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Jeffrey York Obituary
SCARBOROUGH -- Jeffrey W. York, 51, of South Portland, died unexpectedly on Monday, Aug. 13, 2012, after a brief illness.
Jeff had a dramatic impact on all those around him. He was an extraordinarily giving, warm and friendly individual. He was a person who gave so completely of himself that no one who knew him ever wanted for anything. Jeff was predeceased by his mother Shirley whom he loved dearly, his father Herb and his step-father Ronald Jordan.
Jeff was a 1979 graduate of Portland High School. After receiving his Culinary arts degree from SMVTI, he began his long career in the food industry until achieving his dream of owning his own catering company, York's Catering of South Portland.
Jeff enjoyed music, casinos, avidly loved all New England sports teams and skiing especially as a coach for the Maine Special Olympics. Most importantly, he loved spending quality time with family and friends.
He is survived by his wife of 27 years, Theresa Baker York; and his two sons, Seth and William. He was the beloved son-in-law of Bo and Judy Baker; his brother Robert and wife Julie, his brother Richard and his sister Linda; one brother-in-law Cole Baker and wife Alex; and many nieces, nephews and cousins. He will be sadly missed by the close knit family of Yorks Catering, especially Jay and Pam Gerrish.
Visiting hours will be held from 4-7 p.m. on Thursday, Aug. 16, 2012, at the Hobbs Funeral Home, 230 Cottage Rd., South Portland. A funeral service will be held at 11 a.m. on Friday, Aug. 17, at the First Congregational Church in South Portland.
In lieu of flowers, contributions
may be made to:
Maine Special Olympics
125 John Roberts Rd. #5
South Portland, Maine 04106
Jeffrey W. York
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Memories and Condolences
for Jeffrey York
Jolie
August 8, 2021
I think about Jeff everyday, as well as Terri, Seth, and Will. Jeff was so good to me and Victoria. When we needed a father perspective, he always made time.
Personally, jeff and I shared so many laughs. That´s how I keep him in my mind. Laughing.
September 7, 2012
We were deeply saddened by the news of Jeff's passing. We truly enjoyed working with Jeff. We could always joke around with him and expect the same fun and humor back. We know Jeff really enjoyed driving our yellow truck that leaked!!!We never heard the end of that one. May God Bless you Terry in these difficult days to come. Hopefully wonderful memories will help soften your sorrow.
Sincerely, Mark & Pamela Tibbetts
September 6, 2012
My condolences to all of the family. Went to high school with Jeff, he was such a kind and compassionate person. Kym
Debbie Drown-Whitmore-Spurlock
August 20, 2012
Terry & Family, I am so saddend to hear about Jeff.My heart goes out to all of your family.I so enjoyed working with and for him so many year's ago.Please give my codolences to Linda as well,Sincerly Deb's
August 20, 2012
I am so saddened to hear of Jeff's passing.He was truly a very special person.His big giving heart,always smiling and engaging.The world seems more empty now knowing he isn't here.He will be missed.I worked with him at Woodfords Club,he was such a giver.Noel DeYoung
Jonathan Weld
August 20, 2012
Terry and family, I am so sorry to hear about this. I saw him give his talent and joy of life to the special needs adults in the ski program where he had an extraordinary ability to find a way around difficulties and help raise people to their shining moments. I'm sure they will never forget his honest caring, and I will always cherish the lessons he taught with lightness and laughter.
~May Jeff's "Light" Shine within Us Always~
Corlea Wahl
August 18, 2012
My prayers and thoughts are with you Terry, Seth and Will and your entire family as well. Jeff always being such a sweet person, and a great brother-in-law to me in the past.
His eyes "sparkled" when he smiled, and his laughter filled the room with "Love and Warmth!"
May you feel peace with the knowledge that the Lord holds him close by his side. ~Corie~
rosemarie carpenter (powers_
August 18, 2012
Babysat jeffrey when he was a little boy, so spirited and kind as i remember. My mom was his Mom's best friend (Carmen Carpenter). He was just like his Mom, so caring and fun. So sad for your loss.
Susan Albert
August 17, 2012
Terry, Seth and William,
I am sorry about loss. I remember at swim meets that Jeff would always say hi to me with a big smile on his face. I enjoyed the time I did spend with him and he was a very caring person who always brightened up my day! He will be missed very much.
Gina and Joe Sandora
August 16, 2012
Our deepest sympathies are with you. We are sorry to hear of Jeff's passing. He had amazing energy. He was always busy but seemed to have just enough time to give you.
