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Tony Carrillo Obituary

Tony Carrillo
Nov 16, 1936 - May 9, 2020
San Jose
Tony Sotomayor Carrillo, EdD, a retired San Jose State University professor, education advocate for the underserved and founder of the San Jose International Mariachi Festival and Concerts, passed away May 9 in Clovis at age 83.
Tony's family remembers him as a loving father, with a sharp wit and booming laugh. Bolo ties and a big smile were his hallmark. A great joke and story teller, he was an avid gardener and loved hosting backyard parties with family and friends. He had a "take no prisoners approach" to playing Hearts. And if you sat next to him in Uno, you were in big trouble.
Born at home in Tucson, Arizona on November 16, 1936, Tony was the youngest of six children in a large family. His first language was Spanish, and he had said he learned English "in a class of only Spanish-speaking kids and a teacher who didn't know Spanish." The difficulty of that early school experience solidified his belief that everyone should have access to the life-changing opportunities that an education afforded him and that led him to a career devoted to education.
Tony receive his B.A., teaching credential and master's degree from the University of Arizona. While attending college, he met his future wife, Anna, and they married in 1958. Tony taught high school history and political science before being elected, as one of the first Hispanics, to Arizona's House of Representatives, serving three terms, before moving to Michigan to earn his doctorate degree in education at Wayne State University as a Mott Foundation Fellow.
He was an associate professor at Arizona State University before continuing his career at San Jose State University, becoming chairman of the Department of Educational Administration.
As an education consultant, Tony headed district superintendent searches across the country and was instrumental in recruiting women and minorities into educational administration positions.
As a national leader in the community school education model, he advocated having adult, migrant and bilingual education being incorporated into school systems and was a pioneer in distance learning and remote learning even before the Internet. He also served two terms on the Board of San Jose's East Side Unified High School District.
In 1989, Tony and Anna founded the highly respected Unfinished Journey Project, which promoted higher education to underrepresented high school students. College-level classes were taught on high school campuses by SJSU professors. Credits earned counted toward completion of high school, in addition university credit, and automatic acceptance into the university system.
As an homage to his Hispanic heritage and as a way to help underwrite the Unfinished Journey Project, Tony established the San Jose International Mariachi Festival and Concerts in 1991. The weeks-long series included concerts, Festivals, activities, and mariachi/folkloric workshops, involving over 1,000 students. The workshops were incorporated into music classes in schools throughout California, using music as the vehicle to drive students' interest in math and science.
He also created the Mariachi Harmonia Concert Series, showcasing the San Jose Symphony Orchestra performing together with stars like Mariachi Cobre, Vikki Carr and Linda Ronstadt, with funds supporting student scholarships for the project.
Tony is survived by his wife Anna, his sons Anthony, Raymond, Charles (Susan), and Vincent (Carla), seven grandchildren and two great grandchildren; his sister Tillie Gallardo, brother Genaro (Charlotte) and sister-in law Emma Carrillo. He was predeceased by parents Federico Carrillo and Guadalupe Sotomayor Carrillo and brothers Frank, Leo and Msgr. Arsenio Carrillo. The family asks that donations be made in Tony's name to St. Vincent de Paul Society.


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Published by San Jose Mercury News/San Mateo County Times on May 24, 2020.

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Tillie, Gallardo and Carrillo families

November 16, 2020

Tillie, Gallardo and Carrillo families

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Tillie, Gallardo and Carrillo families

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Tillie, Gallardo and Carrillo families

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Tillie, Gallardo and Carrillo families

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Tillie, Gallardo and Carrillo families

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Tillie, Gallardo and Carrillo families

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Tillie, Gallardo and Carrillo families

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Tillie, Gallardo and Carrillo families

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We miss you. We love you.
Happy Birthday Tony!

Dorothy S. Leon Moreno cousin

June 1, 2020

My Sympathies to Tilly & Genaro & all the rest of the family from your cousin Dorothy & Robert M. Moreno.

Sister Corina Padilla

May 28, 2020

May he rest in peace. My prayers are with the family. May Jesus comfort you on your loss. Sister Corina Padilla.

Virginia Olivares

May 27, 2020

I met Tony in San Jose, when he called me to see if I would be willing to help him with first Mariachi festival in San Jose. I did not know at that time he was from Tucson, AZ. We seemed to know alot of the same
people because I was born in Tucson, AZ also. I did not have a lot of time to come up with a design, but I told him I would help in anyway I could. From then on we became friends. Truly a very nice and beautiful, caring, and friendly personality. Vaya con Dios, Tony. Virginia Olivares-Rayher.

Victor Carrillo

May 26, 2020

The preceding photo is that of my Uncles Tony and Arsenio at their brother, Genaro, and sister-in-law, Charlotte's 60th anniversary celebration. This was the last time I got to be with them. My mind and heart floods with memories of love and laughter. It was a shock when my dad told me of Tony's passing. God Bless You, Uncle.

Victor Carrillo

May 26, 2020

Theresa Soto

May 25, 2020

So sad I knew Tony, Anna and the kids. I used to baby sit the boys. My parents were friends of Tony and Anna. We lived across the street from them in Barrio Anita.

Doran Larson

May 24, 2020

Mr. Carrillo was my 8th grade Spanish teacher at Utterback. Enjoyed his class. He was a very good teacher. Sincere condolences to his family. Doran Larson

Carla Carrillo

May 24, 2020

This is my favorite photo of my father-in-law. This photo was taken in 1998, at Vince's and my 10 year wedding anniversary party. He loved a good party!

Tom & Linda Spencer

May 24, 2020

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. Your family's contributions have been such a blessing to all of Tucson and we were blessed to have Tony. God bless you...stay strong and stay safe.

Tomás Castillo

May 24, 2020

During the time I served on the Tucson Unified School District governing board from 1981 to 1988, Tony reached out to me to discuss issues on many occasions. He provided valuable support and reinforcement as there would be those occasions when tough decisions arise and you always wonder if you are acting in the best interest of the children and teachers, and parents. Tony was there to talk to, and give advice and support at critical times.

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