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Walter C. Lightner Jr.

1933 - 2017

Walter C. Lightner Jr. obituary, 1933-2017, San Rafael, CA

BORN

1933

DIED

2017

Walter Lightner Obituary

Walter C. Lightner, Jr. A 50-year resident of San Rafael, passed peacefully on October 11, 2017 after a courageous battle with multiple health issues. Born in Sacramento on June 14, 1933 and raised in San Francisco, Walt attended Laguna Honda Grammar School, Lowell High School and San Francisco City College, before serving in the U.S. Navy. His career began in banking before working many years in sales for Liggett & Myers and later with North Coast Distributors in San Rafael where he retired in 1999. In retirement, he traveled extensively with Gloria, his wife of 55 years. He was a member of the SIR'S, 49er Booster Club, Italian Athletic Club, and the Old Timers Athletic Association. He also continued to enjoy his passion for Bay Area sports teams that had roots in his upbringing and his years as a 49er's usher at Kezar Stadium. He is survived and remembered with love by Gloria, their children Walter Lightner III, Lisa Lightner, Jennifer Flax (Craig), and his sister, Carol King (Jack). Extended family, including sister-in-laws Lois Davis (Bob - dec. 2006) and Elaine Wiebke (Clarence), step-grandchildren, and many nieces and nephews were also a special part of his life. He truly loved people and was most happy sharing time with family and friends. He often hosted parties and gatherings that he never wanted to end and famously told guests they were "his prisoners" and that "they would be staying a while longer." He loved music, especially jazz, big band, and Sinatra, and was an aficionado who could name any tune or artist of his generation. His love of sports and entertainment was epitomized on his "wall of fame" in photos of himself with professional athletes and celebrities, but his character shined in his love for his family and his sincere interest in others, no matter their profession or status. Services will be held at 11:00am on Saturday, November 11, 2017, at St Isabella's Church in San Rafael followed by a reception at Smith Ranch Golf Club.

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Published by Marin Independent Journal on Oct. 20, 2017.

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Lowell Reunion 2011

Rick Bradley

November 9, 2017

As an addendum to my prior condolence, my Dad, Worthen Bradley and Walt's dad, Walt graduated from Lowell in the same year, 1922. Again, my heart goes out to Gloria and the family for the loss.
God Bless You, Rick Bradley

Walt & Gloria, May 1999

October 29, 2017

XO

Jennifer MacNeil Blackwood

October 29, 2017

There are no words that can express the loss that Walt's passing over means to me and my family. He's been an "uncle", a father figure, as well as, his official role, a Godfather to me. A man of great warmth, faith, fabulous conversation, integrity, generosity...and one of the most fun people in our lives. Heaven is lucky to have him, and what a party it must be! God bless you, Uncle Walt. You are already profoundly missed.

Jennifer Harrison

October 22, 2017

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Each of you will be in my thoughts and prayers during this time and the weeks to come.
Sincerely,
Jennifer Harrison and Family.

Rick Bradley

October 20, 2017

Don't know what happened to the condolence I left, as only my photo of Walt, Gloria and Barry Gilbert made it. I was shocked and saddened to read of Walt's passing in today's SF Chronicle. We graduated from Lowell High School together in 1951, where Walt was a track star and I was on the swim team. Then we ended up living in the same neighborhood for 50 years, with our home in Upper Lucas Valley and then Marinwood. I last saw Walt at the Lowell High School 60th reunion October 12, 2011 and took the photo of Walt, Gloria and Barry Gilbert (Class of 52.) Walt was a really nice guy always with a smile on his face. He will be truly missed.
My heart goes out to Gloria and the family for the loss.
God Bless You, Rick Bradley

John Vignale

October 20, 2017

Truly sad to hear about Walt's passing. A true gentleman. I have a very special place in my heart for our shared memories. He was one-of-a-kind, generous and the very definition of gregarious. The world has dimmed a bit without his spirit and light.
My best wishes to Gloria, Walt Jr. Lisa, Jenn and extended family. He will be missed....

Walt, Gloria & Barry Gilbert 10-12-2011

Rick Bradley

October 20, 2017

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