Cindy Tucker Mulcahy
March 21, 1959 - February 23, 2012
Resident of San Jose
Cindy Tucker Mulcahy passed away on February 23, 2012 doing something she loved, skiing at Lake Tahoe. Cindy was a loving and faithful wife, a devoted mother, daughter, sister, aunt, and cherished friend. She is best known for her selflessness, her contagious smile, her infectious personality, her boundless energy and optimism, and her heart filled with love and compassion for anyone in need, especially children. Cindy had a deep faith and shared her love of Christ with family and friends.
Cindy was a committed volunteer to several organizations, including Children's Musical Theater San Jose, Valle Monte League, and St. Christopher Ladies Guild. No task was too big for Cindy to assume and complete with humility. Cindy was her family's "Florence Nightingale" and they are in awe of how she lived her life to help others.
Cindy grew up in the Oakland Hills and lived a life of joy in San Jose for the past 21 years. Cindy attended Skyline Senior High and graduated with honors from Cal State University Chico. She was a member of Alpha Delta Pi Sorority and excelled on the Chico State "Airheads" Frisbee team.
Cindy is survived by her beloved husband, Brian Mulcahy of San Jose; their sons Jordan, Tucker, and Brian Jr.; parents Ann and David S. Tucker Jr. of Napa; sister Dawn Grinstain (Stuart) of Sacramento; twin sister Cathy Burkholder (Rod) of Danville; brother David S. Tucker III (Nicole) of Danville; and sister Denise Main (Ken II) of Naples, FL. Cindy was a much loved "auntie" to ten nieces and nineteen nephews, the daughter-in-law to Shirlee DiNapoli Schiro of San Jose, and sister-in-law to Tim Mulcahy, Erin Mulcahy Stein (Robert), Paula Keane (Tom), Michael Mulcahy (Kimberly), Stephanie Ronco and Dominica Gotelli (Doug).
Cindy's life will be celebrated with a Funeral Mass on Thursday, March 1, 2012 at 11:00 a.m. at St. Christopher Church, 1576 Curtner Avenue, San Jose. A Visitation will be held on Wednesday, February 29, 2012 from 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 pm at LIMA-CAMPAGNA-ALAMEDA MISSION CHAPEL, 600 S. Second Street, San Jose (408) 288-9188.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to your favorite charitable organization in Cindy's name. Or, consider planting a garden in a place that needs it, as Cindy would have done.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Jose Mercury News/San Mateo County Times on Feb. 28, 2012.

Memories and Condolences
for Cindy Mulcahy

108 Entries

Suzyq Van Dyke

December 6, 2020

I will never forget meeting Cindy and what an impact she had on me with her bubbly personality and engaging, inviting smile. Being that she is the twin of her sister Kathy, I knew her loving and infectious personality runs in the family.

February 28, 2020

Has it really been 8 yrs so many times I've gone to call you because there's an Emergancy in the family or I'm scared then I remember you're not here I miss you pooh-pooh
❤ Miss Chris

Marti Avolicino

February 22, 2019

Cindy, a loving loyal friend, never to be forgotten!

March 21, 2016

Happy birthday pooh-pooh love you

January 14, 2015

Cindy, I made a promise to you and myself to pray for Jordon,
Tucker and your 2 Brian's often. I have kept that promise.
Miss my Little Cindy ....your laughs and notes you sent me.
Pam Larson

Christina

January 13, 2015

Cindy there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about and what you taught me you were/are an amazing sister to me ... You taught that no dream is unreachable ... in February there will be two runs made for you of course the plunge and iron horse two runs that hold great memories I love you

Christina (miss Chris) & Luke Logger & Taffy Cason

September 27, 2013

cindy I still can't believe your. gone so much has happened ... I will forever watch over Geordie , Tucker & Little B
you would be so proud of the men they have become .... I can't believe Little B is 18 ..... Tucker is doing amazing with his acting and Geordie has an amazing job and is very happy
forever I love u pooh-pooh

Sue Van Dyke

September 26, 2013

Cindy was such a bright light with a smile that was so contagious. She was one of those people that you wanted to be around whenever you could.

christina cason

February 20, 2013

dear pooh pooh
i can't beleave it's almost been a year since u left us in that time taffy joined u in heaven i love u forever love christina

Cindy Jadoon Miller

March 11, 2012

I am a cousin of Cindy's and haven't seen her since she brought Jordy to visit me any my then, infant son while living in Castro Valley. That has now been 28 years ago.

