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Kim Gaynor Obituary

Kim Joseph Gaynor Passed away on August 11, 2009. Born on December 16, 1954. Kim lived for the past 20 years in Rohnert Park, working for NorCal Ready Mix for the last 15 years. He is survived by his wife of 35 years, Deb, who was also his high school sweetheart. His three daughters, Misha, Nina, Missy, and grandsons, Cameron, Casey, and Carson also survive him. A devoted family man and hard worker; he will be missed by all who knew him and loved him.

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Published by Marin Independent Journal on Aug. 18, 2009.

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Robin

August 12, 2025

I cannot believe it been 16 yrs since you left us. Jeff and I went out to the cemetery yesterday sat under the apple tree on the bench. We miss you so much! Hugs to you, mom and dad. Love you!

Dawn

August 12, 2025

Kim, I can´t believe it´s been 16 years. You are missed beyond any words can express.
Give Mom and Dad a hug from me. Love you!

Robin Gaynor

August 23, 2021

Hi Kim things have been pretty crazy these past few years. Even though I have not written in here does not mean I/we don't think of you. You are forever in our thoughts, on our minds. I often wonder what you would be thinking of everything going on in this crazy world we live in now. Things have changed from when we were growing up not for the better. Love you!

Georges

September 14, 2018

August 12, 2018

So today was the Gravenstein Apple Fair and Kendall took the girls she watches and after Dawn and I took you some flowers. Carnations and Sun flowers. There is a new Apple tree planted near you the previous one was taken out. Dawn left you a apple remember how you loved them as a young boy I think that is one of my favorite memories. We miss you and love you!!! So hard to believe that it has been 9 years always in our thoughts and dreams. Still see that mixer of yours driving around and always know I will have a good day when I see it on my way to work. Love you Kim!!!

Misha George

August 11, 2018

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Your Boys

August 7, 2018

We LOVE and MISS You GRANDPA

Misha george

August 7, 2018

I LOVE AND MISS you D❤D

August 11, 2017

Good morning Kim, Getting emotional just sitting here and typing this it is now been 8 years that you left us and I often wonder what it is like beyond life here? I miss you and mom and dad so much!!! I saw your Mixer yesterday and as each time I see it I always great it with a good morning Kim as it is always in the morning and I then know I will have a great day!!! Can not believe it has been 8 years already seems like only yesterday Dawn, mom and I got to see you for the last time wish I would have known that would be the last day for us to see you to let you know how much you meant to us. But I think you already knew what a great brother you were and son.

Robin

February 28, 2015

Thinking of you!!!

misha George

February 26, 2015

Hi Dad, it been as while since I have written in your book... I think about you all the time, it's just hard to write in here.. It's very emotional for me.... I love and miss you Dearly.. The boys say Hello Grandpa and they always think and talk about you... I LOVE You Dad!!!!

Robin

December 16, 2014

Happy Birthday Kim today you would have been 60 and retiring from work. I hope that you are celebrating, actually I know you are the way you want to fishing or going junking with Dad and Mom. I miss you every day and think of you every day throughout the day. Happy Birthday.

MISHA George

July 5, 2014

HAPPY FOURTH OF JULY DAD!!! Today was hard, very emotional memories running through my mind the past few days...WE Celebrated today as if you were physically here... I , We MISS you so much.... xoxox Forever Dad!!!!

Robin

June 15, 2014

Happy Fathers Day Kim!!!

MISHA George

June 15, 2014

HAPPY FATHERS DAY DAD.I love and miss you extremely.There's not a day that dosnt go by were I don't think about you , nor does your boys ( grandsons) think about you....We love and miss you forever.... xoxox..

misha George

February 13, 2014

Dad ,I know you already know your granddaughter has a name !! Kaia Sunshine Hunter is so beautiful... I have been packing I will be moving from Texas in 11 days , so I will come bring you flowers .. I miss you so much and love you.. As soon as Jim and the boys move back I will bring the boys to bring you flowers as well.. The boys miss you and love you Dad!!! Good Nite and I love you Yesterday,Today,Tomorrow, and Forever!!!!!!!xxoxoxooxox

MISHA George

February 5, 2014

Hello Dad, Well She is a GIRL, not sure still of the name but she was 4lbs 12OZ 18 ish inches long! Keep ya posted Dad (Dad).. LOVE YOU XOXOXO

MISHA GEORGE

February 4, 2014

Hi Dad well its about 1:31 Texas time, and 11:31 California time, and your almost a Grandpa for the 4th time!! Nina is doing really well, little tired but she is a CHAMP!! You are going to be a GRANDFATHER TO A BABY GIRL!!, not sure on the name Nina and Justin arn't sure.But when they see her precious face they will decide between a couple they have picked out... We love you and miss you like Crazy...........As I'm writing you Nina is 9cm per Justin.. You will be proud he is doing an EXCELLENT job as a Daddy to be you would be really proud of him!! Ill keep you posted DAD I LOVE YOU AND GOOD NITE XOXOXOOX

