Name: Visitation for Joel K. Lyding
Start: 2020-01-04T15:00:00.000Z
End: 2020-01-04T17:00:00.000Z
Location: Biega Funeral Home - Middletown

Lyding, Joel K.
Joel K. Lyding, 62, of Middletown, died Saturday, December 21, 2019. He was born in Morristown, NJ, son of Marion (Dusek) Lyding-DeWeese of Middletown and the late Charles W. Lyding. Joel retired from the Connecticut State Police as Quarter Master serving for 30 years. Joel enjoyed nature and the outdoors. He was a avid trout fisherman and could often be found fishing the Salmon and Coginchaug Rivers. If he was not fishing he would be tending to his plants and gardens or spending time with his two sons or family. He enjoyed photography, hiking, skiing, and camping. He was a person who enjoyed the simple things in life and would always try to fix things before buying something new. He will be greatly missed but never forgotten. He is survived by his two sons, Ryan and Jared Lyding both of Middletown, wife Deidre, brothers, Rick Lyding and his wife Pamela of Middletown and Keith Lyding and his wife Cheryl of Blairstown, NJ, nieces and nephews, Erica, Amy, Kristy, Meghann, Charles and several grand nieces and grand nephews. He was predeceased by his step-father Omer DeWeese and nephew Corey B. Lyding. Visiting hours will be held on Saturday (Jan. 11th) from 10 a.m. to 12 p.m. at Biega Funeral Home, 3 Silver St., Middletown. Burial will be at the convenience of his family. Those who wish may send memorial donations to a charity of your choice. To share memories or express condolences online, please visit
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Published by Middletown Press on Jan. 5, 2020.

Memories and Condolences
for Joel Lyding

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February 23, 2024

He was an amazing great uncle to me. I loved seeing him and wish he could have stayed longer.

Bryan Ferrrucci

January 15, 2020

RIP my friend. Thank you for your hard work and the great conversations. You will not be forgotten.

Linda Robinson

January 11, 2020

Be Blessed ! Thank you for all your help and kindness to Troop H.

Elaine Weber

January 10, 2020

My hope is that all who loved you in this life truly believe you are in the care of a totally loving God.

Johna Flannery

January 10, 2020

Joel- Ive known you for at least 30 years, first thru Rick, and then when I worked at Troop E and Fleet- for the CSP- you were always my go to guy for most everything the troops needed. You were one of the most reliable CSP personnel there and I know they missed you when you retired. You were there for all of them and that was a tall order but you filled it every single time. My fondest moments were of you at the yearly golf tournament with Ryan- mostly- along with some trips to VT-

I cant describe how very sad I am for your children and your mom and your brothers, the entire Lyding family has another void- and I feel that void again too- Gone way to young- May you Rest In Peace and watch over your boys! ❤

Laura Hall

January 9, 2020

Joel and Dierdre your kindness to our family when we first moved to Middletown from NJ will always be appreciated. Being the new out of state family moving here was a tough move but was made easier by having your giving heart's to welcome us into your lives. For our sons to share adventures as best friends for their younger years will always hold a special spot for me. Joel and memories of his good and helpful nature will be missed and we are very sad for his loss. Our condolences, love and prayers to your entire family.

Cheryl King

January 7, 2020

Thank you for all you did for the CT State Troopers; you always got what they needed. RIP

Daphne Lewis

January 7, 2020

My deepest sympathies and prayers to the family.

Lee (Toffey) Pesce

January 7, 2020

Joel was always the best when it came to getting you what you needed. From my first dealings with him at Troop L, through specialized units and finally to the Colonel's Office, Joel was always a helping hand and a friend to clerical personnel and troopers alike. He has been missed at CSP and will be missed by those he leaves behind. Sincere condolences to Joel's family and close friends.

John Larson

January 6, 2020

I met Joel a few times but I was closer to brother Rick as we were Troopers together at Troop K. My. Sympathy & Prayers are with the family at this time

Carol Spencer former coworker, Woodward Town & Country Pharmacy

January 6, 2020

Dear Erica,
May your Uncles heavenly light shine brightly upon you, family, loved ones and friends.

Anthony R Lancia Jr

January 2, 2020

Our deepest condolences to the entire Lyding family. Rick know that you are always in our thoughts and prayers.

The Lancia's

Eileen LeRoy

December 31, 2019

I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Joel. He was an integral part of CT State Police for so many years. His was always willing to help and did his job with professionalism and patience. RIP Joel. On behalf of the DESPP/COLLECT Unit, Deepest sympathy and condolences to your family.

Cindi Perugini

December 28, 2019

During my career as a State Trooper, I enjoyed fun conversations with Joel abut his dogs and family. He always went above and beyond in his position as Quartermaster. He will be sorely missed.

James Foley

December 28, 2019

Joel I always enjoyed our talks and laughs. You truly loved the men and woman of the CT State Police

john kniejzneski

December 28, 2019

Great memories with Joel. He was my neighbour for many years. Water skiing or fishing is what he loved most besides his one son at the time.

Jim Kline

December 28, 2019

Joel was a central figure in many Troopers careers. I am happy I got to know him in the early 90s and that he was the one I turned my equipment into upon retirement. May he Rest In Peace...

JEFF JALBERT (CSP Ret)

December 28, 2019

Joel was the first face I would see in the morning on my way up to the traffic office. I enjoyed his stories about life, his family and CSP history. Joel was a kind, generous friend that always went "up and beyond" the call of duty. His mission was to keep his troopers safe by providing them with the best equipment available. This allowed his troopers to return safely home to their families at the end of their watch. My deepest sympathy to the entire Lyding family. Thank you for sharing Joel with us at the CSP. God bless

Geovani Ramirez

December 28, 2019

My deepest sympathies to the Lyding family. Joel was a good coworker and always helpful. Geovani (Geo) Ramirez

Bob Tolomeo

December 28, 2019

Joel was a friend, co-worker and just a great person. I enjoyed every time we met. He will be missed. I shall always remember him and his family in my prayers.

J Paul Vance

December 27, 2019

Joel. RIP you worked so very hard every day to ensure your troopers were well equipped and ready to get their job done. Thank you for all you did for us our prayers for you and your family

Jerry Longo

December 27, 2019

Joel my friend, you left a legacy of friendship and brotherhood with all of us at the Alumni Association. You single handedly provided many of the items that are on display today, things that many hundreds of people, CSP members, clubs and our Trainee's have looked at in wonder. You never wanted anything from us but instead gave so much to us. Thank You - R.I.P. - You will be sorely missed.

Dawn Uraco

December 27, 2019

Joel you were my co worker and my friend for 30 years. I miss you and will always hold you dear to my heart. My prayers are with your family. RIP my friend you are missed. My heart is broken but I wish you peace until we meet again. XOXOXO Always, as you say boss lady

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