erin and Stacia and four precious grandchildren, Bowen, Emmett, Kyla and Liam. For all of us who knew Jim, it did not take long for "Papa's" beaming smile to illuminate as he was raving about his three grandsons and one granddaughter.
Jim loved to travel, but once his grandkids were born, leaving Maine for any extended period of time, did not quite have the luster it used to have. Athletics were also a huge part of Jim's life, from his days playing basketball and baseball for Hall-Dale to following Nathaniel and Dylan while they did the same.
Jim is survived by his wife of 36 years, Katherine McLain Duncklee of Hallowell; two sons, Nathaniel, Erin and their family from South Portland, Dylan and Stacia and their family from Augusta; his mother Barbara of Florida and father Barry of Farmingdale; two brothers Gary and wife Connie of Farmingdale and Glenn and wife Andrea of Florida; several other step siblings; nieces, nephews and cousins.
Services will be held at 11:00 a.m., on Saturday, April 21, 2018, at Old South Congregational Church, 135 Second St. in Hallowell, with the reverend Susan Reisart officiating. A celebration of Jim's life will follow from noon to 3 p.m. at The Governor Hill Mansion, 136 State St., Augusta. For an online memory book and to leave condolences please visit www.bowersfuneral.com
In lieu of flowers,
donations may be made to the:
Jim Duncklee Memorial
Scholarship Fund
c/o Duncklee & Nott Investment & Retirement Planning
19 Central St.
Hallowell, ME 04347
Checks can be made out to the Jim Duncklee Memorial
Scholarship Fund.
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Memories and Condolences
for James Duncklee
Dawn Kilgore
May 10, 2018
My thoughts and prayers to the Duncklee family! He was an absolutely amazing individual! He was one of my favorite teachers in school and knew how to make learning fun. I still remember my nickname from his class when he would do attendance, Sunset. Rest in peace Mr. Duncklee!
Richard Nigro
May 9, 2018
This is such sad news. Dunk and I went to Farmington together along with his Hallowell crew of Cam and Wheels. I always smile at the memories of the things we did and the times we had. Jim always had a smile on his face and was up for any misadventure. Now there's one less passenger on the road trips to Falmouth.
Marlies Boyd
April 24, 2018
So sorry to hear about Jims passing. I will miss his smiling face and friendly words. RIP.
John and Jean Webster
April 23, 2018
So sorry our thoughts are with the family.
Carol and Mike Ladd
April 22, 2018
So sorry to miss the service! Our thoughts are with everyone!
Kathy Perkins Clary
April 22, 2018
Dear Family of Jim:
I was deeply saddened to hear of Jim's passing. We grew up together and graduated in the same class at HDHS. I have so many good memories of Jim. I just looked at our senior yearbook and there is a picture of Jim our senior year with a big grin on his face with his friends Jay and Ed -there is also a photo on the opposite page of Jay, Ed and Jim at 7 years old with the same big grin on his face. That is how I will remember Jim. He valued his friends and was always good natured. May you find comfort in your many wonderful memories of Jim.
April 21, 2018
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
-Nick & Sam
Norma Woodside & Family
April 21, 2018
You and your family are in our thoughts & prayers.
~ The Woodside's
Peter and Kathy Willis
April 20, 2018
To Kathy, Nate, Dylan, and all the clan...we're so thankful to have had Jim and all of you in our lives. There was no better person or greater friend. Our thoughts, prayers, and love are with you now and always.
Margarette Sousa (nee Theberge)
April 20, 2018
Mr. Duncklee was hands down one of my most influential teachers, and I enjoyed his classes and his personality very, very much. I am so sorry about this loss for his family and for the community. He was a singular human being.
Joel & Alice Johnson
April 20, 2018
While it is so sad that Jim has left us far too soon, Jim left us with his compassion and a true joy and enthusiasm for living. It is a rich legacy that we can not honor more than by trying to emulate it. Jim, thank you for your life and the many lives you have touched.
Dave and Shirley Petherbridge
April 19, 2018
We went to school with Jim's mother, Barbara. Our prayers are with all of you
as you grieve and celebrate his life.
Liz Nitzel
April 19, 2018
Sending love, thoughts, and sympathy to all of Jim's loved ones. He lived an amazing life as an incredible person. The Nitzel Family
Valerie Morin
April 18, 2018
Jim made a lasting, loving impression on all those with whom he had contact. We will miss him dearly. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to his whole family.
Jim McPherson
April 18, 2018
Dear Kathy and boys, I'm so very sorry for your loss. Jim was simply one of the best men I've ever known (and I've known him for over 50 yrs!)!!. When I last saw you both ( at the Wolfington wedding) I remember how he went out of his way to do me a small but sweet favor - that really meant a lot to me. That's Jim all the way! He was a fine man who will be missed by many.
Brenda Shaw Wanden
April 18, 2018
My prayers for your family at this time..
Cheryl Ramsay
April 18, 2018
Kathy, Nate and Dillon - I am so so sorry that Jim's earthly journey was just too darn short. I know he will forever be your guardian angel and in your hearts. He touched so many lives in so many different areas - education; business/finance; sports; baseball; and did I mention baseball??? I will never forget our times at Colby Sawyer and the yearly trips to Tampa for spring breaks and BASEBALL! You and Jim and Jim's Mom, too, made it such a fun time! My thoughts and prayers will be with you, he will be missed by so many.
God's blessings to you and your family.
