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Sean Merriman Obituary

Caltrans worker killed on Hwy. 101 By Linda Goldston
Mercury News

A Caltrans worker filling potholes in the rain on Highway 101 in South San Jose was killed in a chain-reaction accident Tuesday -- a tragic reminder of the dangers of battling storms and weather-related damage.

The death of Gilroy resident Sean Merriman was the first of a Caltrans employee this year, and it came on just the second day of National Work Zone Awareness Week, held to try to reduce deaths in highway work zones.

The 32-year-old Gilroy resident had worked for the California Department of Transportation for three months. He would have turned 33 in May.

His mother, Jacquelyn Merriman, said he had been waiting to work at Caltrans and was happy about the job.

"This job was going to help him get on with his life," she said by telephone Tuesday night from the Gilroy home she shared with her husband, Craig, and their only son. "He was learning things he had never learned before, and he was looking forward to the opportunity to pursue his dream of driving a truck."

His loss has created a void for many, she said, including a fiancee.

"I'm feeling a lot of things at this moment," she said. "He was a wonderful gift to his father and I."

Merriman's death came as damage from the siege of storms continued to mount, from mudslides and crumbling roads to flooded gutters and streets. Highway 17 was closed briefly Tuesday morning, and San Jose crews were still trying late in the day to drain flooded Zanker Road at Brokaw Road.

Merriman was part of a three-man crew working in a northbound lane of Highway 101 near Hellyer Avenue about 1:20 p.m. Tuesday when a flatbed tow truck smashed into a Caltrans vehicle, pinning Merriman between two Caltrans trucks, officials said. Two co-workers were able to jump to safety.

The California Highway Patrol did not identify the tow truck driver but said he voluntarily submitted to a blood test to determine if drugs or alcohol were a factor in the crash.

CHP Lt. Mike Dust said it appeared the tow truck driver intended to go around the work crew but "maybe waited too long and by the time he realized it, it was too late."

According to the CHP, the number of collisions, injuries and deaths involving motorists in highway work zones had been falling since 1999, with deaths in the zones dropping from 54 in 1999 to 35 in 2004. The agency credits its "Slow for the Cone Zone" public awareness campaign with bringing the numbers down.

"It's not just the workers who get killed," said Caltrans spokeswoman Lauren Wonder. "The public gets killed, too. Unfortunately, it was one of ours this time."

But there were no ready answers about Tuesday's fatal crash.

Traffic was light and the morning's downpours had slowed when the crash occurred, authorities said.

When Caltrans employees are working on a highway, warning signs are posted on the roadway and a safety truck is parked in front of the workers to try to prevent cars from crashing into them. In Tuesday's crash, the tow truck hit the Caltrans safety truck so hard that it was pushed toward the workers, trapping Merriman between the safety truck and the asphalt truck.

Dust said the CHP believes the tow truck driver was traveling about 65 mph.

The death came as heavy rains continued to saturate hillsides and roadways throughout the Bay Area, causing minor street flooding and more mudslides, from San Mateo to Santa Cruz.

Between 4 p.m. Monday and 4 p.m. Tuesday, 1.13 inches of rain fell in San Jose, 0.65 inches in Fremont, 0.57 inches in Redwood City and 1.71 inches in Santa Cruz.

There is a chance of more showers through Saturday, Henderson said.

With storms leaving hillsides waterlogged, Santa Clara County were monitoring reservoir levels.

Half of the Santa Clara Valley Water District's 10 reservoirs have already filled to capacity. Based on weather forecasts, two were expected to overflow Tuesday night and this morning, said district spokesman Mike Di Marco.

Anderson Reservoir -- the biggest in the district -- and Coyote Reservoir are expected to fill in the next 48 hours, Di Marco said. If they do, extra water will flow back into Coyote Creek, making waters in the creek faster and more dangerous for people nearby.

Los Gatos officials reported two small mudslides that forced traffic to be rerouted around them for a brief time while crews did cleanup.

A part of Sierra Road in the San Jose foothills was closed as the soil gave way and a section of the road dropped six inches.

