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Joseph John Merenda Jan. 18, 1918 - Feb. 23, 2008 Born to Frank and Mary Merenda in Arma, KS, Joe was the third eldest of six children, Carmen, Rose, Jimmy, Sue and Angie. At age 18, he moved to Gilroy, CA where he worked in the area canneries as well as the fish canneries of Monterey Bay. A veteran of World War II, he served from 1941 to 1945, of which 28 months were spent in combat in the Pacific Theater. He remained lifetime friends with many of his fellow soldiers in Company B. Joe married Alice L. Silva in 1942 before shipping off to combat. Their 65 years of marriage produced 5 children. He had many different careers, ranging from pet shop owner to Real Estate broker. While working these jobs, he also helped work the family ranch which provided apricots to the local canneries. One of the few producing ranches in Silicon Valley, the property was recently sold and is now the site of the Quail Hill Apartments, a retirement community on Piedmont Road. An avid 49er ticket holder since 1946, Joe attended every home game for the last 60 years. Joe is survived by his greatest love, Alice and their devoted children JoAnne & Joe Simas, Dick & Steph Merenda, Joyce & Allen Dickson, LouAnn & Henry Coca; their grandchildren Kristen & Nick Gallis and Christopher Coca; and their great grand children Tyler & Stephanie Gallis. He is preceded in death by baby daughter MaryAnn. Vigil Wednesday February 27, 2008 at 7:00 pm at Willow Glen Funeral Home, 1039 Lincoln Avenue, San Jose. Funeral mass Thursday February 28, 2008 at 11:00 am St. Christopher's Church. Interment at Calvary Cemetery. The family appreciates any donations made to Hospice of the Valley at 4850 Union Avenue, San Jose, CA 95124.

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Published by San Jose Mercury News on Feb. 26, 2008.

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JoAnne

February 23, 2009

Daddy,
I can't believe that you have been gone for a year already. Every time I go to visit mom I still expect to see you there. I miss you every day and I hope that you can hear me speaking to you. Mom is doing better and we are all taking good care of her. She loves to see little Jackson Joseph (J.J.), Mom calls him Joey. I wish that you could have lived to see him. You would have loved him! He is the light of our lives! I love you daddy and you will always live in my heart and my memories.
Your First Born

Sherri Silva

March 29, 2008

Uncle Joe was always my favorite uncle from the time I was a little kid.
I miss him so much, his smile, his wonderful sense of humor.
My visits to San Jose every year were so enjoyable visiting him and Aunt Alice. I know he is at peace and someday we will see each other again.
I love you always Uncle Joe.

Your niece

March 3, 2008

Daddy, I miss you every day. I hope that you can hear me talk to you in the morning and before I go to sleep. You are always in my thoughts.
You are the best dad that anyone could ever hope for. We were all so blessed to have you in our lives. We are taking care of mom. She is always loved and we are keeping her safe. We all miss you so very much but we know that you are in a wonderful place!

Love you Forever and Always,
Your First Born

With Love Always Your Husband,Your Dad and Grandpa

March 3, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

Monika Marlow

February 29, 2008

My heartfelt Sympathy in this time of sorrow to you and your families.

Denise Thomas

February 27, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Uncle Joe will be greatly missed, especially his easy smile and sharp sense of humor. Lots and lots of love.

Diane L Thomas

February 26, 2008

Uncle Joe will always hold a special place in my heart. Our family holds many memories and all are good and special. He was always kind and loving to me. He was a perfect FATHER role model for me. I love him and will miss him so very dearly!

Riga Sadeq

February 26, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with your and your families at this time of sorrow.

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