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Matthew Urban Stephens

1966 - 2021

Matthew Urban Stephens obituary, 1966-2021, Allentown, PA

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Matthew Stephens Obituary

Matthew Urban Stephens,55, beloved Son, Brother, Uncle, and friend to all was called home to God on December 17, 2021 in West Palm Beach, FL. On July 26, 1966, Matt was born in Vallejo, CA to Christopher J. and Catherine (Wentling) Stephens Sr. Matt was a 1984 graduate of Allentown Central Catholic High School, and earned his Bachelor of Science degree in marketing from Drexel University in Philadelphia. While at Drexel he was a member of Lambda Chi Alpha Fraternity. As a youth Matt played baseball and football for Alton Park and CCHS, and basketball at the Allentown JCC. After college Matt lived and worked in NY, PA, WY, and FL. He met so many friends along the way. To know Matt was to become his friend. Matt loved his family and friends, sports, the outdoors, and listening to and making music. Surviving with his parents are his brothers: Christopher J. Jr, his wife Sita and their sons, CJ and Patrick, Andrew, his wife Leigh and daughters Rowan, Erynn, and Blair, and his sister Mary Catherine, wife of Mike Cole and daughters Catie and Molly. A Mass to celebrate Matt's life will be held at 12:00pm on January 29,2022 at St. Thomas More Catholic Church in Allentown. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made in Matt's honor to the charity of your choice. Arrangements entrusted to the O'Donnell Funeral Home, Allentown, PA.

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Published by Morning Call on Dec. 26, 2021.

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Lori Heraty

December 20, 2023

Just the other day, my husband & I were remembering Matt. He was such a kind, caring friend. He gave us an Evanston Christmas ornament. He came with us to Estes Park & he bought a Christmas gifts while there. We will remember him always, especially at Christmas. And his dog, Jacque (Jack) too.

Lori Heraty

August 31, 2023

Hey Mat! Kevin & I still miss you & Barbara & remember all the times we had together in Wyoming! We hope you two are having a Blast up there! :)

Mark Stringer

December 20, 2022

There's a time almost everyday where something reminds me of our great times together. Miss you Matt....Stringer

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Lori Heraty

January 30, 2022

Matt was a good friend to our family for many years. When he first moved to Wyoming he became friends with my father Ef Ruybal. They were always wandering around Evanston together. Matt later dated my sister Barbara. He was close to her daughters, Amy & Katie, too. He was always kind to my husband & I as well. We spent many nights drinking beer & dancing in the many hot spots in Evanston. In the summer, his barbeques were the best. Life was always an adventure with Matt! He would come out to Colorado & ski with us. He had Jack with him, his black lab. Every time we think of Matt, we think of John Lennon. Maybe they are singing together in Heaven. Love you Matt! You were the best of the best! Our deepest condolences to your family.

Mariana

January 29, 2022

When we were young Matt and I met in a college film class. I wore a button on my jean jacket that read "The only problem with reality is that there´s no background music". Naturally, we fell in love.

We had many adventures loving life and music, art, photography, and each other. I made many photographs of Matt - one posted here thanks to his brother Chris - to this one I´ll add one last song to help us bear this new, final reality... Matt, as anyone who ever loved you already knows... you look like a movie, you sound like a song...
Mariana

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=DDWKuo3gXMQ

My condolences and love to the entire Stephens family, especially Mr. & Mrs. Stephens, Chris & Sita and Andy; plus a special thank you to Mary C. and to all our college friends... we´re just walking each other home.

Tim Coffey

January 29, 2022

I only had the pleasure of knowing Matt for two years he was always kind and very giving worked with him in Florida made being away from home easy anything I needed he took care of it he will be missed I got to spend his last day with him I feel great full my deepest condolences to his family he passed to soon rip Matt Tim and christian

James Curtis Geist

January 27, 2022

James Curtis Geist

January 27, 2022

James Curtis Geist

January 27, 2022

James Curtis Geist

January 27, 2022

I am saddened to hear this news. We played football together at Alton Park. Matt played offensive guard and I played tackle. We played shoulder to shoulder for many years (1976-1978). R.I.P. Matt.

Laura Cormany

January 27, 2022

My most sincere sympathies to Stephens Family. Matt was my soul and friend for so many years. I will always remember his gentle soul, our many adventures and him being a part of my family. Myself and my kids will miss him dearly.

