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Bob Chapman of Portland, loving and devoted husband of Laura Bitondo passed away on June 13th at the age of 63.
Bob lived his life to the fullest! He worked hard and played hard. A man of so many talents and interests, admired and loved by all. Bob will be dearly missed.
He was a master chef and foodie who built his own pizza oven. Bob was always up for a competitive cooking contest with his friends. He was the life of the party with the best music play list! Bob's other interests include Nascar, boating, fishing, camping and travel. A sharp dresser who was known for his scarf collection. Bob was a good listener, teacher and trusted mentor who was always willing to lend a helping hand. Among his happiest moments were at their Portland property which was his pride and joy. Bob found pleasure working on his vintage tractors and enjoying the beautiful views, wildlife and serenity at his cherished home.
Besides his wife Laura, Bob leaves behind his mother Linda Chapman and her partner George of Madison, his brother David Chapman and wife Carm of Haddam, his sister Sybil Shay and her husband Ted of Guilford and his brother Michael Chapman and wife Liz of Atlanta. In addition, Bob leaves to mourn him his many loved and adored nephews, nieces, in-laws, loyal and loving friends and Stella, his faithful feline companion. Bob was predeceased by his father Nicolas Chapman.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Tuesday, June 21st, at 10 a.m. in St. Pius X Church, Middletown. Burial will be in Miner Cemetery, Middletown. In lieu of flowers, please make a gift to Financial Aid at Xavier High School, 181 Randolph Road, Middletown, CT, 06457.
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Anthony E Brown
June 23, 2022
My deepest condolences to the Chapman family.
Ronald Raffele
June 21, 2022
To the Chapman family my thoughts and prayers are with you all at this most difficult time Rip Bobby I feel your pain.
Jeff Krupke
June 21, 2022
One of my earliest memory with Bob was when we had put on a Dick Tracy original skite we put on during a 3rd grade performance. Bob was always supportive and a true friend. You'll always be with me my friend!
Leslie Coutsouridis
June 21, 2022
Dear Laura, sitting at the kitchen table just now and wondering whose funeral is at the minor Street cemetery as I can see it from here. I had heard about Bob and just found the information online. Thinking of you. So very, very sorry for your loss, Laura.
Love you, Leslie and Dean
Chrissy & Steve
June 21, 2022
Laura, Our hearts are broken for you. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Amelia Baldwin
June 20, 2022
Laura, May memories of Bob heal your heart and soul. Blessings and thoughts . Peace Amelia and Paul
Liz Whitty, Xavier High School
June 20, 2022
Sincere condolences to the Chapman Family on the loss of Bob, Class of '77. Your family is in the prayers of this Xaverian community.
Jerry Collins
June 19, 2022
To Laura & the Chapman Family,
I'm so sorry to hear about Bobby.
Bobby was my favorite lefty pitcher in Softball.
We played together for several years & he always brough a great spirit & energy to the team and game.
As I just shared with a group of friends and former teammates of Bobby, he was the original " Sparky" - full of life & that big mischievous smile.
I get a kick when I think of him calling me "JJ".
During the 80's we had a great, close group of friends and Bobby was a huge piece of that.
I moved out to California in '92 & would come back home frequently.
I remember mid 2000's Bobby hosted a great day at his house in Portland with many friends & bocce, bbq & a good drinks & cheer.
It was striking to look out at the meadow from the patio & how beautiful & peaceful it looked.
An Irish Blessing:
"May God give you...
For every storm, a rainbow,
For every tear, a smile,
For every care, a promise,
And a blessing in each trial.
For every problem life sends,
A faithful friend to share,
For every sigh, a sweet song,
And an answer for each prayer."
I will keep you all in my thoughts & prayers & cherish Bobby's spirit.
Peace & much Love,
Jerry
Louie and Rosie Spada
June 17, 2022
Laura our heart's are breaking we are so sorry. Bob will be so dearly missed, if there is anything we can do we are here for you love you.
E. Ann Baldwin
June 17, 2022
Dearest Laura, please know you are always in my heart. Knock knock on heaven´s door... let there be light and serenity for you and your´s. With love to you, E. Ann B.
Sharon & Wayne
June 17, 2022
Our hearts are broken for you Laura.......
Elaine Adamski
June 17, 2022
Dear friend, I am so sorry for your loss. I know you had lots of plans together. You also have lots of beautiful memories which I pray will comfort you. Sending you love and hugs, E
Pamela Reardon
June 17, 2022
David, Carm and family, I am so very sorry for your loss. May the memories of his joy for life bring you peace. Our thoughts are prayers are with you all.
Debbie and Joe G
June 17, 2022
Bobby was a great guy. We always had fun times when we were all together. He was always so cheerful. He will be missed dearly. Our heart and prayers go out to you Laura.
Jeff Krupke
June 17, 2022
Bobby and I met a Moody Elementary school. We became best friends. I have always cherished Bob's friendship even if we couldn't see each other over the years. When we're able to get together it was like we never were ever apart. Will him greatly and to the Chapman family my most heart felt condolences. RIP Bob
Linda Zisk-Wilson
June 16, 2022
Laura, Although I didn't know your husband I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Michael Hernandez
June 16, 2022
Deepest condolences. Although I only new him for a short period of time he was loved by many and I was lucky to have known him.
Gail Melluzzo
June 16, 2022
So sorry for your loss
Beth and Ken Burtt
June 16, 2022
Our heartfelt condolences. Bobby will always hold a very special place in our hearts. He was one of the best, we will miss him dearly.
Don flynn
June 16, 2022
I´m truly sorry for your loss, his obit says it all.
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