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1976
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2013
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Jason Carpenter Obituary
Jason graduated from Messalonskee High School in 1994 and also attended the University of Maine at Augusta, where he received his associate degree in criminal justice. After joining the Air Force in 1998, Jason was stationed at Vandenberg Air Force Base on the central coast of California, where he met his wife Crystal. Jason and Crystal were married May 12, 2001 at Notre Dame Catholic Church in Waterville, Maine. After his military service, Jason gained employment with the Federal Bureau of Prisons at the maximum security penitentiary in Lompoc, Calif., where he quickly gained the love and respect of many. In April 2012, Jason finally was able to obtain a transfer back to New England to a brand new federal facility in Berlin, N.H.; he was so happy to be coming home to his family once again who were so important to him.
Jason is survived by his loving wife, Crystal Carpenter; his father, O'Neil Carpenter; mother Judith Westman; brothers Timothy Carpenter, James Carpenter and his wife, Danielle, and their children Alicia, Christopher and Abby, Dave Boudreau, and Peter Boudreau and his wife, Jen, and their daughter, Olivia, and sons Alex, Ethan and Lucas; sisters Jacqueline Sweigart and husband Charles Sweigart, Violet White-Carpenter and sons Michael and Joseph Dorval, and Jodi Carpenter-Jones and husband Will Jones, and their daughters, Katie and Amanda Dale, and sons Nathaniel and Alex Jones. He is also survived by nephews Shawn and Bill Carpenter, who he grew up with and were like brothers to him; as well as many aunts and uncles, cousins, nieces and nephews, and his in-laws to whom he was the son they never had. He is also proud to be survived by an entire family of Bureau of Prisons Brothers and Sisters, an organization he was proud to be a part of from the beginning to the end.
A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated at 9 a.m. Friday, Nov. 15 at Notre Dame Catholic Church on Silver Street in Waterville. Visiting hours will be from noon to 2 and 4 to 6 p.m. Friday, Nov. 15 at Veilleux Funeral Home, 8 Elm St., Waterville. There will be a celebration of Jason's life for friends and family from 1 to 6 p.m. Saturday, Nov. 16 at the Fairfield Veterans of Foreign Wars. Committal prayers will take place at 8 a.m. Monday, Nov. 18 at St. Francis Catholic Cemetery in Waterville.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Pancreatic Cancer Action Network, 1500 Rosecrans Ave., Suite 200, Manhattan Beach, CA 90266; or to a blood donation center at an American Red Cross organization in your area.
Arrangements are under the care and direction of Veilleux Funeral Home, 8 Elm St., Waterville; www.veilleuxfunerslhome.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Jason Carpenter
Lisa Stanislaw
November 8, 2020
Always in our hearts ♥
Robert Lepper
November 16, 2013
I had the honor of serving with Jason at Vandenberg AFB. He was a man of integrity who I could trust to get the job done. We share your grief in this time of bereavement with deepest sympathy and condolence.
Gail Carpenter
November 16, 2013
Neal and Judy and family: I can't find the right words to say how sorry I am about losing your Jason. It seems like yesterday we were out to camp and he was just a teenager. I wish I could have been there today, but my thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.
Chad Davidson
November 16, 2013
I remember when I met Jason for the first time on (security) flight, he had a huge wad of chew, (RedMan chew) in his lip. We were all posted at Echo,(I think that's what it was) I was nervous on post and didn't know what to expect from my first post-briefing, I walked over to Carp, who was sitting in his guard shack, opening up a box of chow. I asked him "How he liked that post and if anyone ever stopped by, higher-ups?" He said "Just relax Davidson, no one ever comes out here" I wasn't comforted by what he said, but by his confidence and how he sounded. I was taken back by him! Carp was a very memorable person... RIP Bro, God Bless his family!
