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Douglas Fleming Obituary

Douglas (Doug) Fleming
Sept 7, 1956 - Feb 21, 2020
On February 21, 2020, after courageously battling COPD, Doug passed away peacefully in his sleep.
Doug was born in Honolulu, Hawaii to George and Margaret (Broderick) Fleming on September 7, 1956. He lived in Hawaii until enlisting into the Air Force in 1983 and was stationed at Castle Air Force Base. After leaving the Air Force in 1985, Doug went into the grocery business and worked for Sav-On, Lucky Stores and Save Mart Supermarkets. He left Save Mart to work as a union representative for UFCW Local 8, a job which he exceled at and loved to do. He made great friends in Jerry, Shelley and Anabella. He retired from the union in 2018.
Doug had 4 great passions in his life. His 2 boys (Zachary and Broderick), music, photography and golf. He was an extremely supportive dad. He enjoyed teaching his boys how to play golf and would spend many weekends while he still could at Rancho Del Rey. He loved Pacific Grove and enjoyed going there as much as he was able.
Doug especially enjoyed playing guitar with his close friend Glen Enger. They would play every other weekend and enjoy yearly camping trips. He loved Social Distortion and would play certain songs continuously, "Angel's Wings" was amongst his favorite.
Doug is survived by his two sons, Zachary (Stephanie Miranda), Broderick (Morgan Rubio), and Ajriana, his granddaughter whom he loved dearly, plus a grandchild due in late July. He is also survived by his brother Dave (Pam) Fleming of California, his sister Denise (Bob) Tanner of Hawaii, 4 nephews and many cousins.
He is also survived by his long friendships with Glen Enger and Randy Berkley. Finally, he will be greatly missed by Trina Lamons, his partner in parenting. His respect, love, and support in co-raising their two boys will never be forgotten.
A celebration luncheon of Doug's life will take place at the Fireside room at First Baptist Church located at 500 Buena Vista Drive on April 11th at 1:00 p.m. Please feel free to wear casual/Hawaiian/Raiders attire. Doug's ashes will go back home to Hawaii at a yet undetermined date.
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Published by Merced Sun Star & Modesto Bee from Feb. 28 to Mar. 2, 2020.

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Michele Gabriault-Dwyer

March 3, 2020

Doug was a great person. First met him at Save Mart, later as realtor help him buy his house. My thoughts and prayers to his boys and all the family. Rest in Peace Doug.

Trina Lamons

March 2, 2020

No words can express how much you will be missed. Such a great dad to our boys.

Robin Modica

March 1, 2020

So glad I got to meet you and go out to dinner with you, when Dan and I came out there in May 2019... Rest in Peace..
Robin Modica

Bernie

March 1, 2020

Doug we go way back to Sav On . We had a lot of good times. You will be missed. My condolences to your family.

Bill Glaser

February 29, 2020

I am sorry for the loss of Doug for his son's and family, I have know Doug since he came to Castle in 83. A couple years ago he told me of his health problems and plans to retire and go back to Hawaii

Robert Broderick

February 28, 2020

Our condolences also to Doug's Family. As his Uncle and Aunt will always remember that he was born on the day of our first date back in 1956. We are sorry not to be there to express our sorrow at his passing. Love All Around, Bob and Peggy Broderick

Maria Simmons,

February 28, 2020

My deepest condolences in the loss of your father, my prayers are with you Zakk, Stephanie and AJ, and with your family, may the Lord be by your side in this time of great sorrow.

Nancy Morgan

February 28, 2020

Aloha Doug! Love All Around and a hui hou.
Love,
Nancy

February 28, 2020

You were loved and will be missed. I'll always picture you sitting outside reading a book. I will miss your boisterous deep laugh.
LAA, Pamela an Dave

Daralene Silveira

February 28, 2020

My sincere condolences to Doug's family and loved ones at this difficult time. Doug was a friend and always such a help to myself and my late husband, Jim when it came to his duties with Local 8.
He will be missed

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