Because we lived so far apart growing up, we only got together for large family reunions, but I will always remember Cindy as a fun-loving, energetic and caring person.

We were all deeply saddened and shocked by the news and pray that God will give peace and strength to her immediate and extended families. She will not be forgotten.

Larry Laverty

March 6, 2012

Thank you Cindy. In high school, I barely knew you, but your bright smile and loving spirit every time our paths crossed will always be with me. To be called 'selfless,' as you have, is the highest level of achievement in life to me, and I'm very sad not to have been a part of your life in some small way.

Amy Nedderman Laird

March 5, 2012

I knew Cindy at Montara Jr. High and Skyline High at a transitional time that was difficult for many young adults. It was the early '70's and times were changing. Cindy was always vivacious, inclusive and kind. She was the kind of easy achiever that, in lesser people, could cause inflated egos-but not Cindy. She had her own style and grace that, I felt, was grounded in her esteem for self and others. She was a special person. I'm sorry for your loss.

Kim Zimmer

March 4, 2012

Beautiful memories I have of Cindy, back when our boys were toddlers. Love and caring thoughts to Cindy's family and friends.

Kim, Steve, Zachary, Luke and Jacob Zimmer

Rob, Patsy, & Quinn McClure

March 3, 2012

To the Mulcahy and Tucker Families,
Deep and sincere sympathy for your loss.
Rob, Patsy, and Quinn McClure {a CMT family}

christina

March 2, 2012

pooh-pooh u will forever be missed i love u forever

Linda Jo Belsito

March 2, 2012

Dear Mulcahy Family,
I heard about this from my Arbonne colleagues. I am sorry for your untimely loss, how sad to lose your mom, wife, sister, daughter at such a young age. She sounds like she was a dynamo, much like myself, and wish I could have met her. Celebrate her life, she will always be with you all, in your heart and everything you do. Take one day at a time. Take care of yourselves. Respectfully, Linda Jo Belsito.

Kenny Cason

March 2, 2012

Dear Mulcahy/Tucker famalies:

I am so sorry for your loss. I didn't know Cindy well but was flabergasted to learn her fate. She was my cousin, and the times we spent together, although brief, are happy memories for me. We have all been short-changed by her passing.

David Gutierrez

March 2, 2012

Dear Mulcahy Family,

We are so sorry for your loss. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. May God help you through your grief.

The Gutierrez Family

Amber Messaros

March 2, 2012

Dear Mulcahy Family,
I'm so very sorry for your loss, my heart goes out to you all. You don't know me and I don't know you, but I'm a part of the Arbonne family. The story, the tribute written about your wife and mother, Cindy, was so touching. It brought tears to my eyes. What an inspiration. My family will be keeping yours in our hearts and prayers. May God Bless You. ~Amber Ps.16:11

Steve Zell

March 1, 2012

Dear Brian and Tucker:
Cindy's loving smile will always be with me. She was such positive presence our classroom. It was always wonderful
to see her again at CMT...like seeing a dear, old friend.

I can only hope that all of the wonderful memories that you shared help ease the sadness and pain that you must be feeling.

Dear Tucker: I know that you have become a man because
of the love and devotion of your mom and dad. I know you will always carry your mom's memory within you and you will deal with the shock and sadness that you are feeling. Your immediate family will always be there for you and there are so many like myself that support you.

Steve

Chansina Luy

March 1, 2012

To the Mulcahy Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Evyery year I look forward to working with Cindy and the menu committee for Christmas Tree Elegance. She was such a sweet and wonderful person. I am going to miss her dearly. Please take care and best wishes to the family.

Kathy Yancy

March 1, 2012

To the Mulchahy Family,

My heart goes out to you and your family in your loss! I had met Cindy sometime ago briefly at a CMT function but didn't have the pleasure of knowing her personally. However, her beautiful smile is still etched in my memory, and from what I know and read about her, I see she loved others, gave of herself, was a terrific mom and was beautiful through and through. She lived life to the fullest and passed on this legacy to her children. May you cherish these wonderful memories of your mom/wife, and I pray the Lord bring you comfort and peace in your times ahead. Know that there is hope for all of us to see our loved ones again as I too look forward to the day I see my mom again! God Bless, Kathy Yancy

Jane Taylor

March 1, 2012

My thoughts and prayers go out to the Mulchay and Tucker families. Cindy was a very special person with a beautiful smile and a wonderful spirit.We were all luck to have known her.

