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Craig Haynes Obituary

HAYNES, CRAIG, JR Craig “CJ” & “Craig the Don” DeMar Haynes, Jr., 25, of Middletown, died unexpectedly on Saturday, March 1. Born in Hartford, he was the son of Craig D. Haynes, Sr. of Middletown and Chequito (Miller) Smith of Brookhaven, MS. Craig lived in Middletown all of his life, graduating Middletown High School, Class of 2007, and later graduating from the Job Corp in Massachusetts. He was a member of Shiloh Missionary Baptist Church. Along with his parents, Craig is survived by his paternal grandparents, Jesse Ricks and Marvelene Haynes, both of Middletown; his maternal grandmother, Mary Porter of MS; three brothers, Joseph Miller of Gulfport, MS, Emmanuel Miller of Houston, TX and Avonte “Scooter” Bartell of Middletown; four sisters, Chekesha Clifford of Winter Haven, FL, Segrid Miller of Brookhaven, MS, Denardia Hall of Richmond, TX and Evelyn Miller of Middletown; and a host of nieces, nephews and cousins. Funeral services will be held on Friday, March 7 at 11:00 am at Shiloh Missionary Baptist Church, 346 Butternut Street, Middletown with Rev. Dr. W. Vance Cotten, Sr. officiating. Burial will follow in Pine Grove Cemetery. Friends may call on Friday morning from 10:00 am to 11:00 am at the church. To share memories or send condolences, please visit www.doolittlefuneralservice.com. Doolittle Funeral Home, 14 Old Church Street, Middletown is handling the arrangements

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Published by middletownpress from Mar. 4 to Mar. 5, 2014.

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Nykeda featherstone

July 18, 2024

Ohh bro. I miss you cj. Web knew each other since juice boxes and Saturday morning cartoons LOL I hope you and Eben our hackie sacking it up in heaven safe spot for me bro love you..,

Nikki featherstone

Brandon DuBois

January 8, 2020

2020 I miss you man, think about you all the time. Love you Craig.

Brenda Henry

February 27, 2019

R.I.P lil cuz.

Michael Potvin

November 13, 2015

I miss you so much CJ. I hope wherever you are, that you are at peace, happy, and content. And I hope you look out for me every once in a while. RIP brother.

David Canzoni

November 13, 2015

Its been awhile since you passed. Im still always thinking of you brother. You showed me so many things growing up with you and all the fun we had. I treasure those memories. I pray i can find one more real friend just like you in my lifetime. If i do so i will be very lucky. So much love from you and i still have so much love in the memories. Always loving and missing you brother cj.

beatrice colby

March 1, 2015

Miss you man!!!!

Maeve Connolly

March 1, 2015

I miss you so much. Thinking of you everyday. Hope your good because you deserve it.

February 14, 2015

Love ya
BD

Shannon O'Brien

February 13, 2015

Love you Craig. Miss you.

January 27, 2015

Miss you everyday

Maeve Connolly

January 10, 2015

Miss you soo much.

January 9, 2015

2015 crazy your not here. Love ya kid.

December 29, 2014

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Garp

December 29, 2014

Merry Christmas

December 19, 2014

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December 19, 2014

Fenway Molly Garp

December 19, 2014

I can't begin to explain how sadend I am not to have you in my life any more. Losing you has been like losing myself, I miss you with all my heart, you were the only friend I ever had.

December 16, 2014

I woke up thinking about you today I miss you so much B

December 7, 2014

Peace, Love and Empathy

December 4, 2014

I love you bro i think about you everyday.

November 13, 2014

Me too jasmine, me too

Jasmine Williams

October 29, 2014

words can not describe how broken my heart is for you. i love and miss you so much, and i know i am not the only one. I would give anything just to hear you say my name one more time. until then im just gonna sit on the dock of the bay waiting for you. <3

B

October 11, 2014

Happy birthday my brother

October 7, 2014

I will always remember,

September 25, 2014

Craig was my favorite person in the world if anyone wants to call me and talk about him or anything else give me a call 860 942 9734 - brandon

Deanna

September 19, 2014

I can't believe I am sitting here writing in your funeral guest book. No words can even describe what I am feeling. I miss you so much and not a day go's by that I don't think about you. I will always love you so so much. Nana, evie, and the rest of your family I am so sorry for your loss my deepest sympathy. I really loved CJ. Every one will miss him dearly, he was a sweetheart, could make everyone smile and feel good. He has a beautiful soul and will always be in my heart and thoughts. I love you Craig, forever!

