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Anthony Sanfilippo Obituary

Tony was with the Department of Justice for 13 years and the manager of the Litigation Support Section since 2004. Both in his capacity as a manager and as a human being, Tony reached out to many people in the Department and was respected by all and beloved by his staff.

In Tony's tenure with Litigation Support, he gained national recognition for his expertise in electronic discovery and was a regular panelist for NAAG's ESI training program for State Offices of the Attorneys General. In addition, his knowledge, skills and personality served to forge strong alliances with the legal sections and contributed greatly to the success of our litigation.

He was an inspiring mentor and leader for his staff and colleagues. He was a great friend to many. He will be profoundly missed and will be remembered always by those who knew him.

Tony was a devoted husband to his wife Danielle and to his two beautiful daughters, Madeline and Claire. Although he worked with passion and commitment for the Department, his first love and allegiance was to his family.

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Published by Mercury News from Apr. 1 to Apr. 6, 2009.

Memories and Condolences
for Anthony Sanfilippo

116 Entries

MPA

September 8, 2023

It doesn´t matter how much time passes, you and Matthew are still missed each and every day.

Memories of you both will always live on

September 22, 2016

Thank you angel Tony!

You are like Moses when it comes to parting traffic for the ol' man!

We all love 'n miss ya!

Dad

January 8, 2016

I was so sorry to hear of Tony's passing. I only learned of it recently while telling the story of the "best boss" I ever had. I was so fortunate to work for Tony at the DOJ. He was always so happy. He often spoke about his beautiful wife and children. I aspire to be as happy and generous as Tony. I don't know why he was taken so early but I am comforted by the thought that he was needed to be the "best boss" on the other side.
I will never forget you and the impact you had on my life. Thank you.

April 23, 2015

Six years since March 31, 2009. I think of you everyday my dear son and your death anniversary is still just as hard...I love you and miss you so very much. You left us with such wonderful memories and we were blessed to have you in our lives. Your brothers Dominic and Joseph miss you as well...and Matthew went to join you. I look for little signs that remind me of my two sons in heaven. Always remembering and loving you, Tony. Love from mom

My four sons...life is so lonely without you and Matthew, but we have our memories and oh the laughter.

December 17, 2013

Dear Tony, you just had your 45th birthday on December 14. I lit a candle by my favorite picture of you...and thought of 45 years ago that day. I miss you as much as ever, time does not help a mother who has lost a child. Dance in heaven with your brother, Matthew, and we will keep your light burning in beautiful memories. I love you Tony...mom

Tony's mom, Diane

April 2, 2013

My sweet son, I cannot believe the fourth year since you died has just passed. It was also Easter this year. Dad and I just stayed home. I had flowers and a candle lit between yours and Matthew's photos. I looked at pictures and listened to specific songs...and I laughed a little and cried a lot. I miss you so. Your brothers are taking me to the Giants Opening Day, so I will cheer in your place. I love you, Tony, I always will..love, mom..

Devin Gates

January 16, 2013

I always feel so clumsy when writing of someone posthumously. Yet I feel the need to be clumsy as I miss you and your friendship greatly. I was looking at old photos and needed to see you again, hence me here now. As I have begun to lose friends to "passing", I am reminded that I need to keep in closer contact with loved ones and greatly regret not doing so. Oddly enough, every time we talked it was always as if time stood still as things seem to progress exactly from where they left off. I think of you and your family often and my heart aches for Danielle and your girls. When I think of you, I also think of your parents and brothers and the warmness and kindness they extended me when I came to see you in Sonoma. It was no doubt you were to become the dynamic man you were with the support of the loving family you were so blessed to have. You will not be forgotten.

December 26, 2012

My sweet Tony, another birthday, another Christmas without you. It does not get any easier..I miss your smile, laughter and hugs. Your brothers, dad and I talk about you all the time and we always laugh with our memories of you. Two sons in heaven and two sons still here with me. I miss you, Tony, and I will always love you. Love, mom

Siobhan O'Sullivan

December 14, 2012

Happy Birthday Tony. Miss you today and everyday.

December 13, 2011

My sweet Tony, tomorrow is your birthday and we will be having a speical Mass said for both YOU AND YOUR BROTHER MATTHEW who joined you in Heaven on 12/3/11. My heart has shattered even more with the death of two of my sons. Take care of your baby brother in Heaven just like you used to do in life. At your eulogy, Matthew wrote that he would be joining you in Heaven, we just didn't know how soon. So tomorrow, I will CELEBRATE the day of your birth 43 years ago. What joy you brought to me, my first born son. I love you and miss you so very much. I am sure you and Matthew did "the brother huddle"..I love you both dearly..with joy and sadness I send my love to you, my first born son and to Matthew..your little brother..love, mom

Robin Short

December 6, 2011

If ever there was a good hug, a good laugh or big smile it was surely from one of your boys Momma Sanfilippo. Thank you for raising your family in Sonoma Valley and blessing us with such a vivacious crew. I am raising a son of my own, thank you again for such a good example. Lots of love to your family.