Corky Squier Schadler

March 1, 2012

Dear Mulchay/Tucker Family,
My heart and prayers go out to you on the loss of your remarkable Cindy. May the God of all comfort give you strength, peace and hope knowing there is life everlasting. I met Cindy in childhood, as her Grandma, Dorothy Goddard Tucker, was my Great Aunt. Cindy must have taken after her, as Aunt Dorothy was a truly lovely lady too. Love and Prayers, Corky Squier Schadler and Family

Lisa Kiplinger-Kennedy

March 1, 2012

I had only just met Cindy in Phoenix, AZ for our Arbonne Red Carpet celebration, but I remember her treating me like I had been her friend for ages. Her warm smile and positive outlook was contagious even in the brief time I had with her. My heart goes out to her famiLy and her Arbonne team, who I know are all going to miss her tremendously. I hope you can be comforted in having her as your forever guardian angel, and may your find strength, comfort and peace through your faith and through her undying love for you all.

Joan Pinder

March 1, 2012

Mulcahy Family,
I am so saddened to hear of your loss. Cindy was such a warm, caring person with the greatest smile and always an offer of encouragement to those around her. She will be missed and you are in my thoughts. RIP Cindy

March 1, 2012

Brian & Boys -
I feel numb about Cindy's passing. . . We grew up together in the Oakland hills, all the way back to Joaquin Miller Elementary school. I have many fond memories of Cindy and will keep them close to my heart. She was truly a beautiful woman. Brian and 'Geordie', Tucker and Brian Jr. - I wish each of you much love while your hearts heal.
Rose Schwarz, Oakland California

Karen Altree Piemme

March 1, 2012

My heart goes out to family and dear friends -- everyone who loved Cindy and was loved by her. Wishing you peace.

Anne Randall Arcuri

March 1, 2012

To all of Cindy's family, I am so saddened to hear about your loss - I went to High school with Cindy and her siblings, although I haven't seen her in 30 plus years, all I can think of is she was so gorgeous, popular, Homecoming Queen and a fun loving, good person with an amazing smile and zest for life! I know she will be greatly missed! May your good faith carry you through this tough time... Love,

David Maurer

March 1, 2012

She was such an incredible person that inspired so many people. Much love to your entire family.

March 1, 2012

Dear Brian and family,
We are completely saddened by Cindy's death. She was a wonderful, optimistic, always warm person. Her smile and personality were infectious. We were all fortunate to have known her. Take care of yourselves during this extremely difficult time.
The Warren Family
Chris, Theresa , Brian and Andrew

March 1, 2012

Tucker Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you...

Ernie and Theresa Fierro
Peterson Tractor Co.

Dana Zell

March 1, 2012

Mulcahy Family,
I am so shocked and saddened by this news. Though I didn't get to see her often, whenever I did get the chance, cindy was always so full of life, smiles and welcoming with open arms. No doubt she will be missed and carried on in spirit for generations. She is a true testament that we should all live our lives to its fullest and appreciate each and every day.

With love,
Dana Zell

Susan Herrold

March 1, 2012

We are holding a special place of love and peace in our hearts for Cindy, her family, and her extended family. She touched so many in such a beautiful, pure way, including us. Susan and Myha'la Herrold

Beth Granger

March 1, 2012

Brian,
I am so shocked and saddened to hear of your loss. My heart goes out to you and the Boys during this most difficult time for you. I will never forget the love and support YOUR family showed to me when my little sister so full of life and enthusiasm (just like your Cindy) was taken far to soon. Please accept my sincere sympathy. I am praying for strength for you to carry you through this time.
Your friend,
Beth Granger

Amanda McNAb

March 1, 2012

Mulcahy family,
Prayers and thoughts with you all. She sounds like a beautiful soul and loved life and lived to the fullest. May God bring peace to your family in this hard time