Elsewhere in the state, two Central Valley levees failed Tuesday morning, flooding a trailer park, threatening other homes in Merced and inundating farmland south of Sacramento. There were no immediate reports of injury or the extent of the damage.
Published by Mercury News on Apr. 5, 2006.

Memories and Condolences
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104 Entries

Rose Moreno

November 20, 2018

This Thanksgiving we are grateful for the memories we have of our life with Sean and all of the memorable times we spent together. My sister and Sean have an eternal bond that will never diminish and Sean has left an indelible mark on our lives as a kind and thoughtful human being whos light still shines brightly on our family.

jeremy gomez

May 31, 2018

i love u sean i miss everyday cousin

jeremy gomez

May 31, 2018

i miss u cousin every day i wish i could have had memory of you but sadly i dont love you sean

Maggie Moreno

January 5, 2017

My sweetest ❤...always. We ❤ you

AJ Moreno

July 14, 2006

I just wanted to say that we miss you, even though you are in our hearts and on our minds continually every day. Thank you for being a part of our lives.

J Rec

April 28, 2006

Woody, you will be missed. You will not be forgotten. Your crew from the City of Cupertino will always have You, Paul, & Jesse in our hearts.

Tim Rochte

April 11, 2006

Although Sean's time on earth was far too short, he will be forever known as one who paid the ultimate price in order to serve the public. "Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for others." John 15:13 May God's Love surround the entire Merriman Family, and all of Sean's friend, now and always.

Your Compadres Ben and Diane Martinez

April 11, 2006

Compadre Sean,

Kindness,Humble,Joyful,Honest,Beaut

iful,Giving and so much more.These were all qualities in you. That says alot about a person.Knowing you was such a blessing."Nino"

and "Tio Sean" thats who you are and always will be to our boys Alex and Daniel.We will never forget you and miss you ever time we think of you.Thank you for making my cousin Maggie so happy.



We Love you and miss you God Bless you, our Angel in Heaven.

April 11, 2006

I'M SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. I KNEW SEAN FROM SCHOOL AND I ALWAYS KNEW HE WAS SPECIAL, I'M TRUELY SADDEN BY THIS LOSS. GOD BLESS THE MERRIMAN FAMILY. ALWAY'S T.L.

Jeff Castro

April 10, 2006

I would like to send my deepest sympathies to Sean's family. His presence and personality at the yard were missed as he left for his new job. All of us who spend our workday out on the streets and highways can rest assured that we will have a little guardian angel in an oversized orange vest resting on our shoulder. Rest In Peace Sean. You will be sorely missed.

Daryl Glenn

April 10, 2006

My heartfealt sympathy to the family for your loss of Sean, All of Caltrans is keenly aware of the suddenness with which sorrows come. I hope that your faith will bring you comfort in this dark time.

Jonathan Silva

April 8, 2006

Sean will be missed. May your memories bring you comfort.

Al & Dora Cortez

April 8, 2006

Our Deepest Sympathy to the family of Sean our prayers are with you.

Manny Ortiz

April 8, 2006

Deepest Sympathy and Prayers to the family of Sean. I'm deeply saddened to hear of this tragady i guess my son-in-law Jack(CT D-4) worked briefly with Sean and he called me right away to tell me the news. I started my CT career where Sean started in the San Jose yard 1964 Retired from CT 2003 from Tehachapi,Ca.

Julie Burns-Miller

April 8, 2006

I would like to tell the Merriman family how sorry I am for their loss. I knew Sean, and for awhile we were "partners in crime". I will miss him very much. My heart goes out to Maggie. I am so sorry.

kc costa

April 8, 2006

I am very sorry for your loss. I didn't know Sean at all - I saw the news online and then I read the article about Sean - how he had finally achieved a job that would allow him to move on in his life, with a wife and family, about his relationship with his coworkers and those around him, etc. As a mother of two grown sons who have struggled to "grow up" and learn about responsibility in life, I feel your pride as parents and family for Sean's accomplishments in his life. And this isn't much consolation when you lose someone you love so much, but please know that Sean will long be remembered for his life by many of us who never met him personally - but we share your grief and honor his presence in this world. Thank you, Sean, for sharing yourself with those around you.