Lynn Lennox & Laura Gans
August 16, 2012
Dear Terry, Will and Seth, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. It seems like not too long ago that I would come to your house to drop off or pick up Laura in the days when she and Will would hang out together. Jeff was always friendly and had a quick wit and great sense of humor. I can remember sitting with Jeff at the high school auditorium during an interminable middle school production. I thought we'd get thrown out from laughing too much. He was a great guy. Laura and I are thinking of you all at this very difficult time.
Gil Donatelli
August 16, 2012
Dear Terry and family -
I am so saddened to hear of Jeff's passing...Jeff loved, his family, his employees (who were also his family) music, food, travel, LIFE.... so inspiring to see him "work" and be in his presence....Jeff's work was his love made visible....I am grateful to have had the chance to work with Jeff and you again for two years -- to be reunited with a man whose work blessed so many people's significant events, who mentored youth, who gave and gave and gave unselfishly in every direction. Sincerest condolences and prayers for your consolation, Gil
August 16, 2012
Jeff will always have a special place in my heart. He made working a pleasure. An experience not many bosses can claim. He was not only a wonderful boss but a great friend. It breaks my heart to know that he is not with us physically but will always be in our hearts. My most deepest smypathyies to Terry,
Seth and William
The Flaherty Family
August 16, 2012
Jeff's laughter and banter is already deeply missed by all of his friends and neighbors on Bayview Ave
Cherie
August 16, 2012
I am so sorry to hear of Jeff's passing. I worked with him on a number of events he catered for a company I worked for. He was a such a pleasure to work with and the food was delicious. My deepest sympathies to you.
Holly Leslie
August 16, 2012
Terry and family - Our Deepest sympathies to you and your family. You are in our thoughts. Holly, Dean, Ian and Reegan Leslie (Pine Tree Swim Team)
Angela York
August 16, 2012
This is such sad news. I keep going back in my thoughts to HS where I met him. This is simply unbelievable.. I'm so sorry. My Prayers and thoughts are with you and your family
August 15, 2012
I remember all the great conversations with Jeff in HS and when I occasionally bumped into him over the years, always a smile on his face. He is surely someone I will always remember from HS. My thoughts and prayers to your family, Annemarie D'Alfonso-DiMillo
Tom Doherty
August 15, 2012
Jeff was a great friend to Camp Ketcha and he will be deeply missed by everyone here. He could be counted on the run Breakfast with Santa or help get Martini Madness off the ground. Jeff always refused to accept any recognition when ever it was offered formally. Probably Jeff's biggest contribution was his coaching of our staff in the business of running a good event rental program. He understood his business well and was generous with his time in helping us. I witnessed Jeff even helping other caterers when they forgot items, didn't allow enough time to set up or otherwise got themselves into trouble. Jeff was one of the very first people I met when I came to Camp Ketcha and his welcome was wonderful. He was the consummate professional and his advice, sense of humor and unflappable competence will be missed by Camp Ketcha and our community as a whole.
Susan Russo
August 15, 2012
Jeff was a friend and classmate, One of a kind! My deepest sympathy to his entire family. May the memories of the love you shared help to ease your heartache. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Krista Moore
August 15, 2012
We are so sorry to hear of this loss. He was a really fun person, and he was great at what he did. He always had a big smile on his face, and was so upbeat. He catered our wedding for us, and I can still taste his ravioli! He will be missed by many.
Erin Grady
August 15, 2012
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Jeff catered a couple events for me and was so great to work with. He was very upbeat and helpful. I could tell how much he enjoyed life.
He will be missed. You are all in my thoughts!
Jolie Parker
August 15, 2012
The profound grief that is breaking my heart will someday be healed by the love that has bonded our families for many years. His songs, smiles, and laughs will resonate forever in my heart.
August 15, 2012
Aunt Terry, Cousins Seth and William
I am so sorry to hear about Jeff. It caught me so off guard I am at a loss for words. I love you all very much.
Sincerest condolences,
Ryan
Lisa & Marisa Risbara
August 14, 2012
Terry,Seth & Will
We are so sorry to hear of Jeff's passing, he was always there to make you smile & laugh. He was a great man to work for, and a wonderful person to learn the business from. He will be greatly missed.
Shelley Jackson
August 14, 2012
Dear Terry, Seth, William and the rest of the family,
Let your memories comfort you at this most difficult time. I am deeply sorry for your loss.
Many warm thoughts,
Shelley
Donna Piscopo
August 14, 2012
Our heartfelt condolences to all of you. We have worked with Jeff for as long as I can remember. He was a wonderful man, and an attribute to the world of all things culinary. Jeff will be missed. Tom and Donna( The Cookie Jar Pastry Shop)
Cammy Reali
August 14, 2012
We are so sorry for your loss. Jeff worked with me at Amato's long ago and he was so well liked. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during these difficult times. Much love to your family. Cammy & Frank Reali
August 14, 2012
Terry, Seth and Will,
We are so sorry to hear of Jeff's passing. Please know that you are all in our prayers and we are thinking of you. Jeff is one of those people you don't soon forget. Sending you hugs.
