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1954
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2013
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Toni Murray Obituary
Resident of San Jose, Ca
Entered into rest San Jose, Ca. August 24, 2013 at age 59. Beloved wife of Patrick Murray. Dear daughter of Ralph Dussart and the late Shirley Dussart. Loving sister of Cheryl Kaiser (Marty). Dear aunt and great-aunt to numerous. Friends are invited to attend Vigil Service 7:00 P.M. Thursday, Aug 29, 2013 at Lima Family Erickson FH, 710 Willow St, San Jose, Ca and Funeral Mass 12:00 P.M. Friday, Aug 30, 2013 at St. Frances Cabrini Catholic Church, 15333 Woodard Rd, San Jose, Ca. Interment to follow at Los Gatos Memorial Park, 2255 Los Gatos-Almaden Road, San Jose, Ca
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Jack Cantell
November 12, 2019
Hello Toni.... Something made me think about you today, November 12, 2019, and just on a whim I plugged your name into Google. I was shocked to learn of your passing five years ago. I'm so sorry that we never kept in touch after our father, Albert Raymond Cantell, passed away. The last time I saw you, and the last time we spoke is when you and our father came to Michigan to be with our brother Mike just as he passed away. You and I kept in touch for a short while, then it faded away for some reason. I remember growing up with you and Cheryl and spending so much time at Grandma Mamie's house in Santa Clara. Those were fun times. I wish I could speak with you again. Over the years since Mike passed away, I thought of you often and wondered why we didn't stay in touch. May God bless you and keep you always. Love, your brother Jack Cantell, Clinton Township, Michigan
August 3, 2014
Toni, Carl & I came to visit you this morning. We wanted to wish you happy birthday. I love you and will always miss you my friend. Godspeed and say hi to Shirley & Frank for me! Love you girlfriend.
Mary Kay
July 31, 2014
Dear sister
I look up at the sky and talk to you . What I would give to hear you talk back. I miss your voice, laughter and just you.
Happy Birthday my sissy.
Love you always
Cheryl
Pat Murray
September 27, 2013
Miss you
maria bravo
September 6, 2013
sorry to hear about Toni my prayers are with you pat and fam. Love
John Pacina
September 1, 2013
my thoughts and prayers are with you marty, Cheryl, & Family
Ken and Laurie Gifford
September 1, 2013
You will be missed very much. Will always remember what a sweetheart you were to me back in the day. I love you for that. You're an angel
September 1, 2013
My heart can fill your pain.Always remember that Toni Loved you with all her Heart.& all the family too.May she rest in peace now.Always Loved Never Forgotten.
Cheryl Kaiser
August 30, 2013
To my sister Toni,
I miss you more today than yesterday, but not as much as tomorrow. Your always in my heart.
Love you
August 29, 2013
Toni,
I thank you for your kindness and your friendship. You were always so supportive of me. I wish you the peace and serenity of an eternal life with the Lord. And know you will be missed by those of us hoping to join you in Heaven!
Martin Murray
Rayna Kaiser
August 29, 2013
My dearest Auntie Toni,
I am so proud of you and everything you have accomplished. Thank you for always being there for me no matter what. You never judged or had anything mean or negative to say about anyone, unless they messed with your family then watch out. so many memories to cherish I will never forget. I will miss the unpredictable craziness and that contagious laugh of yours. Rest in peace Angel you are back with Nana and everyone else right were you wanted to be. All my love and more
August 29, 2013
Toni, although our friendship was brief you have left an impression on my heart. May your family find peace that god took an angel to be by his side. You will be greatly missed. Debbie Souza
Sandy Sialaris
August 29, 2013
Our hearts, thoughts and prayers are with your family. Hoping you find comfort from the love surrounding you from all the people in your lives. Toni was so sweet and will be missed by everyone who knew her. Love and sympathy from our family.
August 28, 2013
Dear Kaiser family,
I am deeply sorry for your loss. I know Toni was a beloved wife, sister, auntie and friend. I could not count how many childhood memories I have of all of us getting together. Auntie Toni and Uncle Pat were always there. Toni would greet us with a big smile and a HUGE AUNT TONI HUG. She would make sure the kids were always having fun, whether she was including herself into the games we were playing, telling us stories,making us laugh, or on occasion if she had to break up a fight beetwen us. Either way she always showed unconditional love . Her memory will be lived on through those whos life she touched. And thats a lot of life's mine included.
