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Judy Dong Obituary
Nov. 19, 1965 - Sept. 6, 2020
Palo Alto
Judy Elizabeth Dong, 54, passed away peacefully on September 6, 2020 at her home in Palo Alto, California. She was born at Kaiser Santa Clara November 19, 1965 just minutes before her twin sister Julie Ann. Judy held a masters degree in early childhood education from Notre Dame de Namur University. She taught preschool before dedicating 25 years of diligent service to the Palo Alto Libraries. A conscientious student, Judy carried that assiduity into her adulthood. An avid reader of classic literature and young-adult novels, Judy was a loving and thoughtful daughter to Dr and Mrs. Bock L Dong, brother Lawrence, and sisters Julie and Kathy. She was a loyal friend to Varsha Saxena and her college friend Christina.
Judy wholeheartedly embraced the role of "Auntie Judy" to nephews Charlie, Christopher and Gregory, and nieces Lucia and Joelle. An industrious crafter known for her handmade gifts of colourful bead art and animal-patterned rugs, Judy left behind a final gift of hand painted rocks labeled for Christmas Day 2020. Judy was a true survivor, having bravely fought breast cancer twice with grace and perseverance. She will be remembered for her tenacity, whimsy, and pluck.
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Virginia and Theodore chu
September 9, 2025
We are thinking of all the Dong family , at this difficult time
Ted and Ginny Chu and family
Christina
September 9, 2025
I miss you Judy. I cannot itnhas been five years. I miss your book and movie suggestions. You will be pleased that I'm finally doing some art work and embroidery. I miss you my dear friend. You are always in my heart.
Ginny and Ted Chu
September 9, 2024
We continue to think of Judy often and send our love to the family.
Christina
September 9, 2024
I miss you Judy. Every day. I just finished a book I think you would have loved. I also completed a drawing. Thank you for being such a supportive and great friend through the years. You are always in my heart. I miss you, my dear friend.
Christina <3
Christina Tipton
November 19, 2021
Today was your Birthday. I'm thinking about you and miss you.
I miss our phone calls and our Birthday gift exchanges.
Peaceful Blessings my friend.
Eric Wong
December 13, 2020
can’t believe you are gone, going to miss your goofy laugh and sense of humor, rest in peace my friend, no more worries
take care
Christina Tipton
December 13, 2020
Judy, You were truly a great friend. You were my greatest supporter and always so encouraging. I enjoyed talking to you about your latest art project, sharing ideas for movies and books. I will miss my friend, more than words can express. You will always be in my heart.
Camden Kimura
September 21, 2020
Judy was a wonderful coworker. When I first started working at the Children's Library, she was always patient and willing to help me out as I learned the ropes -- a testament to her kind and giving spirit. I truly could not have done my job half as well without her. She always had a big smile and a beautiful laugh whenever we shared a joke. I'll miss her. My condolences and best wishes to her family in this difficult time.
Peggy Quillman
September 18, 2020
I’m so sorry to hear of Judy’s passing. She was one of the most cheerful people I’ve ever met. Her sweetness and joy seemed to be unlimited! She will be missed.
Reggie Mallorca
September 17, 2020
I'm stunned that Judy is gone. I helped supervise her the past 2 years at Children's Library. I'll miss her big laugh whenever I would deliver a joke. She was dedicated as a library page and always did the right thing. Wherever she is, I hope she is pain free and at peace. I wish her family good thoughts during this difficult time. Rest in Peace, Judy.
Monique le Conge Ziesenhenne
September 16, 2020
My heartfelt condolences to the Dong family on your loss. Judy was a lovely and wonderful asset to the Children's Library and everyone who met her benefited from knowing her.
Catherine Horngren
September 15, 2020
My deepest sympathies to you Julie and the rest of the family. It was a shock to see Judy's beautiful picture while reading the paper and learning she died. I have many good memories of our friendship. May Judy rest in peace. May your family find solace.
Martha Walters
September 15, 2020
I greatly enjoyed Judy’s loving and kind attitude towards everything. We also shared a love of the Asian Art museum and I remember talking with her about visiting the exhibits when they were still located in Golden Gate Park oh so many years ago. She was always proud of her family and willing to share a kind word. I think of her with great fondness and will miss her sweet smile, dedication and pure genuineness.
Maryam
September 15, 2020
I'm so sorry to hear of Judy passing .Judy was a great co-worker always with a beautiful smile and I enjoyed working with her and I will miss her .
Maryam Fereydouni
Coworker
Liz Stewart
September 15, 2020
Judy was a joy to work with, she was always smiling and quick to laugh and enjoy good conversation. She will be missed.
Kathy Swartz
September 15, 2020
I am so very sorry to hear of Judy's passing. I got to work with her at the Children's Library in Palo Alto over the past 3.5 years and she was always such a wonderfully positive person to work with! We will miss her. Kathy Swartz
Richard Bernhardt
September 15, 2020
Judy was among the "kids of the doctors of Kaiser" from when I was young. I've known her parents for five decades. I have always admired the Dong's and their wonderful ability to be nice and caring and friendly. I am very saddened by the loss of Judy and send my condolences to the entire family. I believe she lived life well.
N. Stewart
September 12, 2020
My deepest sympathy to the family of Judy Elizabeth Dong. May you be comforted in knowing that our Heavenly Father cares for you. He will strengthen you and help you to endure. (Psalm 94:17-19)
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