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Patricia Melehan Obituary

Patricia Eleanor (Perrucci) Melehan Aged 80 years. Born July 3, 1929 in San Jose, California, passed away November 20, 2009 in San Jose, California. The oldest daughter of Joseph (JP) and Angelina Perrucci, "Patsy" grew up in a time when the Santa Clara Valley was the "Valley of Heart's Delight". She was proud of her Italian heritage and dedicated to her family. She graduated from Notre Dame High School in 1947 and attended San Jose State University. Her father founded Mayfair Packing Company in 1933. She considered herself blessed and spent her life giving back to the community by serving and donating to numerous charitable organizations. Her life enriched the lives of so many others. Pat was married to James Stock Melehan (Jim), a WWII Marine veteran and a fourth generation Santa Clara County resident, in 1950 at St. Joseph's Church (now the Cathedral) in San Jose. They celebrated 50 years of marriage before Jim passed away in 2000. Pat leaves three sons, James, Joseph, John and a daughter, Maureen Melehan Machado. She also leaves her son-in-law John Machado and daughters-in-law Trish and Celeste. She is survived by nine grandchildren and two great-grandchildren, her youngest sister Jo'Ann O'Connell, Mary Pimentel and numerous cousins, nieces and nephews. Her sister, Carmel Vaudagna, predeceased her in 1977. Friends are invited to a visitation to be held on Monday, November 30, 2009 from 4:00 pm to 7:00 pm at DARLING FISCHER CHAPEL OF THE HILLS, 615 N. Santa Cruz Ave., Los Gatos CA (408) 354-7740. A vigil will begin at 7:00 pm. The Funeral Mass will be on Tuesday, December 1, 2009 at 10:00 am at St. Mary's Church, 219 Bean Ave, Los Gatos, CA. The family respectfully requests that, in lieu of flowers, donations be made to Bellarmine College Preparatory, Hope Rehabilitation Services, or Princess Project of Silicon Valley.

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Published by San Jose Mercury News on Nov. 24, 2009.

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Mitzi Anderson

December 1, 2009

May all the good times you had fill your hearts. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Carol Lazetera

December 1, 2009

I remember at a Mayfair reunion how she talked to my Dad and they reminised of the things they did as children. Now they can live out those times again in a place of no pain. I am truly sorry to the family for their loss. Carol Lazetera

November 29, 2009

" Dear Jim and Trish, we are so saddened by the loss of your mother, she was a wonderful woman and will be greatly missed by so many. We do have wonderful memories to hold on to. Please know that our thoughts and love are with you and your family." Patty
and Larry Schork (Scotts Valley, CA)

Carol and John Froman

November 28, 2009

Celeste and Joe,
We are deeply saddened by your loss. Our prayers are with
you and your family, and our love is with you always.

Carol and John Froman

Pauline Canova

November 27, 2009

Trish and Jim,
The loss of one's mother is heartrending. May your tears wipe away your pain as mine did for me. Believe that she is in a better place. Be mindful that she is keeping an eye out for you. I am convinced of this. May God give you strength and peace,
Pauline

Tim Negro

November 26, 2009

God bless you all. She was a wonderful lady and will be greatly missed. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Tim, Tony and Ana Negro

Mary McCullough

November 25, 2009

Dear Joe and Celeste, WE are so sorry to learn of your mother's passing. Please know we are holding you in our thoughts and prayers. Fondly, Mary and Pat McCullough

Charlene Della Maggiore

November 25, 2009

Dear Jim and entire family,
My mom and I spent awhile this evening remembering your mom like it was yesterday. My mom loved your mom like a sister. She sends her love and prayers and I send hope to all..
Charlene Della Maggiore

Ned McIver

November 24, 2009

So sorry to hear of your mother's passing. May you find comfort knowing that God has made a place for her. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

November 24, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.

Kathy McLain Anderson

Mary & Kirk Kozlowski

November 24, 2009

Maureen, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God bless.

ANDY PEPITONE

November 24, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Darling Fischer Chapel of the Hills

November 23, 2009

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