MISHA GAYNOR

December 25, 2013

Merry Christmas Dad, and Grandpa.. Sitting here last night discussing with the boys what tinsel was... They were supprised to see what it was.. Explained to them how the many times you would so gently throw the tinsel on the tree, and Mom would get so frustrated, because it was so messy!!!! I love you so much and dont for once ever stop thinking about you... I called the girls today and shared the story about the tinsel, they laughed.. Merry Christmas to you and I want you to know you are truley missed, but NEVER forgotten!!! Cameron had a dream the other night and you where in the corner sifting through clothes on a rack , I said thats your Grandpa!!! They boys say they love and miss you.Got some cider tonite and did a tost to you !!! LOVE YOU SO MUCH DAD! XOXOOXOXOOXOXOXOXOXOXOOXOXOX MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!

Robin

December 16, 2013

Happy Birthday Kim!!!

Robin

December 16, 2013

Good Morning Kim, Happy Birthday had a thought today here you would be out making you way to the stores as you were working to buy some of your Christmas gifts before you had to get home to have dinner with Deb and the girls you always had a way to have it figured out what you would give and then be on a mission to find it sometimes calling to ask for ideas of where to go I so miss those times of hearing your voice on the other end of the phone or the excitement of Mom saying Kim Happy Birthday to you many, many more!!! A day does not go by that you are not on my mind or in our thoughts you left such a presence of being. xoxo

misha George

December 15, 2013

HAPPY BIRTHDAY 59TH BIRTHDAY DAD! Iam sitting here counting down the hours untill We can wish you a very special Birthday...I love you with all my heart.. Siting here thinking that it would be wonderful for you to give us a sign that you will visit us tomorrow! All Weekend long Racal Flatts Have been on the radio , and to me thats a strong sign to let me know your okay ....I miss you so much ..HAPPY BIRTHDAY to the you my DAD, the man I have always admired and look up to..., dont get to wild in Heaven tomorrow because you have to work in the morning Dad!!! XOXOXOXXOOXOXOXOXOXOOXOXOXOXOXOOXOOXOXO...Happy Birthday Grandpa love always CAMERON, CASEY , CARSON your grandson's XXOXOOXXOOXOXOXOXOOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOOXOX WE MISS YOU AND LOVE YOU FOREVER, THERE IS NOT A DAY WE DONT THINK ABOUT YOU GRANDPA!!!!!!!!

Misha George

November 28, 2013

Happy Thanksgiving Dad ... Today was very difficult for me today not having you here.. Watched the Thanksgiving Parade with the boys, remembering how you would turn it on for us girls to watch...I miss you so much that typing this is giving me goosebumps as I tear up ... The boys and us Girls miss you tremendously!!! I LOVE YOU DAD SO MUCH AND WISH I COULD HUG YOU AGAIN........<3

misha george

October 31, 2013

HAPPY HALLOWEEN DAD,ONE OF YOUR FAVORITE TIMES OF THE YEAR, WE ARE KEEPING YOUR TRADITIONS ROLLING ON WE LOVE AND MISS YOU!!!xoxoxoxoxoxox

misha George

October 12, 2013

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Robin

August 13, 2013

Well hello Kim, Kendall and I took a drive out to Mom and Dad and then you. Dawn placed a apple there for you, that was something Mom always did for you. Make's me think of when we were little. Good times, will always have those memories. We did the Japanese festival again this year still not the same without you and Mom. I bought a few plants a bamboo that did not make it. Wish you were still here when Kendall and I were in San Rafael thought of you and the sound of bee's. Remember my tree in front and you said it had a nest. Well a tree there had one too. I told Kendall and then we looked up to see them. Never found the hive though. I miss you and think of you often Hope your having fun in Heaven.

misha George/Gaynor

August 11, 2013

Dad, I miss you so much!!!! They say time will heal the pain, but least to say I cannot agree... I would give , and would have given you anything to have kept you hear on earth...I miss , the boys , and your girls miss you to the moon and back!! I hope your doing okay, please give me a stronger sign your okay, then I will be okay knowing your okay!! Its hard for me to accept still to this day... I love you with my everything!!! You are an amazing Man!! Ilove you Dad xoxox!!!!!!!

MISHA GEORGE

June 20, 2013

DAD

MISHA GEORGE / GAYNOR

June 17, 2013

Hello DAD , Wanting to wish you a very HAPPY FATHERS DAY!! As the Holidays go bye and birthdays it just dosnt get easier .. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH, AND MISS YOU LIKE CRAZY!!

