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Thomas Daniel Daffron, 45 LIMERICK -- Thomas Daniel Daffron, 45, much loved son of Thomas Anthony Daffron and Margot Cory Daffron died unexpectedly Aug. 30, 2009. He was born on Jan. 17, 1964 in Wilmington, Del. Tommy lived at the Spurwink-Limerick Group Home in Limerick for 24 years. He was autistic and non-verbal, but he learned to communicate using a letter board. He often talked of his passion for horseback riding, dogs, cats, horses, the Red Sox, and the Seadogs. He said he was a lucky guy to have good friends and family. His family wishes to express their profound gratitude to all the staff a the Spurwink-Limerick Group Home for their great kindness and their loving care of Tommy. We would particularly like to thank Paul Hopkins, his best friend and caregiver for all 24 years. We would also like to thank Donna Thurston of Winterberry Farms for 20 years of patient and dedicated therapeutic riding instruction. Tommy is survived by his father, Thomas A. of Shady Side, Md., his mother Margot C. of Portland; his sister Susan Corey Daffron and her husband James Byrd of Sandpoint, Idaho, and his sister Cynthia Miles Daffron of Takoma Park, Md. He is also survived by his aunts and uncles Kathy and Chuck DeGrace of Portland, John and Cindy Cory of Cranston, R.I., Elizabeth Daffron of Gulfport, Fla., and Carolyn Daffron and her husband Richard Weishaupt of Philadelphia, Pa.; and numerous cousins. A celebration of Tommy's life will be held in October in Maine. Donations in his memory may be made to: Spurwink Services 899 Riverside St. Portland, Maine 04103 or Winterberry Farms 33 Chandler Brook Rd. North Yarmouth, Maine 04097 Jones, Rich & Hutchins Funeral Home & Cremation Service 775-3763


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Published by Portland Press Herald/Maine Sunday Telegram on Sep. 6, 2009.

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September 30, 2009

DEEPEST CONDOLENCES FROM YOUR FRIEND;
CAROLEW RINFRET BROADHURST,
SUFFERN, NY; CLASS OF 1957

Rosemary Frisby

September 29, 2009

Dear Tom and Family
Please accept my deepest sympathy.
Rosemary Jones Frisby (SHS 59)

Robert Scully

September 28, 2009

Dear Tommy, my condolences to you and your family on the passing of your son Thomas. I remember you as a child at Sacred Heart and was in Betsy's class but graduated Suffern High in 1960. John Cerullo does a good job keeping us informed of the old days and when something like this occurs. You probably remember my uncle John Scully better. I followed your history for a few years but college, Peace Corps service and years in an internatonal field put Suffern ties in a back pocket. It seems as if Thomas, Jr. had a good life at Spurwink-Limerick which apparently is a top special needs facility. May your memories be beautiful. May time soften your loss. My fond wishes to all the Daffrons which was quite a family as I recall. Resquiescat I.P.

September 28, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathy.

Linda Canning Deyo (class of 57)
Clayton, N.C.

JOHN CERULLO

September 28, 2009

My condolances, may your time of sorrow be short and your healing be with family and friends.

John Cerullo SHS alumni (1960)

Joan & Dave Hastings

September 28, 2009

Please accept our deepest sympathy.

Jackie Manning

September 28, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. A huge loss to lose a loved one.

JoAnne Norton

September 27, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathy.

Jeff Bedard

September 7, 2009

My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire family. He will be missed, but the memories of him will live on forever.

September 6, 2009

Our thoughts are with you and our prayers are with him. Tom & Marianne Miller

Kim Jordan

September 6, 2009

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

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