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David Longaker Obituary

David Longaker Retired Sergeant David Longaker took his final ride with the angels on March 31, 2008. He succumbed to the physical limitations of his body due to a neurological syndrome. Dave was born on June 21, 1938 in Berkeley, California to Daniel and Louise Longaker. He attended Berkeley High School and graduated from San Jose State University in 1961. He entered service with the San Jose Police Department on July 1, 1961. More than 30 years later, he retired to join the Reserves, where he served another 16 years, providing an unparallel 46 years of service to the citizens of the City of San Jose. Dave was often described by his fellow officers as a "mighty trendsetter." He is survived by his wife of 25 years, Mary, and his four sons David Longaker, Jr. (Lori), Lance Longaker (Renee), Mark Thayer (Jennifer), Nathan Thayer (Erika) and eight grandchildren (David III, Zachary, Dylan, Preston, Madisyn, Brooke, Aidan and Delaney), who gave him the greatest pleasure. He joins his grandparents, mother and father, Geri and many aunts and uncles in heaven. Family and friends are invited to a Mass to celebrate his life at Holy Spirit Church on April 8, 2008 at 11:00 AM. The church is located at 1200 Redmond Avenue, San Jose, 95120. In lieu of flowers, please send donations to your favorite charity, or to one of the following special programs, which tremendously helped him on the final stretch of his earthly journey: Skills Plus at 1840 Benton Street #70, Santa Clara, CA 95051 or Santa Teresa Kaiser Hospice at 50 Great Oaks Blvd. San Jose, CA 95119.

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Published by San Jose Mercury News on Apr. 5, 2008.

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Henry Kim

October 20, 2008

Dear David and Lance:

My mom mentioned that she saw a notice a while ago. My deepest condolences to you and your families. I have many fond memories of both your mother and father. They were excellent parents. I remember them driving us to different activities and Scouting functions. Your father was tough and could be so funny. He was an excellent role model. I am now an Assistant Scoutmaster for both my boys' troop. I am grateful for all the lives that they touched including mine.

G. Jean Ivanitsky

April 13, 2008

Dear David and Lance,

We are so sorry for your loss. I'd like to think that your father, John Pursley, and Mike are going on some great camping trips. David was a true inspiration and role model for dozens of Scouts.

With love,
Jean; Michael, Rochelle,and Vladimir;and Nicholas Ivanitsky

Rich Chiaramonte

April 8, 2008

Hi David Jr.,
I realy am sorry to hear about you dad's passing. I really admired your father and will never forget the impact he had on my life. You are in my thoughts along with your family.

Bonnie Portley

April 5, 2008

David and Lance,
I regret the last time I had contact with both of you was under similar circumstances. I do not remember your father as well as I do your mother, but my memories are of a kind man. My deepest sympathy for you and your family.

Bill Hallahan

April 5, 2008

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived. I will always remember the fun times and stories Dave and I and the other dads of Troop 290 shared around campfires at "No-Sierra" and Kirby Cove. Dave was a great Scoutmaster!

Marg Aldrich

April 5, 2008

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Michael Shea MD

April 5, 2008

A wonderful person that we have many fond memories of and whom we will miss seeing. Our deepest sympathies to the family, Michael and Marilyn Shea

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