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Joseph Hessmiller Obituary

Joseph Hessmiller, 62, passed peacefully at home in Bethlehem, PA on October 12th. He left the world a brighter place with his unparalleled ability to, in the words of Jackson Browne, fill in the colors of all our paint-by-number dreams.

Joe was born in Scranton, PA, to the late Frank and Margaret (Busteed) Hessmiller. In addition to his loving wife Eileen, surviving are son Gannon and spouse Katelyn Hessmiller; daughter Elizabeth and spouse Ray Hessek; and granddaughters Keira, Lia, and Sienna Hessmiller. Joe is also survived by Joanne Hessmiller (David Trego), Therese (Don) Chamberlin, Tom (Patti) and Michael (Bonnie) Hessmiller, and his mother-in-law, Thelma Shebby, with whom he had a special bond. Brothers Francis, Richard, and Patrick and nephew Joshua preceded him in death.

After graduating from Scranton Central High School and the University of Scranton, Joe worked for Met Life and then spent over 30 years at Computer Aid. He lived in Austin, TX for 7 years before returning to the Lehigh Valley in 2013. He was an active supporter of ArtsQuest (Performing Arts Board) and Bethlehem Area Public Library. He was known as an avid music lover, an edu-tainer, a philosopher, and the life of the party. He was always ready for a toast, a toke, or a tale. Joe was a generous and beloved husband, father, grandfather, and friend. We are lucky to have shared his brightness.

The family would like to thank Dr. Tara Morrison and Dr. Wayne Dubov and staff at Lehigh Valley Health Network for unparalleled care and treatment.

In lieu of flowers, a kind contribution in Joe's honor to LVHN Hospice (Allentown), or Oxfam, or Peaceable Kingdom Animal Shelter (Whitehall), would be appreciated.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Morning Call on Oct. 15, 2019.

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Lanita

November 11, 2019

RIP, Joe! May all the angels join you as you mosaic a beautiful walkway across the heavens; and, may all heavenly creatures envy your cool socks!

October 21, 2019

Eileen,

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Although I never met Joe, he seems like a wonderful person.

Jim Rutkowski

Peter Russin

October 19, 2019

So sorry to hear about Joe , he was one of the good guys I grew up in Green Ridge and hung out with Joe when we were in grade school haven't heard from him in 40 years just few weeks back he friended me on Facebook God bless all his family rest in peace my friend Joe love you man

Kevin Minnich

October 18, 2019

Gannon, my deepest sympathies to you and your family at this most difficult of times.

Linda Stambaugh

October 18, 2019

We express our deepest condolences to you Gannon and to your family, as well as to the many people who knew and loved your father. May time heal and be filled with cherished memories for all of you. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.

Sincerely,
the Stambaugh family

Linda Stambaugh

October 18, 2019

We send our thoughts and prayers to you Gannon
and to your family, and to all who knew and loved your father. May time and memories heal at this difficult time.

Stambaugh family

Annette Palutis

October 17, 2019

i want to express my deepest sympathy to Joe's entire family He was one of my favorite students atNorth Scranton and he was my favorite Fagin. Yesterday I found a picture of the two of us. I have placed it in a special place. I enjoyed his. Face book messages. I will miss them he will remain always in my heart

Hannah Shotwell/ Teel

October 16, 2019

So sorry for your loss. May God give you strength through this sad time.

Douglas Evans

October 16, 2019

So sorry for your loss. Joe and I grew up in the same neighborhood in Green Ridge and were friends through Robert Morris, North Scranton and Central High.

Joan Hummel

October 16, 2019

I am so sorry for your loss . God bless you all May he rest in peace . A life took too soon .

Connie Vivian

October 16, 2019

I am so sorry to hear of Joe's passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family. He was a great guy.
Connie Poklemba Vivian CHS '74

Joe Pagoda

October 15, 2019

Eileen,

I am so sorry to hear this news. I sat with Joe when we worked on the UL Team at Met.

Please accept my heartfelt condolences and know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

I am not sure if Joe kept it up after he left Met, but I will always remember him writing in his journals when I sat with him.

All the very best to you and your family,

October 15, 2019

So sorry, he was a great guy. Jim Wilson CHS '74

Karen Newhard

October 15, 2019

So sorry to hear about Joe's passing. His son, Gannon and our son, Brian graduated from High School together and were also in Boy Scouts together. Our heartfelt condolences to his family.

Dorothy Sterling Hill

October 15, 2019

Glad to have had you in my life Joe. Love to the entire family.

Barbara Bergeron

October 15, 2019

I remember him well from junior high and high school amazing young man.....

Brenda Busch

October 15, 2019

Dear Eileen and family,

Marie Wanuga

October 15, 2019

Eileen,

I'm just so very sad and sorry to hear this news. Joe was an amazing guy. I will be praying for you and your family.

Marie

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