Rebecca - AMR

April 8, 2006

I did not know Sean, but when I responded to the 911 call I knew someone very special had been lost. I know that Sean was a wonderful person and many people loved him. To all his family & friends, I am sorry for your loss. You and Sean are in my thoughts and prayers.

V. Brush

April 8, 2006

Should you ever be sad or lonely, lift your head above the fogs of life and watch the eagles fly in the sunshine.



My condolences to Seans' family.

L

April 7, 2006

I would like to send my deepest sympathy to the Merriman family for the loss of Sean. He was so young, yet ....loved by so many.



I never knew Sean directly, but it has been evident in the previous pages of......well, I'm speachless as to what to say. He was a friend, loved one, greatly respected employee, as well as just another guy trying to do his job like so many of us; and, most of all, someone who will be dearly missed.



Again, My deepest condolences for the Merriman loss.

Maxwell Hayes

April 7, 2006

My thoughts go out to your family. I remember you as a well mannered young man and a good friend to my brother Danny. I know you will be missed greatly.My prayers are with your family...

Fabian, Orozco

April 7, 2006

To the Moreno Family our prayers are with you, May god be with you in this difficult time. You will be missed Sean, by all of us.

ROSANNA CISNEROS

April 7, 2006

I AM REALLY SORRY FOR YOUR LOST I KNOW HOW YOU MUST FEEL CAUSE I JUST LOST MY MOTHER JUST A FEW MONTHS AGO. I WILL PRAY FOR YOUR FAMILY EVERY DAY AND MAY GOD BE WITH YOU ALL AND YOUR FAMIES..

Moe McHenry

April 7, 2006

my sincere sympathy for your recent lose. Sean alway had a big smile on his face and was willing to help out. As a fellow city employee his memory will live on with all of us.

ROSEMARY CHALUKIAN

April 7, 2006

Our prayers and thoughts go out to all of you. Your loss has been felt across the State of California. Agian please accept our condolences and know that we are thinking of you. I have felt what you are feeling. Take one day at a time and always remember that you are not alone. Sean will always be with you in heart and soul.



CT D-6

Mike Mendoza

April 7, 2006

I did not know your son, however as a Caltrans worker myself, Sean is and will always be one of my brothers. I know what it is like to loose a loved one and I believe the reward after life will be greater than we can imagine.

Bless you all

Sean's fiance Maggie Moreno

April 7, 2006

I wanted to say Thank You on behalf of Sean and I to all of the people who have left such kind thoughtful words. This is something I know Sean would want me to do for us. They bring me comfort knowing and hearing Sean touched so many, many lives. So many people were lucky to have seen and felt my fiance's shine. This is why Sean was the love of my life. Im sorry baby we never got to finish our journey together like we planed but You will always be the man of my dreams, the beat of my heart and the sun on my face. Sean and I were very happy and sky was the limit. This sensless tragedy has cost me so much words could not give it justice. Please try to be good to each other remember to have caution when traveling by workers in the road trying to make our lives easier. It is the least we could do. The someone your not thinking about because you may not personally know was going to be my husband the father of my children the other half of my heart and soul. Remeber kindness really is BLISS look at Sean, what an example.

Thinking of You

This morning when I wakened

and saw the sun above,

I softly said "Good Morning Lord bless everyone that I love!

Right away I thought of you

and said a loving prayer

that He could bless you specially and keep you free from care.

I thought of all the happiness

a day could hold in store

I wished it all for you because

no one deserves it more.

I felt so warm and good inside

my heart was all aglow.

I know God heard my prayer for you;

He hears them all you know.

Just to let you know

I'm thinking of you.



I LOVE YOU Sean

Maggie

Art and Liz De la Cerda

April 7, 2006

Our Hearts and Prayers go out to you and your Family.