Love ya,
Cheryl
Dr Ron Bouffard
April 18, 2018
I am very sorry to hear of Jim's passing. He was an exceptional man, husband, father, grandfather, and friend. He will be missed. My condolences to Kathy and the entire Duncklee family.
Donna & Peter Wenckus
April 18, 2018
Kathy, and all the Duncklee family, Peter and I are so sad to think that (short pants!) Jim has left our world. He will be missed but never forgotten by anyone who knew him.
Vicki Raymond
April 18, 2018
Sending deepest sympathies to Kathy and the family. May the happy memories carry you through this difficult time. Sending peace and positive energy.
Mark Jacobsohn
April 17, 2018
I had not seen Jim in about 30 years - since high school - when we reunited about ten years ago. It was like we were 16 again! What a wonderful man, husband and father you were. You leave many people who will never forget you, my friend. I offer my most sincere sympathy to the entire family in what must be an impossibly difficult time.
Bill & Terry Perfetto
April 17, 2018
Jim will be missed by many from students, neighbors to all that have watched him raise 2 great boys with Kathy. Rest in the Lords arms.
Janis Maylin
April 17, 2018
Kathy,
I am so sorry to hear of this. I was just emailing with "Mr. D" recently about some retirement planning and hoping I would run into him at the office. I'm glad to have had that email exchange with him in which we joked about the game he had us play in 6th grade, "Dunckleeville"; its lessons being about the only thing I learned that year! He was a great teacher. Really knew how to engage people, made learning fun, and didn't underestimate the value of a good bribe to get us kids to behave (pizza party anyone?!?!?!?). Please accept my sincerest apologies on the loss of your husband. A tough loss for your boys as well as I remember Mr. D speaking of them often in school and I always thought they were lucky to have such fun and loving parents. I'll bet he leaves you all with many, many wonderful memories.
Donna short-Saums
April 17, 2018
So sorry for the family to suffer such a loss. It has been along time since we have graduated Hall-Dale together but I will always remember his smile and encouragement he offered me way back than.
Peggy Nichols Lee
April 17, 2018
My sympathy to Jim's family. Although we each moved on with our lives after graduating from HDHS, I remember him fondly (and I almost forgot we have the same birthday).
Marjorie Tennyson
April 17, 2018
So sorry for your loss of such a special husband and father. He will watch over you and the boys with families. Treasure all you have shared and know all your friends are here to support you in the future.
Ingrid Vancil
April 17, 2018
Kathy I am so sorry to read about Jim and I know there is nothing anyone can say to you that makes any sense. Hope left us last July and I am sure those two are having a party together, maybe shooting a few hoops. I know that the customary words are rest in peace Jim, but I think that we, the ones left with that big hole in our heart, need the peace. Kathy my heart goes out to you, I feel your pain. Much love Ingrid Vancil
Janet & Steve Butterfield
April 17, 2018
Kathy, Nate and Dylan - Our thoughts are with you. Jim was such a nice man.
Janet & Steve Butterfield
Scott Loeffel
April 17, 2018
Sending prayers, love, and compassion to the entire family!
Jennifer Franco
April 17, 2018
My sincere condolences to Jim's family. He was a good man and I am sad and sorry for your loss. I hope the great memories and stories you share bring comfort and peace.
Mike and Linda LaPlante
April 17, 2018
Kathy, Nate and Dylan, We can't tell you how sorry we are at the loss of Jim. He was a wonderful father and husband and I know how much you will all miss him. I hope you know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love to all,
Roberta Nestor
April 17, 2018
My deepest sympathy to all of the Duncklee family. To say Jim was special and unique is an understatement. He was one in a billion.
Tammy Chamberlain
April 17, 2018
So very sorry for your loss Kathy & family!
Debbie Hunter
April 17, 2018
I am so sorry for your loss. He fought hard and will be missed by all. Love and hugs and prayers coming your way during this difficult time.
Stets
April 17, 2018
Thoughts and prayers for you all as you face this incredible loss... may God comfort you and give you peace with the blessed hope of seeing JIm again in glory...
Cheryl and Daniel Dubois
April 17, 2018
We extend our deepest sympathy to Jim`s family...
Jesse Colfer
April 17, 2018
Great teacher. Always positive and cared about his students. Jim made a lasting impression on me as a kid that wont be forgotten. Rest in Peace
Ron & Carolyn Lord
April 17, 2018
We extend our deepest sympathy to Jim's family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Sincerely,
Renee Wuertley
April 17, 2018
Jim, You were always nice to me while we were in school and I truly appreciated that. Thanks for making the effort to contact me for the second class reunion. I wish I had known you better. You will not be forgotten. Rest in peace.
Debbie Pierce Daskoski
April 17, 2018
My sincere sympathies to Jim's family at this difficult time. Jim will be sadly missed by so many people.
Jeffrey Hersom
April 17, 2018
Jim, appreciate the friendship and advise that you have provided to Robin and me over the last 20 years. I will never forget the help and support that you provided after the death of my daughter, Jerica. You will be missed but most of all, you will be remembered for your service to your clients and great look on life.Keep smiling my friend.
Jeff & Robin Hersom
Marcella Butler
April 17, 2018
Dear Jimmy, You have built a life of riches with such wonderful family and friends, and I am sorry you've left it so soon. My memories, Jim, of growing up down the street from you, playing in the playground as children, being in the same classrooms as you, and having the pleasure of seeing you from time to time around the town, is you are and always have been solid gold. Nothing will ever change that. My sincere sympathies to Jim's family; he was always a special person, exceptionally kind and thoughtful, and I am so sorry he has left this life so soon.
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