Blessings from her distant Arbonne family member in AZ,

Darlene D'Amico-Sorci

March 1, 2012

Dear Brian and Family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers. Cindy was truly a blessing. We will forever cherish her friendship and the special times that we shared. God Bless all of you.
Love,
Gaeton, Darlene & Dominica

The Medeiros Family

March 1, 2012

And the days continue and still in shock that God took one of our Angels so soon. Wasn't sure if it was Cindys dazzling smile, optimisitc attitude in life, always having a nice thing to say, her love for her men in her life, her supporting everyone elses children, or just the kind way she said hello like you have been friends for years that made her THAT SPECIAL! I don't think she even knew how many lives she touched for just being who she was. Our prayers with the Mulcahy family. RIP Cindy

Tom Hood

March 1, 2012

RIP Cindy

Marion Mueller Bryant

February 29, 2012

Dear Tucker , and Mulcahy Famlies......
Brian , I haven't seen you for quite some time, but when Karin shared the news with me I was shocked . I had just reminded Karin the week before that i knew Cindy quite well prior to her meeting you.. She was such a fun , funny and accepting person. And I have thought of her often over the years. And then I began to think about you and your boys... Because as you know , Karin and I lost mom in July .. And that was sudden and unexpectedly as well. If you haven't experienced that kind of pain and shock ..It is impossible to explain , and quite unbearable .. So Today Brian and sons, my thoughts are with you and hoping you can think of all the beauty in Cindy.. She has gone to a peaceful place , and you are left holding her memories in your hands , as tears fall into them .. My sincere love comes your way.... With much love ..Marion Mueller Bryant

Tracey DiLeonardo and family

February 29, 2012

Cindy was always the friend I could count on to brighten any day. Her beautiful smile and warm hugs will be missed so much. I feel honored to have had her as a friend. She will be missed by all who were blessed to know and love her. Praying for her "boys" that they have strength and find happiness in the future. I love you my sweet friend!

lisa bagot

February 29, 2012

A light has gone out here but will live on everlasting. My heart goes out to all her friends and family. To leave while doing what one loves is a gift that is difficult to understand but must be accepted. her passion and love lives on in all of us. Those of us from Skyline will miss her.
lisa bagot, san diego, ca

April Ericson-Garcia

February 29, 2012

Brian and family,
Cindy was such a special lady, when I used to babysit Jordie and Tucker she would always ask me about high school and boys , I really enjoyed our talks. I will never forget the time you guys took me with you to Disneyland and Palm Springs! I was sad when we moved and lost contact, I always loved Cindy;) she will never be forgotten, you and the boys are in my prayers <3

Tynka Dees

February 29, 2012

Such a tragic loss. Our thoughts are with your family. Cindy will be missed, such a warm and giving lady. Always a pleasure to volunteer with her at CMT and see her smile brighten up the room Tynka Dees and Russell Malley

joy osborne

February 29, 2012

I love you Cindy! Your smile lights up the room! I will remember your kindness and grace always!

Cindy Haubl

February 29, 2012

We never saw Cindy without a smile and a hug for everyone and that is how she will be remembered. We are so saddened by this tragedy, but keep that smile in the front of your minds. Many prayers and hugs to all of the Mulcahys.
All our Love,
The Haubls

Akanimo Uwan

February 29, 2012

Accept my sympathies on the death of your wife and mother, Cindy. I read of her demise today in the San Jose Mercury Newspaper, and while I dont know either of you nor the deceased, I decided to drop by the funeral home, Lima Campagna Chapel, in San Jose to pay my respects. Its always sad to lose a loved one, but may God grant you all the grace to bear this loss.

Akanimo Uwan

greg and merleen sulenes

February 29, 2012

We are sorry for your loss. We will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.

Rob & Julie Biagini-Komas

February 29, 2012

Brian and family,

You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Cindy was such a wonderful friend and neighbor, and will be greatly missed. With love.

Geri, Hal & Willy Peterson

February 29, 2012

Dear Brian, Tucker, Jordie and Brian, Jr.,
I send you my most sincere prayers and love over the loss of Cindy, our precious Cindy. I feel immensely honored and fortunate that this special, fantastic woman called me her friend. She was always so full of joy and kindness, incredibly fun with her bright smile and delightful laughter, generously extending love, help and encouragement to everyone around her. As another friend said, "She was the very definition of 'being there.'" We're all so deeply saddened by her loss and I miss her terribly. I will carry her in my heart forever. Love and prayers to all of you and to the extended Tucker-Mulcahy families. Let us know if we can help in any way.

