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Jack Deering
FALMOUTH - John William Deering, loving husband, father, father-in-law, grandfather, good friend and mentor to so many, died on January 11, 2015, after a brief illness. He was surrounded by his devoted family, close friends, and the talented staff at Mercy Hospital.
"Call me, Jack," was his constant introduction. His welcoming spirit brought an instant rapport with all those who met him.
Jack was the elder son of John and Eleanor Trefethen Deering of Portland. His brother, Robinson and sister, Tref, predeceased him. Jack's fondest memories of his childhood hail from Ferry Village in South Portland as well as Cape Elizabeth.
Jack was a proud, "Mainer," and a passionate advocate of its lakes, mountains, and ocean where he longed to be. A jock, Jack excelled in football, basketball, and baseball at South Portland High School and later at Governor Dummer Academy. There, he was Captain of the baseball team and elected Class President, class of 1947. In 1997, his 50th reunion, he returned as Baccalaureate speaker and received the Alumnus of the Year designation.
If you knew Jack, you knew Colby College. He began his extensive education on the original, "Downtown Campus," where he gleaned many lessons from the WWII veterans and the Waterville community. He was a baseball and basketball teammate and later, the president of Zeta Psi fraternity. His junior year, he matriculated in Texas, at Southern Methodist University, but after one year, he headed back to Maine. Upon his return, he worked for his great mentor, George Robinson, as a truck driver for King Cole Potato Chips, while also joining the Maine National Guard 102 AC+W , based at Fort Preble, (now Southern Maine Community College), in 1951. Later that year, his Air Force unit was activated to duty and ordered overseas to Wheeler's Field, Tripoli, North Africa, in service of the Korean War.
At the insistence of his mother, Eleanor, Jack returned to Colby and the new, "Mayflower Hill," campus in 1953. There, he met his wife of almost sixty years, Ann Burnham of Wellesley, Mass. Jack and Ann graduated together and married soon after graduation in June, 1955.
Jack began his career in the investment business in Boston, MA. He returned again, to beloved Maine where he honed his salesman skills at various investment firms with his loyal business partner, Carl Barker. Together, they formed Barker Deering Associates which was eventually acquired by Paine Webber in 1981. Jack and Carl's financial planning model and their contrasting talents, contributed to over thirty years of success. Jack would say to Carl, "I'll bring 'em; you fix 'em."
Jack loved working in his native city of Portland. He was known for doing his best work while walking down Congress Street, shaking hands with the people he knew while simultaneously, introducing himself to complete strangers. He was a master at networking and connecting people.
Jack was eternally grateful for his connection to Colby. He was the face of Colby to anyone in the Portland area. "Colby Jack," didn't miss any opportunity to promote the college. He particularly enjoyed being surrounded by Colby friends and students at sporting events, especially when Colby was beating Bowdoin!
Jack served as a Colby Trustee from 1979-81, was a president of the Portland Alumni Association, a perennial alumni interviewer, member of the Alumni Council and athletic recruiter. Jack was awarded the "C" Club Man of the Year in 1962, received the Colby Brick Award in 1968, and the Marriner Distinguished Alumnus Award in 1994.
The proudest success of Jack's life was his family: wife, Ann Burnham Deering of Falmouth, ME, daughter, Janet Deering Bruen and her husband, Phil Bruen of Falmouth, ME, daughter, Ellen Deering, of Portland, ME, son, Richard B. Deering of South Portland, ME and four granddaughters: Elizabeth, Suzanne, Mary, and Maggie Bruen. Jack cherished time spent collectively and individually with his children and grandchildren alike, going on trips with the Maine Audubon, skiing, travelling, "dancing" and just being in their company.
Jack, Dad, "Fuddees," listened, offered counsel, and showered great affection, and love and support to so many. Jack loved life and loved people. And, best of all, that love was returned to him.
The Deering family thanks the wonderful, caring, staff at Bay Square, Yarmouth.
Honoring Jack's request, there will be no visiting hours or service. A reception in his honor will be held at a later date at the Portland Country Club, whose staff has graciously served the Deering family for so many years. On-line condolences may be share at: www.hobbsfuneralhome.com

In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made on line at gift or by mail to: Colby College, Attn: Jack Deering Maine Scholarship Fund, 4335 Mayflower Hill, Waterville, ME 04901, and/or: The Governor's Academy, 1 Elm Street, Byfield, MA 01922, c/o The Governor's Fund, or online at www.thegovernorsacademy.org/giving. Your donations are greatly appreciated.

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Published by Central Maine from Jan. 15 to Jan. 18, 2015.

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John Dutton

January 28, 2015

Dear Ann and family,very sorry to learn of Jack's passing. He was a great family man, friend and a credit to Colby College that he so vigorously supported. I am ever more
grateful to have seen both of you during my last trip to Maine. Rest in peace, Jack.

January 23, 2015

Dear Deering family,

I have just learned of your loss. My heart goes out to all of you.

Jack was the nicest man i have ever had the pleasure of being able to call "friend".In the past, he would stop by my office with each visit to the campus. I felt greatly honored.