March 31, 2011

Oh Tony, two years ago today my life forever changed..I miss you so and I am grateful for the memories and photos..but I am so grateful for YOU and the wonderful man you became in your short life...I love you, Tony, I always will and your light still shines among all who knew you...especially your family and three brothers...with love, mom

December 14, 2010

Forty-two years ago TODAY,,,in Germany..you came into my life....In honor of your birth, in memory of your life, your mother thinks of you everyday but especially today...OUR day. I love you Tony, I always will..
mom

October 20, 2010

i love you so much you are the best uncle ever

Ted Benbow

September 15, 2010

I just learned of Tony's passing tonight, and I haven't been hit so hard since my own brother passed almost three years ago. I looked up to Tony more than anyone I've ever met, even though the last time I remember talking to him was not long after we graduated from high school together (he was Senior Class President, of course!) I haven't seen him in many years, but now that I reflect on his effect on me growing up, I realize that I have spent my life trying to be just like him. I honestly thought he would end up as a professional comedian, but it is no surprise that he dedicated himself to public service and continued to make the people around him better through his example. My heart truly aches for his family, who I know he loved more than life itself. God bless, and my prayers are with you tonight.

July 20, 2010

My sister passed away almost three years ago and I believe in my heart that god loans us the people we know and love. when they have done what god has set them to do on earth, its time for them to do better in heaven. The memories and love i have in my heart keeps me going and i promise you that the tears that fill your eyes now will dry in time.

John

July 10, 2010

how did he pass away?

June 21, 2010

My sweet son..its been over a year..a mother's heart still grieves, and never forgets..How blessed I was to have you for a son...Thank you Tony for so many memories..I still come to this site and I have read, many times, the many wonderful things your family, co-workers and friends have written about you. I miss you so much and I still see the deep sadness in your brother's eyes. I love you Tony...mom

Stephanie Anderson

May 27, 2009

Danielle, I was in DOJ today and asked to see Tony...and I was told of his passing. I'm so incredibly devastated. I had NO idea. Jonah will be inconsolable. He idolized and adored Tony. My heartfelt condolscences to you and the girls. If you ever need anything, please call.

Rebecca Nevarez

April 25, 2009

Dear Danielle.....it is with a saddened heart I write my condolence to you and your family. We have never personally met but I have provided mortgage financing to you and Tony over the years and then to all those he had so generously referred to me. Please know my prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
With love....

So sophisticated.........

April 16, 2009

We'll never forget your smile, T.

April 16, 2009

Shannon Vargas (Conner)

April 15, 2009

Dear Phil, Diane, Mattie, Joe, Dom, and Danielle, It saddens my heart to hear of your loss. "Tony boy" brings back very fond memories of childhood, all of us running amok in the Bel Aire tract, playing Jaws in the dough boy,and lighting firecrackers on the corner. He is missed. I wish you all the strength and courage to take each day as it comes. My love to you all.

Friends are Forever...............

April 14, 2009

Mark Martin

April 14, 2009

Dear Family, I met Tony through my job at Thomson. Over our various calls, meetings and lunches, I got to know his love for his family meant everything. My thoughts and prayers go out to you.

Rebecca Wan

April 10, 2009

I only worked with Tony briefly, but in that short time, I quickly learned what an extraordinary person he was. His best qualities--and there were many--became quickly apparent to me the first time I met him at a Litigation Support staff meeting. It was clear that his family was the center of his universe, and yet he cared deeply about the many other people in his life as well.

I realized early on what a privilege it was to work with him. He had a keen sense for people's strengths and knew how to encourage you to be at your best. Whenever I had a problem or question, he would help solve or answer it if he didn't already have the solution. Tony was also a staunch advocate for his staff, selflessly defending and supporting all of us when it was necessary. He once signed off on an email as "Mr. Responsive," and he lived up to that name.

Few can make such a huge impression on so many people, but Tony was one of those rare souls. He had the unique ability to be generous, kind, inspiring, supportive, and rougish all at once. His abundant energy and love of life was infectious; I'll always remember him with a huge grin on his face, and he'll continue to inspire me to live life to its fullest!

Hedda Litwin

April 10, 2009

Dear Danielle, Madeleine and Clare,

I only met Tony a year ago when he joined us for the e-discovery trainings, but I soon felt that I had known him forever -- Tony was just that way. He made every situation better -- from the time we got stuck in a North Dakota blizzard to looking for a coffee shop at 6 am in a small Missouri town. Yet he was the true professional -- always tweaking presentations to make them better. So many AG offices would have liked to steal him away from CA.

You should be aware of how much Tony talked about you -- he was so proud of his close family. We are all better for having known him.