Your "Sis" Rose Moreno

April 7, 2006

Sean was a kind and compassionate person who will truly be missed by my family and myself. He was with my sister for the past several years and was considerd part of our family from the day he walked into our lives. His smile is what greeted us at the beginning and end of the day and his kindness knew no boundaries. I take solace in the fact that he was and always will be a special person who was part of our family and who made my sister Maggie happy. My family will always be greatful to God for sending Sean into my sister's and our lives and know that he has touched our hearts in a way no words can express. We Love you Sean.......

James Haselhofer

April 6, 2006

My teenage years spent playing pool in Craig and Jackie's garage with Sean, Fergie, Jeremy , and the rest of the boys are some of the fondest of my life. Sean was truly unlike most other humans - he lacked the guile native to so many of us. Sean, I will miss you, that old trenchcoat, your stories, and your light. Jackie and Craig, you raised a fine son, and my thoughts and energy are with you.

Jeremy

April 6, 2006

It’s so hard to put into words what made Sean so special. I tried to list them out but I guess you just had to know Sean to know what I’m talking about. Growing up, we always gathered at the Merriman house and to shoot pool, watch movies and act like teenagers. Jacqui and Craig were always so welcoming. Letting boys be boys but always offering that advice that only age brings. I remember the day that Sean starting talking about the cabin he was going to build with his father. I remember like yesterday the beams of happiness and accomplishment they both had on their faces when they unveiled their amazing creation. I was always in awe of the relationship Sean had with his father. I think we all learned a lot about friendship and being kind from Sean.



I’ll miss you.

Bob Salazar

April 6, 2006

To Craig, Jacqui and Maggie,

My heart goes out to you and my sympathies for your loss. Sean was becoming a shining star here at Caltrans. He will be missed but never forgotten. He has left a deep hole in our hearts. My deepest sympathies.

April 6, 2006

Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Michi Rodriguez

April 6, 2006

My deepest condolences to Sean's family and fiance. My heart goes out to all of you.My husband works for the City of San Jose in the streets & traffic division. I pray for his safety everyday. You are in my thoughts & prayers.

Russ Rinfret

April 6, 2006

Sean will be greatly missed by all that had an opportunity to know him. He was always cheerful and upbeat and had something positive to say about everyone. My family and I will will miss you and your visits to our house. I will however always kaap a cold one in the fridge waiting for you.

Bobbie Christiansen

April 6, 2006

I would like to give my heartfelt condolences to Sean's family and fiance'. My prayers are with you in this time of sorrow.

Marshall Silva

April 6, 2006

When I think of Sean, I always seem to crack a little smile or let out a soft giggle. Sean was funny, caring, and most importantly a good friend.He was small in stature but in no way did that represent his heart and desire. Rest in peace, you will always be in our thoughts and prayers.

Crystal Prado

April 6, 2006

We are all saddened deeply by the loss of our co-worker, Sean. Although we only knew him for a short time, he will remain in our hearts forever. My condolences to his family and fiancee.

April 6, 2006

I read the article and I was touched; the world has lost a great person. My condolences going out to the family.

Jenny Markus

April 5, 2006

Craig and Jackie, my heart goes out to you in this time and in the days ahead. Your son will always have a special place in my heart.

Steve Beams

April 5, 2006

Sean, through the many hundreds of times we as City of Gilroy employees have passed each other in vehicles, I would say that your hand wave and smile, not to mention Tom's in that "Vactor Truck," stood out from the rest of us.

It was about 10 am, that same unfortunate day, that took your life, it was on Santa Teresa Blvd I observed a passing Caltrans truck with your famous wave Sean, coming from the passenger seat of the Caltrans vehicle as it passed.

As I waved back, I could only think who waved at me, esp. with coming from Caltrans with that famous wave... you came to mind.

It was only when two hours later that afternoon, when two of your former City of Gilroy Brothers in the streets dept, told me of what had happened, as we were filling in potholes on Monterey Street that day.

