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Alan Welch
May 8, 2016
I retired from O C Marshal in 1995. Gary was the best attorney I knew. We flew together in his airplanes. Iam so sorry for OUR loss.
Paul Guenther
November 12, 2014
Gary Proctor was a great man who
I enjoyed many interesting conversations about the criminal justice system over the years while I was a young policeman In
Alameda County. My wife Karen and I will always look after your loyal wife Sandy and your two children Annalise and Brett. You would be so proud of them! You were a real star!
stacy Sullivan
July 20, 2014
Gary I will keep you in my heart always... Thank you
Sandra Proctor
December 28, 2011
Gary, It has been almost 4 years now. We think of you every day and still miss you terribly. You took such good care of us. And you would be proud to see the children now. Be in God's peace.
Louise Blaisse
October 8, 2011
Think of you most everyday and tell people that of all the employers I ever had, you were the best. Ken and I remember all your kindness to us during his accident and later, his illness. Miss your emails. Cheers.
vanessa
April 28, 2008
Gary your son is an amazing friend to me, he was an incredible support system for me throughout college, and he was so proud you were his dad. Brett, a man of integrity, genius, humor and compassion, always talked about how great you were in everything you did.
Brett said that you once told him, the greatest thing he could do in life was find a woman like his mom, who loved him for who he was and not for the material things he had.
Stephanie Gier
March 27, 2008
You were a like a father to me. I will never stop thinking of you.
Carl & Vickie Pacholka
March 21, 2008
The Proctor Family,
Gary you were like a second father to my son,Justin. Since he was a young boy you took him and Brett on numerous plane trips to Disneyland, Tahoe, etc. Your family welcomed him into your home and share in many family dinners. During my 15 month Army deployment you were a godsend to me for looking in on my son as well as the many encouraging emails you sent me. I'll never forget the kindnesses you, Sandy,Annalise and Brett have done for our family. Our prayers are with you all.
Michael Hughes, Esq.
March 19, 2008
To Gary's Family,
Gary made a wonderful difference in the lives of many parents and children. He was a lawyer who earned the respect of all in Orange County. We will miss him.
Lori Portales, MSW
March 18, 2008
Thank you Gary for assisting my family member in a time of crisis. I remember working with you and your staff in Dependency Court. You were always polite and respectful with me. I felt honored to have worked with you. Your kindness will always remain with me.
Lisi Munayco
March 17, 2008
Gary you were a great inspiration to me. I appreciate the opportunity to have known you and the opportunity to have worked with you. May God Bless your soul.
Martin Moshier
March 14, 2008
Gary, I can't believe your gone. So many memories. Flying the 210 to San Jose. The pig roast at Muleghe. Six Pacs out of San Diego to the Coronados. Day trips on the boat with Dennis. Day trips with the late JR. We will greatly miss you man. Via Con Dios. We love you.
Michael McNerney
March 13, 2008
Gary, you were always so generous, warm and concerned for the three of us kids. I know my parents loved you for that. Thank you for letting us ride in the back of "Big Red", taking us hunting and fishing. Thanks for the plane trips and all the hand-me-down toys that helped keep me occupied for so many summer days. Thank you for pushing me at the gym and for inspiring me to be better. Thank you for being so sincerely proud of me the day I graduated Medical School. You have left such a large mark in my life. I love you and will miss you.
Sandy, Brett and Annalise, I send my blessings and love from my family to yours.
Paula Whaley
March 13, 2008
Gary, Thank you for letting me be a part of the Orange County Juvenile Defender's "family." There are no adequate words to describe how your kindness and leadership positively influenced my life. I am forever grateful. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Proctor family at this difficult time.
Joyce McEwen Crawford
March 12, 2008
It was an honor to work for the past 10 years with Gary in SCC Juvenile Dependency Drug Court. Gary was a great person, and a great attorney to his clients. You will be greatly missed. Peace and Love to your family.
John McNerney
March 12, 2008
Gary - Thanks for all the great memories: fishing off the Pacific coast, flying for the first time, hunting with "Big Red". You were a great friend and will be missed.
Sandy, Annalise and Brett - You are in my thoughts and prayers. I wish you strength in healing.
Margaret Dominguez
March 12, 2008
Gary, rest in peace,
Thank you for giving me the opportunity to work with you at Dependency Legal Services. I was there when you started the Mentors for Mothers Program and I saw the amazing work you did. You will be missed terribly. Many prayers to your wife and children.
Linda Carpenter
March 12, 2008
Gary, you leave behind a legacy of individuals and systems dedicated to serving some of the most vulnerable children and families in Santa Clara County. The Family Wellness Court and Mentor Moms are tributes to your vision, determination and compassion. You will be greatly missed. Be at peace.
Norma Jackson
March 12, 2008
I had the privilege of working for Gary in Orange County for several years - he was always totally professional and a great friend. My deepest sympathy goes out to Sandy, Annalise and Brett in their time of loss. Rest in peace, Gary.
Kemble Chen
March 12, 2008
Gary, thank you for being a wonderful mentor and friend during my time with the Juvenile Defenders; may you rest in peace.
Jason Mauer, MD
March 11, 2008
Gary, thanks for repeatedly helping me out when I needed it most and for inviting me into your circle of friends and family. Your genuine care for me, my fiance, and my kids was truly heartwarming. You always gave without expectation of return and my biggest regret now is that I am unable to repay the many favors you have bestowed upon me. I am truly sorry that I wasn't in closer contact these past few months to offer support when you needed it. I will always remember you and the good you have done for so many.
Kim Kaplan
March 11, 2008
Gary has been a dear friend to Jason and myself. He was always there to help with whatever we needed; putting others needs before his own. He will be missed more than he will ever know and I feel honored to have been included in his and his family's lives. Jason and I will always be thankful of the time we had with Gary. Gary- I am so sorry that we were not able to see you since moving to Portland and I hope you understood how much we cared for and appreciated you.
mario vazquez
March 11, 2008
Gary,
I want to thank you for bringing me into the world of Juvenile Dependency. Your friendship changed my life in so many ways. I hope you are at peace.
Michelle Ben-Hur
March 11, 2008
Rest in peace Gary. You were a great force to be reckoned with in Orange County. My condolences to your family and the legal community at large.
Patricia gardner
March 11, 2008
The Silicon Valley Council of Nonprofits representing over 200 health and human service nonprofits would like to extend to the Proctor Family our deepest sympathy for their loss. We also want to extend our sympathy to the Judges and the Court and Family Support staff with deepest condolences for this tragedy. SVCN will hold a moment of silence and healing during our meeting with agencies today. Our hearts are with you all.
Silicon Valley Council of Nonprofits
Rodger Carey
March 11, 2008
So sorry to hear of Gary's passing. He was one of a kind.
Teri Torgeson
March 11, 2008
Gary, thank you for allowing me to work for you at the Juvenile Defenders Office in Orange County. You gave me the tools to help those who needed it the most. I represented your clients with the utmost respect and compassion, knowing that that is what you would have wanted. God Bless You and your family. I will always remember you.
Judge Bob Jameson
March 11, 2008
Wonderful guy. We miss him terribly!!
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