Robin

May 4, 2013

Hey Kim Dawn and I went junking today I bought a bunch of cd's you woulld have loved it 50 cents each Beatles, Clapton, Beach Boys, Santana and some old stuffs too Sinatra. Listening to Beatles remembering how I would go in your room and lisening to your records and play your drums. Thinking of you today and always every day. Say hi to Dad and Mom. Love you!!!

misha George

May 2, 2013

Hello dad, just want to say you have been heavy on my mind.. Really there is not a day goes bye I dont think about you...I MISS YOU AND LOVE YOU..I WISH I COULD HUG YOU...

Misha Gaynor

March 9, 2013

Good morning DAD, well it's Monster truck time of year.. Brings back memories the day u supprised the boys " grandsons " with tickets to the show..WOW to see the look on their face!! And today to hear their stories how their Grandpa thought of them ;) .. It's been almost 4 years and the pain and tears have not gone ... I miss you so much and I hope you know !!! Love u DAD!!!!

misha george

December 25, 2012

Merry Christmas Dad, thinking about you on this day and all the traditions you have taught us...I love you so much... Had the tv channel on the Yule log station,you remember the fire place on tv while we opened presents and had family over...The boys wish their Grandpa a very Merry Christmas.. We love u Dad...

misha george

December 16, 2012

Dad Iam wishing u a Happy Birthday...The boys and I miss u every minute of theboys day....I often wounder if you are okay,and hope ur not sad...I cant explain the hurt i have not having your presence in front of me...I love and miss u so much as well as your boys(grandsons)...xoxoxo Happy Birthhday to the best father a daughter could have....I miss u Dad.......

Robin G

December 16, 2012

A candle burns here as its does in our house today. Happy Birthday Kim!!!

Robin

December 16, 2012

Happy Birthday Kim you are so missed here and often thought of still hard to believe that you are gone from our sights, but you will always be close to our Heart's your such an amazing brother.

misha george

October 7, 2012

Dad just sitting here thinking about u as always missing u ..i love u so much...also wanting to thank everyone who writes in your book,its really cool to see their stories about MYDAD!!!xoxoox

Dawn

August 11, 2012

Been 3 years Kim, that much closer till we see you in heaven. Miss you so much. We are family, you will always have your sisters with you! Love you!

Robin

August 11, 2012

Good morning Kim today is your 3rd Birthday as an Angel in Heaven. Still finding it hard to believe it has been 3 years since you left us. There is a void in my heart. I miss talking with you I remember when you came to the house after work one day and pointed out all the bee's in the tree in the front yard...well believe it our not today is the day to count all the bee's as there is a shortage. Not in my yard though. Jeff had a memory garden planted for you and mom and there are lots of bee's to count today.
Love you and think of you often each and every day!!!

misha gaynor george

August 10, 2012

<3 I miss u DAD!!!<3.. and I love u sooooo much!!!<3

Angela Vanaman

July 14, 2012

Hey Debbie...I just found out about Kim yesterday. I can't believe it's almost 3 yrs now. I am so sorry for your losss u two made a great couple and family. I don't know your girls...however, if there anything like the two of u I know they came out being great ladies. Take care of yourself...and them.
Love always, Angela Vanaman (Curristan)

Robin

July 8, 2012

Kim so today was the Japanese teriyaki bbq it was not as big and busy as years pass. I bought some plants and had a chicken dinner. I miss not spending the day with you and mom out there. It's just not the same. Miss and love you!!! Robin G.

MISHA GAYNOR GEORGE

June 30, 2012

DAD SPENT THE DAY WITH MOM AND SUE AND YOUR COUSIN SASH , AND KEN.. HAD SOME GREAT TALKS ABOUT YOUR AND HOW WE MISS YOU.. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH AND THINK ABOUT YOU EVERYDAY WHISHING I COULD JUST HOLD YOU ONE LAST TIME... I LOVE YOU !!!!!!!!!!!!!! MISHA GAYNOR GEORGE..

May 24, 2012

Kim, I love you, I think of you every day. I miss you so much. I was just remembering all the memories of when we were kids. It breaks my heart that you are not here. I know you are in a better place. I remember the song "we are family" and how you gave us that song. I love you. Your little sister.

Frank Neas

January 18, 2012

To all the family,
I just found out about Kim and am so sorry for your loss. Kim was such a great guy and friend. It has been a long time but I still remember those days like they were yesterday because Kim was such a force of nature and energy. Like my dad used to say as his ultimate complement "Kim was Good People!"
Sending my love and prayers to all of you.

December 17, 2011

Thinking of you

Robin

December 16, 2011

Happy Birthday Kim, I think of you everyday and I miss you so much. Every day is hard to know that you are no longer here with us.