The Cliffords

February 29, 2012

Praying for God's comfort for Cindy's family and friends during this time. She was such an inspiration to so many and a true example of what it means to give to others selflessly.
She always was a bright light at CMT and everytime I saw her smile it was just infectious. My son Shawn and I will miss her very much.

Janet Freitas-Sall

February 29, 2012

Brian & family...my thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time. May the Lord watch over and comfort you in your loss, knowing that there will be a time that you're together again forever.

Here's something I read that brings me comfort in times like this...

I thought of you with love today, but that is nothing new. I thought about you yesterday, and days before that too. I often speak your name, and sometimes hear you speak mine. Only to find it's been another beautiful dream, that I wish would never end. I know you are with us, because how else could we go on. We will cherish your love forever.

The moment that you died, our hearts split in two; The one side filled with memories, the other died with you. We often lay awake at night, when the world is fast asleep; And we take a walk down memory lane, with tears upon our cheeks. Remembering you is easy, we do it every day; But missing you is a heartache, that never goes away. We hold you tightly within our hearts, and there you will remain; Life has gone on without you, but will never be the same. You're forever loved and sadly missed.

Linds Hood

February 29, 2012

Mulchahy Family!
My deepest condolences, Cindy was such an amazing person. Very positive and inspirational. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Lots of love-
Lindsey Hood

Shane

February 29, 2012

I did theatre with Tucker at USC. He's been one of my best friends since we were 18 years old. When I first met him, he talked a lot about his mom and said I had to come over when she came into town. Before one of our plays, she cooked us some delicious pasta and told stories about Tucker. Around her, I felt comfortable to be myself. I remember the two of them interacting like a comedy team or something. It was a beautiful thing to witness. I remember thinking, "My God...Tucker is so lucky to have Cindy as a mom." She reminded me of some sort of angel - always smiling - always rooting for Tucker - very open to getting to know strangers. Throughout the years, I got to know her a little more - some times through interactions, but mostly through Tucker's stories and memories. It broke my heart when Tucker told me the sad news. My thoughts and prayers go out to Tucker and the rest of the family. It's unimaginable what you all are going through.
Love,
Shane

Dan Koga

February 29, 2012

Dear Brian and family:
Our deepest sympathy to you all. The Dynamo family has lost one its own.
Dan, Florence, Kelsey & Kyle Koga

February 29, 2012

Brian, I have been thinking of you and your family since I recieved the sad news last week. We are all praying for you during this time. Cheri Machado Knapp

Jim Reber

February 29, 2012

Brian and Family, and all of Cindy's Friends:

Please accept my condolences on your loss. The world is a little less kind, less noble, and less filled with light at the loss of Cindy. I hope that you will find the strength to endure the deep sorrow now upon you. She was a very giving person and I treasure that I knew her and witnessed the example she set for people. Such goodness is rare. May she rest in peace.

LeeAnn Wellington Smith

February 29, 2012

Cindy brought a lot of happiness and laughter to all during our Junior High, High School and Chico State/Post College Years. She was one of a kind and I always felt blessed to have known her. My prayers and thoughts are with the Tucker and the Mulcahy Families during this time of sadness.

Pam Foley

February 29, 2012

Dear Brian:
We lost an angel last week. She is a woman of such positive energy and spirit, strength, kindness and generosity. She opened her arms and heart to all. We are privileged to have known her. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your sons.
Pam, Mike and Katelin Foley

Bill & Paula Pursell

February 29, 2012

Brian & family, our thoughts & prayers are with all of you. Cindy & Deb were like sisters and dearly loved each other.

Ray Garland

February 29, 2012

Brian,
As a former co-worker during your CB days and now as a full time resident at Lake Tahoe and very frequent skier at Northstar, this news hit me very hard. I remember Cindy's happy face and personality from our company parties and know she will be terribly missed by all. My deepest sympathy to you and the family.

Barbara Hart

February 29, 2012

Dear Brian and Family
I am devastated to hear of Cindy's death. The Mulcahy and Tucker families are in my heart and in my prayers.

