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Wentworth Vedder Obituary

Wentworth Darcy Vedder, 56, of Bala Cynwyd, Pa., died suddenly on Wednesday, Oct. 13, 2010, at his home. He was the husband of Carol Kovach Vedder to whom he was married for 20 years. Mr. Vedder was born on Oct. 1, 1954 in York, Pa., to Wentworth D. Vedder and Kathryn Williamson. He was preceded in death by his father.
He graduated from Schuyler Preparatory School, Schuylerville, N.Y., in 1973, Hartwick College, Oneonta, N.Y., in 1978 and Widener Law, Wilmington, Del., in 1988. He practiced criminal defense law with the Montgomery County Public Defender's office for over 20 years. He founded the law firm of Bryn & Vedder with his partner, Elaine Bryn, in 1991 and practiced law with her in Philadelphia for many years.
He was active in local politics as a committeeman in Ardmore, Pa. He was a member of St. Mary's Episcopal Church, Ardmore, serving as its solicitor and for several terms on the Vestry. He spent many happy times fishing, shooting skeet, observing the stars, playing tennis and being a do-it-yourself handyman for his family.
He is survived by his wife, Carol, and their three children, Williamson, Thomas and Leah, all at home, as well as seven siblings.
A funeral celebration was held on Saturday, Oct. 16, 2010 at St. Mary's Episcopal Church; 36 Ardmore Ave., Ardmore, Pa., the Reverend Joseph G. Schaller officiated. In lieu of flowers, the family requests memorial contributions are sent to St. Mary's Episcopal Church.

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Published by Main Line Media News on Oct. 19, 2010.

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todd brown

June 8, 2011

dear vedder family my name is todd brown i am so sorry for your lost he great man

Jack Jackson

December 29, 2010

To the Vedder Family, A Google search for the former Schuyler Prep led me to this. I was one of Wenty's teachers at Schuyler in the 70's. He was one of my best students in English class and a frequent winner at tennis. I also lived with him in the dorm where he always took a leadership role. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

December 21, 2010

oh Carol, this is Marilyn. I am so sorry to learn of this! I had no idea...I was breezing thru Google search and typed you in, and this. Oh I am SO sorry, I just mailed a Christmas card to you both...I will be in touch, my love you you and the kids, Marilyn

Christmas with Grandpa, Clyde and Wenty!

Sukie Johntz

November 15, 2010

Dear Vedder family,
Shocked and saddened to hear of Wenty's passing I feel the loss of his presence in the world. Although it's been over a decade since we spoke I thought of him often. Wenty I remember as an intelligent, serious man who also had a great dry sense of humor. He was a natural athlete who loved to play tennis and baseball in the spring. He frustrated his opponents because he always hit the ball harder and faster and usually won! Wenty was loyal and devoted to those he loved, in particular, his family. He was also a compassionate friend who was as interested in hearing about others as talking about himself. Wenty could sit for hours and have deep and meaningful conversations about many topics. The last time I saw Wenty I ran into him in Suburban Square. He asked about my then newborn daughter then spoke of his love for his family...described being "blessed" with his three children. Wenty was a truly good and kind person and he will be missed. My deepest condolences go out to the Vedder family. Sukie Johntz

Hilary Cornell

October 21, 2010

My deepest sympathies are with the Vedder family. I attended Law School with Wentworth, and remember him as a thoughtful and kind man. He brought much to the classes we shared. My prayers are with you.

Lyn L Wisotzkey

October 21, 2010

Dear Vedder Family -
My deepest condolences to all of you at this very sad time.
I have very fond memories of all the Vedder "kids"... swimming and
hanging out at CCY... 4th of July parties...
Wenty was such a nice guy.... I am very sorry for your loss.

Beth Shipley

October 21, 2010

To all the Vedder family -- Peace be with you during this unimaginable loss. How grateful I am that I had the opportunity to hang out with Wenty and other Vedders during Katy's home fireworks on July 4th! It was a lovely, happy moment in time; for me, a coming full circle, chuckling about a few childhood crimes and misdemeanors occurring on the farm. I will treasure that peaceful moment as a special memory of Wenty. Know that you continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.