Ronny Hensic Jr

April 9, 2009

Danielle and Kids,

I never met you but I grew up across the street from Phil and Diane and have some fond memories of Tony. I used to sneak over and hang out while the house was being built. I really looked up to Tony and his brothers. I remember finding excuses to have to go over and play baseball stars on nintendo with him when he hurt his back. When my father told me what happened I had to pass on my sympathy. Tony will be greatly missed!! He was a great man, I will keep you and the family in my prayers!!

Erica Miranda

April 9, 2009

Danielle, Madelaine, Claire, and family,

No one can say enough amazing things about your husband, father, son, brother, friend. He had such an amazing presence. Yesterday's memorial was a true tribute to the number of people that were blessed by having known Tony.

I got to meet Tony a couple years ago when joining Kevin's group. I enjoyed coming to work just to hear their outrageous stories and soak up the entertainment! There was never a dull moment around Tony.

I'll miss his great spririt, the permanent smile on his face, his encouraging words, and above all else, his singing! He could make anyone smile on their worst day.

As everyone else before stated, his wife and daughters were his world! I can't even begin to understand the pain you all must be feeling at this time, but I hope knowing how many people cared about him can somehow ease the pain.

Your family will forever be in my prayers!

The Men: Yanick, Caleb, Dan, Tony, Chris

April 9, 2009

Even after his passing, there will always be things around us that will remind us of Tony. Especially when you least expect it.

April 9, 2009

Sandra Lusich

April 9, 2009

Danielle & Girls. . .

Unfortunately, I never got the pleasure of meeting you or your girls personally, but I felt like I knew you all by the way Tony spoke so fondly of his family. I worked with Tony at DOJ and have to say he was a remarkable person. I felt compelled to send you a note just to let you know that Tony has touched the lives of many. . .

Everytime I think of him,I can't help but smile and chuckle to myself because Tony always had a smile and funny story to go along with it...

My condolences to you and your family. He will truly be missed by many.

Sean Cotulla, Litigation Support

April 8, 2009

Tony was my boss, friend, mentor, comedian, singer, salesman, storyteller, instigator and one of the best people I have ever known. He was true to his heart and soul. I loved listening to the stories he would tell over and over about the antics, trials, and tribulations of he and his brothers while they were growing up. We shared stories about our children and spouses and how we teased, tortured, and loved them.

He brought us joy…and we loved him well. We will forever miss him.

Michelle Quach

April 8, 2009

Tony was a true leader, motivator, and friend to all of us who had the privilege to work with him. He knew everyone’s name by heart, whether you were a big shot or not. He would cheer you up if you were sad, he would make you laugh with his contagious humor, he would bring light to lost souls, and he would give you everything in his power to help make you a better person. That was how big Tony’s love for life was and how much respect he had for everyone in his life. I have never met a finer leader, genuine friend, and selfless person with such a magnetic personality than Tony.

Anyone who knew Tony knew that Danielle, Madelaine, and Claire were the love of his life and the gems in his eyes. They were his Universe. His love for them shone through in every conversation. No doubt, he was a great husband and father.

A couple of years before I joined Litigation Support, I met him at a team building exercise in San Diego. For one of the exercises, we had to choose a team leader. In my group, there were two managers and Tony was one of them. I was expecting one of them to lead. Instead, out of nowhere, Tony said “I have a number from 1-10 in my head, who can guess what it is?” I didn’t even started to guess when he pointed at me and started shouting, “That’s correct, Michelle. You got it!” Shockingly, he remembered this stranger’s name, knew I was shy and tried to get me out of my shell. That was Tony -- always generous, always fair, and always funny and mischievous. He touched so many lives and brought so much happiness to this world.

Tony, you will be so sorely missed! You will always be our fearless leader and will forever live in our hearts. Before, I always counted on emailing or calling you for your support, whether it was work-related or just to chat about kids, health or the crumbling housing market. But now, I know you’re at a better place looking down at us, smiling, and still giving us support in a different way. Your legacy will go on and you will never be forgotten by any of us in Litigation Support!

C Steele

April 8, 2009

Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there, I do not sleep
I am a 1,000 winds that blow
I am the diamond glints on snow
I am the sun on ripened grain
I am the gentle autumn rain
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled light
I am the soft star that shines at night
Do not stand at my grave and cry
I am not there; I did not die.

Jim Calas

April 8, 2009

Speaking on behalf of the Calas family, my condolences to the Sanfilippo family and friends. I never had the opportunity to meet Tony but have come to know him through this tragedy. My daughter Brooke is a dear friend of the family and we have come to love her boyfriend Zak and his wonderful family. I pray the Lord will comfort your hearts and provide you peace knowing all things work together for those that love the Lord.

God bless.

