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1936
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2013
Carmen Whitmore Obituary
MANSFIELD: Carmen P. Whitmore, 77, of Mansfield, passed away on Thursday, February 14, 2013, at MedCentral Hospital.
Carmen was born on January 17, 1936, in New Haven, CT, to Salvatore and Elizabeth Scarano Salemno. He was a member of St. Peter's Catholic Church. Carmen enjoyed all types of sports, and especially enjoyed family time.
He is survived by four children, Carmine (Karen) Whitmore and Kim (Chuck) Whitmore, all of Mansfield, and Debra Whitmore and Jodi Whitmore both of CT; two step-children, Gina Whitmore and Donnie Whitmore both of CT; twelve grandchildren, Dalton Whitmore, Luke Whitmore, Amanda Whitmore, Justin Whitmore, Frank Feliciano, Megan Whitmore, Jessica King, Amber King, Amanda Whitmore, Susie Whitmore, Tia Whitmore, and Francine Whitmore; and five great-grandchildren including Caden Whitmore.
Carmen was preceded in death by his parents; his wife Dorothy Whitmore; and his son Donald Whitmore.
Memorial services will be held at 6:00 p.m. on Monday, February 25, 2013 at First Church of the Open Bible, 1150 Raefield Rd., Mansfield, with Pastor John Freeman officiating. Werner-Gompf Funeral Services, ltd, 1106 Park Ave. East, Mansfield, is assisting the family with arrangements.
Online condolences may be made at www.wernergompf.com
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Memories and Condolences
for Carmen Whitmore
Doreen Yeager
February 11, 2020
Carmen, Hard to believe how the years go by. Your family misses you every day, wishing you were still here,You'll never be forgotten, R.I.P. Carm
February 18, 2013
my heart goes out to you and your family at this difficult time.my thoughts and prayers are with you all. love Regina and Family
DEBRA WHITMORE
February 18, 2013
FOR MY DAD
you loved unconditionally all of your children we will and od miss you dearly you taken from us but received In Our Fathers Arms we love and alWays you will be in Our hearts
Debra Whitmore and Frank Feliciano
Amber
February 18, 2013
Love you Pa-Amber
February 18, 2013
Sorry for this loss. I wish I got to know you. Rest in peace.
Love
Suzy
Billie Davis
February 18, 2013
So sad to hear about your Dad Carmine and Kim. May he rest in peace with our Lord up above now.
Donald Whitmore Sr
February 17, 2013
No more suffering! May you rest in peace. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this difficult time. Uncle Don and Corinne
February 17, 2013
We love you dad(pa)and we miss you dearly
Chuck kim luke tiff amber meghan jessica
February 17, 2013
to many lost, to soon, but never forgotten r.i.p. <3
February 17, 2013
TO MY WHITMORE FAMILY, PRAYERS TO YOU PA, LOVED THIS FAMILY FOR 31 YRS, R.I.P. TIL WE ALL MEET AGAIN... <3 DOR, ROSE, STACEY & STEPH
February 17, 2013
I will always remember the times we got to work together. I loved hearing your stories and listening to you talk about your kids and grandkids. May you rest in peace. Our deepest prayers to your family. You were a great person to talk to. I am so blessed to have had the opportunity to meet you and your family. Heaven has another true angel to watch over us all. You will be truly missed.
Love the Rutter Family
February 17, 2013
to the family of carmen we are sorry for your loss and you are all in our prayers, jamie,tyler,eliah and dylan
Jennifer Souza
February 17, 2013
Rest in peace Carmen u are no longer in pain may your soul soar with the angels and wAtch over your children and grandchildren may your presence in the heavens soothe their aching souls and bless them with friends and family to cope with your loss love ya old man xox
Ashley whitmore
February 17, 2013
rip pa me and caden miss you so much. love you pa. so lost without you we love you so much. love ashley and caden whitmore
Luke whitmore
February 17, 2013
pa i love you
February 17, 2013
To my hero my father although I did not want you to go away I am truly blessed youare not sufferring any more I love you more than words can say but i can't believe you went away. you always taught me right from wrong and i don't know how i will get along i love you dad love kim
Jodi Whitmore
February 17, 2013
Daddy i love you & i miss you so much already.. I didn`t want u leave me.. But i know god needed u 4 something! Nomore pain, Nomore suffering Dad it is very hard 4 me 2 let u go.. I had 2 let Mommy go too :( But at least i know that you r happy in God`s Home,You`re new home! Until we meet again! I willmiss & love u forever! You will alwawys be in my heart Daddy! Love your daughter, Love peaky aka Jodi
JC & Karen Calino
February 17, 2013
Carmine, Karen & Family:
May God be with you and your family during this difficult time. May he help you find peace and renewed strength. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Deepest Condolences -
Jodi Lynn Whitmore
February 17, 2013
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
Donald Whitmore Sr
February 17, 2013
No more suffering. May he rest in peace. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Uncle Don and Corinne Whitmore
February 17, 2013
I only got to spend a short time with you but seemed like i was allways around.I will miss going places with you because you allways made me laugh.But we will meet again someday but until then you will allways be in my heart.Now you can live pain free no more suffering.So until we meet again R.I.P..love your son inlaw chuck
February 17, 2013
Dad Although i wish you were here with us I am glad you are not suffering any more You meant the world to me and the kids but we will see each other agaim I love you so much and you were always my hero.you always tried to show us right from wrong I made alot of mistakes in my life but you were always there for me but I am doing everything right so you could smile down from heavem on me.I believe god took you on valentinesa day to reunite with your first love and first born I love you dad and I always will have you in my heart
Jim Ernsberger
February 17, 2013
Carmine, Karen and Dalton so sorry to hear about your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Jim, Sue and Ian Ernsberger
Paul & Jennifer Tracy
February 17, 2013
You always guided us in the right direction, gave us advice and watched over us like we were a part of your family. We will be forever grateful for you. You were a wonderful caring man and your love for your family was amazing. We all had great times in Branford and we are very lucky to have shared many memories with you. Carmine, you will be truly missed each and everyday. Thank you for leaving an impact on us....we love you! RIP pa
February 17, 2013
Dad
you are and always will be my hero I love you so much and I miss you already.I do know with all my heart you are up in heaven with my mom and brother and that he took you on valentines day to be with your first love and first born on the holiday for love you will be missed dearly I love you
your daughter
Kim
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