Kelly & Jim Lynch

February 29, 2012

Dear Brian and family,
We will all really miss Cindy. She was such a positive life force with a hug and smile for everyone. She was truly beautiful inside and out. Touching memories of Cindy will live on forever in everyone's hearts. God bless you and your family.

Carol Nothern

February 29, 2012

May the God of all comfort be with you.
-Carol Nothern, Cathy Burkholder's Danville Community Presbyterian member

February 29, 2012

Dear Brian, Jordan, Tucker and Brian Jr,
Everyone who knew Cindy lost a bit of sunshine from their lives when she went away. She possessed a rare kind of spirit that inspired everyone she touched to be optimistic, productive and HAPPY. She will be sooo missed! Marti ad Al Avolicino (Jenny's mother)

Dianna Bolin

February 29, 2012

Brian and Family,

We are very sorry for your loss. It is truly shocking. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

With deepest sympathy,
Dianna Goudy Bolin

I Did Not Die
Do not stand at my grave and weep;
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn's rain,
When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there. I did not die.
- Anonymous

Michele Corum

February 29, 2012

Cindy was one of the most warm and welcoming person I've ever known. My heart and prayers go out to the Mulcahy family. She'll be missed. RIP Cindy.

Negrete Family

February 29, 2012

Heartbreaking to know Cindy is no longer here with us. She was such a sweet soul so full of life. We'll truly miss her. She will forever be in our hearts.

Julie Kemble

February 29, 2012

Dear Mulcahy and Tucker Families,
It was with very profound sorrow I learned of Cindy's passing. As a childhood friend we shared so much fun and love. Those early years are filled with fabulous memories; I admired Cindy then, and continued to do so as an adult. Her vivacious zest for life and caring heart, her smile and giving nature leave a lasting legacy for our memories. My deepest felt sympathy and love to all of her family.

BETTY DE LOS ANGELES

February 29, 2012

Brian & Family,

I am so truly sorry for your loss. I know that Cindy was an incredible person and will be truly missed.

Rick & Betty De Los Angeles

Steve Acampora

February 29, 2012

Dear Mulcahy and Tucker families,

We're so sorry for your loss, Cindy was a beautiful person inside and out. I never heard an unkind word from her and she was one of the nicest people I have ever met. She will truly be missed.

Ruby Foote

February 29, 2012

Dearest Cindy,
So many memories have flashed through my mind this week. Lauren's graduation party and how you were one of the last few to leave as the ladies hung out in the backyard. Dancing and being silly at The Antique Show, and how you gave me those chocolate almonds because I was starving! The night I drove you and Pam home from Christmas under the Stars, and how we giggled and laughed all the way home. I will cherish those memories forever and how lucky I am that you became my friend. My beautiful orchid you gave me is blooming with life, just the way
you were every time we saw you.
God Bless the Mulcahy Family.

Love,
The Foote Family

Craig Mann

February 29, 2012

I am saddened by the news of Cindy's passing. We went to school together at Skyline High School in Oakland, CA. Skyline's class of 1977 is a wonderful group of hopeful, fun loving and smart kids and Cindy was all that. I wasn't aware that Cindy was living here in San Jose, but I am so glad that she had everything that really mattered; her husband, children, family and friends. My condolences go out to the family.

Carol, Joe & Justin

February 29, 2012

Cindy, one of the most incredibly human beings we have ever met and we are honored to have known her. Truly full of love and care for each and every person. She will be greatly missed. Our heart goes out to the families......

Cookie Curci

February 29, 2012

I didn't know Cindy personally, but when I read this tragic news it touched me so deeply, a beautiful woman, mother and wife from our community to be taken from her family like this is heartbreaking. My deepest sympathy and my profound prayers are said for Cindy and for all her family .

Terry Newman

February 29, 2012

My dear Cindy....so full of life! We raised our families together on Regas Drive and although I lost touch with you after my divorce, I never stopped thinking about all those Halloween parties we had for our kids.....oh heck, they were for us! I loved our block parties and I, as well as my Jacqueline, Lindsay & Jeffrey have the memory of you engraved in our hearts forever.