Sean, the countless of times I myself have c***ed operations while just being on Santa Teresa during the widening project,

I can't begin to express how it is, as you know, to count on your family and resources in times of help and need. I'm almost positive that I saw you on Santa Teresa waving a couple of hours before you left earth in God's hands. In my mind, painfully still viewing your hard hat drifting on that highway in the evening news, it will and always will be apart of us just, "wanting to make it home at the end of the day,"....everytime I pass through the Santa Teresa project of the "living legends" and current "milestones," ....Santa Teresa near Welburn Ave,(Sta.31+00.00),will be yours brother...

Angel Moreno

April 5, 2006

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2006

L T

April 5, 2006

My sincerest condolences to Sean's family, friends & co-workers. How terribly tragic that he was killed while trying to make the road safe for drivers. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Debbie Hernandez

April 5, 2006

I am saddened by your loss of your only son. Your family will be in my prayers. In particular I will pray for your strength during this very difficult time. Lean on God and he will comfort you.

patricia reyes

April 5, 2006

sean you will always been in are hearts mr and mrs reyes

angela amerson

April 5, 2006

MY god brother sean, I LOVE YOU!! im very sorry, and he will be greatly missed. Gone but far from forgotten!

i love you!!

xoxo_angela amerson

i am jaque's god daughter from saint mary's church)

Diana Foss

April 5, 2006

Please accept my deepest sympathy for your terrible loss.

Melissa Uthes

April 5, 2006

I am deeply saddened by the death of my good friend Sean. He will always be with me in heart and spirit. I know he is at peace and is rejoined with Jesse and Paul. I will always miss all three of them. My love and prayers go out to Jackie, Craig, Maggie and everyone else who's lives have been touched by Sean.

Frances, Fernando Orozco

April 5, 2006

I'am so sorry for your loss, He well be missed by our family.We well never forget you. Sean!!

Rachael

April 5, 2006

I'm very sorry for the loss of your son Sean. I am deeply saddened by this tradgedy. May your hearts stay strong and your memories fond, We will miss you Sean.

MR & MRS Manny Reyes

April 5, 2006

Sean sorry we did not get our chance to go wine tasting like you wanted to. You will be missed and you are a true friends and would go out of your way for anything or person. Our prayers are with you and your family.

Tina Elmore

April 5, 2006

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Nadine Merriman

April 5, 2006

To the Merriman family my thoughts and prayers are with you, and know that God has a plan even though at times we may not understand. Stay strong for Sean and always stay in prayer. A family that PRAYS together STAYS together. I didn't know Sean however, I am a Caltrans employee doing the same kind of work that Sean was doing at the time of his demise.

AUDREY ELLIS

April 5, 2006

This news just breaks the hearts of everyone,even strangers. To the family of this young man, may God grant his peace to you in this time of sorrow.

Jack Barba (co-worker) and Family

April 5, 2006

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Sarah Wheelwright

April 5, 2006

I am so sorry for the loss of your loved one. May God be with you and your family in this difficult time.

Susan Andrade-Wax

April 5, 2006

"No bond is stronger than between a parent and their child".



On behalf of the City of Gilroy's Community Services Department, I am so sorry to hear about Sean. Your son was a great individual and is sorely missed by our staff. Please know that your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Ed Iglesias

April 5, 2006

Sorry for your loss. I pray that God will bring your family and friends comfort during this difficult time.

James Perez

April 5, 2006

I'm glad to have gotten to know you,you will be missed.

BRIAN CADIGAN

April 5, 2006

SEAN YOU WELL BE MISS BY US ALL

OUR DEPPEST SYMPATHY GOES OUT TO YOUR FAMILY & FRIENDS WE WELL NEVER FORGET YOU- CREW 652 SAN JOSE ROAD MAINTENENCE WEST

Ly Pham

April 5, 2006

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow. It will remind me of him who served others well every time I commute on this HW 101. My deep appreciation to him.

Sandy Coria

April 5, 2006

I met Sean, through the hiring process. I remember calling him and asking him if he was ready to work and he said "just tell me when and where". He was really wanting to work in Gilroy, so I told him we would hire him for the San Jose yard, and that we would work towards getting him closer to home. A couple of weeks a go, I asked him how everthing was going and if he like his new job site. He told me he did. I told him, just to be alittle patient and we would get him were he wanted to go. He never did make it to his final work site, but our good Lord and Saviour had a special home waiting for him. I will miss his smile along with his beenie cap he always wore. My prayers are with Sean's Parents and Maggie. May the Lord embrace you and take you in his loving arms and bring comfort to your broken heart.