Brenda Henry

August 2, 2014

R.I.P.

July 22, 2014

Craig Demar Haynes Jr was an Angel on earth, and now is one in heaven, i miss and think about you every day. If I ever have a friend, who is a tenth the friend that you were, i will be truly blessed. You were a gentleman and a voice for those who couldn't speak, an activist and also a kind soul, a healer and in need of healing. We talked of heaven and i remember your faith was strong. I truly look forward to the day when i get to see you again and feel your embrace. Till then i love you budge

July 7, 2014

I miss and think about you everyday budge, you will always be the best friend i've ever had. I really miss you bunkie, no one could ever take your place. im really looking forward to seeing you again one day.
Alonzo James Diamond

Maeve Connolly

April 26, 2014

I really miss you. It still doesn't seem real that your gone. I'm sorry I couldn't answer your last call. You'll always be my bestie.

E

April 21, 2014

I want to let you know you are the coolest person I have ever met, thanks for that skateboard way back. You know who this is, see you in heaven :)

April 19, 2014

4/20/09 we spent together. 5 years ago that i wish was today
miss you craig

Brandon DuBois

March 22, 2014

Craig was the most wonderful person i have ever. He was my best friend, he was my room mate, he was my brother. I lost my dad recently and he came to my side in a moments notice. My heart couldn't be more broken. Craig was an angel on earth and the loss will forever be felt. I look forward to seeing you again one day in heaven. Words can't say enough, he was too special. I loved him with all my heart, and will forever miss my brother.

Christina Burton

March 13, 2014

I'm sad you're gone, but know there's no better place to be than with God. Keep watch over us, with special attention to your sisters and Mr. Jesse. Love you and miss you, C.J.

Earl & Carolyn Beck

March 11, 2014

Thinking of you and your family, until you meet again.

Jennie Sumler

March 8, 2014

Jesse and Marv:
Sorry to learn of your loss. Praying for your family during this time.

Shannon O'Connell

March 8, 2014

RIP CJ I know your life wasnt as long as expected but you make the best of ANYTHING that comes your way. You are just that kind of soul. I wish we could have spent more time as friends together..but theres time for that in the afterlife too. I'll be seein you, bro. Love you.
ps. When I go, u better get that hackie sack ready for me.

<3

Alexis Coutsouridis

March 8, 2014

I had not seen CJ since high school... almost 10 years... he was so loving and kind and had the best sense of humor... my sincere condolences go out to his family and all of his loved ones. He will surely be missed. Heaven has received the BEST angel... xox

March 7, 2014

Even though I just met you in Oct/Nov. You was a wonderful person! I wish your life was longer on this earth! May you rest in peace! You were a beautiful soul! I will really miss you!

March 7, 2014

To the Family, Our hearts go out to you and our prayers go up for the entire family,with love Deacon Doug & Jennifer Highsmith

Katherine Brady

March 7, 2014

I was so very sorry to hear of your passing Craig. You'd visit my office and chat and eat the candy, you said you liked the mints not the chocolate. So I always made sure I had mint. Rest in peace young man. So sad for such a beautiful smile to lose you so early. Praying for your family and friends. May Jesus hold you in his arms now.

madelaine capa

March 7, 2014

Im so sorry to hear about ur death bby boy u was always so sweat to me in job corps just a hug used to make me smile. My prayers are with ur fam, friemds and of course for ur peaceful rest. Hope to see u one again R.i.p bby boy

madelaine capa

March 7, 2014

Damn bby boy cant believe ur really gone always remember u being a total sweetheart to me in Jobcorps always making me smile even when I wasnt happy. My payers go out for your family, friends and of course for ur peaceful rest may we see eachother again one day. R.i.p bby boy

Willie and Linda Walton

March 7, 2014

Jesse And Marv, we r sorry for your loss, we pray GOD strength for u and the family.

Jayde Serra

March 7, 2014

I'm glad we recently hung out after all those years... I still can't believe this is real god gained an angel...rock the heavens cj you will be missed<3

andy

March 7, 2014

Heaven just got a really special person RIP my man

Eric O'Connell

March 7, 2014

Craig was a good person and all his friends will miss him. My deepest sympathy to all who loved him.

