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John McWhorter Obituary

John Vincent McWhorter Born in San Francisco and a resident of San Anselmo during his school years, John succumbed to cancer on September 8th, 2007. John is survived by his parents, John and Rosemarie McWhorter of San Anselmo, his wife Patricia McWhorter, and three young sons, John (aka Ricky), Michael and Patrick. Also surviving him is his sister and her husband, Suzanne and Eric Glasnapp of Carlsbad, California, his Aunt and Uncle, Grace and Frederick Bentz and Rick their son, all of Pennsylvania, and his God Mother Suzanne Winslow of Capitola. Patricia's loving Cuban family worked tirelessly to help John, Patricia, and the boys through this sad time. They put their lives on hold while helping our son. We will be forever grateful to them. John was a member of Boy Scout Troop 15 of San Anselmo. He belonged to The Order of the Arrow, and became an Eagle Scout when he was a sophomore at Drake High School. John was a graduate of UC Davis. Dave Powell, his best friend from those good days, never deserted John through his long illness. He and his wife Joy made many trips to Florida to be with John and his family lending support wherever possible. Johnny was blessed during his short time on this earth with a wonderful wife and three remarkable children. He was surrounded by love. Thank you to all who prayed for him. While you prayed for him, he prayed for you.

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Published by Marin Independent Journal from Sep. 13 to Sep. 14, 2007.

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Cheryl Dominguez

October 13, 2007

I think of John often. It was a pleasure to have known him and I am so thankful that I was able to visit with him just a few days before he was called home. He was a great father, a devoted husband, and a dedicated friend. He made me laugh. I will always remember him.

October 11, 2007

Rick Bentz

October 10, 2007

I miss you very much, John. You were the star of our family. Thank you for sharing your wonderful life and times with me. It was just too short. Thanks to our Florida family for all they did. John's final send off was a very emotional and spiritual experience. It really helped.
Love, Ricky

Richard Taylor

October 8, 2007

I was so sad to hear of John's pasing. I have such great memories of our times together in scouts. I will always remember John's laugh and the look in his eye just before he let fly with a hilarious remark. From the entries here I see that he has made a big mark in his life. My prayers are with you.

Suzanne Winslow

October 7, 2007

Dear Johnny,
I am grateful for my Golden Heart Medal, and that you could take
my rosary with you. As your Godmother, I appreciated you as a child, and as an adult. You were a very good Son, and a wonderful Husband, and Father to your three
beautiful sons. I felt that the World was a better place because you have been in it, and so sorry to have lost you. I will do what I can for your children, I promise you.
Much Love, Suzanne Winslow

Grace Bentz

October 6, 2007

John, dearest nephew and friend, your love, great wit, bravery and intelligence filled our family with
much joy. You honored us greatly naming your children after our
family members. I will always
love you and hold you in the light.

Aunt Grace

Rosemarie Mc Whorter

October 3, 2007

Our son John has left this earth, but he has not left our hearts. Patricia and the boys are the treasured gifts
he left behind for us.
Watch over us Johnny, and bring us
peace. Love, Mom and Dad

Suzanne Glasnapp

October 2, 2007

Johnny was my older brother and only sibling. I have fond childhood memories of traveling together on the bus for bowling outings, fishing adventures, and games of miniature golf during family vacations to Lake Tahoe. Contact was less frequent as adults, but I always knew John was there if I needed him, and expected him to be with me until old age. I am incredibly saddened by his loss and it’s impact on all of his family and friends.

Laura Baird

September 28, 2007

I am saddened to learn of "Johnny's" passing. Our years of growing up together in San Anselmo, and family ties to scouting bring back many wonderful memories of John, including a couple back packing trips with my family during the summer. He truly was one-in-a-million! My prayers go out to all his family. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Patricia McWhorter

September 27, 2007

The night I met John in Chicago, October 1989, I knew I wanted to spend the rest of my days with him! Lucky for me he felt the same way. John had a priviledged, brilliant mind. He was quiet, but sweet and with a unique sense of humor. He was very generous, elegant, gentle, kind, with a great sense of loyalty to his family and his friends. I am terribly saddened by his passing, but am grateful for the past 17 wonderful years we had together. We were blessed with our three beautiful boys who were his pride and joy and are so much like their father. I see John in their every moves, words, even their taste in music and movies...He touched many hearts and has left a tremendous legacy while his brief time on this earth. He will live in our hearts forever. John, you made me the happiest woman on this earth. Thank you for a wonderful life, filled with beautiful memories I will always cherish. I LOVED you and always will, with all my mind, heart and soul. Until we meet again...Niña

Giselle Navas

September 21, 2007

Giselle Navas

Dan Dunn

September 18, 2007

John was one of my best friends during high school and probably the funniest person I have ever met. I cannot help but think of him with a smile on my face. I mourn his passing and cherish the memory of his friendship and the fun we had together.

Kayla Cortiza

September 14, 2007

John was a wonderful uncle. He loved his nieces and nephews very much. I always enjoyed spending time with him and having him cook for me. He was patient with me all the time and would teach me new things.
I will miss him forever.

Joy Powell

September 14, 2007

The loss of this sweet, wonderful man is devastating. Though his time on earth was far too brief, he leaves behind a legacy of love, laughter and inspired wit that will be treasured by his three beautiful boys. It is also a comfort knowing that from the time of his initial diagnosis to his final breath, John was wrapped in the loving embrace of his amazing wife Patricia, and her remarkable family.

We keep people in our hearts because it is safe there and full of love.

Eddie Cortiza

September 13, 2007

I got to meet John 15 years ago when I married Patricia's cousin. From the moment I met him I knew he was a special individual. John was calm, kind, clever, intelligent, funny and so many other things. God also knew what a special person he was. He blessed him with his beloved Patricia and with his 3 wondeful boys that were the joy of his live. John is not gone, he lives in our hearts and mind and will never be forgotten but will surely be missed.

Dave Powell

September 13, 2007

Anyone who knew John has wonderful memories of time spent with him. I wish I had more, but these will have to suffice. I take solace in knowing that John had a fantastic life. He was blessed to have a loving wife and three fantastic kids, who remind me so much of John. I can't wait to hear the clever, funny things that will come out of their mouths. I am comforted that John is at peace and that Patricia and the boys have loving friends and family to surround and support them.

Shawn Galbreath

September 13, 2007

Words can't express how I feel. I was in Scouts with John and spent many joyful hours together. Fly high with the eagles, John. It is only right.

Gisela Castellanos

September 13, 2007

John, you will live forever in our hearts.

Rosa Cortiza

September 13, 2007

John was a wonderful addition to our family. We were privileged to have shared the last 18 years with him. He is greatly missed and will forever be in our hearts.

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