Joe, Gretchen, & Tristan Salley/Thibodeau
November 16, 2013
Crystal, when I think of Jason I remember his bright, loving and joyful personality! He always attacked life with a belief that all things were possible through faith, family, and love. Jason will never be forgotten in our hearts and minds his dedication and strength will carry those of us who loved him through. Now playing and resting peacefully in our heaven he is an angel whom will wait for all of us whom will join him someday in our Father's kingdom. I thank you for your love and caring knowing that your commitment to him and your love was something he treasured everyday of his life from your first moments until the end. There is no greater gift then to be truly loved and Jason was loved by so many. We hope you will remember you always have a home here in Maine, and unconditional love as that was what Jason gave so does the members of his family and we are a part of them. To the rest of our family Aunt Judy, Uncle Neil, an more we say that this pain will slowly lesson as the passage of time heals all but always know you are in our hearts and minds and we are here for you and love you all for there is nothing more important then family! Forever in our hearts love, Joe, Gretchen, & Tristan
Lisa Stanislaw
November 15, 2013
Judy,
My prayers and sympathy go out to you. No one can explain the hurt and emotions that come your way when you lose someone you love. I am here for you, just a phone call away. I worked right across the hall from Jason during activation. I will miss his smile, and his humor...978-833-4111. Anything you need.
SSgt. Robert Alvarez
November 15, 2013
We from the USAF Security Forces have lost a brother "Defender", he will be missed and will be remembered thru his duty to his family, God and his country. Deepest condolences for your loss, but know he is always with us.God Bless
Ian Brock
November 15, 2013
Rest in peace buddy! Go Red Sox!
Jerrod Klein
November 15, 2013
What I remember most about Jason was feeling like part of his family. We often call each other brothers and sisters in the military. With Jason, I always felt that way, and by the looks at some of the comments I have been reading, others feel that way too. Jason...brother, you will not be forgotten. Love ya!
Betty Carver-Brewer
November 15, 2013
Crystal, There are no words to ease your pain. I wish there were , I know the love the two of you had was a joy to behold. You are in my prayers and thoughts today and you will be for many from now. Love Always , Aunt Betty
Sandra Paulette
November 15, 2013
Neil & Judy & family, there are no words that can express the sadness in our hearts at the loss of your precious son. You are in our prayers and may God give you the strength to get through this.
Sandra and Ron Paulette
Michael Dunning
November 14, 2013
I had the wonderful honor of knowing Jason while we were stationed in California. We are both boys from Maine and of course had the GREAT love of the Red Sox. He was truly an awesome man and highly respected by everyone he came in contact with. With his passing, he will be truly missed.
Frank Vasquez
November 14, 2013
No words to express the hurt and pain.... I am truly sorry for your loss....he is and always will be missed and loved. It was an honor and pleasure knowing and serving with him.
anne HODGDON
November 14, 2013
Oneil, our very deepest sympathy on the loss of your young son Jason...I know how you feel cause I also lost my son at 27 yrs old...Please know that you are all in my prayers..God bless you all...Your cousin Evelyn and Anne
Scott Gouge
November 14, 2013
I am so sorry to hear of the sudden passing of Jason. While we never met, I feel as though I too knew him, all my love and prayers go out to his wife Crystal who I count as a dear friend, and all his loved ones. Be comforted knowing Jason is with Jesus now.
hugh and robin doucette
November 14, 2013
Neal and family so sorry to hear about the loss of Jason, he was a great kid and turned out to be a wonderful man. remember him and our kids playing together when we rented from you .just know that now he is in a better place where there is no pain and is with our heavenly father. Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always. -
November 14, 2013
Judy, Jodi, Pete, Dave, Evelyn, Barb and family~We are so very sorry for your unexpected loss....Jason was an amazing man!!! Our thoughts are with you all!
Our love to all and our deepest sympathies~Debbie & Jerry Madore
Gwyneth Bown
November 14, 2013
Judy, I am so sorry and heart broken to hear of the loss of Jason. It is so sad when someone in their prime of life is taken so young. I think of you often and will keep you close to my heart in this difficult time. Please pass on my sympathies to your fmaily. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
With all my love Gwyneth
Michael Machado
November 14, 2013
My families thoughts and prayers are with you all. Jayson and Crystal are dear friends and we grieve together in this difficult time. Jayson was a big brother to me, and I know he will be with us forever. Watching us from heaven, sending his love. Rest in peace big brother, we love you dearly.
sabrina doucette
November 14, 2013
So sorry for your loss... Our prays are with you all..
PAULINE CARPENTER
November 14, 2013
MY HEART GOES OUT TO THE CARPENTERS
November 14, 2013
To the Carpenter/Boudreau Families,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of times spent together and that you all continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
If you need anything at all, please let us know.
Love & Hugs,
Jeff, Michele & Adam Clukey
Norridgewock, ME
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