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PAUL ERNEST "PAULY" BILODEAU

PAUL BILODEAU Obituary

SKOWHEGAN -- Paul Ernest "Pauly" Bilodeau, of Skowhegan, and formerly of Palm Bay, Fla., and Augusta, passed away peacefully on March 28, 2013, at his birthplace, Redington-Fairview General Hospital in Skowhegan. Paul was surrounded by his devoted family as he surrendered to complications of COPD that he endured over the past three years.

Paul was born on Dec. 3, 1958, one of five children to Wallace A. and Priscilla Dionne Bilodeau. He graduated from Skowhegan Area High School, class of 1978, where he developed a love for cooking in the culinary arts program. After a brief enlistment in the U.S. Navy in 1979, Paul began his cooking career starting in his hometown restaurants, including Mama Baldacci's, Charrier's, Charlie's Donuts and the Old Mill Pub. Paul continued his cooking career after moving to Palm Bay in the late 1990s, where he worked for Friendly's until poor health forced his retirement in 2010. He was a former member of the Skowhegan-Madison Elks Lodge, where he enjoyed socializing with his many friends.

Paul enjoyed spending time with his family and friends, both here in Maine and in Florida. He was a devoted Red Sox, Celtics, Patriots and Bruins fan. He enjoyed attending their sporting events, especially the pre-season ballgames with his special Aunt Jet and her family. One of Paul's favorite pastimes was traveling the East Coast and Canada with his dad, his traveling buddy. In recent years, Paul really enjoyed his online community of friends, especially those who played word challenge games and puzzles with him.

Paul was predeceased by his parents; grandparents; and a nephew, Nicholas B. Gamage. He is survived by his devoted siblings, John (Juline), Ann Gamage, of Skowhegan, Mary (Richard) Callan, of North Belgrade, and Peter (Douglas Brotzman), of Corbett, Ore.; nephew Brett (Jennifer); nieces Adria, AmbrŽ, Olivia and Maria; great-niece Kimberley; and great-nephew Mark.

The family and relatives would like to thank all of Paul's friends who have corresponded with and visited Paul, keeping his spirits high during his illness, especially his dear lifelong friends, Michael Pineau and Richard McCarthy.

The family would also like to thank the staff of the following caregiving facilities that provided Paul with such devoted and dignified care: The Inn at City Hall, the VA at Togus, MaineGeneral Health in Augusta and Waterville, and especially Woodlawn Nursing Center and Redington-Fairview General Hospital in Skowhegan.

Funeral services and a celebration of Paul's life will be announced and held at a later date.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Redington-Fairview General Hospital or to the Wounded Warrior Project in Paul's memory.

Funeral arrangements are being provided by Dan and Scott's Cremation and Funeral Service of Skowhegan.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Morning Sentinel on Mar. 30, 2013.

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Gerald & Vi Kyes

April 2, 2013

We are so sorry to hear of Paul's passing but know he is in God's hands enjoying his company. May you be comforted by all the fond memories of Paul's life with you.

Jack Gordon

March 31, 2013

To Paul's family and friends. I'm sorry to hear of his passing. We were buddies as kids trading comic books and baseball cards and just being kids. The memories will always be there. Keep those close to your heart. My thoughts are with you at this sad time.

adria bilodeau-callan

March 31, 2013

My Dear Sweet, Funny Uncle Paul,
Words can't begin to express the sorrow I am feeling over losing you. You were my hereo along with Pappy growing up! I'll always remeber our trip to Florida together to meet Pappy there...to this day I'm not sure who was leading who you crazy fool you!!!!! I'm MORE SORRY THAN YOU WILL EVER KNOW HAT I WAS NOT AWARE OF YOUR IMMINENT DEATH! Wild horses would not have been able to keep me away from saying our last words to on another Uncle Paul. But I'm going to take some words that the man who meant more to the both of us than any other man in this world... Wally.... he said, "Stop this all of you and love eachother,promise me that you will love each other and learn to forgive." Those words have been echoing in my head since the moment I heard of your death Uncle Paul.Because somehow they have a meaning that they didnt have at the time they were spoken...maybe it was becase i was too young(living life wise) at the time, but i get it now and for some reason i think you may have said those same words to me as i sat on the edge of your hospital bed if i had just known you were there and hat it was the end......
So enough of sad teary-eyeed goodbye..... i will think of you always and it will be with a smile, i will remember you forever with that up-to-no-good-grin on your face and i will alwas raise a glass with a cheers and a tear for you Uncle Paul..ALWAYS and FOREVER... your heart broken niece ,
DEEDLES (ADRIA)

Pauline Morin

March 31, 2013

My thoughts and prayers to all of Paul's family . A great person and friend to many. Great memories of good times . Will miss him at the SAHS Class of 78 reunions. Will also miss our chats on line and our games we played together on line . I Will remember the last game on wednesday night at 10 pm. Rest in peace Paul . xoxoxo

Ruth Blood

March 31, 2013

Sincere condolences to Paul's family. You are in my thoughts.
Ruth Blood

March 31, 2013

John, Ann, Mary, and Peter--- so sorry to hear about the passing of Paul. My memories of growing up on Dyer Street and spending so many fun times at the lake with your family, I will always treasure. You are in our thoughts. Love, Barb Provost and family.

Irene Bolduc

March 30, 2013

Loved Paul. Didn't realize he was ill. it's been many years since we've hung out. A fantastic and so funny. Sorry for your loss but thank you for sharing a great person!

March 30, 2013

Ann and family,So sorry to hear of Paul's passing he was such a good person.Reggie and I had a lot of fun times with him...I heard he spent a lot of nights on the couch in Reggies house on the hill.Our sincere condolences..Reggie&Tina

Lorraine Garcia (Gilbert)

March 30, 2013

To the family of Paul Bilodeau, my thoughts and prayers are with you. RIP Paul.

Rusty and Patty Farrin

March 30, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers to all of Pauly's family. He will be missed we had many good times together over the years. God Bless

Valerie Michaud

March 30, 2013

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

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