Ida &E.J Davis

March 7, 2014

Marvelene,Jessie & Craig,
I know what yall going thru,but God is with yall. He will see you thru this. Keep yall faith in the man above. There will be days when you will feel like you can't make it,but remember to call on God.

jenny regina

March 7, 2014

i will never forget our days together. you were always a kind soul and man, as funny as can be. you could always make a bad day turn better.Jessica and i will miss you greatly. R.I.P. craig.

Christina

March 7, 2014

A sweetheart and a charmer. My sympathies to his family

thomas hill&family

March 7, 2014

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Caitlin Higgins

March 7, 2014

CJ and family~ i don't want to believe he's really gone.. he has been like family to me for years. He was one of my first friends when I moved to Middletown. CJ could always put a smile on everybody's face and he never would let people stay upset. He had one of the biggest hearts of anyone I've met. Even though I hadn't seen him much in the last couple years, each time we'd run into each other it was as if no time had passed at all..He'd give me a big hug and say, "Caiterz!"
I just want the family of Craig to know that he will be truly, truly missed. I know I'm only one of the many people who will always remember him. He was a very special person. Now he'll be making everyone smile up in heaven..
Missing you CJ, Caiterz

natassja calhoun

March 6, 2014

our prayers are with you.

Dwayne Jenkins

March 6, 2014

My sincere condolences go out to the Haynes family for your loss, from the Jenkins and James family. May God heal your hearts in this time of sorrow.

Jasmine Williams

March 6, 2014

Craig I can't believe you are gone. I will always remember the days we spent at westover laying in the grass listening to Otis Redding and Hendrix. how we talked for hours about everything we wanted out of life. I will always miss you. I'll keep you in my heart forever. we will always be together always & never. <3 love your bff.

Kim Dawkins-Townsend

March 6, 2014

Rest in Peace Dear Heart.

Felicia Byrd

March 6, 2014

Uncle Ricks, Marvelene, Cousin Craig. Sorry for your loss. God BlessYou.

Brenda Henry

March 6, 2014

Although I never got to meet you, you're still family..God bless the family and much love.. From: Brenda, Jamaal & Jeronimo..

March 6, 2014

RIP CJ,your with the lord now.

March 6, 2014

R.I.P CJ You are in a better place now,no worries no pain no struggle!

Jody Manemeit

March 6, 2014

To CJ's family and friends: Reading all the beloved memories and notes of prayers, I can see that CJ was loved by so many. He was a friend to my son back in the Little League days and like Jesse said it was always like they had seen each other yesterday and no time had passed. A true friend like that is so hard to find. May you rest in peace CJ and know that there are so many who will miss you but will always carry the laughs,smiles and memories forever in their hearts. Jesses Mom

Nathan Doran

March 6, 2014

You will be missed seems like just yesterday things were great, how quickly they can turn, deep condolences too your family brother until we meet again, God Bless

ADRIENNE BOSTICK

March 6, 2014

UNCLE JESSIE AND AUNT MARV, SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS, MAY GOD COMFORT YOU AND YOUR FAMILY DURING THIS TIME OF SORROW.

March 6, 2014

Marvelene & Jesse,

So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts & prayers goes out to you & your family.

Love,
Stephanie Shell & family

Lenora Davis

March 6, 2014

To the Haynes family.Sorry for your loss. My condolences to you Marv & Craig

Trudy

March 6, 2014

Since the day I met you all I was family there was never a time I didn't feel I was...I love and miss you dearly...may you rest in peace...

Brenda Privott

March 6, 2014

Sorry for your loss. God Bless You!

steven rios

March 6, 2014

god bless him ive talked to him only a few times but can honestly say they were always positive hes someone i could say showed people that no matter where your from you can make something of your self i pay my respects to his family and only pray that god keeps him right beside him he was a good kid young and was taken so soon he will be missed not only by me but by the city of middletown but friends everywhere who knw him from school god bless

Jesse Manemeit

March 6, 2014

It seems like yesterday we were at baseball practice where we first had met. Became good friends through baseball. Everytime I saw you after that, it was always like yesterday. Always so upbeat and happy. May you rest in peace CJ. Thanks for always being a good friend no matter what.

jovohn hunter

March 5, 2014

Cuzzo youll always have a place in my heart we went through alot in our times togather i kno ur watching over us in a better place now love u forever

HAROLD REED

March 5, 2014

My heart filled condolences to the Haynes Family for the lost of c.j. His life was to short a period of time. May he rest in peace,and the lord hold him in the hollow of his hands.

monique lapointe

March 5, 2014

craige was a great guy, anything he put his mind to he could do it. he always put a smile on my face and everyone's face he knew. he always knew the right thing to say. I will never understand why god took you so soon. I don't know what to say but I wish I could of said goodbye.. my heart goes out to his family an there lose..