Rob and Josie Navarrete

February 29, 2012

Dear Brian and Sons,

We were sadden to hear about the loss of your beloved wife and mother. Cindy had such charisma and was so beautiful.She will be missed, but her spirit will be with all of you forever.
Fondly, The Navarretes, Rob, Josie, Eileen, and Michael

Tim Pueppke

February 28, 2012

Dear Tucker - Mulcahy Family,
May God Bless You All and keep you all close to him in this time of sorrow. I just remember the smiling faces of all the Tuckers, growing up in Montclair and knowing Denise, Dawn and Cindy was a time of happiness, fun, and laughter, always the laughter! It's good to know she'll be with Jesus now. Dear Lord, Please take care of Cindy's Family, Amen.
Tim Pueppke (Pep)

Rosie Olson

February 28, 2012

Cindy you will be incredibly missed……….. I'll miss the twinkle in your beautiful blue eyes, the way you greeted everyone with a huge smile and a “Hi Baby!” , your contagious smile was from ear to ear and you couldn't help but smile when you were near, when you were talking to someone you had this unique quality of making them feel as if they were the only person in that room, the conversations were almost always about them and not you because you really truly cared about your friends and wanted the best for everyone, Yes Cindy you made everyone feel special as if you'd known each other for years even if you had just met them, you always expected the best from people and not the worst, you were a people magnet and you always knew you'd have a great time when you were with Cindy, I'll miss your boisterous laugh and your “Woot Woot”, you were vivacious, bold and you lived a passion filled life, you saw the cup half full instead of half empty, there wasn't anything you couldn't do and you were always the first person there to help whatever the need was, you were selfless and giving and when you decided to take something on (a charity, your Arbonne business, volunteering your time, helping someone in need, throwing someone a party) you did it with zest and gusto and you didn't stop until you had reached your goal, you were a “team” player and everyone was on your team but more than anything everyone was your friend!
So as I end this I realize that you were here to teach me/us about: living with passion, not sweating the small stuff, always expecting the best, holding your family near to you, lifting your girlfriends up, truly having a servants heart, knowing that no one is perfect and to love everyone, to always forgive because it takes too much energy to be angry, to smile smile smile it's contagious, to never give up and again to always expect the best.
Yes Cindy you were a great friend, wife and mother …………………you will be incredibly missed!

Dandrea Malik

February 28, 2012

Dear Mulcahy and Tucker families,
Cindy was such a wonderful person. I was one of the fortunate ones for whom she did the "Florence Nightengale" bit. She never hesitated to listen when I was gnawing on something. She was faithful and steadfast as a friend. She had your back if you needed it. She also didn't hold back when she thought that one perhaps should look at something a bit more closely or change a certain behavior for the better good of all. I will miss her so much and my heart goes out to all who loved her.

Cindy Ebadat

February 28, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time.I was shocked when I heard this sad news. The few times I saw her at the soccer games cheering on the boys, she always had a smile and loved the volunteer work that she did, she talked with much enthusiasm, she will be missed.God Bless her soul RIP!

Renee (Six) Lim

February 28, 2012

Cindy was a wonderful person and a dedicated volunteer to the St. Christopher parish and Ladies Guild. She made a huge impact to everyone she met and will be missed.

Mulcahy family - you are in our prayers - Renee (Six) & Robert, Kyle, John-Paul, Carter and Ray Lim

Jef Inman

February 28, 2012

Brian,

Mindy and I are completly blown away by this tragedy. We have very fond memories of your whole family at little league and soccer games as well as St. Christophers. We absolutely loved Cindy's energy and huge heart, we will miss her. Please know that you and your childred are in hearts and prayers.

Ana Maria Russo

February 28, 2012

Cindy ~ your sweet smile and positive attitude will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God Bless the Russo's

Debbie Geary

February 28, 2012

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Shelley Milhous-Pho

February 28, 2012

To Cindy's family and friends, my thoughts are with you at this time. My prayers are with you and your families. Love, Shelley Milhous Pho(Skyline High School class of 77)

Anna May Eichhorn-Oertwig

February 28, 2012

Dear Mulcahy Family,
I was lucky enough to have meet Cindy through my sister Dottie Eichhorn. My heart goes out to each and everyone of you. I like knowing that there is now another angel up there looking out for all of us. Cindy, may you rest in peace. Love, Michael & Anna May Eichhorn-Oertwig

February 28, 2012

My thoughts and prayers go out to you during this difficult time.

