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Donald R. Stacks

1928 - 2013

Donald R. Stacks obituary, 1928-2013, San Jose, CA

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Donald Stacks Obituary

Donald R. Stacks
July 19, 1928 - March 16, 2013
Resident of San Jose
Master Sergeant Donald R. Stacks, USMC Retired, passed away peacefully at home in San Jose on March 16, 2013. He was born in Stamford, Texas on July 19, 1928, the third child of four to Jess Delane and Jo (Dobson) Stacks Sr. Don is survived by his loving wife Oneita, son Leonard, daughter Pamela (Alison) and grandson Andy; in Texas, his brother Jess Delane Stacks Jr. and sons Rick, Christopher, and Dee, and their families, his brother-in-law John Berner and nieces Sarah, Lou Ellen, Chris and son Lane, and nephew Walter (Becky) and sons Jonathon and Robert. Survived by dear sister-in-law Connie and brother-in-law Harry Hernandez Sr., niece Oneita Cragg (Chris) and daughters Sierra, Sadie and Delaney, nephew Harry Jr. (Ekaterina) and daughter Svetlana, and dear friends Homer and Anna Diaz and children, and fellow SIR and friend John Sargent. Preceded in death by his parents, older brother Ted and dear sister, Peggy, and his in-laws Harry and Isabel Horton.
Don was raised in Wichita Falls, Texas and attended Wichita Falls High School where he was active in football and basketball. He launched his career with the Marine Corps as a teletype operator, cryptographer and communications chief. He served in the Marine Corps for 20 years including tours at the Pentagon, Korea and Vietnam conflicts. He was awarded the Naval Commendation Medal for setting up communications in Da Nang, Vietnam. In civilian life, he resided in San Jose and worked predominantly in the semi-conductor industry in communications, retiring from IBM.
Don was a social fellow and in retirement he served his community with an appointment to the County's Senior Commission on Aging, an active participant with South Side Community Center, was a Little and Big SIR with the Sons in Retirement, and in his last years going to the San Jose VA respite group. He loved golf. He loved the simple things in life, his family and friends, little children, and dogs and cats. He will be truly missed.
Kaiser Hospice was a great help to Don and his family, and are truly appreciated for the loving care provided. Arrangements are being handled by Oak Hill Mortuary. A private burial at the San Joaquin Valley National Cemetery will be held. A memorial will be held on April 13th in San Jose for family and friends. Please contact [email protected] for details.
In lieu of flowers, the family has suggested a donation be made to the Navy-Marine Corps Relief Society, 875 North Randolph Street, suite 225, Arlington, VA 22203. In memo line please write: In Memory of Donald R. Stacks. Information may be found at: http://www.nmcrs.org/donation2.html

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Published by San Jose Mercury News/San Mateo County Times on Mar. 26, 2013.

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Lee Zeitelhack

May 23, 2013

Oneita, I received your note about the passing of "Uncle" Don yesterday and was saddened by the news. When I was a little boy he was a special friend to me and your whole family was special to ours. Though it has probably been 40+ years since I have seen any of you, I keep good memories. My best wishes to you and Pam and Lenny.

March 28, 2013

Oneita, Sad to read of Don's passing and send good thoughts and prayers to you and the family. God Bless, Trina Gentry/Southside Senior Center Friend.

Peter and Kathy Silva

March 27, 2013

We were so sorry to hear Don's earthly life was over. He will always be remembered as a good friend. I know Dad will miss him terribly at the Veteran's Activity Center. You call me whenever you need a friend. Take good care of yourself and your family. God bless you all.

Mike & Deb Kantor

March 27, 2013

Deb & I pass along our prayers for the family and express our thoughts for a feeling of comfort. Be glad he was part of your life and let those memories be what drives you forward. Live for today because today is what you already have as tomorrow is unknown.

Sarah Berner

March 26, 2013

May it shine forever as Uncle Don's spirit will...

Uncle Don at Home

Sarah Berner

March 26, 2013

My Uncle Don (mom's brother) was my window into your family, and also into my mother's early years, during which they had a very special bond which strengthened her as she neared her final days. He was like another father to me, and welcomed me to Calif with quick, open arms. He was one of the sweetest men I've ever known, with a huge heart for all. Please know that I have you all in my heart and much compassion for your loss. It is also a huge loss for me and this world will have less light and love without him. Much Love and Sympathy,

March 26, 2013

Dear Pam, Ali, Andy, Oneita and Leonard: Just know that you are in our thoughts. Each time I saw Don, he always had a happy smile and a big hello for all of us. What a sweet man. Much love, Pauline, Cathy and Tyle Casper-Kozak

Marie Goodell

March 26, 2013

Dear Pam, Ali, Andy, Oneita and Leonard: We send our condolences to you on the loss of Don. Pam, I still remember the first time that I met your Dad. He & I were both working at IBM at the time, and I felt an immediate connection with him. He was an intelligent, warm, carinig person who always had friendly smile for me. I hope that he is at peace. All our love, Marie & Dan

March 26, 2013

Dear Friends and Family, thank you for your support. My mom Oneita, my brother Len and I look forward to reading your shared memories. Love to you all. Pam Stacks

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