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James McKay Obituary

James McKay of Paoli, Pennsylvania, passed away after courageously battling cancer for over two years. James is survived by his wife, Marty (née Larkin); sons Nathanael James and Seth Brandt; brother Jonathan Charles, of Westmont, Illinois; sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law, and many nephews. James joins his mother, Sarah Brandt McKay and his father, Donald Evan McKay in Heaven. James was raised in Strafford, Pennsylvania, and graduated from Conestoga High School in 1983, where as a senior, he captained his Varsity Basketball Team and was named MVP. He then attended Penn State University, where he enjoyed playing club basketball, and graduated in 1987 with a BS in Real Estate. He went on to work as a Real Estate Appraiser first for Enterprise Appraisal, then as a senior appraiser at H. Bruce Thompson Jr. & Associates in Bryn Mawr. In 1996 he started his own successful venture: McKay Realty Consultants in Paoli. James shared his passion for sports with his sons and their peers, and coached both basketball and baseball for ten years. He was an avid volunteer in the schools, the church, the local sports leagues and the community. James will be sorely missed by his wife and sons, his loving extended family, and by all who knew him. As per James’ wishes, in lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Great Valley Community Organization (a 501c3 organization and the parent organization for GVCO.) www.gvco.org A Memorial Service for James will be held at 1:00PM on Sunday, October 7 at Paoli Presbyterian Church (225 South Valley Road, Paoli). Light refreshments to follow the service.

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Published by Main Line Media News from Oct. 1 to Oct. 7, 2018.

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Charlotte Schug

September 11, 2019

October 08, 2018
Marty,

I just happened to come across your husband's notice and I am deeply sorry for your loss. I used to run into you at the Y! God bless.

Charlotte

Brian Murphy

September 11, 2019

October 04, 2018
Our deepest condolences to Marty and the boys on their sad loss. they will be in our thoughts and prayers through these difficult times. It was a pleasure to have to have met and known James on our visits to the US..May he 'Rest in Peace'

Todd R Creveling

September 11, 2019

October 02, 2018
So sorry for the loss of your husband Marty. I pray that the memories you all had with him can sustain you through this time. I know this disease all too well. My brother recently lost his wife at about the same age to the same disease. We just watch over him and he loves the company. You are a kind and caring person. Just know that people are always thinking of you.

Joanne Ewing

September 11, 2019

October 02, 2018
My deepest sympathy, Marty and family. Many thoughts are with you at this difficult time. The memories of James will remain with you forever.

Tom Borger

September 11, 2019

October 02, 2018
My deepest condolences to the entire family in this difficult time. Jamie (as I always knew him) was a wonderful guy...I knew him from kindergarten through all of high school and later would see him on the sidelines at baseball and basketball games when Great Valley would play Berwyn Paoli. This may be a little known fact, but Jamie was one heck of a kickball player at Strafford elementary! He was a terrific person and I hold dear memories from the times we shared together. Thoughts and prayers are with your entire family. Tom Borger (Conestoga '83).

Heather Mriss

October 6, 2018

My sincere condolences to you Marty, Nathaniel, Seth and family and friends of James McKay.
God bless James! And all his family and friends! through these most difficult moments, May God bring you peace and comfort and love from above with every angel on earth to help you from now til eternity. James is with you wherever you go.
I am deeply sorry. ~ jesse Velez's Aunt Heather

Melanie Howson

October 3, 2018

James will be missed by so many. Marty, Nathanael and Seth, you are in my thoughts and prayers daily. Jenna loved him- he was so good to her at a critical time in her life. May the Lord bless you and keep you.

Sallie Campbell

October 2, 2018

Loved when James would be my partner in crime as room parents at GWES. I always thought how cool to have dad as a room parent.

Marty Anderson

October 2, 2018

This is a terrible loss. What a wonderful spirit James was and is. He will be missed.

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