Abe Cyphers

April 8, 2009

I grew up around the Sanfilippo/Danskin family in Sonoma and my heart goes out to all of you. Tony was one of the funniest guys I ever met and someone you could never forget.

April 8, 2009

Dear Danielle, Maddie, and Claire,
I never got to meet Tony, but I know we will meet. I am Brookie's mom, Susan. It seems as though I have known Tony through your amazing family, Chantal, Dan, and Zac. They spoke so highly of Tony. I have been constantly praying for you and your family. Tony seems to have made such an impact on everyone he was around. I thank God that we have such a hope in seeing Tony again soon. He is probably sharing stories with Peter and Paul, sharing all about his girls. Please know that our God will truly uphold you with HIs righteous right hand. I will pray that you will cling to His promises through this difficult time. Please know you are loved and supported by many, and you are prayed for constantly.
In His love and grip,
Susan Calas

Tami Krenzin (Warwick)

April 8, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. I also had the privilege of working with Tony. I met him several years ago, and he has kept me laughing with his stories. He will be missed greatly.

Angela Earls

April 8, 2009

My condolences to the Sanfilippo family. Tony was an exceptional human being. His vibrant personality lit up a room. He will be missed. May God comfort you during this difficult time.

Marlene Aprile

April 8, 2009

I am so saddened to hear of Tony's passing. I worked with Tony on a few different projects over the years, and it was always a pleasure. Tony was outgoing and fun and just made everyone in the room feel comfortable. He was so genuine and real. My deepest condolences to his family. He will truly be missed!

Courtney

April 7, 2009

Tony was always so full of life and love for his family. Every moment with Tony was a laugh and a smile.
Danielle, Madelaine and Claire, my deepest sympothy for your loss and may the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Julie Acuna

April 7, 2009

I met Tony when he first started with the DOJ. He and Kevin Baena were 2 of the funnest and funniest guys when they got together. I can still picture the two of them throwing a football when they were both in the docketing unit. I have fond memories of softball games until we all got busy with our lives and the business of raising kids. Danielle, I met you a few times at the softball games, my heart goes out to you and your girls. Tony was a great guy, always talking about his family and how they meant the world to him. I am so sorry for your loss. I will always cherish the memories that I have of Tony. He was larger than life!

Connie Jumper

April 7, 2009

Look to the hills for your help. DOJ will not be the same without Tony. We have you in our prayers. We will see Tony again in Heaven.

Martha Knutzen

April 7, 2009

I got to work with Tony as part of the SF office pre 2004. I always loved coming to Chris Greene's "mother ship" which included Tony and the others. Tony actually made our lit support projects fun and helped build an incredible team spirit for us all. His work remains a legacy for the CA DOJ.

William Steele

April 7, 2009

The volume of good things to say about my friend, Tony is immense and I am crushed to hear of his passing. We both started work in docketing thirteen years ago on the same day. I could tell straight away that he was one of the good ones --a person I both admire and respect. As a friend he was the rock-solid baseline to check ones sanity. A positive human being on every level. Tony was the man. Period. I will miss him very much and consider myself lucky to have known him.

Kathryn Wolff

April 7, 2009

I worked with Tony on several projects he pulled together for the Sacramento DOJ's ERA Section. My deepest sympathies are extended to the Sanfilippo family for your sudden loss. Tony exhibited the utmost in professionalism and was so accommodating and service oriented that he made me look like the skilled person! May you find peace and hope in knowing that your many friends and family members are here for you during this difficult time.

Tony enjoying time with Cody, Yarrow and Joe

Karen de Forero

April 7, 2009

You are always the laugh of the party. We will miss you but never will we forget you.
Our prayers are for your family and friends especially your parents, wife Danielle and daughters Madelaine and Claire.May they always feel your spirit.

Helen Bontemps

April 7, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Nick and Sandra West

April 7, 2009

Tony had a wonderful loving 'blended' family. He was able to take that love and build a family of his own. His love filled many hearts over his very short 40 years of life. A side note to Diane...We are deeply sadden for the pain you're having for the loss of your son, the love from your family will help the 'tomorrows'. God Bless the Danskin - Sanfilippo family.

Elaine Pedroncelli

April 7, 2009

Family 1st!! Everyone that knew you or even just met you for a moment could see what was most important to you! Your family!
Danielle, MadELAINE and Claire your family is here for you!!

I have watched this guest book grow at no surprise of all the beautiful comments everyone has to say about you. You knew that I was so proud of all your accomplishments. I loved how you would beam when you spoke about your work! Especially the two hours you and my mom sat in the middle of the shoe department at Nordstroms SF (while us girls shopped) discussing the case that Grandpa Walt had worked on many years ago. Your co-workers said you had a very good sense for your work. It was in your blood!

I will cherish the many sleep overs at your house, Sarah's softball games we attended, sometimes 5 a day. You were such a great role model for Sarah and PJ they cherished your words of wisdom!