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Bob and Ann Cole

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Chris Stephens (Matt´s Brother)

January 27, 2022

Here is the ZOOM like for the Service for Matt on Saturday (Jan 29). The link will be live around 11:45am est. Hope you are able to join us.
https://psu.zoom.us/j/95300874826?pwd=K1A0ek1YSVNWZG9HeVR6U21INGhqUT09

Mark Stringer

January 24, 2022

matt...i miss you man...love youbuddy ..forever..Mark

Chris Stephens (Matt's Brother)

January 22, 2022

Our hearts are broken but our faith is strong ... there is a reason for everything. We lost a son, brother, uncle, nephew, cousin, and a great friend. To many, Matt was their "Best Friend." On behalf of our family, thank you for all the condolences and kind words. We will be celebrating Matt´s life at St Thomas More in Allentown, PA on Saturday, January 29 at 12 noon. We hope to see you there. Please note we will also try to establish a Zoom connection for the service. Any questions, please contact St Thomas More at 610-433-7413.
PS - A great picture of Matt reflecting his love for music and the great outdoors.

Chris Stephens (Matt's Brother)

January 22, 2022

Our hearts are broken but our faith is strong ... there is a reason for everything. We lost a son, brother, uncle, nephew, cousin, and a great friend. To many, Matt was their "Best Friend." On behalf of our family, thank you for all the condolences and kind words. We will be celebrating Matt´s life at St Thomas More in Allentown, PA on Saturday, January 29 at 12 noon. We hope to see you there. Please note we will also try to establish a Zoom connection for those who cannot make it. Any questions about the service, please contact St Thomas More at 610-433-7413.
PS - A great picture of Matt reflecting his love for music and the great outdoors.

Paul Boettcher

January 14, 2022

Sending my sincerest condolences to Matt's family and friends. Matt was my little brother in the fraternity at Drexel. I'll miss him very much. We spent some great times together, had many good laughs, played golf together, played guitars together and had the same like for music. I still have a tape we recorded together with me playing and vocals and Matt on drums he recorded with his 4 track recorder down at his uncle's place in Florida. My eyes have water pouring out of them as I type this. Attached is a photo of Matt & I in Key West back in the early 90's. We wound up there after a Grateful Dead concert in Miami. Matt had nothing but words of kindness "his words did glow with the gold of sunshine". He was my brother. He was my friend.

Linda and Steve Bodnar

January 1, 2022

May you be comforted by familiar memories as you cope with Matt's passing. We will always remember Matt's Sunny disposition and winning ways.

Maryanne & Ed Pohl

December 31, 2021

Sending our deepest sympathy to Cathy, Chris, Christopher, Andy, Mary C. and your families, for the loss of your Dear Son, Brother, Uncle. Such sad news. We have fond memories of his growing up years. Know that he and all of you are being remembered in our prayers. May he Rest In Peace with Jesus.

Jeff

December 30, 2021

Matt, you are one of the kindest souls I've had the chance of meeting. Save a seat for me up there. I'll join you eventually.

judie samer

December 29, 2021

Matt was one of a kind; warm, caring, and so funny. Thinking of him makes me smile. May the memory of Matthew bring you many smiles. My deepest condolences to all.
Judie

James McGoldrick

December 28, 2021

Matt was a great friend and brother. He will be sorely missed.

Mark Hanna

December 27, 2021

My cousin Matt always greeted me with a smile and hug. He had a heart of gold that he shared with family and friends. I will cherish his memory. Condolences to my family; Uncle Chris, Aunt Cathy Chris, Andy and Mary C.

Mitch Hanna

December 27, 2021

Matt was fun-loving and kind. He will be missed by his many friends and family.

Erin and Julie Cussen

December 27, 2021

So sorry for your loss. We knew Matt for over 31 years. We have many acquaintances, but Matt was a true friend. I always tell a story about him. We took him out for dinner and we paid the bill. I told him, "When you´re rich, you can take care of the bill." Matt said, "I´m already rich, I have friends like you." That is Matt.

Lonnie Wentling

December 27, 2021

I am very saddened with the passing of Matt. He was always so kind and thoughtful. He was just too young to leave us. I'm sending my love and prayers to the entire Stephens family

Dan Dougherty

December 26, 2021

Dear Stephens family. I am so sorry for your loss. I have fond memories playing baseball with Matt and Chris for the East Side Rams when we were kids.

Jack Evans

December 26, 2021

Chris, Sincere condolences on the loss of your brother. May he rest in peace.

David Tyack

December 25, 2021

I was so saddened to hear of Matt's passing. He was a warm , kind and genuine person. I have fond memories of our days at JCC.prayers and love to your family.

Jennifer Devers Trigiani

December 25, 2021

We love you Stephens family and wish we could be there to give each one of you a hug and kiss. Our deepest condolences to all of you. Love, Dewey, Roccie, and Andon

Mark Norman Murphy

December 24, 2021

Terribly saddened by the passing of Matt. We will keep the entire Stephens Families in our thoughts and prayers. We are Very Very Sorry .

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