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Robert Heiser Obituary
Mar 13, 1958 - Feb 16, 2015
Gilroy, California
Robert Joseph Heiser (Bob) was born on March 13, 1958 at the Naval Hospital in Jacksonville, FL. He left this life to join his parents, Mary and Joseph Heiser, on Feb 16, 2015. Growing up the sixth of ten children, Bob developed a wonderful sense of humor and a love of family.
He attended St. Francis Cabrini and Leigh High School in San Jose, where he was a stand-out basketball player. Bob built a successful sales career that included 14 years with Aspect Communications where he last served as regional vice president of foundation account sales. He also volunteered as site coordinator for the Gilroy distribution center of Second Harvest Food Bank.
Bob was happiest surrounded by his family – the daughters he adored, his precious grandchildren, his siblings and their spouses and his many nieces and nephews. Bob and his four brothers spent many weekends working on the family property by day, enjoying hot dogs on the beach for dinner, and playing cards late into the night. Bob loved games of all kinds, the company of his friends and family, good music and good beer.
An avid SF Giants fan and season ticket holder, Bob spent many happy hours watching his favorite team and loved taking his grandchildren, his daughters and his friends to the park. He was kind, generous, and loving and would help anyone who asked for his advice, guidance or assistance. Deeply loved by his large, extended family and the friends he held close, he will be missed.
Bob is survived by his three daughters, Valerie Heiser, her children Jocelyn, JR, Logan and Bobby and their father, Jason, of San Martin; Sandy Paladino, her husband Joey and their children Kaila and John of Pace, FL; and Sarah Spurgeon and her husband Travis of Raeford, NC.
He also leaves behind his brothers Joe, Bill, Richard and Chris Heiser, their spouses and children, his sisters, Maggie Givlin, Kathy Finnigan, Nora Propersi, Nancy Williams and Susan Heiser, their spouses and children, and many cousins and extended family members.
A celebration of his life will be held at Habing Funeral Home (129 Fourth Street, Gilroy) Thursday, Feb 26 at 11:00am. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Green Beret Foundation (www.greenberetfoundation.org).
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Sandy Paladino
May 9, 2025
Hey Dad... I´m thinking of you. I miss you and love you. You and grandpa watch me in the kitchen every night and you´re in my office watching me work. I hope I´m making you proud but more importantly, I hope I´m making you laugh.
May 10, 2015
God bless his family! You will be missed Bob..
-Katie D.
March 4, 2015
Our sincere condolences to the Heiser family. Bob will always be remembered for his excellent work and his friendly attitude with customers and fellow workers while he worked for us many years ago. He was a special person who will never be forgotten. Our prayers to all in his family. Glen and Linda Marra
March 3, 2015
My deepest sympathies...coming from a large family myself, I know how close you all must have been. May God comfort you all. - Geralyn Vasquez
William Dempsey
March 3, 2015
Hi Valerie, Sandy, and Sarah...I'm very sorry to hear about your father Robert. There's no words to express the empathy I feel for your loss. I know each one of you will deal with this in your own way. I think of you girls often and hope the best for you and your family.
Mike Sheridan
February 27, 2015
Our thoughts and prayers have been with Bob's family since hearing this news. Bob's passion, competitiveness and love of life were remembered by wife Liz and I from a work-related rewards trip to the Dominican Republic.
While competing with Bob in a golf match, he was so determined to win. And as every hole progressed and his lead increased, he demanded his partner to "blow it up" during their fist pump. The force of the fist pump increased so much that by the 18th hole I was worried that his partner would no longer have a hand left!
Loved it and loved and will miss Bob.
Mike and Liz Sheridan
Brianna Quick
February 26, 2015
To Bob's family:
Our hearts, prayers, and thoughts are with you.
The Quick Family
February 26, 2015
To the Nora Propersi family,
Our hearts to out to your loving family. We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved brother Bob. We will keep you in our prayers. Brian & Vonnie Day, Bismarck, ND
Charlie Shafton
February 26, 2015
My sympathy to all of Bob's family and friends. Bob always told me how luck I was. So true, for I had the pleasure of knowing Bob.
Ravi Karri
February 26, 2015
My deepest Condolences to Bob's Family. Bob is a great Man and I was his former coworker.It was shocking news for all of us at work. May his soul rest in peace.
Gina and Junior Maldonado
February 25, 2015
My deepest condolences to the Heiser family. Bob was truely a kind man, I'm honored that I had the opportunity to have met him. He always went out of his way to chat with my children. My son thought the world of him.Thanks Bob for everything. You were a neighbor and friend. I thought I'd tell you one last time since I can't text you anymore during the game,"GO GIANTS". You will be missed. Rest In Paradise Bob
Toni Moreno-Aiello
February 25, 2015
My deepest sympathy to all Bobs family.I haven't seen him in 10 yrs. But I always had good memories of our talks. He cared deeply about his girls, brothers and sisters.He was always positive and loved to tease.I know he was a very kind man that would not wish anyone harm. You all should be very proud to have been related to him. Bless you all?
Shelley Hofman
February 25, 2015
My sincere condolences to the Heiser family. I enjoyed working with Bob at Aspect. He always had a great attitude and was a pleasure to work with and know. He will be greatly missed.
Karen Oneto
February 25, 2015
We will miss our neighbor Bob. You were the best neighbor anyone could ask for, always thoughtful, positive and kind. We enjoyed our conversations with you and felt like you really cared about us. You often offered to help when we were doing some yard project. We offer our deepest condolences to your loved ones. We know your always going to be in their hearts and minds. You will be missed.
Rob and Karen Oneto
Tammy Collier
February 25, 2015
Bob was not simply a kind and generous person, he was a great leader, mentor, loved his family, was passionate about life, and just a wonderful person. He made a difference in my career, but he always took a moment to care about my life and family. He was a gentle giant with the warmest of hearts. My deepest condolences to his family, friends, former co-workers. He will be missed greatly, by everyone who had the honor to know him.
Kelli Silver
February 24, 2015
Bob was an wonderful man, who had the ability to lead a team and get others around him excited and engaged. Not only was he a great manager to work for but a very dear friend. I will miss our conversations and his leadership & friendship. Rest in peace...you are greatly missed!!!
Beverly Waite
February 24, 2015
From the entire Waite family, our hearts reach out to you all. As we look back on our childhood, we have very fond memories of the Heiser family.
February 24, 2015
Bob, you were a great person, fun to be with. Thank you for your kindness and friendship. We will miss you in our annual gatherings. Robert and Hermelinda Sapien
Michael Carlin
February 24, 2015
My deepest condolences to the Heiser family. Bob meant so much to me personally and professionally, truly a great mentor and friend! My life is so much better off for having known Bob Heiser. Rest in peace Bob!
Richard Perino
February 24, 2015
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
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