You were more like a brother to me then my nephew, you watched out for my family. Pedroncelli Motorsports will continue moving forward with the goals we have made together.

Tony you were my best friend and confidant. There is a huge hole in my heart that will never mend. The shock that you are gone leaves me breathless I miss you terribly... Until we meet again don't get into to much trouble with my dad and Tom.

Love Auntie Elaine

Rachel Houston

April 7, 2009

I was fortunate to know Tony since childhood, growing up in Sonoma, and doubly blessed when he became a member of our extended family. I think I can speak for everyone in our family when I say that if you knew Tony was going to be at gathering, you knew you would be having a great time, and you could count on a belly ache from all of the laughs. So much fun recalling fun stories from High School and our mutual friends - I will miss that and my heart breaks for Danielle and the girls, and for everyone touched by him. He was larger than life to many, myself included.

Ron Hensic

April 7, 2009

Danielle,Madelaine,& Claire,

We mourn for Tony because we miss him but we will never forget him. Rita and I both send our condolences. I will leave you with this quote from a service which we recently attended. It was from a young
man who lost his 29yr old bride of 5 months.

" I have a theory. In the whole scope of things our life here on earth is like 30 minutes. So although it may seem like a long time before I see my spouse, It will only be about 5 minutes of her time before she sees me again"

"Sometimes it takes people up to Seventy or Eighty years before they are ready for God to take them to heaven. I guess since .........(my spouse) was so good He decided to take .... (my spouse) early"

And to you Dianne, I hope you already know how much we think of you and Phil.
Our love and prayers will always be with you and Tony's family.

Love
Ron and Rita

Leisa Maestretti

April 7, 2009

Clearly Tony was taken too soon from so many. Clearly he made life better for so many. I had the opportunity to work with Tony on a professional level at DOJ, he was always very nice. I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Because I lost my younger brother 6 years ago, I know the pain is real. I am certain that in time all of the wonderful memories and the love you have for Tony will allow you to smile. He will forever be in your hearts. God Bless his Soul and God Bless his family always.

Stacey Fong (Smalley)

April 7, 2009

Dearest Danielle, My heart aches for you and your darling girls. My condolences and prayers are with you at this increadibly sorrowful time. May the support of your family and friends empower you to gather strength during this emotional time. Bless you and your girls.

Tim Kracke

April 6, 2009

I wish you didn't leave me (us) so soon. I will remember everything you taught me. All the Giants and 9ers games. All the holidays. Your straight foreward honesty about everything. You being there everytime i needed you. Have fun with my dad up there. I really miss you Godfather. Please watch over me (us).

Kevin Kracke

April 6, 2009

To Danielle, Madelaine and Claire and Diane, I am so sorry to have learned of the loss of your Husband, Father and Son. I have read all the condolences from others and world was a better place as a result of many lives he touched. I am saddened by the fact that I have never met this wonderful person. What a nice guy. Love Cousin Kevin Kracke (Son of Fred Kracke rip 12-30-2008 and brother to Walter Kracke)

Stacey Luna Baxter

April 6, 2009

I must have come to this guest book at least three times a day trying to get the words together. My heart truly aches from the loss of my friend. My deepest sympathies to the Sanfilippo family.

I’m so fortunate to say that Tony and I have been friends for a few years. He brought so much laughter to everyone he knew. I even remember a few times he’d make me laugh so hard I’d cry! There were so many times that I would be having a bad work day and I just go up to the 12th floor to go see Kevin and Tony because I knew I’d walk away feeling better. The two of them together was just priceless! Several times at lunch, it seriously felt like Comedy Central. I don’t think there was ever one lunch that I didn’t say to Tony at least once, “I can’t believe you just said that!” He always had such hilarious stories of time with his brothers, his girls and of the different situations that would occur in the workplace. I wish I had a million more lunches with him there to make us laugh.

But then there was also the serious side of Tony…he was GREAT at his job and he was even better with people. While I was with the Civil Division, I worked directly with him on a few contracts that his section managed. Every time we would meet to discuss, he had it all under control and had already anticipated all the information I would need. I really appreciated that. I was always amazed at his span of knowledge…he was incredibly intelligent.

Danielle, Madeline & Claire…I have never known a man to talk so much about his wife and kids. He was so proud of his family. Danielle - I remember shortly after you redesigned his office. It turned out so nice. He loved it and was so proud of how great it looked and all the family pictures that filled it. I used to give him such a hard time because it was always clean. We would joke about there being so many baseball books, but hardly any work!

Tony was a great man and there’s just no one else like him. His loss is deeply felt and his friendship will forever be missed. I know that my life has been better just from knowing him.