He was so proud of his family, each time we spoke all of you were part of his conversation.

My prayers go out to you. God bless you and give you strength at this time.

I will never forget his warm smile and biger than life personality.

Allen LaPan-Tillson
Cotter Union Post Office
Colby College
Waterville Maine 04901

Carol McDonald

January 22, 2015

Ann, Janet, Ellen and Rich I was so sadden to hear of Jack's passing. So glad to have had that last wonderful visit with him last summer. I was blessed to know such a wonderful man and all his knowledge and funny stories. He was a hoot to work with and for, kept me on my toes from time to time. I will miss him dearly. God Bless him and all of your family.

Lesli Pike

January 21, 2015

The world has lost a treasure of a man. I am blessed to have known and worked with him and will forever be grateful for his kindness. I will cherish my memories. Rest peacefully Jack. With deep sympathy to Ann and the entire Deering family.

January 20, 2015

Ann,Janet,Richard and Ellen
Our sincerest sympathy on Jack's passing.
He was a sincere, unique and humble man who could always make you smile. He loved life and people of all walks of life. Ann, he truly loved you and always said how lucky he was to have you in his life. Stay strong and keep your faith, you have a great family and many friends.
Love, Vera Hall and Dan

Robert Haley

January 20, 2015

Simply put, Jack was one of the greatest guys I have ever met. He was a "man's man" who was also not afraid of that little 4-letter word "Love." Unlike a lot of guys, he used the word sincerely and freely. He had this uncanny ability to teach you something without you realizing you'd just been schooled. I remember with great fondness how we would solve the problems of the world over a few frosty cold beers (always from the fridge in the garage!). I am a better man today because of the time I spent with Jack Deering.

Kathryn Ludwig

January 20, 2015

Dear Mrs. Deering and family, My sincere condolences on your loss. My mother cherished the time spent with you and your husband at Colby and beyond. She would write or call if she could, but since she is unable, please accept my sympathy on her behalf. With affection, Kathy Ludwig, for Margaret Grant Ludwig

January 19, 2015

To the Deering Family, You are all in my thoughts and prayers during this very sad time. Husband, Dad, and grandfather is in such a better place and you may talk to him at anytime. Love to you all, Sandy Cushman

Michael Montgomery

January 19, 2015

So sad to hear of Jack's passing. Like with Judy, he and I worked the "Mike and Jack Show" with Colby admissions (he'd insist on using my name as top billing"!) and lunch at Ricetta's with him was always a hoot. I've missed, and will always fondly remember, our chats-- warm, silly, feisty-- and how wise he was... and wise-cracking! Thanks for letting us share the world with you, Jack-- and to Ann, Rich, Ellen, Janet and the family, thanks for sharing him with us for so long.

January 19, 2015

Dear Mrs Deering, Janet, Rich and Ellen, You are in our thoughts and prayers...will miss Jack's calls and input! Always appreciated his support of Colby and the soccer program.
Sincerely, Mark and Tina Serdjenian

January 18, 2015

I have fond memories of Jack.......connee turcotte

Kippy Jamison

January 18, 2015

Janet, Ellen and family,
Our deepest sympathy to all of you....you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Kippy and Dave Jamison

January 18, 2015

Janet, Rich and Family
I am so sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. May you find comfort in the memories you all share. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Becky Allyn

Scott Sawyer

January 17, 2015

Mrs. Deering, Janet, Ellen and Rich,

Please accept my heartfelt condolences. Jack Deering was a very special mentor to me and many others. I will forever be grateful to him and I will miss him.

Warmest regards,

Scott Sawyer

January 17, 2015

"He [was] a man way out there in the blue, riding on a shoeshine and a smile"

January 16, 2015

He was one amazing guy! We enjoyed being partners running the "Jack and Judy" show for Cooby admissions! When the phone rang and it was Jack on the line I knew I was in for a really good day! All our lives are richer having had the opportunity to be Jack's friend, My love to each member of his very special family. Judy Brody

Sally Baker

January 16, 2015

My deepest sympathies to Ann and Janet and the whole family. So many wonderful memories of "Colby Jack."

Pam Russell

January 16, 2015

To Janet, Phil and Family - We were so sorry to hear of Jack's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you come to terms with your sad loss. We can see that at least one of the apples has not fallen far from the tree! Love and hugs - Don and Pam Russell

Dave White

January 16, 2015

I know that there are a host of comments on this site. Let me add mine. Jack was a good friend. He helped me in many ways. From business to personal. What more can you ask. He led a good and fruitful life. As we say in the sailing community "8 bells my friend"

Kirk Paul

January 16, 2015

Janet & Phil - I will miss seeing Jack with the two of you and your girls on my future trips to Mayflower Hill. I will hold fond memories of him during our time at Colby and all the years since. Our prayers are with you, Ann and your girls.

Lynn Mosher Bushnell

January 16, 2015

Jack was a great friend to my Dad and Mom, Bert and Marguerite Mosher, for many years. I was honored to know him and spend time with him at many events when I worked at Colby. He was a great person.