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope though these hard times.

I have memories in my pocket.They rattle among the change. My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go. They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole They give me comfort when I think I am alone. Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there. But of all the treasures I have, it's the memories of you that are the most precious.
By Lamaretta Simmons

Tiffany Warzecha

March 5, 2014

RIP sweetheart.... You were a great soul taken too soon! Prayers go out to your family & friends. Xox

Jenna B

March 5, 2014

Went to school with CJ and he was always there to share a laugh with! May you rest in peace CJ and may God give your family the strength to move forward and peace in their hearts...

March 5, 2014

You are in our prayer. Deacon William & Lillie Rogers

Vaughn Tate

March 5, 2014

Cj was more than a friend to me he was family. he showed me who i rally was and how to love me for who i was this is just one of the many things this man has taught me i will miss you baby boy i know you still got my back from up there and just know that i got your's from down hear

Jude Speakman

March 5, 2014

Marv,
So very sorry for the lost of your grandson. May he now rest in peace.

Melissa Mishler

March 5, 2014

CJ was the first to make me laugh from middle and highschool. He will be missed by many. My heart is with his family. May he rest in peace.-Mish

Robert Overton

March 5, 2014

My condolences to the Haynes family

lauren Janas-muraviov

March 5, 2014

CJ... I can't believe you're gone. I has just seen you a few weeks ago.. still calling me scarface from when I was a kid with you in summerhill. I remember when you used to ride that skateboard you had everywhere. I know we grew apart over the years but you always treated me like a day never passed whenever I saw you. I am truly sorry for you family's loss and you will be missed by so many people. Rock the heavens

Kyra & Jerome Lorde

March 5, 2014

Aunt Marv & Jessie...Pleaswe accept our condolences...Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts of CJ. Praying for you both.

Charles & Juanita Morring

March 5, 2014

Marv & Jessie, we r so sorry for your loss and will keep holding u up in prayer. we love you.

Jewel Privott

March 5, 2014

Rev. Haynes and Mr. Ricks; I am so sorry for your loss. Your family is in my prayers.

Tracey Stanley & Family

March 5, 2014

Uncle Jesse and Ms. Marv,

I'm so very sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved grandson.

I can only imagine your pain. Please know that you are loved and will be in my prayers.

I'm so very sorry..

Marsha Dowling

March 5, 2014

Marve & Family,

I don't know the words that will comfort you in the grief you are experiencing right now. I do know CJ felt your deep unconditional love all the years of his life. CJ...may you rest in peace. Marve & family...may your grief be replaced by loving memories of this beautiful young man. God be with you all.

The Fugedi's

March 5, 2014

"CJ"
What a goofball you were, OMG you were like the funniest person ever. All the times you stayed at our house, or just hanging out with Danielle and Miranda. Danielle told me how she had a good visit with you on Feb 28th in Norwich, she said she brought down a pizza and gave you a stuffed animal. She said you two talked and laughed the whole time.
You will be missed big time by the girls.
My heart goes out to your Gramma and Evie.

March 5, 2014

Marvelene and family,I am so sorry for your loss. May God rest his soul and give you peace in your hour of grief.

Mike DeTuccio

Kelly

March 5, 2014

Forever Missed Craig... XO

Kelly

March 5, 2014

Forever Missed Craig... XoXo

Linda Field

March 5, 2014

Marvelene and Family,
I am truly sorry for the loss of your grandson, Craig.May God be with you in this time of sorrow.

Teresa and Keith Tomasino goodrich

March 5, 2014

You will forever be in everyone's hearts you always had a smile on your face that can bring anyone's frowns into a smile! We will forever miss you!!!

March 5, 2014

Marv & Jessie. There are no words that I can think of to express how I fell right now. BLESS you both. Jacky

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