Karen de Forero

April 6, 2009

Tony you are inspiration to the rest of us with your upbeat attitude and sense of humor.Your spirit will live on not only with me but with your family and many friends.You always made me proud to be your aunt and godmother.Love Auntie Karen

Anthony Gerard Sanfilippo & his namesake Anthony Thomas Sanfilippo

April 6, 2009

Fruss Convery

April 6, 2009

Tony aka Mouse, you made you whole family so very proud, a wonderful son, husband and such a loving father. You will live forever in our hearts........we will miss you.

Best Flight EVER!

April 6, 2009

Tony with his mom and three brothers...

Diane (mom) Danskin

April 6, 2009

To our sweet son and brother....We love you, Tony, we always will. Thank you sweetheart for the memories.
To everyone who posted a note about Tony..
We THANK YOU for sharing your thoughts with all of us. I know it has brought comfort to me and I am sure Danielle, Madelaine and Claire will cherish these messages....with love,
mom, dad and brothers Dominic, Joseph and Matthew

Love ya, Bro!

April 6, 2009

Love ya,Bro!

April 6, 2009

Proud Papas

April 6, 2009

Bill Campagna

April 6, 2009

Tony was an integral part of our extended FIO family and will be greatly missed by all who knew him. His kind heart was evident as he reached out to my son, Jesse, as he entered our Annual Opening Day festivities a few years back. There will be a great hole tomorrow where Tony's love will be remembered by all of us. Our hearts are with Danielle, Madeline and Claire; with Tony's brothers and parents, grandparents and extended family.

Proud Papas

Bill Campagna

April 6, 2009

Dave Cakarnis

April 6, 2009

My condolences to the Sanfilippo family. Tony was a great guy and I am very saddened with his passing. While I met him a couple of years ago, I feel like I have known him for so much longer. Tony’s personality, humor, and genuine friendship made him an instant close friend.

While fishing, hunting or talking on the phone, Tony spoke so highly of his girls and wife. Tony knew he was lucky to be blessed with such a great family and I know I was lucky to have known Tony. He brought laughter to everyone’s day and enjoyed life.

Tony was very special and he will be missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to Danielle, Madelaine, and Claire.

Laura Kracke

April 6, 2009

The words of so many are evident of the great soul that Tony is, was and always will be. You are forever in our hearts...

Laura and Garrett XOXOXO

Cathy Kester

April 6, 2009

Dear Danielle, Maddie and Claire:

I cannot believe your husband and father is no longer with us. The e-mail sent to all of us at DOJ last Wednesday shook me to the core.

I did not ever work with Tony, but as my next door neighbor, I know what a fine upstanding individual he was - always there to lend a hand when I needed it - whether it was starting my lawnmower or fixing the fence. I will also always remember the time my burglar alarm went off because the french door blew open on a windy day. One neighbor called me, but it was dark by the time I got home. I opened the door from the garage into the house, only to be confronted by someone holding a flashlight and shining it in my face. I screamed, neighbors came running, and finally, Tony shined the light on his face so I could see it was him. He had come in through the open door in the back to make sure I was OK. Funny now, but then - not so much!! I will miss his voice coming over the fence on warm weekend afternoons.

Your family was wonderful to me when Dave died almost four years ago. I hope to return the favor and will be popping over to make sure you are doing OK.

Please hold on to the good memories. They are what will keep you going for a long time.

Carla Otstott

April 6, 2009

I am so sad. Not only because Tony has been taken so soon, but that he leaves such a huge hole in the universe. Tony was an incredible fellow and his exuberance was infectious. As so many others have remarked, Tony was a genuinly devoted family man. I hurt in my heart for Danielle and the girls (whose pictures TS shared with glee...I especially liked one of Clair reading the paper...)
This is just devastating and you are all in my prayers.
To Tony's parents: you raised a fine man and we're all lucky to have shared his time and space.

Julie Taylor

April 6, 2009

I had the pleasure of meeting Tony on my very first day of work at DOJ. We spent two weeks training together and let me tell you how much fun he made it! We all knew that Tony would make his mark on DOJ! You could just tell that he knew what he wanted and was going to get it. He definitely made his mark. He was so nice and outgoing, positive, energetic, and genuine. I'm so sorry for your loss. It is hard for me to even imagine your pain and I hope that you know how much he was loved and looked up to by everyone. May your memories bring you peace.

Bonnie Shere

April 6, 2009

I only met Tony and Danielle a couple of times, I remember him as a very likeable and someone who made me feel very comfortable in his home. My heart goes out to his family and friends. My prayers are with all of you. Bonnie Shere (Brenda Krackes Mother)

Michael Sommer

April 6, 2009

To me, Tony was "Mr Can-Do". Whatever the issue, he had a solution (usually a good one!). I loved him for his helpfulness, and enjoyed his outgoing personality. My deepest sympathies to Danielle, Claire, Madelaine, Diane, Matt, Joe, Dom and Phil. With love,

gonna miss you mouse . . .