Barbara Briggs

January 16, 2015

Rich,
The Briggs Family including Tom, John, and Bill remember your Dad with affection and gratitude for his great spirit and hospitality. Our sympathy to you and your family. Barbara Briggs

Sharon Duffield

January 16, 2015

My thoughts go out to your entire loving family. I will always smile when I think of Jack. I learned a lot from him. He was a gift.

Lorraine Fecteau

January 16, 2015

What a wonderful tribute to what sounds like a good man. I did not know him but I'm willing to wager he would not only be honored but also humbled to read such words about him. What a legacy. Eternal rest grant to him, O Lord, and may Your perpetual light shine upon him.

January 16, 2015

Dear Deering Family, We send our deepest sympathies, Jack was one in a million and will be greatly missed by so many people.
He always had a smile and a story to share. Nancy & Bill Aceto

Susan Deschambault

January 15, 2015

Hard to describe the wonderful relationship that I had with Jack for 30 years! Jack, you will be missed! I am a better person for having known you! May the wind be at your back. My deepest sympathy to Ann, Janet, Ellen, Richard and the rest of the Deering Clan

Bob Kinney

January 15, 2015

Janet, Phil and family. He was just a gem, and so proud of you all. As hard as his passing must be, he was such a bright light in life that the glow he left in you, your Mom and families - as well as in Maine and at Colby, will never be extinguished. Much love, and God Bless you.

Anne Litchfield

January 15, 2015

I work at Bay Square and got to know Jack and his family very well. He was a proud dad, grandfather and husband, proud of Colby College and I enjoyed our talks together. Jack was always inspirational and I appreciated his wisdom, wit and always willing to share it. He will be greatly missed. Anne

January 15, 2015

Thank you for your service.

Ed and Molly McDuffie

January 15, 2015

Dear Ann and Family , Molly and I are so sorry to hear of Jacks passing. I saw Him at the Nursing Home at Christmas time while I was back in Maine and had a great visit . I always enjoyed to have Him with me on the Tugboats and I know He enjoyed it also .Jack was a Great Friend .

Janet Roberts

January 15, 2015

Janet and Phil and family, I'm so sorry! He was such a welcoming, gracious, and funny guy every time I was with him and your Mom at Colby or at your house, Janet. Big hugs. My thoughts are with you! xxoo

January 15, 2015

Ann and Family. I am stunned at Jack's passing. I sit here in Minnesota but Jack has always been close. I hope to see you this summer when I get back to Maine. My thoughts are with you.

God Bless.....Dave Roberts

Samantha Becker

January 15, 2015

Jack was a mentor,a good friend and will always hold a dear place in my heart. He always had time to give encouragement when you needed it most and great smile to seal the deal. I feel so fortunate to have seen him before he passed. Good night, Jack - it was a great dance! To Ann and family you're in our thoughts and feel your loss deeply.

Amy Brown O'Shea

January 15, 2015

Janet and Ellen, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your father. I remember one night after a huge group of us had been out Christmas caroling, he welcomed us all in to warm up and was the most gracious host! My deepest sympathy.

John Hutchins IV

January 15, 2015

Jack was a great man. I met him while being recruited to play football at Colby. He was so very interested in my future even though we had only met and was extremely excited when I decided to attend Colby. He will always hold a special place in my heart from my years at Colby. Godspeed Jack and wishing all the best to your family at this difficult time!

fay brooks

January 15, 2015

Ann Richard an family,SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS, HE WAS A FUNNY GUY
in my prayers
fay brooks

January 15, 2015

Ann & Family,So sorry to hear of Jack^s passing, he was a good man as well as a good neighbor. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Bob Gold

Seth Wheeler

January 15, 2015

I'm so glad this obit captures Jack's spirit! He was a great help to me as a young Colby grad. I still remember one piece of advice: if someone's done something nice for you, you're never too busy to write them a note! Jack was the consummate communicator. He thrived off his connections with other humans. He was one of a kind and will be dearly missed. Hail Colby Jack!

Ann, Rich, Janet, Ellen - Bea and I send our deepest condolences and look forward to connecting with you at PCC.

Tim Scott

January 15, 2015

The world has lost on if its rarest birds, a man who could make you feel as if you were the only one who mattered. Miss you already, Jack, and lots of love to Ann, Ellen, Richard and the rest of the family...

Wayne Richards

January 15, 2015

Jack was a great man. I met him while working at the Bay Club in Portland. He was so kind, and always had a nice word to say. Rest in Peace Jack!

Sally Johnson

January 15, 2015

Ann,so sad to read of Jack's death.He was a man that never met a stranger.He will be missed by so many.my thoughts are with your family at this difficult time.Stay strong.

Peter Godsoe

January 15, 2015

Deering Family - my sincerest condolences for the loss of Jack. He was truly the "Mayor " of his world, no matter the time or place. He always captured your attention and lead the conversation with a rare natural skill set. Rest in Peace Jack.

Peter Godsoe

Judy O'Hara

January 15, 2015

Janet and Family, So sorry for your loss! This generation was one of a kind! My "nerd birds" are missed every day and the memories have become cherished! Again, my sincere condolences -

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