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Duane Lighthiser Obituary

Duane B. Lighthiser
Dec 14, 1927 - May 20, 2018
San Jose
Duane B. Lighthiser, age 90, died Sunday, 5/20 at Good Samaritan Hospital in San Jose.
Mr. Lighthiser is survived by his Daughter, Irene DeLeon and his six grandchildren, Dane and Teela DeLeon and Rob, Margie, Jamie and Rick Pratt.
Duane was a triple war veteran, having served in World War II, the Korean War and the Vietnam War, where he earned several medals, including the Bronze Star, Army Commendation Medal, (2) National Defense Service Medals, the WWII Victory Medal and (4) Good Conduct awards. He grew up in Fife Lake, Michigan, the youngest son of Grover B. Lighthiser and Birdie Fern Lighthiser. As a child growing up in the depression era, Duane developed a deep appreciation for supporting others, valuing work and never wasting. These traits extended into everything he did throughout his life.
His success in the military and civilian life as a security guard, can be directly attributed to his work ethic and his natural ability to bond with people and form relationships. His willingness to give to others was legendary and up until his last days provided him with purpose. Duane took great pride in giving and his unforgettable personality always made an impact on those he met and those he visited. He will be missed.
The schedule of services is:
*Friday 6/1, 9am-9pm - Viewing at Oak Hill Funeral Home in San Jose
*Saturday 6/2, 10am-1pm - Viewing at Holy Family Parish in San Jose
*Saturday 6/2, 1pm-3pm - Funeral Service, including Military Honors at Holy Family Parish
*Saturday 6/2, 3:30pm-6pm - Reception at Oak Hill Funeral Home


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Published by Mercury News on Jun. 5, 2018.

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Nancy D

June 2, 2018

Duane was an extremely sweet man. It was always a delight to see him and listen to his amazing experiences. He always carried a photo of his wife, "Mama", in his pocket and talked of her with so much love. Truly a kind and devoted man. Miss you greatly Duane!

Peggy Marple

May 29, 2018

Glenn and I, truly miss Duane. Just loved talking with him as he walked around Imperial Estates. He always got on us about getting our RV out on the road. We plan to hang Duane's picture in our RV, just to prove to him we are getting it out. He knew everybody in our park. I miss talking with Duane and his food of some kind , that he would leave on our porch. Love him so much. Great man. Your in our hearts forever!
The Marple's , space 64

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Memorial Events
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Jun

1

Visitation

8:00 a.m. - 9:00 p.m.

Oak Hill Funeral Home & Memorial Park

300 Curtner Ave, San Jose, CA 95125

Jun

2

Visitation

10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m.

Holy Family Parish

San Jose, CA 95125

Jun

2

Funeral service

1:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m.

Holy Family Parish

4848 Pearl Avenue, San Jose, CA 95125

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