April 5, 2009

Marian Sawyer

April 5, 2009

Tony was a joyful and upbeat person; he greeted everyone with a hello and a smile. He was hardworking, cared deeply about his job, and helping others do theirs.

What I admired most about Tony was his love for his family. It was evident Danielle, Madelaine, and Claire were the love of his life; family time and family vacations were important to him.

I will miss Tony's booming voice, his positive attitude, and hearing him burst into song (usually late in the date when he, Charles and I were the only ones left in the office - but not always).

Tony knew how to live, how to enjoy life, and definitely knew what it meant to love family and friends. He truly will be missed. My condolences to his family.

Lucinda Seaton

April 5, 2009

I am saddened to hear about the death of Tony. I worked with him for several years on the flood cases. He was invaluable to me in helping make programs and copy documents to present the cases in court. He was a good friend and will be missed by all whose hearts he touched at DOJ and in his personal life. My condolences to his wife and children which he loved.

Chris Greene

April 5, 2009

Dear Danielle, Madeline and Claire,
I first met Tony 13 years ago when he came to work at the DOJ. He worked right down the hall from our offices in the Docketing Unit. It was at that time that I had a glimpse into his wonderful and inspiring devotion to his family. He had just learned that he and Danielle would have their first baby, and he was bursting with excitement and anticipation at being a father. A few years later when Tony came to work with us in the Law Practice Support Section, baby Claire was born. Tony posted photos on the walls of his office of the new baby girl and her big sister. Over the years he regaled us with hilarious and touching stories of being a father of his two wonderful daughters as well as expressing his love and respect for Danielle. He also told funny stories about growing up with three brothers -- he was always so proud of them.

Tony quickly progressed in the Law Practice Support Section. He assumed responsibility for the daily operations of the Section and made his mark as a supervisor, especially with the student assistants. He became their coach and mentor and continued to serve in that role over the years. He then became a first line manager and in 2004 took over the lead for the entire section where he gained a national reputation. His staff is devoted to him and miss him terribly. In addition, staff throughout the DOJ also miss him. They are shocked and saddened by his passing.

I count myself lucky. I am blessed to have known Tony over the years and to call him my friend. I am so very sorry for your loss.

You have touched our lives in many ways

April 5, 2009

Family 1st Always

April 5, 2009

Siobhan O'Sullivan

April 5, 2009

Tony was the best. I will miss him so much. Whenever I knew Tony was going to be at a gathering that was always the big highlight for me. I knew it would be fun. I knew I would be a great day. I regret so much not having got a picture with him when I last saw him in November. My deepest condolences to Danielle & the girls, Phil and Diane, and all the Sanfilippos and Cornets.

M. Scott

April 4, 2009

I knew Tony for years at DOJ before we actually worked together. He was one of the reasons I wanted to work in Litigation Support. He really loved his family and spoke of his wife and daughters often. He later became the manager of our section and it was great working with him. He will be missed by a lot of people, including me.......Marvin Scott (Elk Grove, CA)

Dianne Jones

April 4, 2009

I’m so saddened by Tony’s premature passing. Whether you knew Tony for years or only a few hours, you knew his first priority was his family. His devotion to his wife and two daughters was clear nearly immediately. Too many people in our modern world come to the end of life and wish they had spent more energy on their family and friends. I’m heartened by my belief that Tony was not one of those people. It was wonderful and inspiring to see a person thrive in his career, earning the respect of those around him in the workplace, and always knowing exactly what was number one to him. My heart aches that his wife and daughters have had their time with him cut short, but I know he made the most of every day he had with them. The world has lost a fine man, and I’m honored to have known him.

Sherrie Nagafuchi

April 4, 2009

Reading the numerous entries for Tony makes it even more apparent that he was a well-respected and wonderful person, friend and devoted husband and father. From the moment I met him I knew he had this exuberance for life. In large part due to his Danielle, Madeline & Claire. They were his everything.

I will miss running into him in the hallways of DOJ. I will miss my opportunities of asking him how he was doing, because he would always respond with "Super!" or "Excellent!", which was a very rare response from anyone.

Tony was a cheerful, happy friend who will forever be truly missed.

anton litchfield

April 3, 2009

I wanted to share with everyone a funny Tony story.

I think it was in 2001 when Tony, myself, Monica, Sandy, and a few other of my colleagues and DOJ staff were in So. Cal. doing an electronic collection for the CYA. Needless to say part of our work required us to go into the "Youth" facilities (aka - prison). It's important to note for the purposes of this story that these were not 12 year old little boys. Most of them looked around their early 20s and that they ate their Wheaties everyday.