MISHA George

October 20, 2011

Dad, everyday is a struggle not having u to touch kiss and to be near. I MISS you so much and want to thankyou for bringing me into this life..I will always treasure the life lessons you have taught me..I will continue to think about you all the time and miss the times we had together I love you will all I HAVE..<3 LOVE ALWAYS UR DAUGHTER MISHA ANN!!

August 12, 2011

Yesterday was a difficult day, 2 years has not made it easier. I miss you and love you so very much. I just can not seem to wrap my head around the fact that you are gone. I know you are in a better place. I love you.

robin

April 11, 2011

Kim, Wish you were still here with us.I miss not having you here to talk with. I hope that you are having fun in Heaven with Dad and Mom

Kenny Durbin

September 1, 2009

I send my love to all of the family. I will always remember the fishing memories that we shared as well as the golfing excursions. And I can't forget the offering of his favorite drink each time I saw Kim. Gotta love the Jack! Love you Kim...RIP

Robin

August 30, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

Robin Gaynor

August 30, 2009

KIM was my Brother and I'm so proud to be able to say that. He's the kind of Brother you wish for, I'm only sad to say that I wish I had more time to spend with him. The childhood memories will live forever in my heart rest in peace my dear brother.

4th of julys were always fun with kim

steve and judy mackey

August 25, 2009

Ronald Henderson

August 24, 2009

Dear Debbie and girls. We first met Kim at Softball practice with Nicki, such a kind man with a great sense of caring. Then getting to know you him and Missy even better of the last 15-20 years. We are so sorry for all of you. He was a great man and we will miss not seeing the two of you together. With our love, prayers and sympathy, Ron, Terri, Nicki, and Ronnie Henderson.

Sue Phillippi

August 20, 2009

Thank you Kim for the good times, the laughs, your friendship. We will remember you always.

Ken & Sue Phillippi

I love you so much, and I will miss you forever...your Deb

August 19, 2009

Steve and Judy Mackey

August 19, 2009

Debbie and Family , My wife Judy and my condolences go out to you and your family . We are deeply saddened by your loss . Judy knew Kim as young as age 10 and has many fond memories of him . Her fondest memories are of Church Outings and especially Church Summer Camp at CAMP KOI "A" NEA in Watsonville . She says all the girls thought he was the cutest thing . And they all had crushes on him .My memories are of the traditional Scabo memories . I knew him through High School and am especially fond of the Santa Venetia ARCO days . Thanks for the memories Kim . We love you .

Bruce Smith

August 19, 2009

Deb and Family, Although I haven't seen Kim in over 20 years it's not hard to remember Kim. Kim was full of fun and always made me laugh. One memory of Kim was when we were young and were competing for a spot in a band as drummers, my strenghs were his weaknesses and vise-versa and we were both rejected, we often joked about who was better. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Tim Walker

August 19, 2009

Kim was my cousin. When I heard the news about his passing, it brought back memories of our childhood many years ago. Unfortunately, as life tends to do, it went on and we went our separate ways. I cannot say that I knew the man, husband, father and grandfather that Kim became. The last time I saw him - maybe ten years ago at my sister's house, was the first time I'd seen him in probably twenty years. On that day he was just a nice, fun guy to be around. I really enjoyed the little time we spent together on that day. I'm glad to have fond memories of Kim. I'm sad that I never took the time to know him better. I'm sad that I'll not get that chance again.

Jennifer Magliulo

August 18, 2009

Deb and family,
I am so sorry to hear of Kim's passing. I knew Kim from softball, he was always so kind and friendly to everyone. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
With love,
Jennifer Magliulo

August 18, 2009

Deb and Family;
I'm sorry to hear of kims passing.If theres anything i can do for you and the girls .please let me know.Love,Nicole and Chrishawna

Jim MacDougall

August 18, 2009

Debbie and family, please accept our heartfelt condolences. I worked with Kim for seven years at McPhails. He was a great guy. He will be missed by all.

Jim MacDougall

Dawn Gaynor Silva

August 18, 2009

Kim Gaynor was my brother and he was such an awesome person. He always stood up for what was right, always there for his family. He took such great care of his mom and she is so very proud of him and misses him so much. He was a great family man and took such great pride in his family and his work. He saved my life when I thought I was drowning in our back yard pool when I was about 10 years old, I wish I could have saved him. My brother was responsible, courageous, compassionate, loyal, honest, a great friend, persistent, a hard worker, self disciplined, faithful and so very much more. He had great character, and when God blessed my mom and dad with their first born son, they gave his sisters the greatest gift they could give, an awesome brother who would become our hero, and to his wife a wonderful husband and to his girls a loving dad and to his grandsons, a great mentor and loving grandpa. He was so much more than what I can write here and if you know him or ever got the chance to meet him, you would agree that he was such a great great man. I will forever miss my brother and forever love him.

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