Mike

April 5, 2006

Thanks to Sean for his service to the public. I'm disappointed that he was lost unnecessarily while acting in a position to help the public. My condolences to his loved ones.

sri sun

April 5, 2006

I am saddened by this terrible news. May GOD give comfort for the grieving family during this difficult time.

Neil and Mary Ann Goodrich

April 5, 2006

We are sending our condolences to Jackie and Craig.

Jay Baksa

April 5, 2006

On behalf of the City of Gilroy, I would like to offer our deepest condolences to the family and friends of Sean. He did an outstanding job for the citizens of Gilroy during his five year tenure with us. He was well liked by his peers, and the total City of Gilroy family. We will miss him.

P. B.

April 5, 2006

I am deeply saddened to hear of the death of Sean Merriman. My deepest sympathy goes to his family and friends.

Toni Martinez

April 5, 2006

It's so sad to hear about someone dying just trying to do a job that makes it easier for the rest of us to get to work to do ours. I am so sorry for your loss - such a tragedy. God be with you, your family and with Sean.

f vandergriff

April 5, 2006

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Robyn

April 5, 2006

Sorry to hear of the loss of your son. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Peggy Ashford

April 5, 2006

My deepest condolences to the family and friends of Sean. Remember him proudly.

Angelina Duran

April 5, 2006

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.

peter nevarez

April 5, 2006

I was sorry to hear of the accident on the way home yesterday going south bound on 101. My condolences got out to you the parents and fiancee. I have 3 kids also, can only imagine whats its like and hope I never have to deal with the pain. God Bless you all.

Phil Deering Dist 4 Surveys

April 5, 2006

I am very sorry to hear the terrible new about Sean. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

Michelle dlC

April 5, 2006

My very deepest sympathies and condolences to the Merriman Family. May God give you strength through this tragic time and may you find peace and comfort in memories of Sean. And may Sean rest in peace. God Bless you all.

Phyllis Blain

April 5, 2006

Mr. & Mrs. Merriman, I am deeply saddened to hear of the death of your son, Sean. I did not know him but I truly feel your loss and terrible pain. My father was a Cal Trans employee and he died 26 years ago from injuries sustained in an "on the job" roadside accident. May God be with you and watch over you. Your family and Sean will always be included in my prayers.

Lowtoe

April 5, 2006

I am sincerely sorry for what has happened, but i know that he is in a better place above watching over his family and friends.

Julie Markus

April 5, 2006

To the Merriman Family:



I am deeply saddened to hear about Sean. I knew Sean very well and remember him to be such a sweet caring person. My thoughts and prayers go out to Sean's Mom and Dad. Sean's legacy and memories will live in our hearts forever.

barbara rose

April 5, 2006

I share your deep sadness at the loss of your son.May he be at peace in the arms of god

Avey Gonzalez

April 5, 2006

To the Merriman family, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Sean and I worked together for a few years for the City of Gilroy. We had a lot of common interests and became friends. I'm sorry that I did not get a chance to spend more time with Sean. I will miss his friendship and humor.

April C.

April 5, 2006

My condolences to the family and friends of Sean.

Kelly Reynolds

April 5, 2006

I was deeply saddened to hear of the loss of Sean Merriman. Although I never met Sean, my niece and her boyfriend were friends with both Sean and his fiancee. They thought the world of Sean and will miss him dearly.

Tracy Harper

April 5, 2006

Sean was working to make the roads safe for us to drive. Our heartfelt sympathy to all his family for this senseless tragedy. Peace be with you all!

Jen

April 5, 2006

Sean will be deeply missed. Our hearts and prayers go out to his parents,Maggie, and to all his friends/ family. We have so many good memories of Sean. May God be with Sean and his family. I find comfort thinking that he is with Jesse and Paul.

Rosalyn Maestri

April 5, 2006

Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.

Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.

If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.

Kathie Pitts

April 5, 2006

My heart goes out to Sean's family and friends as they go through this terrible time. I never had the pleasure of knowing him, but I am deeply saddened by their loss...may his family find comfort in his memories.

Kim Foster

April 5, 2006

This is a very sad occasion; however, death is soon to be a thing of the past and reversed. "And He will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore, the former things have passed away.--Rev 21:4

M Sonecha

April 5, 2006

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.



May God give you the strength to deal with this very difficult time of your lives. We are deeply moved. You are in our prayers.

Sharon Urrabazo

April 5, 2006

To Sean's family and fiancee, I never met Sean however I do feel so much for your lost. Times like these are so hard to understand why. You are all in my prayers.

April 5, 2006

I am very sorry for your loss.

Ellen

April 5, 2006

To the parents and family of this young man who gave his life making our roads safer. I drive that section of 101 quite often on my way to and from work. This is a tragic reminder for all of us to slow down and be aware of what is going on around us. Our destination will always be there waiting for us.

Your son left this place doing a job you said he had been wanting to get into for quite some time.

Nothing anyone says or does for you will make anything better at this time. But in the end you will realize that time will help you heal.

My deepest sympathies.....

Shanelle Peres

April 5, 2006

Sean you will always be hearts and in our prayers. You always had a way of making Ray and I smile at every gathering that we attended. You will never be forgotten..God Bless you and your family and Maggie and friends. May God and your Angels watch over you. You will always have a special place in our hearts.Rest in Peace.

Steve

April 5, 2006

I didn't know Sean personally, but my room mates dad worked for CalTrans for alot of years and he's told me stories of how many close calls he had while working on the roads. People PLEASE slow down when you see the CT crews (or any other crew) working on the road. Especially in the rain. I do send my condolances to the family that has to go through this unfortunate situation.

Patricia Bentson

April 5, 2006

Dear Jacqui and the entire Merriman clan,

My deepest condolences on the loss of your dear Sean. I remember him as a little boy when I used to attend TOPS meetings with Jacqui. It was poignant to see Sean as a grown man working at the City of Gilroy. Though we worked in different departments at the City, I know that he had an excellent work ethic and was well liked by his peers. I'm so sorry about your loss. There is no explanation for this terrible accident that took his life. We have to think that God took him quickly because he needed another angel to help with his work in Heaven. My deepest sympathy and respect.

Alan Chase

April 5, 2006

Sean had only worked for me for a short time. He was an eager-ready to learn type of guy, very enthusiastic. He took his job very seriously and was a pleasure to be around. Sean will be deeply missed. My condolences to his Family.

Carla Ruigh

April 5, 2006

We hired Sean about 5 years ago to work for us doing public works maintenance here in Gilroy. Everyone was very fond of Sean, and he made many friends here. Sean had such a youthful spirit and appearance. One of my favorite memories of Sean is seeing him drive the City's huge Vactor Truck. I always smiled when I saw him drive the truck because if you didn’t know, you might think he was just a kid driving such a behemoth vehicle. He loved the work, and was thrilled to have a full-time position with Cal-Trans, the staff here was very proud of him and delighted to see him move his career forward. His loss is felt deeply by his many friends here in Gilroy. Our hearts go out to his family and friends.

Carmen Medrano

April 5, 2006

I would like to express my deepest condolences to Sean's family. My thouthts and prayers are with you. I had the pleasure of meeting Sean when he worked in the water division for the City of Gilroy. He was a happy person and always was willing to learn new things. Then when he moved over to the Parks division I would run into him at Christmas Hill Park during my walks. Even from far away he would always wave to us. He will be greatly missed.

sylvia McCasland

April 5, 2006

I don't know the family but, my sincerest thoughts and prayers go out to you and your loved ones. God had other plans for Sean and that is a blessing. Take Care

Sylvia McFadden

April 5, 2006

My deepest sympathy for the family of Sean. Although we only knew him for a short time, he won't be forgotten. He was one of the good guys and will definitely be missed. I pray some good will come from this tragedy.

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