We had a team of us in a conference room where we were copying hard drives, etc... while Tony was going into the areas of the facility where the offenders were housed, to carry the computers back to the conference room. In standard Tony fashion he explained the story (and he has retold this story countless times) that he went into an office maintained in the areas where the wards frequented. He was minding his own business, bending over in this office to unplug and gather the computer when all of a sudden he heard an extremely loud banging and yelling on the window\door of the office he was in. He figured he was done for. When Tony would tell the story he would then mimic his frightened screams (explained to me as the screams from a little girl - high pitched) jumping into the air. When he gather the courage to look and see what the commotion was it turned out it was several of the wards playing a prank on him laughing at his expense. The way Tony would tell the story was hilarious and it always made everyone around him laugh.

Linda Brughelli

April 3, 2009

I met Tony 13 years ago when he joined the department. He was special. One of the first things anyone learned about him was that he had a wife he adored and one, then two children who were the sunshine in his life.

Every day was a good day for Tony. He knew how to tell a story and make you laugh. No stranger remained one for long, and he was a fine and true friend to many, many people. He filled up every room he entered and left you feeling you could do anything you set your mind to. He was a great motivator and mentor.

Tony was an outstanding leader. He was brilliant, but he had the common touch and he was quick to give credit to others and put others before himself. He was a superb communicator and engaged his staff in all aspects of Litigation Support so they could do the best job possible and feel part of the team.

People mattered to him, and he loved them all. He was the real deal.

Monica Anderson

April 3, 2009

Tony is someone you never forget. His exuberant personality and love of life was infectious, and he brightened every room he entered. Tony had the unending ability to make me laugh - no matter what. His love for his family was evident in everything he did. We constantly shared stories about our children, laughed at their follies, and reveled in the fun of parenthood.

I shared my work with Tony for 13 years - he was one of my best friends in the AG's office. I cannot imagine the office without my dear friend. My heart breaks for his family at his passing, and the thought of his two sweet daughters without their devoted Papa. But I know that Tony is in Heaven now, smiling down at us all, as he entertains an entirely new audience with his never-ending stories, jokes and laughter.

Alan Humason

April 3, 2009

I knew Tony through our work together; he was a client, and I respected him very much. He was always thoughtful, engaging, a great listener; he had a winning personality to go along with a keen, incisive mind. I am very sad to hear he has passed, and I send my deepest sympathies to his family and friend for the loss of this vibrant and genuinely good man.

Jim Leonard, CHP

April 3, 2009

Tony was very respected as a professional in litigation support and was extremely intuitive when it came to investigative strategies. I know he was a cop at heart and he and his excellent team certainly made a huge impact on one of our cases. In my brief experience with him he truly was dedicated to law enforcement and working together with other agencies to benefit the citizens of California. What an excellent public servant we had in Tony. His positive and "can do" personality is something I will always remember. His dedication to litigation support and electronic aspects of litigation was truly apparent. I am very saddened by his passing. I want his family to know what an outstanding law enforcement professional he was. People in California are safer becuase of his very dedicated work with the Department of Justice. My prayers are with his family and his extended DOJ and law enforcement family.

Pearl P.

April 3, 2009

How unexpectly sad it had been to have read about this tragic loss of a great employee even though I personally had not met him. Deepest symphathy to his family.

David Langdon

April 3, 2009

I spoke with Tony many times during my time with the State of CA system at the Office of the Attorney General in Sacramento, CA......I just was told today about his passing and it breaks my heart.....I can only imagine how heartbroken his family and friends are and I hope they all find peace in the arms of each other....Tony will be greatly missed.......I'm at a loss for words...

Jill Bowers

April 3, 2009

To the Sanfilippo family: Tony will be greatly missed by those of us privileged to work with him. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of loss.

John Fisher

April 3, 2009

Whether we were stuck in North Dakota during a blizzard or eating BBQ and sipping SweetTea in Mississippi, Tony always made me smile, laugh and forget about any problems that seemed to occupy that day. Whether we were working, hunting or fishing, Tony always talked about his girls and his lovely wife. He was truly a good man, a good father, and a good husband. In the final analysis, what more could any of us hope to be? I will miss him very much.

Matthew Madalo

April 3, 2009

I worked as a law student intern for Tony 13 years ago and I still remember the day he started at DOJ. Tony certainly had his work cut out for him trying to deal with a group of grumpy, out of shape, stressed-out law student interns. He introduced himself as the "Italian Stallion" and the rest is history. His humor was second to none...only Tony could somehow draw analogies between working in litigation support and the movie "Rocky" (including it's numerous sequels).

Tony was not only our boss, however, he was our friend outside of work. His friendship was sincere and we loved him for it. Always with a great story, always with an encouraging word.

Then, there are just those things that made Tony who he was and will always bring a smile to my face...those who were there will never forget the day Tony decided to give a demonstration of the fundamentals of throwing a baseball. Needless to say, I'm glad he didn't give up his day job.

Tony's humor, friendship, leadership, and larger-than-life persona immediately commanded respect and admiration from each and every one of us in that office.

I will miss you Stallion!