Amanda, David, and Devin Kovach

October 20, 2010

Carol, Williamson, Thomas, and Leah, we were so sorry to hear about Wentworth. We loved him alot and now he is in heaven watching over us all. There are no words that can help your pain at this time, I wish there were. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this time. We love you all so very much. You will be in our prayers as you always are.

October 18, 2010

Thinking of everyone at this sad time. I have many memories growing up and sharing good times in the Vedder house with all the family. Love to all from a far in New Zealand.Emily Parthemore daughter of Paula Martin

Sheila "La" Walsh-McDonald

October 17, 2010

To the Vedder Family,

My deepest symapthies to the entire Vedder family. So many wonderful childhood memories of Wenty and the entire Vedder family at the CC of York and babysitting the crew, even though I was only 10 months older than Wenty.
My thoughts are with you all.

Lynne Meade

October 16, 2010

Please accept our deepest sympathy.-The Meade Family

October 16, 2010

I am so sorry for your loss. Wentworth well be missed so much, and please remember how you are loved and well never be alone.

Chris & Rose-Marie Walsh

October 16, 2010

Dear Vedder Family,
Our deepest sympathies on the loss of Wenty. Although I hadn't seen him in recent years, he was a great friend in our youth and I have cherished memories of our summers at the CCY swimming, playing tennis and just raising general bedlam. Our prayers are with you.

V Morales

October 16, 2010

To the Vedder family, my prayers are with you at this difficult time. I worked with Wentworth and he was always a pleasure to speak to. He was a very kindhearted man. He will be missed at our office.

October 15, 2010

My Uncle Wenty, I am so sad to day. I miss my uncle. I know that Emily and I would have loved to have seen you again its been to long. I will be married in eleven days and will be thinking of you . Much Love to You from Texas and New Zealand Brenna and Emily Parthemore

Kelley Dreyer

October 15, 2010

" Peace be with you" during this difficult time . Your family is in my thouhgts and prayers. Kelley and Paul Dreyer.

October 15, 2010

So sorry for your loss, Clyde and Beth and family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at especially this time.
Fondly,
Tom and Rosa Schaffstall

October 15, 2010

To the Vedder family. Please accept our condolences at this difficult time. Fox Pool Corporation, York, PA.

October 15, 2010

Our most sincere condolences to the Vedder family at this untimely loss. Rita and Earl Herting, Elizabethtown, PA

David Welber

October 15, 2010

My sincerest concolences to the Vedder family.

David A. Welber CPA

Alan Mcintosh

October 15, 2010

To the entire Vedder Family:
My heart and prayers are with all of you
during this sudden, tragic time. We will
all miss and reflect on what Wenty brought into each of our lives.........

October 15, 2010

Dear Carol and family,
Please accept our heart felt condolences at this sad time. We are thankful for having met Wentworth at the family reunions a few years back and enjoyed spending time with him and your lovely family.
We will keep you all in our prayers.
Roxanne, Kirby, Kaitlin and Allison Overton

Alere Staff

October 14, 2010

Please accept our most sincere condolences, Carol. Our thoughts are with you and your family at this very difficult time.
Your friends at Alere (Matria)

October 14, 2010

To the Vedder Family,
I worked with Wentworth. He was a kindhearted man. I always enjoyed our conversations during court. I am so sorry for your loss. He is in a better place now. R.I.P. Wentworth. You will be missed.

Gail Kovach

October 14, 2010

Our love and prayers are with you, Carol, Williamson, Tom & Leah. Wentworth was a great brother-in-law. Always will remember his laugh, smile & how much he loved his family. Trust in God, lean on His love, care & strength at this time & always. Uncle Jack & I love you all very much & wish we could be there with you. <3

Ginette Klingerman

October 14, 2010

I am so sorry for your loss Carol, Thomas, Williamson and Leah. Wentworth was a wonderful man, personable and sweet. He was always so nice and pleasant to talk to. Always had a smile. Remember God is with you during this time. Lean on him for strength. He will be missed greatly!

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