Jim and Katie Hatch
Wendi Belanger
August 14, 2012
Terry, Seth and Will,
My deepest sympathies to you all during this most difficult time. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Jeff was a wonderful man,I always enjoyed his stories.
Wendi (Hair Excitement)
J Gorham
August 14, 2012
My sincere condolences to William York on the passing of his father. I was sent here by way of Nicholas DeHaas, and I understand that you knew him through SP Swimming. Having lost my father back in August of 2010, I can only say that it is a downright miserable experience to lose someone you have known and loved dearly for your entire human existence. Time will pass, but the pain will remain, as it will with all men who have experienced such.
Dead, but not gone, never gone. A memory can not be destroyed, as a legacy cannot be undone. Thrive, laugh, and live as happily and as fully as you can. It is what he would want for you, as all fathers would want for their sons.
Heidi, Rob, & C-Note Vickery
August 14, 2012
Terry, Seth, William and family,
We are so sorry to hear of Jeff's passing. He was such a great, funny, famly oriented man - We send our thoughts, prayers, & love to all of you during this difficult time.
We sure are going to miss 'Mr.' Jeff (as Caleb called him a/k/a C-Note)greatly.
Mike, Lynne & Melanie Cousins
August 14, 2012
Dear Terry, Seth, and William,
We have such fond memories of Jeff, through working with him on South Portland Swim Boosters, and our business. He always made us smile & laugh, with his funny stories. We will miss him! Thinking of you of all during this difficult time.
Sandy Greenberg
August 14, 2012
I have no words...except thanks Jeffrey for always thinking of me and sending your love.
Tiffanie Panagakos
August 14, 2012
Terry and Family, so sorry to hear of your loss, times like these are a test of strength. Stay strong and be well! Crystal and Tiffanie
Michelle and Mark Claussen
August 14, 2012
Always with a smile and a laugh, you knew when Jeff entered a room. Since meeting a few short years ago, Jeff was always available for advice or a good chat about the catering profession that we share. He will be sadly missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing him.
We wish you all comfort in your memories and stories that will be shared in the days and weeks to come.
Always keep his laughter in your heart...it was surely one not to be forgotten.
Please accept our deepest condolences.
August 14, 2012
I was so saddened to hear of Jeff's passing. He catered many events for my employer and was a joy to work with. He spoke so lovingly of his family and enjoyed having his Dad work with him. My deepest sympathy to his family and friends.
Lisa, Gorham
Richard, Heidi and Hannah DeCourcey
August 14, 2012
Terry, Seth and William,
I can't believe he's gone, he was also one of my favorite people. He was such a gifted and generous person. He spoke about you always with love and humor. He was truly a great friend and he left this world a better place.
Our thoughts are with you all.
Marcia Hill
August 14, 2012
Dear Terry and sons,
Jeff was a unique man;
generous,funny,excellent chef,dedicated husband & father,mentor,friend. Individually those traits did not make him unique, but Jeff's special combination of each touched so many people.
My heart is breaking for your loss.
classmate, SMVTI class of 1981
Teresa Morin
August 14, 2012
Dear York Family, you don't know me but I knew Jeff since Jr high at Lyman Moore and all through Portland High School. Jeff was one of my favorite people. He always had a smile on his face and a very kind heart and was fun to be around. I have thought of him often over the years, and seeing him from time to time was such a nice surprise. I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Jeff will be missed.
Joan and Dolph Holmes
August 14, 2012
Rest in peace our friend knowing you will always be loved and missed by us.
Lesley and Mike Hurley
August 14, 2012
Terry, Seth and Will,
I am so sorry for you all! Jeff was one of my most favorite people in the whole world...his smile and bright, teasing eyes would always put a smile on my face! I wish you peace and comfort in knowing that he is making others smile in heaven now!
We are praying for you all!
xoxo
Larry & Yolanda Mills
August 14, 2012
Terry,
Our deepest condolences to you and your family. We all loved Jeff and cannot believe he is gone.
Jeff will be missed, especially by Greg, who looked up to Jeff and was a wonderful friend and mentor. As we're sure you know, Greg thought the world of Jeff and truly appreciated his relationship with Jeff as a boss and a friend. I'm sure Jeff helped contribute to how Greg has grown into a young man, and we thank you for that.
Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers and that we are here to help in any way we can.
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