My deepest sympathy's and prayers to your family and loved ones.
RONNIE L. GIBSON
Jerrie Burnett
August 28, 2013
We are so sorry to hear about Toni. She will be greatly missed. All our best to her family. Youre in our thoughts and prayers. Mickey and Jerrie Burnett.
August 28, 2013
Toni, we were roommates for 18 years friends for more than 20, but most of all you've been family for Mary Kay and I for life. The bond that formed in our early years together is like a fine wine that has matured, sweetened, mellowed, and has been cherished even more as the years have passed. I thank God for bringing you into, and being part of our lives. You will always be remembered and dearly missed.
God Speed, Toni
Love,
Carl Peak
August 28, 2013
Toni, I don't think it was luck that our paths crossed. Your friendship is one of Gods gifts designed especially for me. I will always miss you my friend.
Love,
Mary Kay
August 28, 2013
So sorry to hear about Toni i know this is a great loss to you and your family,
My thoughts and prayers to you and your
family.
Rita Sullivan
Pat Murray
August 28, 2013
To my beloved wife,
I love you and will always love you. You were such a beautiful person inside and out. I was truly Blessed to have walked thru life together with you at my side. I thank you for your love, kindness, and undestanding. I will never question why God brought you home at such a young time in your life, but I know there was a reason. I miss you so much Toni.I was so proud of you. You will always be remember as a strong women who loved God and tried living her life to please God.I believe you did just that. You will always be in my heart and in my prayers, you will be missed by all. May your spirit always be close to me as I continue my journey without you at my side. Rest in peace Toni and may God bless you .
Your loving husband
August 28, 2013
Cheryl and family,
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of Toni.. May she rest peacefully in the arms of our Heavenly Father!
Love and Prayers,
Walt,Lorinda Ingram
August 28, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with you Cheryl and family.. We are so sorry to hear about Toni. May she rest in our Lords arms..
Love and prayers,
Walt,Lorinda Ingram
August 27, 2013
Sorry for your loss.
Mona Surrey, San Jose, CA
DIANE RAMOS
August 27, 2013
I'm so sorry to hear about Toni.My thoughts and prayers are with you Cheryl & the family.May god give you strength to get throu this difficult time.
Brooke Sandlin
August 27, 2013
You are gone but never forgotten Auntie Toni. I will forever remember your gentle touch, you always touched our faces so softly and gave us a hello or good bye kiss on the cheek as you whispered I love you sweetie, or just when ever we needed love. I am still in shock that you are gone; I have some peace because I know you are with Nana, Aunt Pat, GG, Uncle Jerry, Rex and many more. All I could think of Sunday was I know Nana gave you one of her great big bear hugs when you walked through the gates of heaven. As Nana is to all us kids, I know you will also be our Guardian Angel watching over us & guiding us through life. WE Love you Auntie Toni.. Rest In Peace
Jennifer Smith
August 27, 2013
As you grieve know that we are remembering you and honoring the memory of Toni. She will be missed.
Michelle Smith
August 27, 2013
Toni,
This was so unexpected, you left us way too soon! I am grateful to have you as long as we did, cherishing the many memories that we have had as cousins and as family! You will be missed but now you are with the rest of our family and always be in our my hearts forever!
I love you!
Michelle & Family
Rascal, Coco and Pumpkin
JP
August 27, 2013
Toni-
From day 1 you and Pat treated me like family. As I struggle to wrap my head around your unexpected passing, a few thoughts come to mind. You ALWAYS made me smile, whether is was making fun of "Kaiserism" or my random inappropriate outbursts, you were always in the middle of the madness. You should have been Dog whisperer, I always knew that my Police Dog was in good hands when you were on the job, THANK YOU. I'll miss the random texts of positivity, many times your messages helped break up the crazy work stress....
You will remain in my memories and heart forever! Thanks for being such a great friend.
See ya when I get up there.....
Your Friend
JP
Cheryl Kaiser
August 27, 2013
Dear Sister,
I miss you so terribly. Dying so suddenly left a hole in my heart.
I never got to say good-bye and tell you how much I loved you and appreciated all the things you did for me.
You were my sister my friend.
I loved you.
Love you Sissy Dear.
Love, Cheryl
Toni, Elizabeth, & Cheryl
August 26, 2013
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