Silvio Bermudez

Karen Shaheen Kahoush

February 28, 2012

Dear Brian Sr. and Son's,
My heart was broken when I heard the sad news,I want to pay my deepest saddness & respects. I will miss her sweetness and and when bumping into each other on occassion, a wave here and there, her infectious smile and warm hugs, a shared glass of wine and some gab about one of our kid's. I will never forget Cindy an amazing women.
Good bye my friend sleep in peace,

Pamela Larson

February 28, 2012

Brian,Jordon,Tucker,Brian,
Many good memories of Cindy.
We are keeping you in our prayers daily.
Dave and Pamela Larson
Eric Larson
Dana and Carrie Larson
Campbell , Ca.

Gerald Palla

February 28, 2012

Bless your family in this sad time.

February 28, 2012

Brian, I am deeply sadden for your loss and I extend my thoughts and prayers to you and your children.
Colette Abowd

Kristin Giammona

February 28, 2012

My condolences to the entire family. Cindy always had a smile, kind words and positivism that were all contagious. Cherish the time you had with her and all of the fond memories and love. Take care.

RuthAnn Arnold

February 28, 2012

Dear Brian, Geordie, Tucker and Brian,

I was so sorry to learn of Cindy's death. It is hard to imagine her fierce joyful energy extinguished. She was one of the most positive people I have known. It was impossible to be lazy or grouchy in her prescence. There were a few of us who tried. She had energy to spare.

Cindy was a force of nature. I first met her in 1991. I was the new principal at Mulberry School and Cindy was a fully engaged participating parent. I was amazed by her seemingly endless energy and unflagging smile. Her work in Geordie's and Tucker's classrooms, and later with Brian in the coop preschool was obviously very important to her as it was to Mulberry School. She was active in the leadership of the school, a valued member of the Mulberry community and a friend to the students, familiies and staff. I am retired and living in Tacoma Washington now. I learned about Cindy's death from Kathy Sikorski, another former Mulberry parent. Cindy touched my life and the lives of so many others. She will be missed but she will always have a place in our hearts.

Love,
Ruth (Kaplan) Arnold

Claudena Glenn-Wells

February 28, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with the family in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Holly Walsh

February 28, 2012

My heart aches for you - our family prays for you Tucker & Mulcahy Families. May her contagious smile and amazing spirit remain with you always. I know I will never forget her. God Bless!!

Kevin Milligan

February 28, 2012

It's not often that we recognize an angel among us, but your kind words and thoughts will always be remembered by my family and your friends. Your presence will be missed but you will now be a guardian angel for all that you have touched here on Earth. Peace be with you and your family. God Bless

Valeri Pighini

February 28, 2012

I found this poem by Henry Scott Holland to be very comforting when my dad passed away -- I could almost hear my dad reading it to me. I hope this gives you some comfort too.

Death is nothing at all.
I have only slipped away to the next room.
I am I and you are you.
Whatever we were to each other,
That, we still are.

Call me by my old familiar name.
Speak to me in the easy way
which you always used.
Put no difference into your tone.
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow.

Laugh as we always laughed
at the little jokes we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me. Pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household word
that it always was.
Let it be spoken without effect.
Without the trace of a shadow on it.

Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same that it ever was.
There is absolute unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of mind
because I am out of sight?

I am but waiting for you.
For an interval.
Somewhere. Very near.
Just around the corner.

All is well.

Lori Robitaille Biasca

February 28, 2012

Keeping the families in my prayers for the loss of a beautiful soul. She was an inspiration to all who knew her and I will never forget my special memories of my dear friend, Cindy. I will miss her dearly and pray that God comforts the Tucker and Mulcahy family through this loss. Words cannot express my heartfelt condolences.

Valeri Pighini

February 28, 2012

What an awful shame. Cindy and I celebrated the same birth day and we were so shocked when we learned that about each other. Cindy was always so friendly to me whenever I saw her at one of the Sigman's parties. That's where I saw her, year after year, as we got to know each more and more. The last time I saw her was at the Sigman's holiday party and she looked so great. I'm so sorry to know of her untimely, and early passing. My heart goes out to her whole family and I pray for your comfort during this very difficult time. Love, Valeri

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